Kutheni uSense8's uNomi kunye no-Amanita beyinto yonke (kum)

[ HLELA 8/18/2017 - Ndiphume ndithandana nabafazi ngehlobo le-2016 . Nangona kunjalo, ndithathe isigqibo sokushiya isiqwenga esingezantsi singaguqukanga, njengoko kuyinxalenye yembali yam yobuqu. Zive ukhululekile ukuhleka xa ndizibiza ngokuba yi-ol ’cis hetero ekruqulayo. Ndiyazi ukuba ndiyayenza!]

Uninzi lwenu selufikile kuthi libuza ukuba / xa sizakugubungela uthotho lweWachowski / iStraczynski yeNetflix, Imvakalelo 8 . Impendulo emfutshane? Ewe sinjalo! Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, inazo zonke iimpawu zento enokuyithanda i-TMS (kwaye ithande ukuthetha ngayo), akunjalo? I-cast eyahlukeneyo, umdali ongumfazi odlulayo, kunye nebali elimba nzulu kwimiba yobuhlanga, isini, kunye neklasi. Kukho uphononongo oluthe ngqo / ukubuyela kwakhona okuzayo. Kodwa okwangoku, kuba isenzeka ngeempelaveki yeTrans Pride e-LA, apho ndihlala khona, bendifuna ukubhala into kancinci ngayo Imvakalelo 8 . Ngokukodwa, malunga nobudlelwane phakathi kukaNomi (Jamie Clayton) kunye no-Amanita (Freema Agyeman). [Ukuba awukabukeli Imvakalelo 8 , kunokubakho izinto ezonakalisa ukukhanya! Ulumkisiwe.]

Le ayisiyonto endiyibhalileyo esidlangalaleni ngaphambili - nangona yayingeyiyo imfihlo nokuba yeyiphi - kodwa ngoku ndikhululekile ukuthetha ngayo ngokubhala kwam. Umlingane wam obalaseleyo kwiminyaka emibini enesiqingatha ngumfazi oguqukayo. Ndinentombi endiyithandayo !! Kwaye ndiyabhengeza oku ndisebenzisa izikhalazo ngezizathu ezininzi:

1. Ndiyamthanda kwaye ndiyazingca ngokuba kunye naye ngokubanzi ke, uyazi, ndikhwaza ndiphezu kophahla kunye nayo yonke loo nto.
2. Ndingumfazi we-cis ongazange wachonga njenge-LGBTQ + ebomini bakhe. Injalo loo nto - ndiyindinisa ol 'oyindinisa. Kulungile…. Ubukhulu becala. Njengokuba ndikhulile, ndiye ndadandatheka ngokungoneli kweelebheli zesini kunye nokuzazisa- nangona ndiye ndanomdla ngakumbi kwigama elithi heteroflexible, njengoko oko kubonakala kuyilebheli echanekileyo kum ngoku. Kodwa ewe, weza kum ezinyangeni ezimbalwa kubudlelwane bethu-okokuqala njengobungqingili, emva koko njenge-trans-kwaye ngelixa ndandithandabuza ukuhlala kubudlelwane, njenge, splitsecond , ingcinga yobomi ngaphandle kwalo mntu ibisoyikeka kangangokuba ndiye ndazihlola. Kunjalo Ndisakuthatnda. Kunjalo sihlala kunye. Iya kuba yimpambano hayi ukuya. Kwiminyaka emibini enesiqingatha kamva, sisahleli kunye, kwaye abantu bayonyanya ngenxa yokusikwa kwethu. Uxolo bantu. Asinakukunceda. Ngapha koko, ukuthandana nomntu obhinqileyo-kum - yinto entle kakhulu, kwaye ayisiyiyo into endicinga ukuba ndingaze ndiyenze. Emva koko, andizange ndicinge ukuba ndiza kuba yinkokeli yengoma ecaweni ngekholeji ukuya kubhala nokuvelisa i-BDSM-themed web series. Ubomi buyaphambana, yo.
3. Uthathe isigqibo sokuba namhlanje lusuku lokuba aphume esidlangalaleni kwimithombo yeendaba zentlalo nakwezinye iindawo njenge trans, kwaye ndonwabile ukuba umfazi endimthandayo uthathe isigqibo sokuba ngowakhe ngokwenyani nehlabathi. Lonke usapho lwethu olusondeleyo kunye nabahlobo besele besazi, kodwa ngoku wonke umntu ahlangana naye uzokwazi, kwaye ndonwabile ngesiqabu awufumanayo ekugqibeleni. Ukongeza, ngoku ndiza kuvakalisa esidlangalaleni kwaye ndiphonononge ukuba yinxalenye (nangona kunjalo tangentially) yoluntu lwe-LGBTQ + kwaye oko kuthetha ntoni kum. Ndonwabile ngaloo nto! Ihlala iluluntu apho ndinobuhlobo kwaye ndikhululekile (ndaya isikolo semidlalo yeqonga phakathi Ilali yaseGreenwich kwi-NYC, emva kwayo yonke loo nto!), ke ndikhangele phambili ekuyazini ngakumbi. Akuyi kuba lula nakubani na wethu, kodwa sinomnye nomnye, kwaye unenkqubo yenkxaso emangalisayo yosapho kunye nabahlobo. Siza kuphila.

