Kwangoko kule veki ndibhale malunga Kutheni le nto siqhotyoshelwe kwiimpawu eziziintsomi, Apho ndaye ndachukumisa ezinye zeengqondo zethu, izizathu zengqondo zokuphuhlisa ubudlelwane obunamandla beemvakalelo kunye nomlinganiswa kwincwadi yethu esiyithandayo okanye kumdlalo weTV. Kukho enye into kule nto yayiyeyona nto ibangela ukuba kubhalwe loo nqaku kwaye ayibandakanyi abalinganiswa abangenangqiqo- kodwa abantu bokwenene. Oosaziwayo.
Andazi ngawe, kodwa mna ngokuqinisekileyo bendinomfanekiso kaLeonardo DiCaprio kwigumbi lam lokulala ndisengumntwana kwaye ndaye ndalala kakuhle. Wayeyi-cutie yamaphupha am, nangona ndandisazi ukuba andisoze ndidibane naye ngokwenyani kwaye nokuba ndingamazi, ngekhe azi ukuba ndingubani. Olu hlobo lobudlelwane lolo lubizwa ziingcali zengqondo Ukudibana kweparasocial.
Ukwenza ubuhlobo obudibeneyo beemvakalelo kunye nomdlali weqonga okanye omnye umntu odumileyo, oxhokonxwayo ngokufunxa imithombo yeendaba ephathelele kubo kwiwebhu, umabonwakude okanye ikopi edlakadlaka yenoveli yethu esiyithandayo, iqinisekisa ukuphela kobudlelwane ngaphandle kokuphindaphinda okwenyani kwinto ukuthanda kwethu.
Akusoloko kuyimfuneko into embi ukukhulisa obu budlelwane bunzulu — ukuba abukho macala onke — kubudlelwane nabalinganiswa okanye abantu abadumileyo, nangona kunjalo. Kulabo bodwa okanye bengenamakhaya, ngenxa yokugula okanye iingxaki zentlalo, ukujonga kwabo imihla ngemihla Ngokuchasene inokubonelela ngexesha lokwenyani neliphakamisayo ngomhla wabo. Xa bephilile kwaye bephinda beqala ukwenza imisebenzi yabo yesiqhelo, banokuba nothando olwandisiweyo kunye noxabiso ngo-Ellen Degeneres, esithi inkqubo yakhe kamabonakude ehlekisayo kunye nekhuthazayo, ibancedile ngexesha elinzima, elililolo nelikhathazayo ebomini babo.
Ngelixa le nto ibikho phantse ngokude abantu bahamba emhlabeni (asikuko konke ukufumana uthando olungafunekiyo ngotyumza?) Ukufika kwetekhnoloji kusivumele ukuba, kwezinye iimeko, sinxibelelane nabantu abadumileyo, nge-Twitter okanye ibhlog , kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndibabona nakubomi bokwenyani kwiindibano, apho sikwazi ukubonisa umbulelo kunye nokuncoma (Oko kukuthi, ukuba asikho kakhulu).
Umtsalane wethu kwinkcubeko yosaziwayo iyahamba ubuyele kunqulo loothixo eAthene, apho igama elithi indumasi laqulunqwa, lithathwa kwisiLatin kwi-celeber ; Intsingiselo ehamba rhoqo okanye inabantu abaninzi. Kuba isenzo sooThixo sachaphazela ubomi bomntu, kwakuyinto engokwemvelo ukuba abemi baseGrisi yakudala bazame ukufumana okuninzi ngezi Thixo usomandla kangangoko banakho, ukuze babangxengxezele. Oku kukhokelela ekudalweni kweentsomi - ekunokuthiwa, inokuba yimizamo yethu yokuqala yokudala ubundlobongela.
Ngeli xesha, emhlabeni abantu bendalo badumisa abo bantu babephumelele kwaye benyanzelisa- Iimbaleki zeOlimpiki kwiGrisi yakudala ngokuqinisekileyo wabamba abantu ingqalelo. Ngexesha loKuvuselela, amagcisa amakhulu kunye neengqondo zokuyila yaziwa ngokubanzi ngomsebenzi wabo nanjengoko bekuveliswa oomatshini bokushicilela, amandla alo msebenzi wokuhamba amabanga amade kuphela aqinisa ukuma kwabo esele kuphakanyisiwe. Ekuqaleni kwenkulungwane, nokufika kweenkqubo zikanomathotholo kunye nemifanekiso eshukumayo , usaziwayo uthathe incasa esiyaziyo namhlanje- bonke ubukhazikhazi nobukhazikhazi beHollywood.
