Kutheni le nto ndizakubambelela kwaba bantu bahlanu baNwabileyo nabakhuthazayo abathandanayo abathandanayo bobomi obuthandekayo kolu kratshi

Yinyanga yokuzingca, wonke umntu! Kwaye inomdla ngakumbi kum njengoko * igubu * yeyokuqala endiya kuyibhiyozela njenge-bisexual ngaphandle. Kukho into engaqhelekanga malunga nokuphuma kamva ebomini bakho. Kukho okuninzi ngakumbi ukusongela intloko yakho njengoko kukho izinto oziqeqeshelwe ukuba ungazinikeli ngqalelo kuyo ngaphambili. Njengaye, umzekelo, ukumelwa kwesini sakho sikamabonwakude.

Xa ndandiphila ubomi njengomntu othe tye, ndandisazi ukuba ndiyazithanda ii-dudes, ke ngokucacileyo Andizange ndithandane nabasetyhini, kwaye kuba ezo zezona zinto zimbini onokukhetha kuzo (kuba u-bi umi nje kwindlela eya kwisini, akunjalo?), Kufuneka ukuba bendifuna abahlobo abalungileyo kunye namantombazana endicinga ukuba ndenze nawo.

Mntundini othandekayo, Ukunikezela ngobundlobongela njengokhetho olusemthethweni kungandigcinela ixesha elininzi kunye nosizi, kwaye kwandibeka ngokukhawuleza. Yidibanise. Enkosi. Uthando, Teresa.

Khange ndibhalise nyani ukuba bangaphi oonobumba abathandanayo ababekhona / ababengekho kwinkcubeko yam. Kuba bendingazi ukuzibiza ngokuba ndingoyedwa, bendingazi ukuba ndibakhangele. Xa uyenzile vela, ndasibulisa isityhilelo ngokunyaniseka, Imnandi .

Yonke into yatshintsha ngobusuku endibubonileyo Ghostbusters: Phendula umnxeba , Ndaye ndaqonda ukuba ndifuna ukuba kwisandwich kaKate McKinnon / Chris Hemsworth (kucacile ukuba kuninzi kakhulu ekuqondeni kwam nasekuphumeni, kodwa okwangoku, masikonwabele nje umfanekiso wesonka esimnandi, esimnandi). Ngesiquphe, ibingathi… uyazi ukuba xa ufunda igama elitsha ongazange ulive ngaphambili, kwaye ngesiquphe kunjalo naphi na ? Yayiyinto enjalo.

Ngalo lonke ixesha ndibona umntu olala nomntu ongathandani naye kwinto endiyibukeleyo, intliziyo yam yaxhuma! Lo mntu ngabantu bam! Lo mntu ndim!

Emva koko ndabona into enomdla. Umfazi wam ungungqingili, kwaye nanini na xa sibukela into kunye, kwaye umntu wasetyhini ubandakanyeka kubudlelwane besini esifanayo, yena ithatha ukuba bathandana nabantu abathandanayo, kwaye Ndingu umntu othi Asazi ukuba okwangoku. Into esiyaziyo kukuba uthanda abafazi. Unokuba bi. Kwaye undinika ukuthandabuza Ingayiyo.

Ndizifumene ndikhathazeka ngakumbi ngalo lonke ixesha kusenzeka, hayi kuphela ngumfazi wam, kodwa kwenye indawo - kwaye njengoko kuvela, ikwindawo yonke - kuba njengoko bendizama ukunxiba isazisi sam ngokuzingca, bendiqala ukufunda ukuba incinci kangakanani indawo. Abantu abanobudlelwane besini esifanayo bacingelwa ukuba bathandana nabantu bade bade babonakalise ngenye indlela. Abantu abanobudlelwane besini esahlukileyo bacingelwa ngokuthe ngqo de kungqinwe ngenye indlela. Xa ndithetha umfazi wam ebantwini, ndibona ukubonakala kobuso babo, Owu! Ndiyayifumana … endihlala ndifuna ukuya entlokweni yokupasa nayo Yima. Hayi, awunayo .

Ke ngoku, qho xa ndibona umlinganiswa ongu ngaphandle kombuzo, ngokwemigaqo ulwabelana ngesondo phakathi komabonwakude okanye umboniso bhanyabhanya, ndibanikela ngobomi obuthandekayo.

Ngokwe- GLAAD Apho sikhona kwiNgxelo yeTV ka-2016 :

Imiboniso yokwabelana ngesondo kwabasasazi inyuke yaya kwi-30%, yenyuka ngeepesenti ezilishumi ukusuka kunyaka ophelileyo. Ubume bobufanasini buye bakhuphuka kuthotho lokusasaza, ukusuka kwi-20% ukuya kwi-26%. Nangona kunjalo, uthotho lwentambo luye lwehla kubameli bokwabelana ngesondo ukusuka kuma-35% ukuya kuma-32%. Abasetyhini abesilisa nabasetyhini baninzi kakhulu kunamadoda abesilisa nabasetyhini kwiqonga ngalinye. Uninzi lwaba balinganiswa lusangena kwiingcinga eziyingozi malunga nabantu abathandanayo abathandanayo.

