Wamkelekile esiphelweni, kuba esi sisiphelo sonyaka se Ndilapha . Kule veki, beku malunga nayo ukuphuma nendala kunye nokutsha . Esi siqendu siqala kwingxoxo kaKris Kardashian kunye noCainlyn Jenner eyakhelwe iziqendu ezithathu zokugqibela. Ngoku, ekugqibeleni, ilapha, kwaye imnandi njengokubukela ipeyinti yomile. Umabonakude wenyani! Yhu!
Ngokusisiseko, esi sibini siyavuma ukungavumelani kwi into evanithi ngokuthambile inqaku, kwaye abanakho ukumamela omnye umntu, kwaye ngokucacileyo kusekho ukulimala okukhulu phakathi kwabo. U-Kris ufikelwa yinto encinci kakhulu, njengoko engakhange ameme uCainlyn ekuphumeleleni kwentombi yakhe kwiintsuku ezimbini phambi kwale ntlanganiso, emva koko wongeza isithuko ekonzakaleni ngokuthi ngamanye amaxesha sikhumbula ukuba noBruce. Sonke siyakwenza. Ndifumana ukuba uCainlyn esithi usapho lwakhe beluphazamisekile lunokubonwa njengolukrwada, nangona kuphela ukuba uzama ukuthatha loo ndlela.
UCainlyn wayenyanisile njengoko wayeziphosa kusapho lwakhe ukuze babe sisiphazamiso kumzabalazo wakhe oqhubekayo wesini; lento ebeyithetha ibithetha ngaye, not ngefamily yakhe tu. UCaitlyn, nangona kunjalo, ayinguye oyena mntu ubhetyebhetye xa kusenziwa izinto kunye nosapho lwakhe lubonakala luzimisele ukulumana xa kunokwenzeka. Intlanganiso phakathi kwesi sibini yayingumabonakude ongathandekiyo kwaye yayiziziphene zabo bobabini, nangona kunjalo uKris kufuneka ayeke ukuthi uBruce, kwakucaphukisa kakhulu.
Emva kokungonwabi kwaphela kokudibana okuninzi umboniso uqhubela phambili kwinto ebizwa ngokuba yi umsitho wokuthiya ngokutsha . Le yinto ndingakhange ndiyive ngaphambili, kwaye xa ndanyanzela i-Twitter andizange ndifumane nabahlobo bam be-transgender besithi bayenzile le nto. Kungenxa kaCainlyn ukuba abhengeze kubahlobo bakhe kumsitho ukuba ngubani igama lakhe elitsha, kwaye angathanda uMphathiswa ukuba awuphathe. Icandelo emva koko lithathe ujikelo olufanelekileyo lube yinkolo kwinto ebaluleke kakhulu kumacandelo enkolo yamaKristu asisiseko kubaphulaphuli baseMelika.
Umboniso ubhekisa ngqo kwinkcubeko yenkcubeko edla ngokugxotha abantu. UJenny Boylan wazisa uCaitlyn kuAllyson Robinson, uMphathiswa waseBhaptizi omiselweyo. Ndiphule umthetho wam okwangoku ndaza ndafunda olunye uphononongo lwesi siqendu se Ndilapha phambi kokuba ndigqibe ukubhala okwam. Ndifuna ukubona ukuba loluphi uhlobo Abantu , NGU! , Intatheli yaseHollywood , njalo njalo bebesitsho ngeli candelo lenkolo. Akukho namnye kubo owathetha ngokubaluleka kweli candelo-uninzi lwabo alukhange lukhankanye. Iwebsite ebizwa Zonwabisa ngoku wahamba enye kwaye ethuka uAllyson an itshantliziyo ‘Ngubani unqulo olunzulu kwaye uyatshintshela,’ kunciphisa ukubaluleka kwakhe kweli candelo kakhulu.
Umboniso wawugubungela ekuphela kwento ekhankanyiweyo kwibhayibhile enokuthi (mis) itolikwe njengabantu abaguqukayo: Amadoda awakwazi ukunxiba njengabafazi, Duteronomi 22: 5. Ndifundile ukuba injongo yoqobo ye-22: 5 inene malunga nomthetho kunye nokwenza namadoda afaka into yokuzifihla ukuze ubaleke emva kokwenza ulwaphulo-mthetho. Kuyinyani kangakanani oko, andazi, kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba kufutshane nenyaniso kunokuguqulelwa ngokutsha kwe-transgender yanamhlanje yombhalo wakudala oguqulwe amatyeli amaninzi ngaphambi kokuba ufike esiNgesini. IDuteronomi ayisebenzi njengoko le ndima yebhayibhile ikwiTestamente eNdala, eyathi yathatyathelw 'indawo ngumnqophiso omtsha, ongazange ukhankanye nantoni na esondeleyo kule.
