Ubume bokwabelana ngesondo kuye kwanda, ngakumbi ngobungqingili besetyhini kunamadoda, kodwa kubonisa ngakumbi nangakumbi kwiimuvi ngakumbi kumabonwakude.
Xa ndandiza kwamkeleka kwisini sam kwakukho uninzi lwee-movie ezinobunzima kunye neefilimu ezinabalinganiswa abathandanayo endandikulungele, njengoMaureen ovela Irente * . Ndicinga ukuba xa kufikwa ekubonakalisweni kwezesondo, ngakumbi kumabali angabhalwanga ngumntu ololo hlobo lokuziphatha ngokwesondo, kukho amaxesha apho umbhali anokuphosa uphawu okanye ngempazamo enze into enzulu ngokwenene. Le yokugqibela yindlela endiziva ngayo ngemovie ka-Kevin Smith ka-1997 Ukuleqa uAmy .
Ukuleqa uAmy Ngaba ifilimu yesithathu kaKevin Smith emva Oonobhala kwaye IiMallrats, kwaye yenzeka kwi-View Askewniverse ekwabandakanya amalungu kaJay kunye noSilent Bob kunye nomnye wemidlalo bhanyabhanya endiyithandayo, Imfundiso .
Amy imalunga nomculi weencwadi ezihlekisayo ogama linguHolden McNeil, odlalwe nguBen Affleck, othandana nombhali wencwadi ehlekisayo egama linguAlyssa Jones ( UJoey Lauren Adams ). Umhlobo osenyongweni kaHolden u-Banky Edwards ( UJason lee ) ikwangumculi weencwadi ezihlekisayo (inker / colorist-ayisiyiyo tracer) kwaye ufumanisa ngaye ukuba ulifanasini ekupheleni kwemovie.
Ndakhe ndeva ngentetho malunga Ukuleqa uAmy ngaphambi kokuba ndibone imovie. Ngelixa ndonwabela iimovie zikaKevin Smith, andizange ndingene kuzo ngokufanelekileyo kude kube kwikholeji, ke xa ndaye ndaziswa ngemiba abathandanayo abanayo ngemovie Ukuleqa uAmy , Bendikulungele ukuba ngathi kulungile le nto izakuba yingxaki, yiyo loo nto yayiyeyona nto ibalulekileyo xa ndazibona ndinxulumene kakhulu no-Alyssa Jones.
Ngoku ukuba icace gca, ndiyayihlonipha kwaye ndiyasiqonda isizathu sokuba u-Alyssa abe ngumlinganiswa abathi abathandana nabanye abathandanayo bahlaselwe. Intsomi yokuba wonke umntu oyinkazana ayifunayo 'yidick elungileyo' kwaye baya 'kuphiliswa' kubufanasini buyindlela eyingozi nengxaki enkulu akakahambi . Oko bekutshiwo, kujongwa ku-Alyssa ngokwembono yokulala nabantu besini esahlukileyo, uhlasela izinto ezininzi abasetyhini abathandanayo abamele ukujongana nazo xa uhamba namaqabane.
Ukuthandana kuka-Holden no-Alyssa kukhawuleza-uziva benonxibelelwano, kwaye uyaphoxeka xa efumanisa ukuba ungungqingili. Uchitha uninzi lweencoko zabo zangaphambili bezama ukwakha isini sabasetyhini / ababhinqileyo, ebuza ukuba uyintombi enyulu na kwaye kufuneka akhuphe into ekuthethwa ngayo ukuba uyintombi. Ngaba kukuphulukana nomculo (ungaphulukana nawo ngaphandle kwesondo)? Okanye ukungena (ukungena akusoloko kuthetha ipenisi okanye into yesondo)? Iimpendulo zikaHolden zezi, njengoko u-Alyssa ebeka, zizidenge ngokupheleleyo kwaye zintsana.