Umsonto oqhelekileyo kwindaleko yodumo yayiyile ngcinga yokusebenzisana kweparasocial; icala elinye kodwa ubudlelwane obunzulu abantu abanabo kwezi megastar. Mhlawumbi ayimangalisi into yokuba igama elithi ithiyori yengqondo ephuhliswe phakathi kwiminyaka ye-1950 , malunga nexesha apho umabonwakude esiba ngumthombo ophambili wokusebenzisa imithombo yeendaba.
Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, ukubonakaliswa kwethu kubantu abadumileyo kusondele-rhoqo ngenxa yezakhono ezingenamda ze-intanethi. Akusekho mfuneko yokuba silinde isiqendu esitsha senkqubo yethu esiyithandayo ukuba sisasazwe, njengoko sinokubukela iziqendu ezidlulileyo ngokufuna nangaliphi na ixesha emini okanye ebusuku. Ukuthambekela kwethu ekubukeleni kakhulu kwimiboniso esiyithandayo kusinika inqanaba eliphakamileyo lokuvezwa kwabantu abadumileyo esinonxibelelwano olunye nabo. Ezi mvakalelo ziyonyuka xa sibukele into efana nale Umboniso wemihla ngemihla , apho umntu (Jon Stewart) akhoyo sithetha ngqo nathi, sijonge kwikhamera -Ukuzibandakanya nathi ngokuthe ngqo ngangokunokwenzeka kwelinye icala lesikrini. Sakha ulwalamano olusondeleyo kunye naye njengababukeli ngenxa yendlela ahlangana nathi ngayo, sihlala sichitha ixesha kunye nenkqubo yakhe - yonke imihla, kwimeko yakhe. Kwaye xa obo budlelwane bufikelela esiphelweni, (#Jonvoyage) siba nembono yokwenene yelahleko.
Ngemithombo ye-Intanethi yemithombo yeendaba ethi isebenze kwimfuno (yeNetflix, iHulu) okanye ngexesha lokwenyani (iTwitter nakwiqondo elikhulu iTumblr), siyakwazi ukunxibelelana rhoqo kunye nayo yonke indalo yabantu abadumileyo kunye nabalinganiswa. Singachitha usuku lonke nabo singenanto ngaphandle konxibelelwano lwe-intanethi-cinga malunga nexesha elitsha I-Orenji nguMnyama oMnyama Iya phezulu kwaye siba nesiqhulo malunga nokuchitha iiyure ezingama-48 sibukele zonke iziqendu. Ngaba kuyothusa ukuziva siphoxekile xa kugqityiwe? Ukuze sizive sityala imali kumabali nakubalinganiswa?
Ewe, kunjalo, kulawulo lokudibana kweparasocial kunye nolwalamano olwenziweyo kwaba bantu kunye nosaziwayo kuba soze bazi ngathi kwaphela. Abatyali xesha, ukucinga okanye amandla ekubuyiseleni. Singakwazi, nangaliphi na ixesha, ukubuphelisa ubudlelwane (ukwahlukana) ngaphandle kwesiphumo. Sikhululekile ukuba sisebenze ngaphakathi kobudlelwane ngaphandle kokuthatha eli qela libe ngqalelo kuba abasamkeli.
Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni xa benza?
Ngelixesha bendiphanda IIMPAWU, Ndiye ndatyala imali kakhulu kwaye ndibandakanyeka kwi UDownton Abbey ukuthanda. Kangangokuba xa umgca weqonga kunye nokuboniswa komdlali weemvakalelo ezifihlakeleyo zomlinganiswa ojikeleze isiganeko esibuhlungu kwandihlasela kakhulu, ndaye ndachukumiseka ukuba ndimbhalele.
