Iphepha elichazayo ukuba awusenanto oyifunayo: njengoko ufunda eli qhekeza, nceda ugcine ukhumbula ukuba igama elithi manic pixie liphupha lentombazana lithetha ukwandiswa kuye nakubani na ongenguye umntu onokuthi achaphazeleke ngeli xesha, kwaye ayenzelwanga ukuhlala ngaphakathi kuyo nayiphi na into yokubini! Umntu unokucinga ngokutshintsha igama lentombazana liye emntwini engqondweni yabo ngelixa befunda. Igama eliyintombazana ligcinwa lincinci okanye lingaphantsi kunzame zokujonga kwingxoxo yebinzana njengoko lalinjalo kwasekuqaleni (ewe, cis man), kunye neenzame zokuphinda ufune kwakhona kwaye uphinde ulichaze eli binzana.
Bendihlala ndiyithatha njengombulelo xa ndityholwa ngokuba ndiyintombazana ephuphayo ephuphayo. Indlela eli binzana elaphoswa ngayo indlela yam ngethoni yokundithuka yandothusa. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, uninzi lwamaqhawe am e-cinema abawathandayo ayefana: Ihlobo iFlynn, iRamona Flowers, kunye noClementine Kruczynski, ukubala nje abambalwa. Yintoni enokuba mbi kangako ngokuba nesitayile, unamehlo emazi, kwaye uyathandeka woyikisa?
Ngokuqinisekileyo aba bantu ndijonge kubo iminyaka beyimpendulo kumbuzo esiqala ukuzibuza wona ngamanye amaxesha kwinqanaba lokufikisa: Loluphi uhlobo lomntu ekufanele ukuba ndilulo? Ndingamlinganisa nabani? Nangona intombazana ephuphayo engumntu oyintombazana yaba kukutya kwabaninzi ababelana ngesondo ngo-2011, kwaba sisiqabu ukubanomntu onokunxulumana naye — umntu oneziphene ezibenza babenomdla, ngaphandle kokuba ngumntwana waselwandle okanye umbulali omkhulu we-zombie.
Emva koko, ndakhangela inkcazo yokukhaba ngenye imini. Ixesha, eliqulunqwe ngu Umgxeki wefilimu uNathan Rabin , isetyenziswe kaninzi ukubonisa ukungafani okwahlukileyo kokugqibela:… engenanto kwaphela yangaphakathi ebonakalayo . Yhu.
Ndididekile kwaye ndicaphukile, ndaphazamisa ingqondo yam, ndizama ukufumana ubungqina bobomi bangaphakathi baba bantu ndibathandayo kwaye, ngenxa yendlela endijonge ngayo kubo, nam ngokwam. Nantsi into endigqibile kuyo emva kokukhangela umphefumlo: Akunakwenzeka ukuba bangabinabomi bangaphakathi kuba akunakwenzeka ukuba umntu angabinabomi bangaphakathi. Ngapha koko, iphi eMhlabeni enye indawo apho i-MPDG yeklasikhi inokuhlekisa ngokuhlekisa kunye nokujonga ngamehlo? UClementine wathi kungcono xa wayefuna ukuba uJoel angamjiki abe ngumbono wosindiso lwakhe.
UJoel noClementine kwi Ukuqaqamba ngaphakathi kwengqondo engenachaphaza. (umfanekiso: Iimpawu zoJoliso)
Ke ayisiyiyo i-MPDG ngokwayo enengxaki, kodwa isigxeko sokuzimela kwakhe kwasekuqaleni. Ngo-2014, uRabin wapapasha uxolo Igumbi yokuhlala, Ukuveza injongo yakhe yokugxeka abalinganiswa bamaphupha abhaliweyo, kunye nokuqonda kwakhe malunga nokuba kutheni kwaye kutheni eli gama lingalawuleki:
I-archetype yomthandi wobomi okhululekileyo okonwabisa isaka elibuhlungu lendoda lalikhona kwinkcubeko kangangexesha elide. Kodwa ngokunika uluvo igama kunye nenkcazo engacacanga, kuyabonakala ukuba uyayinika namandla. Kwaye kwimeko yam, loo mandla aphume kulawulo.
Emva kokucingisisa ngakumbi, ndiye ndayiqonda impazamo yam yoqobo: bendidibanisa igama le-manic pixie yamantombazana ephupha kunye nezichazi ezizodwa okanye ezi-quirky okanye ze-offbeat. Kwinqaku lakhe lokuxolisa, uRabin usola i-intanethi ngokudideka kunye nokutshintsha kwekota MPDG, evakalayo.
Kungaphezulu kwe-cliché, okwangoku, ukubonisa ubuqhetseba kwi-intanethi yokwenza kanye loo nto, kodwa umbuzo wendlela eli gama lahluka kakhulu ngayo, ubuncinci, inempendulo elula. Ngokukhawuleza yaba sisixhobo sokuhlekisa ngabafazi ababeneempawu ezithile zobuntu phantsi kokugxekwa kwezobugcisa, endaweni yendlela yokugxeka ukubhala ngokwesini.
Ngoku sishiywe ngomnye umbuzo: Siwucacisa njani umahluko phakathi kwento ebhalwe kakubi kunye nengabhalwanga? Ngelixa kunokubonakala ngathi kubizelwe apha, andinguye umlandeli omkhulu woluhlu lokudweliswa kwee-MPDGs ukuze zikwazi ukuzithelekisa nokuziphosa omnye komnye ukumisela ukuba yeyiphi ebhalwe kakuhle, nangona Uluhlu olunjalo lukhona .