Kwaye ke nazi ezinye zeempawu zam endizithandayo; ozithandayo kuba ziyandikhuthaza ngandlela thile. Nokuba bangamagorha, imbonakalo elungileyo, nokuba zintsonkothile, ezo ngxaki azinanto yakwenza nesini sabo:

STEVEN UNIVERSE 'ROSE QUARTZ

Masiqhubeke kwaye siqale ngenye yezo zinzima , singa? Iphepha elidibeneyo: uhlala ebonakaliswa njengegorha nokuzingca. Akazange akhusele uMhlaba kuphela kwiimpawu zeHomeworld, kodwa wazincama ukuba anike ubomi bukaSteven. Ungumntu okhuthaze ukunyaniseka nobukroti kwabanye. Unomdla wokuphila kunye nemimangaliso endiyabelanayo, kwaye unako ububele obukhulu. Ngokubhekisele kubungqingili bakhe, ubudlelwane bexesha elide noPearl, kunye nobudlelwane bakhe bexesha elifutshane kakhulu noGreg bobabini banikwa ubunzima obulinganayo kunye nentlonipho.

Icala lokuthabatha: ngokwenene, uzicingela yedwa. Inzondelelo yakhe ngobomi ihlala ibonakalisa ukungakhathali njengoko ebeka umnqweno wakhe wokubona nokwenza izinto ezintsha, yithi, iimvakalelo zabantu. Wayesoloko ebaphatha bobabini uGreg noPearl njengezinto zokudlala awayedlala ngazo, kwaye ngelixa wayenika uSteven ubomi, wamshiya engenamama… ukubona nje ukuba kuzakwenzeka ntoni.

Nangona kunjalo, andizukuyibiza le nto ukuba ibe yingozi okanye ibonakalise ubufanasini, njengoko umtsalane kaRose kubo bobabini uGreg noPearl iyinyani, kwaye ukusukela ngoku, iimpawu zakhe ezingekho mikhulu zilungelelaniswa zizinto zakhe ezilungileyo. Kananjalo, ungumfazi omkhulu, osinika enye into esidibana ngayo kunye neenwele zethu ezoyikekayo.

UDIANA WENKQUBO, A.K.A. EDA UCACISE KUTHENI OKU KUYIMPAZAMO

Olu luphuhliso oluqinisekisiweyo lwamva nje, kodwa lwenza ingqiqo enkulu xa ubeka uSteve Trevor kwaye ukhulela kwisiqithi kunye nabasetyhini abangazange babone ndoda ngaphambili. Ndiphume kakhulu xa uGreg Rucka eqinisekisa le nyaniso njenge-canon, kuba uWonder Woman unjalo ubuqhawe kwaye Kulungile .

UDiana uhlala esebenza kwindawo yothando, kwaye yintoni enothando ngaphezu kothando, kulungile, wonke umntu . Kuzo zonke izinto ezinzulu, le yinto ndicinga ukuba abalandeli abaninzi beWonder Woman bayakrokrela, kodwa bekulungile ukuba kuye kwathethwa ngayo kwimiba yakutshanje yehlaya lakhe. AmaAmazon athetha kungekuphela kobudlelwane bangaphambili bukaDiana nabasetyhini, kodwa naye ubuqili . Nangona kunjalo benza njalo ngendlela owaziyo ukuba abanasigwebo kuyo. Bathetha nje iinyani.

Ewe kunjalo, kunokuba nentsingiselo ngakumbi ukuba i-DC Comics inike uMfazi oMangalisayo umdla ofanelekileyo wabasetyhini onokuthi ume ecaleni kobudlelwane bakhe bembali noSteve Trevor. Mna, ndedwa, ndingathanda u-Diana ngokudibanisa no-Etta Candy, ngokwam:

Ngokukodwa Igosa lomfazi omangalisayo Etta Candy, kuba i-Etta Candy yeyona ilungileyo i-Etta Candy.

I-100 'YOKUGQIBELA YOKUGQIBELA

Ayisiyiyo kuphela into yokuba uClakeke ulungelelene, uyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa ekugqibeleni ulungile kwaye ungumlinganiswa wobuqhawe, ubunyani bokulalana kwakhe kwaphathwa kakuhle (nokuba ulwalamano lwakhe olulandelayo nomfazi khange isebenze ngendlela uninzi lwethu ebengathanda ngayo ). Wayebandakanyeka kwezothando noFinn kwisizini yokuqala, emva koko kumboniso, uLexa wamanga, kwaye endaweni yokuba abuye umva ngokuxolisa njengentombazana ethe tye, uyarhoxa kuba akalulungelanga ulwalamano ngoku. Ngale ngcaciso ilula, waqinisekisa ukuba ukwala kwakhe okungaphezulu ngalo mzuzu kwakungekho malunga noLexa ekhonkotha umthi ongalunganga, kwakumalunga nexesha.