Ke, xa ndabona ubudlelwane phakathi kweSan Francisco-based Nomi Marks, i-transgender lesbian hacktivist kunye ne-blogger, kunye no-Amanita, i-cis, ibhinqa lase-Age-Newy elisebenza kwivenkile ethengisa iincwadi kwaye lithanda naliphi na ithuba lempahla, ndichulumancile . Okokuqala, kuba ubudlelwane babukhona kuthotho endandilubukele konke konke, kwaye okwesibini, kuba ubudlelwane buhle, buchanekile, kwaye bunyanisekile.

Yintoni umntu ayiqaphelayo ukusukela oko esi sibini senza ukubonakala okokuqala kumqhubi wenqwelomoya, iLimbic Resonance, kukuba bonwabile ngokupheleleyo, basempilweni, bathandana ngokupheleleyo, ukuba naziphi na iingxaki abanazo zingaphandle, kwaye bahlala behla zixhasane. Ngaphezu, ngamnye kubo ngabalinganiswa ezoyikekayo. UNomi ngumntu okrelekrele, onobuntununtunu, umntu okhaliphileyo othe nangona enawo wonke umntu - kusapho lwakhe, ukuya kumbutho ofihlakeleyo ka Mnu. izivamvo (abalinganiswa abaphambili kwi Imvakalelo 8 , abanxibelelene ngokwasemphefumlweni nangokweemvakalelo omnye komnye) - bamzingele phantsi kwaye bamhlasele ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo, unesibindi kunye namandla okuqhubeka nokusebenzisa izakhono zakhe zobukrelekrele zokuzinceda, kwaye kamva, bancede abahlobo bakhe . Ewe, inxenye enkulu yamandla akhe ivela kuthando nenkxaso ka-Amanita, ibhinqa elinyanisekileyo nelimthanda kakhulu uNomi kangangokuba uzimisele ukuqala umlilo esibhedlele apho uNomi agcinwe khona ngokuchasene nentando yakhe ngaphandle. Mhlawumbi ngenxa yokukhuliswa ngumama wakhe, u-Amanita akazange abuze uNomi xa uNomi emxelela ukuba unabanye abantu entlokweni yakhe. Umazi kakuhle uNomi ngokwaneleyo ukuba ayazi ukuba ayisigeza eli. Into yokwenene iyenzeka, kwaye konke afuna ukukwenza kukunceda. Amandla abo njengabantu abenza bomelele ngakumbi kunye, kwaye uthando lwabo lutywina loo nto.

Kuyamangalisa (kwaye akufuneki kube yinto entsha, kodwa kunjalo) ukubona ubudlelwane obuqinileyo obunothando phakathi komfazi we-cis kunye nomfazi ohambahambayo. Ndenze ukuba ndicinge ngomnye umboniso weNetflix obonisa umlingiswa otshintshayo wabasetyhini, uLaverne Cox kaSophia Burset on I-Orenji nguMnyama oMtsha . Kuloo mboniso, ngexa uSophia kunye nenkosikazi yakhe bohlukanisiwe hayi ngenxa yokutshintsha kwakhe, kodwa ngenxa yesenzo solwaphulo-mthetho awasenzayo kutshintsho, kubonisa ubudlelwane be-cis-trans engxakini - ngokungathi uthi Ukungonwabi kwaba babini bekungenakuphepheka ukuba bahlala kunye. Vula Imvakalelo 8 , Sibona ubudlelwane be-cis-trans obusebenzayo, kwaye kulo mfazi we-cis, yinto efunekayo kakhulu nexabiswayo kakhulu. Ukuqala kwam ukuxelela usapho lwam kunye nabahlobo malunga nentombi yam, impendulo ekufutshane-kwindalo iphela yayi Uqinisekile ukuba wonwabile? Ngelixa ndandinombulelo wokuba inkxalabo yabo kuphela yayilulonwabo lwam, yandikhathaza nento yokuba kuye kwabonakala kungenakwenzeka kubo ukuba obu budlelwane bunokundonwabisa ukuba bandibuze oku amatyeli aliqela. Ndicinga ukuba ukuqonda okungcono malunga nokuba yintoni trans, kwaye ukubonakala okukhulu kwabalinganiswa be-trans kubudlelwane kumajelo eendaba kungahamba indlela ende ekuboniseni abantu abaneenjongo ezintle njengosapho kunye nabahlobo bam ukuba kuthandana nomntu othengisayo akunakwenzeka kuphela , kodwa kunokuba nomvuzo omkhulu. Imvakalelo 8 yenza oku.

