Emva kweminyaka yokubuyela umva, impikiswano, kunye nentetho malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukubonisa ukuzibulala, ngakumbi kwimithombo yeendaba ejolise kulutsha, uthotho lwantlandlolo lweNetflix Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba kutheni Ugqibe kwelokuba ahlele phantsi indawo yokuqala apho umntu ophambili, uHannah Barker, esweleka ngokuzibulala.
Ngokwe-NPR, bonisa umyili uBrian Yorkey beka ingxelo Owathetha oku kulandelayo:
Injongo yethu yoyilo ekuboniseni ubunyani, into ebuhlungu yokuzibulala kwiinkcukacha ezibonakalayo kwiXesha loku-1 yayikukuthetha inyani malunga nesothuso sesenzo esinje, kwaye siqiniseke ukuba akukho mntu unokuze afune ukulinganisa. Kodwa njengoko sikulungele ukumilisela iXesha lesi-3, sivile inkxalabo malunga nendawo evela kuGqirha uChristine Moutier kwiAmerican Foundation yokuThintela ukuzibulala nabanye, kwaye sivumile ngeNetflix ukuba iphinde ihlelwe kwakhona.
Akukho ndawo ibaluleke ngaphezu kobomi balo mboniso, kunye nomyalezo wawo wokuba kufuneka sikhathalelane. Siyakholelwa ukuba oku kuhlelwa kuya kunceda umboniso wenze okona kulungileyo kubantu abaninzi ngelixa unciphisa nawuphi na umngcipheko kubabukeli abancinci abasesichengeni.
Batsho ukuba ingxelo ehleliweyo, esele ibukhoma kwiNetflix, iya kubonisa uHana ezijonga esipilini, ezele yimvakalelo, kodwa ke asike abazali bakhe bafumane umzimba wakhe kwigumbi lokuhlambela kwaye basabela ekufeni kwakhe. Ngoku ka Intatheli yaseHollywood , uguqulelo oludlulileyo lwaluphantse lube yimizuzu emithathu ubude kwaye lwambonisa ukuba wasika izihlahla zakhe ngenkcakuba.
Mna ngekhe ndikwazi ukubukela Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba kutheni Ngaphandle kwaxa kufuneka isiqwenga sokubhala ndenze, kuba ibindivusa kakhulu. Njengomntu olwa neengcinga zokuzibulala, ndiyakuqonda ukubaluleka kokwenza imithombo yeendaba ethetha ngokugula ngengqondo, kodwa kunqabile kakhulu ukuba enze imiboniso bhanyabhanya kwaye aqonde ngokwenyani imvakalelo yokuzibulala komntu ophila ngokucinga ngokuzibulala okanye indlela yokuziphatha, hayi abo bangabo phaya emva.
Rhoqo kukho isilumkiso esincinci malunga nayo kumajelo eendaba. Ndiyakhumbula ndiziva ndichukunyiswe kakhulu Kuzalwa inkwenkwezi kuba (abonakalisi) nangona ndandisazi ukuba umlinganiswa kaBradley Cooper uzokufa, andikhange ndicinge ukuba izakuba ngokuxhoma kwaye kwenze kwanzima ukuba ndibukele lo mbono. Ndiyaqonda ukuba ukuzibulala yinto ababhali abaninzi abafuna ukuthetha ngayo kwaye baxoxe ngayo emsebenzini wabo, kodwa ndiyathemba ukuba bayakwenza oko ngovelwano nangobabalo, hayi ukuba bahlazeke nje. Kwaye ayifuni ukuboniswa ngokukhululekileyo ukuze ibe nefuthe.
UGqr. Helen Hsu ovela kwiqela lokumela likaStanford eMental Health America, Iprojekthi kaTrevor , kunye noGqirha Rebecca Hedrick waseCedars-Sinai, wakhupha ingxelo edibeneyo yokuncoma olu tshintsho, uluvo ekwabelwana ngalo ngumbutho woThintelo lokuzibulala. Siyasixhasa isigqibo sokuhlela imeko apho uHana athabatha khona ubomi bakhe Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba kutheni . Kubekho impikiswano eninzi malunga noluhlu kuluntu lwezonyango. Kodwa olu tshintsho luqinisekileyo luya kuqinisekisa ukuba Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba kutheni Iyaqhubeka ukukhuthaza incoko evulekileyo malunga nempilo yengqondo kunye nokuthintela ukuzibulala- ngelixa unciphisa umngcipheko kubabukeli abakwishumi elivisayo abasesichengeni.
Ukuzibulala kweCopycat ngenxa yentsomi yinto emdala kunomabonakude. Inoveli yenkulungwane ye-18 Intlungu kaWerther nguGoethe kukhokelele kwinto ethathelwa ingqalelo njengomzekelo wokuqala wokuzibulala kwekopi ngenxa yendlela yothando eyaboniswa ngayo kwinoveli. Encwadini, umfana uyasweleka ngokuzibulala xa eqonda ukuba ngekhe abenaye umfazi amthandayo, kwaye athathe isigqibo sokuba eyona nto intle anokuyenza kukuthatha ubomi bakhe. Abantu bade baxelwa ukuba banxibe iimpahla ezifanayo ne-protagonist xa belingisa izenzo zakhe.
Siyazi ukuba ukuzibulala kwabakhupheli kuyenzeka, ke kubalulekile ukuba xa sixoxa ngezi zinto nabantu bethu abancinci kwaye sizibonisa kwimithombo yeendaba, sibeka Ukuthintela ukuzibulala kukaZwelonke ulwazi kuqala hayi kuphela xa abantu bekhalaza ngalo.
Ukuba wena okanye umntu omaziyo unokucinga ngokuzibulala, nxibelelana neNational Suicide Prevention Lifeline ku-1-800-273-8255 (En Español: 1-888-628-9454; Izithulu kunye nobunzima bokuva: 1-800-799-4889 ) okanye i-Crisis Text Line ngokuthumela umyalezo kwi-HOME ukuya kwi-741741.
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