Uluqonde nini ubudlelwane phakathi kweentsuku ezingama-500 zasehlotyeni Ngaba kwakukubi kakhulu?

UZooey Deschanel noJoseph Gordon-Levitt kwi (500) yeentsuku zehlobo (2009)

Iitreyila ezinyanisekileyo zenze a ukwehliswa okumangalisayo Kwifilimu yothando ehlekisayo-yedrama ka-2009 Iintsuku ezingama-500 zehlobo , Umboniso bhanyabhanya osasazeke ngentliziyo iphela ngabaninzi, kubandakanya inkwenkwezi, uJoseph Gordon-Levitt. Kodwa yenze ukuba sicinge: Sikubone nini ukukhanya ukuba ubudlelwane kumdlalo bhanyabhanya buyeyona nkunkuma?

UGordon-Levitt udlala indawo ekhokelayo kaTom Hansen, umyili wezakhiwo oqeqeshiweyo osebenza njengombhali kwinkampani yamakhadi ebulisayo. Ah, umyili wezakhiwo. Uthandana nothando olubonakalayo lweeminqweno yakhe-umfazi ogama linguSummer Finn, odlalwa nguZooey Deschanel. UTom unesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kunye nesetyhefu ngothando kwaye uzama ukwenza ubudlelwane nehlobo nangona engafuni ukuba kubudlelwane naye.

Uluvo lukaTom ngomfazi, ngokutsho kombhali wesikrini . Akakuboni ukuntsokotha kwakhe kwaye umphumo kuye kukukhathazeka. Emehlweni kaTom, Ihlobo kukugqibelela, kodwa ukugqibelela akunabunzulu. Ihlobo ayintombazana, sisigaba.

Ngelixa ibali livela kwimbono kaTom, enovelwano, abaninzi babona indlela uTom aziphethe ngayo xa esiya ehlotyeni njenge-stalker-y, eyoyikisayo, kwaye engenampilo. Ngoku, ungandivi kakubi. Ukuziphatha kukaTom kuyadika, kodwa kukho isizathu sokuba imovie ichukumise abantu abaninzi, ngaphandle kwesini. Kungenxa yokuba undoqo woxinzelelo phakathi kukaTom noHlobo ngumnqweno wakhe wokuba ngaphezu kwabahlobo nje, kunye nomnqweno wakhe wokungafuni. Nangona kunjalo, sibona ihlobo, umntu ozimeleyo ngeendlela zakhe ngokweemvakalelo kwaye esoyika ukuzibophelela kuyo nayiphi na into, kwaye nangezinye iindlela zomzimba ubambelela kuTom kuba, kumbindi wakhe, uyamkhathalela, kodwa akaqinisekanga ukuba luthando.

Kwezi mbono zimbini, siyabona ukuba inzima ngakumbi kunokuba uTom abe dick okanye ihlobo libe yinjakazi; imalunga nonxibelelwano olungelulo kunye nemibono. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngamabali atyetyiswa ngothando ngothando kwimidiya. Isihogo, ndibhale nje iposti namhlanje malunga ukuthandana kweenkwenkwezi phakathi IHadestown . Uninzi lwethu lunqwenela ukuthanda kwaye ludlule kwisigaba sokuthandana ngandlela thile. Sifundisiwe ukulandela uthando, ukubambelela ebantwini ngokusondeleyo, kwaye ubudlelwane kufanelekile ukuba sibulwele- heck, kufanelekile ukufela. Sikwasifundiswa ukuba sifunde izinto, siphathe lonke unxibelelwano njengentlungu ephindwe kabini apho kufuneka simbe phantsi kwesizathu kunokuba samkele, ngokwexabiso lobuso, into ethethwayo.

Endaweni yokumamela kumazwi abantu, sichitha izinto abazenzayo, ngenjongo yokukhangela ukungqubana kumagama abo ukuze siziqinisekise ukuba singaphumelela.

Ihlobo limkhathalele uTom. Babelana ngezinto ezifanayo. Kukho umtsalane ngokwasemzimbeni, kwaye bayabhanxa ngenene kakuhle. Ufuna ukuba kunye naye ngeendlela ezininzi, kodwa akafuni ubudlelwane obunzima. Uyenza icace, amaxesha amaninzi, kodwa uTom uyifuna kakubi kangangokuba uthatha ubuqabane bakhe njengecebo lokuba kukho okungakumbi okuzayo. Akanakuqonda ukuba ubudlelwane akusoloko kufuneka ukuba bunambini kwaye ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo akuthethi ukuba awukhathalelanga umntu onaye. Ubudlelwane buthatha iindlela ezininzi kwaye uTom akayazi loo nto.

Kumdlalo wabo wokugqibela bebonke ebhentshini, xa ihlobo lisithi, ndi nje… ndivukile nje ngenye imini kwaye bendisazi ukuba, leyo ikwayinxalenye yemibono noLove ™ - yile nto siyakuyazi xa siyiva, kwaye Ngaphandle kokuba ibhanyabhanya iyonke iluthabathela ingqalelo uthando ™, ikwatsho ukuba uthando lunokwenyani ukuba ngumntu olungileyo.

Xa ufundisa abantwana ukuba uthando kufuneka lusoloko luphumelele, olo thando lusoloko lungumlo, okanye alunanyani, emva koko uzala isizukulwana sikaTom Hansens kunye neHlobo laseFinland. Abantu abazizigaba okanye izinto, abazizo iinjongo, kwaye abafezekanga. Ubudlelwane nothando kunzima ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa ukubeka umsebenzi xa kukho imfuneko nokwazi ukuba uhamba nini kubalulekile. Okwangoku Iintsuku ezingama-500 zehlobo ukuba uTom bekufanele ukuba umkile kuxa ihlobo lathi akafuni nto imbi, kodwa inxenye yobuntwana eyayinethemba lokuba konke oku kudlala-kuthetha kwakuthetha into enzulu yomelele kakhulu.

Soloko umamele kwaye uqaphele ukuba, ngamanye amaxesha, kungcono ukuba ube wedwa kunye nokuzinyanzela ukuba ube nomntu unethemba lokuba ngenye imini baya kukuqaphela. (Watsho ngenyanga yesi-5 yomoya wakhe). Iintsuku ezingama-500 zehlobo ngumdlalo bhanyabhanya onzima ukuwubukela njengomntu omdala othe wathandana, kunokuba abe ngumntu omdala otyholayo. Kunzima kuba izikhokelo zombini zibuhlungu kakhulu ziyinyani, kwaye kubantu abaninzi, sisikhumbuzo esibuhlungu seempazamo zokuthandana zangaphambili. Ayisiyo movie ndiyithandayo, kwaye andiqinisekanga ukuba yenza okuninzi ngokuchanekileyo, kodwa ibetha imithambo-luvo ngesizathu. Ngelishwa.

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