Ngoku, ndingumbhali kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ndixabisa kangakanani ileta nganye okanye i-imeyile ethunyelwa ngumfundi kum. Xa umntu ethatha ixesha lokundixelela ukuba into endiyibhalileyo ichaphazele ubomi babo ngandlela thile, ndiyacaphuka. Ngokuqinisekileyo iyondla i-ego yam yomntu, kodwa iyandenza ndizive ndidibene. I-Intanethi indivumele ukuba ndenze ubudlelwane naba bantu ndingazange ndikwazi ukuqhubeka nabo ukuba ndibekelwe usiba, iphepha kunye nezitampu. Abantu abadumileyo abanjengoTaylor Swift noJohn Green banxibelelana rhoqo-kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, kunye nokusondelelana okukhulu ngokweemvakalelo- kunye nabalandeli babo ngeTumblr, Twitter nakwezinye iindaba zosasazo.
Xa ndandibhalela lo mdlali, eyona njongo yam yayikukwenza into endihlala ndixabisa abafundi abayenzela mna -ndazisa ukuba ndinento elungileyo. Ndiyibeka emxholweni, ewe, kwaye ndayibumba kumnandi njengesiqhelo- kodwa andilindelanga kwanto. Rhoqo, ukuthumela i-fanmail kwiiarhente ezimele abantu abadumileyo ziphela ngokwaneleyo, umntu unokufumana i-autograph ebuyisiweyo ukuba bathumela i-SASE. Kodwa oko kwakungeyona injongo yam, kunjalo.
Lo mdlali akekho kwimidiya yoluntu, ke ukhetho lwam kukuphela kokubhala iileta ezilungileyo.
Ungawuthelekelela umothuko wam xa, malunga nenyanga kamva, ndafumana ileta ngeposi yase-UK - isayinwe Ngethamsanqa kunye neminqweno emihle, UPhyllis Logan .
Wayengaphelelanga nje ekubeni yena, ewe, angathumeli enye kodwa iifoto ezimbini ezizimeleyo, kodwa wandibhalela ileta enamaphepha amabini endibulela ngayo, ewe, kodwa wayivuma nento endabelana ngayo naye ngobubele kwaye ndiyijongile Amava okuba, ukuthetha inyani, bambalwa kakhulu abantu endibaziyo ngobomi bokwenyani abakhe benziwa.
Ndadityaniswa. Ngokwasemphefumlweni, bendingazi ukuba ndicinga ntoni ngayo. Bekuvakala kungaqhelekanga ukwamkelwa, kwaye kwaziwa kwinqanaba elincinci, ngumntu ondimsebenzi wakhe bendiwuthanda ndonwabile- kwaye ndiwuhlonipha. Iyitshintshe ngokupheleleyo imbono yam kwi-fandom kwaye, ekugqibeleni, yayiyinxalenye yempembelelo kuphando lwam kwezi mvakalelo zinkulu, kwaye zihlala zibuza imibuzo malunga nolwalamano lwethu nabalinganiswa abaziintsomi kunye nabanye abantu beendaba.
Emva kokufumana ileta kaNks. Logan, ndandinexhala lokuba andisayi kuphinda ndive ukuba kwamkelekile ukuba ndimkhathalele kangaka. Ngequbuliso wayeyinyani kuye kangangokuba intsebenzo yeparasocial yayingasasebenzi kangako emva kwayo yonke loo nto. Kubalandeli, obu budlelwane busemacaleni obunye esibuhlakulayo nabalinganiswa okanye abantu abadumileyo basikhonza ngokweemvakalelo nangokonwaba; Ubukho babo buhlala buhleli, bunokuthenjwa, buyonwabisa kwaye siye sazi ngakumbi ngabo kunokuba sinokwazi malunga nosapho kunye nabahlobo bethu. Singatsho ukuba esinye sezizathu zokunxibelelana nokuzikhuthazaubudlelwane obukwicala elinye ngokuchanekileyo kuba asifuni ukuba babuyiselwe. Sibabekile aba bantu kwisiseko, sabancoma, sabalingisa.
Ngendlela efanayo amaGrike amandulo ayenqula oothixo babo asezantsi apha eMhlabeni, ubudlelwane bethu kwizithixo zethu babuhlala buxhomekeke kwinyani yokuba kukho umoya phakathi kwethu esingenakulindela ukuba singaze sihambe kuwo. I-Intanethi, nangona kunjalo, isenokuba sisiphekepheke esinokukhwela kuso ukuya ezinkwenkwezini. Owona mbuzo ngulo: Ngaba ngokwenene sifuna?
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