Ukuthetha ngokuba sisiqingatha se-cis sobudlelwane be-cis, enye into endiyithandayo ngoNomi no-Amanita kukunyaniseka kuka-Amanita malunga nokuqala kobudlelwane babo. Kwisiqendu sesi-5, ubuGcisa bufana nenkolo, uNomi uxelela u-Amanita ukuba kwenzeka njani kuye (ukuba luvo). Amanita uthi:

Hayi kudala, umbono womntu onjengam; umntu oneengcinga zam eziphambeneyo, iminqweno yam - umntu onolu hlobo lweenwele - ngekhe kwenzeke kweli hlabathi. Kanye njengokuba kwabakho ixesha ebomini bam xa umbono wokuba ndithandane nomntu onjengawe - ngokunyanisekileyo - nditsho ukuba ngekhe kwenzeke. Ukanti, sikhona… kwaye ukusukela oko imilebe yam yomibini yachukumisa le milomo yomibini, ndafunda esinye sezifundo ezibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bam. Akunakwenzeka ukwanga kude nenyani.

Ngelixa u-Amanita e-lesbian (ngokokwazi kwam-ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, asikamboni ebonisa umdla emadodeni okanye athethe kwanto ngaphandle kwesi sicatshulwa singasentla), kwaye andinguye, ndiyazichaza ngalo mzuzu ukuze kakhulu. Kuba ewe, kwabakho ukubhukisha xa intombi yam iphuma isiza kum. Kwi-trans-cis / lesbian-heteroflexible ubudlelwane, kuyacaca ukuba yonke into eyenzekayo nomntu oguqukayo kunye notshintsho lwabo, kodwa kukwakho notshintsho olukhulu kumntu we-cis. Ngokukhawuleza, loo mntu usebudlelwaneni obuzimeleyo abangazange babhalisele. Ku-Amanita, ekusenokwenzeka ukuba wayenamava kuphela ngoonobumba abathandanayo abathandanayo, ukuthandana nomntu obhinqileyo owayedlulisile kwakungalindelekanga. Kum, into engalindelekanga yayikukuba nomntu owayebonakalisa ukuba yindoda kum ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bethu andixelele ukuba wayethandana nabanye. Kuninzi ukuthatha. Kodwa njengoko benditshilo ngasentla - Ubomi buyaphambana, yo. Kwaye izinto ezingalindelekanga zinokubakho zizaliswe luvuyo olungalindelekanga. Ndiyayithanda loo Sense8, kwisigcawu esinye esifutshane, ndiyivumile loo nto, ngaphandle kokuyivumela ukuba iphose ulwalamano lonke.

Okokugqibela, kufuneka nditsho, imiboniso yesini phakathi kukaNomi no-Amanita ishushu! Ayishushu kuphela, kodwa baziva beyinyani. Azifotelwa kwimbonakalo yendoda. Zibonakaliswa ngokunyanisekileyo ngokwenzekayo ebhedini phakathi kwabafazi ababini abathandanayo. Kuyamangalisa ukubukela.

Ndiyabuthanda ubuqaqawuli bukaNomi, kwaye ndiyayithanda imbeko ka-Amanita ngobuqaqawuli bukaNomi. Ndiyayithanda intuition ka-Amanita kunye nokunyaniseka okukrakra, kwaye ndiyathanda ukuba uNomi afumane amandla kuloo nto. Kwaye ndiyamthanda uJamie Clayton kunye nokusebenza kukaFreema Agyeman kwiindima zabo. Benza ukuba ndifune ukukhama ngolonwabo kwizinto ezinokwenzeka kweli lizwe likhulu lihle. Ingcebiso yeWachowskis kunye noMnu Straczynski weSizini 2? Intombi yam ingumJuda, kwaye ndinguPuerto Rican, kwaye kukho izaleko zezinto zenkcubeko esihamba kuzo ngoku kulwalamano lwethu. Nge-Nomi emhlophe kwaye u-Amanita emnyama (enomama omhlophe, kungekho ngaphantsi), ndingathanda ukubona iSizini 2 izisa ukungqubana okungakumbi kule shizz! Ukuba kukho nawuphi na umboniso okwaziyo ukwenza oko, yiSense8.

Ke, enkosi uAndy noLana, J. Michael, Jamie, kunye noFreema ngokundivumela ukuba ndizibone kunye nentombi yam entle kwiscreen kumboniso ofumana ingqalelo. Kuthetha yonke into.

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