Olunye uthotho lolutsha olungaqhelekanga ndilukhumbula kwiminyaka yam yokufikisa Ubomi obufihlakeleyo boLutsha lwaseMelika, ebaleke amaxesha amahlanu kwinto eyayiyi-ABC Family. Ibalile ibali lika-Amy oneminyaka eli-15 ubudala, edlalwa nguShailene Woodley, okhulelweyo kwinkampu yeqela kwaye kufuneka ajongane nezilingo zokuba ngumama okwishumi elivisayo. Yenziwe nguBrenda Hampton owayekwanoxanduva lwayo Izulu lesi-7 . Ke unokucinga ukuba isini sasiphathwa njani kumdlalo.
UWoodley waba ligama lasekhaya ngenxa yalo mboniso, kodwa umdlali weqonga uvumile ukuba wayengonwabanga ncam malunga nendlela uthotho olwalujongana ngayo nomba wesini sokufikisa.
Kwi ukutyhila iprofayili nge Ukuxakeka , Umdlali weqonga oneminyaka engama-28 ubudala uthethe ngendlela aphazamiseke ngayo unyaka wakhe weSaturn kwaye wathetha ngokukhululekileyo ngesini kunye nokuziphatha ngokwesini, okuthi komnye umntu enze ikhefu lakhe elikhulu kumdlalo owawumalunga nokwabelana ngesondo kwabakwishumi elivisayo, wavula imibuzo ethile. KuWoodley, xa wayongena Ubomi obufihlakeleyo Kwakungemva kokufunda iziqendu ezithathu, kodwa ikhontrakthi yayiyiminyaka emithandathu. Ezo ziqendu zintathu zokuqala, ngokwembono kaWoodley, zangqineka ziyinyani kwinto awayeyibonile ebomini bakhe bokwenyani.
[Ezi ziqendu] zonke zigodukile, ucacisile. Ndandinabahlobo kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo ababekhulelwe. Kwakungathi ndiyinto yonke endifuna ukuyithumela emhlabeni.
Nangona kunjalo umboniso uqhubekile, kwathatha umyalezo wokuzibamba apho abalinganiswa banxiba amakhonkco ezithembiso, befunga ukuzisindisa de batshate, kwaye babaphoxa abo babelana ngesondo. Umlingiswa ka-Amy wayengenguye umlinganiswa onovelwano oya kuthi abonise oontanga bakhe njengoko uWoodley wayecinga. Ukanti yena, kunye namanye amalungu amaninzi, babebambekile.
Zininzi izinto ezazibhalwe kwizikripthi ezingezizo zam kuphela, kodwa uninzi lwabalingisi, abangavumelaniyo, utsho uWoodley. Kwakukho iinkqubo zenkolelo ezatyhalwa ezahlukileyo kunezam. Nangona kunjalo ngokusemthethweni bendibambekile apho. Kude kube namhla yenye yezona zinto zinzima endakha ndazenza. Ke ukuhlala Ubomi obufihlakeleyo Ndenze ukuba ndibenamazwi ngakumbi malunga nenkolelo zam.
Eyona nto indikhathaza ngale nto kum kukuba xa ndandikwishumi elivisayo, owayesele efumana imfundo engeyiyo ngesondo ngenxa yayo yonke iminyaka yam yesikolo samaKatolika, kwakungaze kubekho ulungelelwaniso kwimilayezo ejikeleze isini solutsha. Ukuphulukana nobunyulu bakho kwakuhlala kuphathwa ngokobunzima obunjalo, kodwa emva koko isini esingaqhelekanga emva nje kwesiqhelo. Ii-STD zeza kuphela ukuqaqambisa ukusilela kokuziphatha okanye ukoyikisa abantu, endaweni yokuba iyinxalenye eqhelekileyo. Ngelixa kufanelekileyo, abantu akufuneki ukuba bafumane imfundo yabo yesini kuphela kumabonwakude (okanye ubugqwirha), kubonisa ukuba ulutsha kufuneka-ubuncinci-lungabahlazisi ngesondo okanye babonise indlela enye yempilo yezesondo echanekileyo.
Ngombulelo, siye savela okwexeshana ngokweedrama zolutsha, kodwa kusabalulekile ukuba siyijongana njani nale micimbi kuba kufanele kubekho ulungelelwaniso phakathi kokuziyeka kunye ne-hypersexualization yabakwishumi elivisayo. Yima, kuyabizwa Imfundo yezesondo .
(nge Isigqibo , umfanekiso: ABC Family)
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