Ibhokisi yeentaka kunye neBabadook ibonisa uloyiko lokuba ngumzali

USandra Bullock njengoMalorie, eqhuba isikhephe nabantwana bakhe kwiBhokisi yeentaka.

Ukuqhubeka neengxoxo zethu ezothusayo zika-Okthobha, ndacinga ukuba eli iya kuba lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuthetha malunga neemovie ezimbini eziye zahlangana nam, hayi njengomntu othanda ifilimu, kodwa njengomzali womntwana omncinci womntu. ndibukele Ibhokisi yeentaka kwaye I-Babadook ngokusondeleleneyo (ungakhathazeki, umntwana wam wayelele) kwaye imvakalelo endandiyiva yayingeyongozi kwizilo, yayikukuvelana noomama abatshatileyo embindini wawo omabini la mabali. Ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, zombini ezi bhanyabhanya zingena kuloyiko oluqhubekayo, oloyikisayo oluza nokuba ngumzali.

Ibhokisi yeentaka , ekhutshwe kwiNetflix ngasekupheleni konyaka ophelileyo, inezilo ezenza abantu bafune ukuzibulala xa bezibona. Ewe, uninzi lwabantu. Abantu abambalwa bayasinda kwaye bazama ukunyanzela abanye ukuba bajonge kwizilo. Isiphumo sililizwe eline-post-apocalyptic apho kungekho mntu unokushiya amakhaya abo ngaphandle kokuvala amehlo. Umlinganiswa ophambili wefilimu nguMalorie (uSandra Bullock), okhulelweyo xa izilo ziqala ukubamba. Akafuni ukuba ngumama, kodwa ugqiba ukukhathalela unyana wakhe, kunye nentombazana ezelwe kwangolo suku lunye.

Ndicinga ukuba abantu abaninzi abangena bantwana, okanye babe namaxesha alula nabantwana babo, banokucinga ukuba uMalorie ngumama ombi. Ubiza abantwana ngenkwenkwe nentombazana, akafudumali kakhulu kwaye ubangxolisa kakhulu. Kodwa… yile nto ukuba ngumzali ngamanye amaxesha. IHollywood ihlala ithengisa umbono wale mzuzu womlingo emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe xa unxibelelana nabo kwaye yonke into igqibelele, kodwa ayonyani kubo bonke abazali. Abantwana ngabasemzini abancinci abafuna lonke ingqalelo lakho okanye baya kutshabalala. Lutshintsho olumangalisayo noxinzelelo lokutshintsha ubomi. Ukuza ukuthanda abantwana bakho kunokuba luhambo, kodwa ayisiyiyo le siyibona rhoqo- kodwa nantsi yayikwifilimu eyoyikisayo yeNetflix.

Icebo eliphambili le Ibhokisi yeentaka NguMalorie kunye nabantwana bakhe bathatha isikhephe esihamba emlanjeni ukuze bafumane indawo ekhuselekileyo yabantu. Olu iya kuba luhambo olunzima kwindawo yokuvala amehlo ngaphandle kwabantwana, kodwa luxinzelelo ngakumbi kwaye luyoyikeka nabo. Kuhle njengothusayo, kodwa kulungile kakhulu njengomzekelo obaxekileyo wento ukuba uziva unomdla wokukhathalela abantwana.

Guys: ukuba ngumzali uyoyikisa. Luxanduva lwakho ngokupheleleyo ebomini nokuba sempilweni kwalo mntu mncinci umthanda kakhulu ongenalo nofifi okanye okhathalele ukhuseleko lwabo. Kwaye amaxesha amaninzi, uziva ngathi uyimfama.

IMalorie kufuneka imfutshane kwaye ingqongqo ebantwaneni bayo, kungenjalo baya kufa . Kuya kufuneka agcine iimvakalelo zakhe kunye nokuncamathiselwa kwabo kujongiwe kuba ukucinga kakhulu malunga nokuba kungaziva njani ukuphulukana nabo kuya kuba kukukhubazeka. Olo loyiko lokuphelisa umhlaba lwento emvisa ubuhlungu umntwana wakho? Luvakalelo endinalo yonke imihla kwaye ndiyazi ukuba andindedwa. Ukuba nomntwana kuguqula umbono wakho wehlabathi liphela kuba ngekhe uphinde ube ngoyena mntu ubalulekileyo ebomini bakho. Ukuthanda umntu onje kuthetha ukoyika mzuzu ngamnye wemihla ngemihla malunga nawo wonke umonakalo oza kubafikela kwihlabathi eliyingozi.

Abazali abanakulilawula ihlabathi, ekunzima ukujamelana nalo. Kodwa nathi asikwazi kulawula abantwana bethu, kwaye eso sisoyikiso esiphambili I-Babadook . Ngokufana Ibhokisi yeentaka , I-Babadook Imalunga nomama ongakwaziyo ukuyifumana kakuhle xa isiza ekunxibelelaneni nomntwana wakhe. Akayi kumvumela ukuba alale, wenza izinto ezonakalisayo, kwaye njengoko emthanda, ukukhathazeka kwakhe kunye nokukhathazeka kwenza u-Amelia (Essie Davis) woyike ukuba uyisilo.

Akucaci ngokucacileyo ukuba i-monster in I-Babadook yinyani okanye kukukhohlisa nje okwabelwana ngako ngomama nomntwana, kodwa ayisiyiyo eyona nto yezinto. I-Babadook taps into primal, uloyiko lwabazali: ukuba uya kubenzakalisa kwaye ubathiye abantwana bakho ngenxa yento abayenzileyo ebomini bakho, ngenxa yokusilela kwabo ukwenza izinto ngendlela yabo kwaye bamamele nje wena. Kuphela kube kanye xa u-Amelia kunye nonyana wakhe besebenza ngoxinzelelo lwabo ekwabelwana ngalo kwaye bekhupha iidemon zabo ukuba banokuhlala kunye ngoxolo-bekhululekile kunye nezilo ngaphakathi kwabo, ezihlala kwigumbi elingaphantsi.

Umntwana otyhafisayo uyinto eyoyikekayo enxitywe kakuhle. Abantwana ngabaphambukeli abangalawulekiyo abancinci abangakwaziyo ukuqonda abantu abadala; izidalwa ze-id emsulwa kwaye akukho kugcinwa ngokwakho okubona umhlaba ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ezoyikisayo. Njengamarhamncwa amaninzi, amele into thina bantu badala singayiqondiyo ngokuzenzekelayo, ke iyasoyikisa.

Kodwa kwi Ibhokisi yeentaka kwaye I-Babadook , ayingabo abantwana abazizilo. Umothuko yiyo yonke into ejikeleze bona, nkqu nabo babakhathaleleyo kwaye bacofa into eqheleke ngakumbi kubazali kwaye ngenxa yoko, boyikisa kakhulu. Kwicala eliqaqambileyo nangona, ukubona ezi mvakalelo ziqhelekileyo kunye noloyiko ludlala kwaye luphakanyiswa kwifilimu kuyathuthuzela, kuba kusibonisa thina bazali ukuba asisodwa (kwaye ukuba ngumzali kunesizungu kakhulu). Aba mama bayaphela bekhusela abantwana babo kwaye bafumane iindlela zabo zokubathanda-ukoyisa izilo. Yenza iintsuku xa uziva ungoyena mzali umbi emhlabeni (kwaye sonke sinabo) kancinci boyike.

(umfanekiso: Netflix)

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