Ngenxa yokuba engaboni isondo phakathi kwabasetyhini njengesini sokwenene xa besenza ubudlelwane, Holden uhlobo lweembono u-Alyssa njengentombi enyulu kwaye uthatha uhlobo lwamandla akhethekileyo kwinto yokuba ebengekho nenye indoda. Kungenxa yoko le nto ephazamisekile xa efumanisa ukuba uAlyssa uye walala nabantu abathandanayo, kubandakanya nabathathu namadoda amabini.
U-Alyssa wenzakele ngenxa yokuhlazeka kukaHolden ngenxa yexesha lakhe elidlulileyo, kodwa naye udidekile ukuba kutheni engenangxaki nokulala kwakhe nesiqingatha sabasetyhini kwisiXeko saseNew York kodwa enengxaki yokuba ebezama kwiminyaka elishumi eyadlulayo kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo. . Ufuna uAlyssa ukuba abe ngumfanekiso womfazi ogqibeleleyo kwaye anciphise ubudlelwane bakhe besini esifanayo, ngelixa esenza into enkulu malunga nobudlelwane bakhe naye.
Kukho amadoda ajonga abantu ababhinqileyo abathandanayo abathandanayo njengamadoda athandanayo afumanekayo. Kinky encinci, evulekileyo kwimithambo enabafazi ababini, kunye nomntu abanokuthi babanqwenele abasetyhini, kodwa ungabahoyi icala labo abatsala amadoda. Uhlobo lwabafana abangakuqwalaseliyo ukukopela xa intombi yabo ilele nenye intombazana, kodwa kukukopa nomnye umfana. Banokuzibona benengqondo evulekileyo, kodwa konke oko kungqina ukuba, njengoHolden, banombono ongenabuntu kunye nosana malunga nesini sabasetyhini.
Xa uHolden eza kulanda u-Alyssa, umfazi obhinqileyo ubiza uHolden kwiqhinga lakhe lokucinga ukuba ukuba uyindoda elungileyo angalungisa ubufanasini buka-Alyssa.
Uyifumene entlokweni yakho ukuba u-Alyssa akayikho intshontsho-ukuba akazange ahlangane nendoda efanelekileyo. Kwaye uyakholelwa ukuba uyiyo. Intle kakhulu loo nto. Uza kumphatha kakuhle, umhlwaye okwe-stud, kwaye umthe tye-back ibhatyi yakhe kumhlaba wabalahlekileyo. Kwaye inyani ebuhlungu yeyokuba awuzukufezekisa nanye kuloo nto kwaye uphele ngokungathi ungomnye wesimagynist esikrakra ngakumbi okanye umva we-fag-hag.
Yonke le nto ayithethayo ichanekile, kwaye ngelixa ebekwa kwindawo echasayo xa kuthelekiswa ne-Holden, le yimeko yokuba abafazi abathandana nabasetyhini baye bajongana ubuso ngobuso nabo uninzi lobomi babo. Ku-Alyssa, ukuphinda azibandakanye nendoda kwakhona ayisiyonto intsha nje kuphela: andinokwazi nje ukuba nolwalamano kunye nawe ngaphandle kokuphosa ilizwe lam liphela kwisiphithiphithi.
Into ayithethayo kukuphulukana noluntu ekuhlaleni nabanye abantu ababhinqileyo. Kubo oku kuya kuba kukungcatsha kwaye kubonakala kwindawo apho axelela abahlobo bakhe abathandanayo ukuba uthandana noHolden kwaye bonke bayashiya, kwaye uTory uthi Omnye uluma uthuli.
