Uxolo Allies, kodwa andikhathali malunga nePin yakho yoKhuseleko

Ndiyayifumana. Iphini yoKhuseleko(TM)yenzelwe ukubonisa ubumbano kumaqela amaninzi ahlelelekileyo ajongene nocalucalulo olwandayo emva kolu nyulo lubi. Abantu abanikezela ngepini yokhuseleko kufuneka babe ngamadlelane esinokuthembela kuwo, kwaye beze xa bebandezelekile. Ndifumana ukuba intliziyo yale meko ihlambulukile, kodwa andinako, nokuba ndingathanda kangakanani, ukuyithatha ngokungathí sina-hayi ngembali yelizwe lethu engapheliyo yamanyano akhathalele ngakumbi malunga nendlela abonwa ngayo kunokuba angathanda kangakanani yenze intshukumo yethu.

UChristopher Keelty ubhale inqaku elinengcinga Kutshanje malunga nengxaki yale meko, besithi abantu abangahoywanga bayazi kakuhle imbali ende yabantu abamhlophe abazibiza ngokuba ngamadlelane ngelixa bengenzi nto ukunceda, okanye benzakalisa, abantu abangaMhlophe baseMelika. Uqhubeke nokukhumbuza abafundi malunga nokuba nooyise abasungulayo, oogxa babo bokuqala kumlo wokulingana, babenamakhoboka.

Ukuthetha akubizi, kwaye kum, izikhonkwane zokhuseleko ziziva zingenanto. Ukuba ngumntu ofumanisa ukuba abantu abanxibe ezi zikhonkwane baluncedo, kulungile. Kodwa xa ndisithi andishukunyiswa yile meko, akulunganga ukuphikisana nam. Ukuba ndikwiqela elijongelwe phantsi onqwenela ukulimela, ithini indawo yokuma kwakho ukuba andiva ukuba uncedo lwakho, kulungile, luluncedo?

Masicace gca. Oku #iphini yokhuseleko ayisiwo umnqweno. Kukuzibophelela. Uya KUNCEDA abantu. Uya kuphakama. Uya kuzithethelela. Sisenzo.

Ukhuseleko lwePinsUSA (@SafetyPinsUSA) NgoNovemba 11, 2016

Ingxaki asikokuba aba bantu bafuna ukunceda, kukuba bazibeke kwindawo yamandla ngaphezulu kwabantu abahlelelekileyo. Bazimisele njengabasindisi bethu ngendlela esingayicelanga endaweni yokuba basimamele ngeendlela esele sibaxelele ukuba siyazidinga. Ndimnyama, ndidlulile, ndisilwa kwaye ndidiniwe ngabahlobo bobuxoki.

Asidingi bantu ukuba babonakalise ukuba bangumlingani onjani ngepini, sifuna ukuba babonakalise kwaye babonakalise xa ibalulekile: ngeminikelo, ngembuyekezo, ngoqhankqalazo, ngokuthetha ngokuchaseneyo nobuhlanga babo, ukungaziphathi kakuhle, amalungu osapho abukulwa Ukukholelwa kuthi xa sibaxelela ezinye iindlela esidinga ngazo uncedo lwabo.

Andinayo indlela yokwazi ukuba umntu uzimisele ukulwa nam ndide ndibabone besebenza. Nokuba banxiba ipini okanye akunjalo, andifuni mntu oza kuqhayisa ngenkxaso yabo kum kwaye angabinakho ukundibonisa ezinye iirisithi. Andinamdla. Kum, ukubonisa ngokufuziselayo akubonakalisi. Bamele benze okungakumbi.

Ungathi cwaka uvakalise inkxaso yakho ye-POC, amaSilamsi kunye ne-LGBTQ ngabantu ngepini yokhuseleko, OKANYE UNOKUYIKHANGELA KWI-TOP OF LUNGS YAKHO

-Ijeoma Oluo (@IjeomaOluo) NgoNovemba 12, 2016

Yintoni ebonakala ngakumbi? Ewe, kutshanje ndibone udliwanondlebe ngumlawuli uBarry Jenkins we Ukukhanya kwenyanga , enamandla-eza-yobudala bhanyabhanya obonisa indoda emnyama emnyama, eyathetha nam ngokwenyani. Kuyo, uJenkins wavakalisa inyani yokuba yena, indoda ethe tye, waziva isidingo sokubambelela kumdlalo wokuqala owawususela kwifilimu kwaye wakhetha ukungawuhlambi ngqo. Ugxininise umahluko phakathi kokuba ngumlingani osebenzayo xa kuthelekiswa nokungabinanto kwaye uqhubeke esithi, Xa umthetho wokulingana womtshato wawusapasiswa e-U.S, wonke umntu wabeka ezo zihluzo zomnyama kuFacebook wazo. Kum oko kukuba lihlakani elingenzi nto ... Ukuze ndibone eli bali [lombhali wemidlalo yesini] uTerrell [Alvin McCraney] kwaye ndingakwenzi bekungayi kuba ndim ukuthatha uxanduva lwam njengehlakani elisebenzayo.

Ukunxiba isikhonkwane kukungakhathali, ukusebenzisa ilungelo lakho ngokwenyani ekubonakaleni kwabo ubanga ukuba ubamele kuyasebenza. Nazi iindlela ezininzi zokubambisana ayizisebenzeli nje ngokwakho okanye umboniso nje, kwaye ukuba uyandibuza-zezo ndlela endikukhathaleleyo ukukubona uvela. Ungayinxiba ipini ukuba bayafuna, kodwa abantu abaninzi abafana nam abayi kukubona ngokwahlukileyo de uzibonakalise ngendlela ebonakalayo.

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