Izolo, ifoto yento ebonakala ngathi iyisuti entsha kaBarry yexesha lesi-5 leeCW Ifleshi yavuza kwi-intanethi. Lo mfanekiso ubonakala uvela kuvavanyo lwesinxibo kwaye ubonise isuti echanekileyo yokuhlekisa kunaleyo kaBarry kwixa elidlulileyo, ngaphandle kwesikhumba kwaye kungekho bhande lasesilevini. Uninzi lwabalandeli, nangona kunjalo, belungagxili kuloo nto kwaye endaweni yoko bakhethe ukugxeka esidlangalaleni indlela umlingisi uGrant Gustin ajonga ngayo isuti, kubonakala ngathi uyalibala okanye akakhathali ukuba ukwabelana ngeengcinga ku-Twitter okanye kwi-Instagram kulingana nokusebenzisa ilizwi lakho langaphandle. Abantu banokukuva, kuquka nalo mntu uthetha ngaye.
U-Gustin uthathe u-Instagram ukuze aphendule kwabo bamgxekayo nabamhlekisayo ngendlela abacinga ukuba isakhelo sakhe esincinci sibukeka kwisuti entsha-kwifoto e-bullshit evuzayo ebengayazi nokuba iyathathwa, yenguqulo yesuti, njengoko uyachaza, ayigqibeki kwaphela.
Funda oku ukuba unamehlo aneleyo.
Iposi ekwabelwana ngalo ngu UGrant Gustin (@grantgust) nge-Aug 8, 2018 nge-12: 09 pm PDT
Ngokubhekisele kwintloni yomzimba, ubhala. Yiloo nto endicaphukisayo. Akunjalo nje ngenxa yam. Ndineminyaka engama-20 + yabantwana nabantu abadala bendixelela okanye abazali bam ndibhitye kakhulu. Ndibe nohambo lwam lokwamkela. Kodwa kukho umgangatho ophindwe kabini apho kulungile ukuba uthethe ikaka ngomzimba we-dudes.
UGustin akanatyala mntu ukuba kutheni umzimba wakhe uyile ndlela ayiyo, kodwa uqhubeka nokubhala, ndenza konke okusemandleni ukuba ndihlale ndimile kakuhle kwaye ndongeze kangangoko ndinako kula maxesha onyaka. Ndibhityile ngokwendalo, kwaye ukutya kwam kuchaphazeleka kakhulu luxinzelelo. Uxinzelelo yinto ebbs kwaye ihamba kum lonke ixesha lonyaka. Ke, ukutyeba ngumceli mngeni kum.
Ilungelo likaGustin malunga nomgangatho ophindwe kabini. Amadoda, ngokubanzi, akanakuba nolwalamano olufanayo ngokujonga esidlangalaleni imizimba yabo kunye nemilinganiselo yobuhle engenakwenzeka ukuba abasetyhini baninzi kakhulu ngokuzalwa, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ezi ntlobo zezimvo ziyabenzakalisa nangaphantsi. Ukugxeka ukubonakala kwamadoda akwamkelekanga kunokuba kunje xa abantu besenza kwabasetyhini, kanye njengokuba umzimba-ukuhlazisa umntu ngokuba ebhityile kungamkelekanga ngaphezu kokuhlazisa umzimba ngokutyeba-omnye umgangatho ophindwe kabini okhoyo.
Imizimba yabantu-nditsho imizimba yabantu abadumileyo-ekhoyo kwiindawo zikawonke-wonke ayizi nemvume esisiseko yokuba abanye banike izimvo ngayo. Kwaye njengoko uGustin ephawula, oku akupheleli kuye.
Ndonwabile ngomzimba wam kwaye ndingubani, ubhala, kunye nabanye abantwana abakhiwe njengam kwaye babhityile kunam kufuneka bakwazi ukuziva ngendlela efanayo. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa baya kuba nakho ukuziva ngathi BANGABANJONGO kwiTV okanye kwifilimu okanye nokuba yintoni ngenye imini.
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