Uninzi lwabantu lujonga ubungqingili njengokwahlula-hlula okungu-50/50 kwaye zininzi iinkcazo zemihla ngemihla malunga nokulala ngokwesini andicinga ukuba ndiyinqumle, kodwa uninzi lwabafazi abathandanayo endithetha nabo kukutsala kwabo asikokwesini, ebantwini. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwabasetyhini abathandanayo endikhe ndathetha ngalo ndithetha ngendlela abadla ngokugqiba ngayo ukuthandana namadoda kuba kulula. Akunakuba lula ngokubhekisele kubufanasini, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ngamanye amaxesha abantu abathandana nabathandanayo bathi abayikukwanela okanye bayilahle into yokuba abantu ababhinqileyo bangasebenzi kangako kuba nabo bayatsaleleka emadodeni. Kwaye kunye noloyiko lokuba baya kuthi, ekugqibeleni, bashiye amaqabane abo ababhinqileyo kumaqabane angamadoda.
Ewe, ayingabo bonke abantu abathandanayo abaziva ngale ndlela, kodwa yinxalenye yamava abantu ababhinqileyo abathandanayo, kwaye kukho isizathu sokuba amagama athi i-gay-star lesbian zikhona. Ke ndiyayiqonda, ngakumbi kwii-90s, kutheni umfazi ozibona ethandana nabantu basetyhini kwaye angaze azifumane etsalwa ziidudesi ngokufuthi kuya kufana nokuba ndizibiza njengongqingili- kulula kwaye abantu bayayiqonda into yokuba kuthetha ntoni .
Ibali lika-Alyssa Jones likwiindlela ezininzi ukufakwa ngokugqibeleleyo kwe-biphobia kuzo zombini ii-communie ezichanekileyo nezizimeleyo, kwaye ngelixa ndicinga ukuba uKevin Smith ngumbhali olungileyo kwaye ocingayo xa ezama, ndicinga ukuba ubukhulu becala ngengozi.
Enye yezinto ezandenza ndawuthanda umsebenzi kaSmith yindlela akwazi ngayo ukubonisa ityhefu yamadoda malunga nesini sabasetyhini. Oonobhala yenza oku kakuhle kwindawo ye-37 yeedick.
Ukuleqa uAmy Ngokwenyani malunga nendoda ethe tye eza kuqonda ukungazithembi kunye nokuba buthathaka xa kufikwa kwisini sabasetyhini. Uvumela i-ego yakhe ukuba immise ekubeni nolwalamano olunothando. I-Alyssa yindlela yomlinganiswa wakhe yokuhamba kolo hambo kwaye iyenzeka kuphela kuba uSmith akayikhathalelanga ukwenza imovie yesini malunga nokumelwa, wenza imovie malunga nokuqina kwamadoda.
Lowo mgama umvumela ukuba angene kwezi zinto ngendlela endicinga ukuba thina kuluntu lwe-LGBTQ asizami ukuyenza ngoku. Sikudinga kakhulu ukumelwa, kangangokuba ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi ngumdlalo olahlekileyo ukuzama kwaye ngoku sixoxe ngengxabano phakathi kwethu. Nangona i-biphobia ifika, ayizange iphulwe ngokwenene kumacala omabini. umdala-ish Ndizamile ukuyenza kodwa ndaqhwitha xa kufikwa ekujonganeni nesini esingamadoda.
Ukuleqa uAmy iseyifilimu enengxaki ngokwenene, kuba ayinakuba njani, kodwa loo nto ayenzi ukuba ingabi naxabiso. Ukwenzela mna, Ukuleqa uAmy undikhumbuze ukuba kwakunzima kanjani kum ukuba ndiphume ndithandana nabantu ababini kuba ndandingazi ukuba ndinokukhetha phakathi kobungqingili nokuba ngowesini esahlukileyo. Ndacinga mna ndinayo ukukhetha. Ubundlobongela bendisithi andizivaleli ngaphandle kwothando ngaphandle kwesini / isini. Ndifuna nje umntu oza kudlala Umlingo: Ukuqokelela nam kwaye akanangxaki ukuba ndingaqhelekanga.
* Kwirekhodi, ndicinga ukuba uMaureen ungumlinganiswa omnandi kwaye ukuba uJoanne unomona kakhulu akufuneki abenaye.
(umfanekiso: Miramax)
