Ngamanye amaxesha, kunqabile, imithombo yeendaba zentlalo ivula amehlo akho kwinto ongayaziyo okanye ongazange uyivavanye ngokwenyani, kwaye namhlanje loo nto yayi… IStockholm Syndrome. Umsebenzisi we-Twitter USarah Mohammed kwabelwane ngesicatshulwa esilandelayo sencwadi Jonga Into Ondenze ukuba ndiyenze: Amandla, uLawulo kunye nobuNdlobongela baseKhaya nguJess Hill kwaye iyalungelelanisa ngokupheleleyo ukuba bangaphi kuthi abasiqondayo iStockholm Syndrome.
Ngokwenyani andilikholelwa eli bali lemvelaphi ye-Stockholm Syndrome eyintsomi nje eyilelwe ukujongela phantsi amaxhoba obundlobongela ngugqirha wezifo zengqondo ngokuchasene nomdla okucacileyo, otyekelo lwakhe lokuqala yayikukuthula umfazi lowo ebuza igunya lakhe. pic.twitter.com/DN62JezT95
-Sarah Mohammed (@sezmohammed) Epreli 21, 2020
I-Stockholm Syndrome yinto eye yaziwa kakuhle, ubuncinci ukusukela kwixesha lokuqala abanye bethu beva malunga nokubhekisa kuSophie Marceau ukuthandana nomqweqwedisi wakhe uRobert Carlyle kwifilimu yeBond ka1999. Umhlaba awonelanga . Sisebenzisa umbono wokuba umntu (uhlala engowasetyhini) angathandana (okanye avelane ngokunzulu) nomthimbi wabo kwimidiya emininzi, kwaye Omhle kunye nesilwanyana ube ngumzekelo oqhelekileyo kuphantse kwaba yinto yokubiza umbono.
Ngokwenkcubeko, asihambi nzulu kangako kwikota. I-BBC inika oku kulandelayo ngokukhawuleza kwebali eliqhelekileyo:
Kwakungo-23 Agasti 1973 xa aba babini babanjwa bathinjwa eKreditbanken ngu-Jan-Erik Olsson oneminyaka engama-32 owayesenza umsebenzi wobugqwetha - owathi kamva wajoyina ebhankini liqabane langaphambili. Kwiintsuku ezintandathu emva kokuphela kokumiswa, kwacaca ukuba amaxhoba ayenolwalamano oluqinisekileyo nabathimbi bawo.
IStockholm Syndrome yazalwa ngendlela yenkcazo.
Eli binzana laxelwa ukuba laqulunqwa ngugqirha wolwaphulo-mthetho kunye noogqirha bezengqondo uNils Bejerot.
Kodwa, njengoko sinokubona kwisicatshulwa kwi-tweet apha ngasentla, bekukho into eninzi yesini emsebenzini ekuqulunqweni kwekota. Imeko yokuthinjwa ibingalawulwa kakuhle kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, uNils Bejerot, ugqirha wezifo zengqondo owasungula eli thuba, akazange athethe nalo mfazi usembindini wawo kwaye kubonakala ngathi uye wayila eli gama ukuze azenze yena nabasemagunyeni babonakale ngcono.
Kwaye ngokwenene kubuza umbuzo ukuba sicinga njani ngeStockholm Syndrome kunye nokuba zininzi kangakanani amabinzana kunye nemibono kwinkcubeko yethu esingayivavanyi ngokwaneleyo, ngakumbi iindlela ezifihlakeleyo ezijongela phantsi iarhente yabasetyhini. IStockholm Syndrome ayisosifo esaziwayo okanye isifo, kwaye akukho ndlela yamkelekileyo yokuyiqonda. Kodwa loo nto ayithinteli iingcali zengqondo zezihlalo zezihlalo ekusebenziseni gwenxa uluvo kwizinto ezinje ngabafazi kubudlelwane obuhlukumezayo.
Kodwa iStockholm Syndrome ayifani nokuxhatshazwa, enyanisweni, ngumbono osenokuba nesiphene kakhulu osilelayo ukuhlanganisa zonke izinto ezintsonkothileyo zeemvakalelo zabantu, iimpendulo zokusinda, kunye nengqondo. Ezona ngxelo zeStockholm zikwimeko ekude kakhulu malunga nabathinjwa abafunda ukubona abathumbi babo njengabantu, kunye nokuphuhlisa uvelwano (yile nto uninzi lwethu luyenzayo xa sidibana nabantu).
Ngokuyinene, luluntu ukuba umntu okwimeko enjalo azive (kwaye akhuthaze) uvelwano kubathimbi babo- oko kungonyusa amathuba abo okusinda- kunye nokuyinciphisa kwisifo yindlela yokunciphisa iimvakalelo zabasetyhini kunye nobuntu into ngaphandle kolawulo lwabo, kunye nokulingana nokugula ngengqondo kunye nokuhlanya.
Ewe kunjalo kodwa impikiswano kukuba akukho sidingo sokulungelelanisa ibinzana lonyango ngenxa yokuba kukuziphatha okuqiqayo ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye ukuyibiza ngokuba 'sisifo sengqondo' kunesiphumo sokujongela phantsi i-akhawunti yexhoba. UKampusch uyichaza ngcono kunam!
-Catriona Lexy Campbell (@catrionalexy) Epreli 21, 2020
Ukudideka kweemvakalelo zabasetyhini kunye nezenzo zokugula kwengqondo kunembali ende neyoyikisayo. Ayisiyiyo kwaphela ingcinga yokuba utyekelo lwabasetyhini lokulawulwa ziimvakalelo zabo sisiseko sokuziphatha ngokwesini okuninzi, kodwa eyona nto ithethwayo ye-hysteria oko kuthetha ukuba yimpambano evela esibelekweni. Uluvo olubi lokuba ukuba ngumfazi kwenza ukuba izigqibo zethu zikrokre, ukuqonda kwethu into engekhoyo, kunye nezenzo zethu ezingezizo ezethu kuyonakalisa ngokumangalisayo kwaye olo hlobo lwesini lubhakwe nzulu kwinkcubeko yethu.
Into yokuba igama elithi Stockholm Syndrome yaqokelelwa njengendlela yokuchaza amava nama-arhente abasetyhini, kwaye yayide isetyenziselwe ukugxotha ukuphendula kwabanye abantu basetyhini ngezigqibo zabo, iyabalisa. kodwa ngokunyanisekileyo akumangalisi. Umbutho uphuma kuwo onke amaxesha ukwenza ukuba abantu basetyhini babonakale benganxibanga okanye besiyatha okanye bengakwazi nje ukuthatha izigqibo zabo. Masingakuvumeli oko kuqhubeka.
(nge: Sarah UM Mohammed / iTwitter , Umfanekiso: Disney)
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