Khumbula abantwana, sukuxuba amalaphu, ungachukumisi ihagu, ukuba umfazi uyakhohlisa xa etshatile umbulale kodwa hayi umfana ukuba uyaqhatha, njalo njalo. Itestamente endala izaliswe yimithetho engenakwenzeka engenangqondo yanamhlanje kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile abantu bayathanda ukukhetha kwaye bakhethe eziphi iinxalenye zebhayibhile abafuna ukuzisebenzisa kwabanye abantu. Kukho uluvo lokuba abantu be-transgender abakholwanga okwangoku kodwa kuyafana nabantu be-cisgender, abanye bayinyani kwaye abanye abayikho. U-Allyson wathetha into endandingayivanga ngaphambili, ukuba ingubo kaJoseph enemibala emininzi kwi-hebrew yoqobo ibizwa ngokuba yingubo yenkosazana.
Njengomntu ongakholwayo ndikufumanisa kunzima ukunxibelelana nomboniso ojongana nenkolo, khange ibe yinxalenye yobomi bam. Ewe yinto endiyenzileyo ndifunda ukuze ndiqonde apho abanye abantu bavela khona kwaye ndichasane nobugwenxa ngamanye amaxesha endihlaselwa ngabo. Inkolo, nangona-nokuba yenzelwe okanye ichasene nayo-yinto endikhethe ukuyikhetha. Inkolo inokuba yinto entle kakhulu xa isetyenziselwa ukulunga, kodwa xa inkolo isetyenziselwa ukunyelisa, iyayeka ukulunga kwaye iba ngoontamo-lukhuni. Andinayo nayiphi na imiba nabantu benkolo; Ndinemicimbi ene-bigots.
Eyona nto iphambili kule veki yayiyikhonsathi kaBoy George apho uCainlyn wayeseqongeni, emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa kweza umsitho wokuthiya ngokutsha. Akukho namnye kusapho lukaCainlyn owayekhona, akuzange kujongwane nokuba kwakutheni. Mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba olu ibilusuku lukaCainlyn nabahlobo bakhe abadlulayo, abathi uCaitlyn 'khange abize bhiyozela imibhiyozo yabo, kwaye oku kwenzelwe bona ngaphezulu kunam.' ngqo kwikhamera kwaye isithi Iinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo kum ziyeyona nto imangalisayo ebomini bam. … Okokuqala ndiziva ngathi ndinendawo ethile. … Ndifuna ukunceda abantu kwindawo endihlala kuyo. Ininzi indlela ekusafuneka sihambe. Sinesiqalo esihle kwaye loo nto iyayivuyisa intliziyo yam.
Isiqendu sokugqibela yonke into ilungile Ndilapha , nayo yonke into engalunganga nayo. Kwenziwe okuhle kakhulu ngokuthetha ngemicimbi ye-trans ngendlela enenkcubeko phakathi kweMelika inokuqonda, abanye abaninzi banokufunda izinto ngokubukela oku, ndafunda ezinye izinto ngam. Umboniso ubufana nokubukela i-Twoface eBatman, inobuntu obuqhekekileyo obungadibananga. Elinye icala lomboniso malunga notshintsho lukaCainlyn, malunga nendlela azama ngayo ukwenza okuhle nakuluntu oluhamba kunye kwaye oku kube kuhle. UCainlyn ngumntu onesiphako ngokunzulu, kwaye oko kubonisiwe, kodwa ndicinga ukuba intliziyo yakhe inyanisekile kwindawo elungileyo.
Elinye icala Ndilapha , icala elibambe umboniso njenge-ankile ebethelelwe, yifomathi yeTV yokwenyani. Isidingo somdlalo weqonga, ukuhlela okungalunganga okuye kwabonisa imiboniso ngaphandle kocwangco kunye nokufaka iifoto zokuphendula kwiingxelo ezingakhange zifumane iimpendulo. Isidingo esibonwayo sokuqhubeka nokwakha izigcawu njengeziganeko ezinkulu zeemvakalelo kuphela ukuba zibe nemizuzu embalwa kwaye zingabalulekanga kwaphela. Iziqendu ezimbalwa zemka kuloo fomathi kwaye umboniso wawomelele kuyo kodwa awuzange ubaleke i-ankile yeTV yokwenyani.
Ndiyarhana ukuba le yayingu-E! 'Besenza njengoko bebejolise kwinqanaba leKardashian yokulinganiswa kweTV, engazange yenzeke. Asisoze sazi ukuba umboniso ubunokuba yintoni ngaphandle kwefomathi ewubambayo, ndiyathandabuza ukuba siza kubona Ndilapha Ixesha lesibini. Ndiyaphikisana malunga naloo nto, ndiyathanda uCainlyn Jenner ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo am. Umboniso wenze okuhle kakhulu kunayo nayiphi na enye inkqubo yeTV kwiTV, ikakhulu ngenxa yamacandelo emfundo awomeleleyo amanye abonisa ukungabikho. Kukonke Ndilapha ingaqwalaselwa njengomboniso ongakhange ufumane yonke into ngokuchanekileyo, kodwa wenze okungaphezulu kokulimaza. Oko, ubuncinci, uCainlyn kufuneka abe neqhayiya ngaye.
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