Emva koko kwafuneka sibukele njengoko ubudlelwane obuhle buqhakazile phakathi kukaClarke noLexa, benziwa nzulu ngakumbi yinto yokuba ngamnye wabo wayeyinkokeli yamaqela ahluke kakhulu anomdla kunye neendlela ezahlukeneyo zobomi. Oko sabona uClarke ezibandakanya kolunye ulwalamano phakathi kwabantu besini esifanayo, ke ngokuqinisekileyo yile nto ayiyo. Ayikho enye okanye ngaphandle.

IHALT NOKUBAMBA UMLILO 'S JOE MACMILLAN

Aaaaand, nantsi enye inzima. Ngokuqinisekileyo uJoe MacMillan uneempazamo. Isihogo, iimpazamo zakhe zineziphene. Nangona kunjalo, ungumlingiswa onomdla ongenakukunceda kodwa ungamncothuli, kuba akalunganga kwaphela kwinto ayenzayo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba enentembelo yokulandela (ngokungafaniyo, yithi, mamby-pamby Gordon). Mhlawumbi ndingumntu othanda ukuzidla, oonogada abazidlayo abashushu. Ndisoloko nditsalelekile kumntu okrelekrele kakhulu kwigumbi.

Ngokubhekisele kubufanasini obuboniswe kumboniso, uJoe ngewayengene kwindawo yozimilo xa, emva kobudlelwane bakhe noCameron, walukuhla umthandi oyindoda womfazi wayefuna into kuye njengeyona ndlela yokufikelela esiphelweni. Ezo zinto ziphindwe kabini! Kodwa emva koko siza kudibana ne-ex-boyfriend yomculi, uSimon. Inye nangoku eneemvakalelo ngokucacileyo, onokuba ngoyena mntu uhambileyo. Ndiyithandile lonto Ukuphakamisa kunye nokubamba umlilo Uqinisekisile ukusinika uJoe onyanisekileyo uyathandwa indoda, kunokuba alale naye njengenyathelo kwiqhinga elibi. UJoe unzima (kwaye ayisoloko ilungile okanye isimilo), kodwa iimvakalelo zakhe kuSimon zimnandi kwaye ziyinyani.

I-CRAZY EX-GIRLFRIEND 'S DARRYL NDLOKO

UDarryl yenye yezona zinto zimnandi kunye nezona zilungileyo zokuziphatha ngokwesini kumabonakude. Usibonelela ngengoma yomxholo:

Ndinendawo ethambileyo entliziyweni yam kuDarryl kuba, njengam, khange aqonde ukuba wayethandana nabantu besini esinye kude kube kamva ebomini bakhe, kwaye kanti kum ukuzaliseka kwenzeka ngexesha lefilimu yohlobo oluthile, kuye kwenzeka kumthambo iklasi. Awusoze wazi ukuba xa ulala nabantu ababini uza kukuthatha ungalindelanga! Ngapha koko, ngoku unobudlelwane obunzulu nothando kunye no-White Josh, kwaye iyathandeka.

ITORKWODI 'S IANTO JONES

Akukho luhlu lwe-bisexuals olufudumeza iinkuku zentliziyo yam luya kugqitywa ngaphandle kwe * sniff * Ianto Itotshi . Wayenobubele kwaye enobugorha, eyona nto intle ekufuneka yenziwe ngumntu. Waqala umboniso kubudlelwane kunye nomntu wasetyhini (owathi ekugqibeleni wasuswa yiCybermen) kuphela ukuba baphele kubudlelwane obunothando noKapteni Jack Harkness. Kumboniso apho isini kufutshane nesini somntu wonke sasinamanzi, isini sikaIanto asizange sibonakale ngathi sisetyenziselwa ixabiso lokothuka okanye ukuthanjiswa. Ubudlelwane bakhe noCaptain Jack babubuhle kwaye babusoloko buphathwa ngokungathí sina. Kukho isizathu sokuba sonke sizive ngathi sikhutshiwe ngumoya ngexesha lethu Abantwana bomhlaba . Kungenxa yokuba ulwalamano lwabo lwenziwe kakuhle kwaye lunentsingiselo. Ngoku, i-Ianto iya kuhlala iphila njengenkwenkwe yeti eyithandayo yomntu wonke.

Le Nyanga yokuzingca, njengoko usiya kwiminyhadala kunye nemingcelele kwaye ubhengeza ngokufanelekileyo isini, isini, kunye nokuzingca, ungalibali ukubandakanya abantakwenu abathandanayo nabasetyhini kuyo yonke loo nto! Kukho i-B kwi-LGBTQIA ngesizathu! Zama ukungayivumeli ukuba icinywe. Ukonwaba!

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