Ekuxoliseni kukaRabin, umahluko ulele koko kunciphisayo nokuzithoba. Ubhala athi, Yeyona archetype, ndiye ndaqonda, ukuba ucofa into ethile eyintelekelelo eyindoda: yokuba usindiswe kuxinzelelo kunye ne-ennui ngumfazi ocingelayo ongena ngaphakathi njengomoya obengezelayo ukuze akusindise kuwe, emva koko anyamalale nje ukuba umsebenzi wakhe ugqityiwe.
U-Kirsten Dunst njengo-Claire, owathi igama le-MPDG laqala ukuchazwa, kwi Elizabethtown. (umfanekiso: Imifanekiso ePhakamileyo)
Enye indlela yokuyila lo mbono wokubhala okungalunganga ngokubhekisele kwintombazana ephuphileyo (okanye nawuphi na umlinganiswa ophuphayo) kukuba abaphulaphuli bavezwe kuphela kwinkalo enye (okt amandla abo okuvuselela umlinganiswa ophambili). Nangona enokuba namacala aliqela, ibali le-MPDG lixelwa ngamehlo endoda, kwaye indoda engenamandla okucinga ukuba bunjani ubomi kwabo bangafaniyo naye (funda: uvelwano) kwizixhobo zakhe ngelo xesha.
Ukukhulula i-MPDG yoqwalaselo, sinokuzibuza ukuba kutheni le nto indoda eyintloko inembono engaginyisi mathe ngehlabathi, kwaye loluphi uhlobo loluntu olujolise ekumeleni.
Xa ujonga indlela yokuqhubela phambili ne-MPDG, umnxeba wokucinywa kwekota ubonakala ngathi awunangqondo, unikwe ukudityaniswa kwayo konke kwinkcubeko ye pop. URabin wabhala uxoliso malunga neminyaka emihlanu edlulileyo, kodwa elixesha libonakala ngathi liza kuhlala likhona.
Ngaphandle kwesicelo sakhe sokusikhawulela ngokupheleleyo (ndingavuya ukuba icinywe kwintetho kawonke-wonke. Ndingaqhwabela izandla ukuphela kwamanqaku malunga neemvume zawo ezininzi ezingafaniyo.), Singacinga ukuyibuyisa kwakhona. Mna, ndedwa, ndiyalithanda eli gama, kunye nemeko yesazisi endandibonelela ngayo kwiminyaka yam yokufikisa. Ukulungisa umonakalo othile, mhlawumbi sinokulichaza kwakhona ixesha kunye ne-anti-sexist (kunye nokubhala okungalunganga!).
Kulungile ukuba yintombazana ephuphayo ephuphayo. Kuvumeleke ngokupheleleyo ukuba ube mnandi, ubenomtsalane, ubukrwada, ubukrelekrele, ubuqili kwaye uyathandeka, konke ngelixa kuthandana kunye nokunqweneleka ngokwesondo. Kuyenzeka kakhulu ukuba ubonakalise le archetype ngendlela esempilweni.
Umboniso Intombazana eNtsha , ebaleke ukusukela ngo-2011 ukuya ku-2018, inika enye yezona zinto zigqibeleleyo ze-MPDG archetype, apho i-MPDG uqobo ingumlinganiswa ophambili, enenjongo ecacileyo kunye nobomi bangaphakathi. Usuku lukaJessica, oludlalwe ngu icon ye-manic pixie iphupha icon Zooey Deschanel , ikhuthaza kwaye igcina ubudlelwane bokwabelana ngesondo kunye nabo bahlala nabo abangamadoda kumaxesha abo asixhenxe kunye.
Inkqubo ye- Intombazana eNtsha cast. (umfanekiso: Fox)
Nditsho nesiqendu sokuqala, esibeka ithoni esuk 'entliziyweni kulo lonke umboniso, sibonisa uJess encedisa ukujija, umhlobo omtsha / umntu ahlala naye uNick ufumana isibindi sokufikelela kwi-ex yakhe, kwaye naye abuyise ukuthanda ngokukhokela bonke abantu abahlala noJess Uhambo lokumhlangula ekuphakameni . Kanye njengoko bayame ngaye, uyakwazi ukuthembela kubo. Izibophelelo uJess akwazi ukuququzelela bubungqina bokuba ezona ntombazana zintle kakhulu kunye namantombaza amaphupha angawubaleka umgibe wokuba asoloko ekubonelela ngenkxaso, kwaye ungaze uyifumane.
Ukuphanda ityala lendima yephupha le-manic pixie, umbono wokunciphisa izinto kwindlela ezibonakala ngayo uza (jonga ukuba ungavakala na ngezimvo zikaDerrida malunga metaphysics yobukho kunye noxinzelelo lwaseNtshona kwinkangeleko). Kulula kakhulu ukunciphisa umlinganiswa kwinto ebonakala ngathi xa sibabona kwiscreen, kodwa kutheni le nto singacingi ngobomi babo ngaphandle kwale meko? Ngokuqinisekileyo zikhona naxa singenako ukuzibona. Ngokuqinisekileyo intombazana ephuphayo ye-manic pixie inobomi bangaphakathi, nokuba ngoku asijonganga ibali lakhe-ingxaki kuphela kukuba kufanelekile ukuba siyibone ngakumbi!
Nokuba uphantsi kwengcinga yokuba umlinganiswa akanabomi bangaphakathi, kutheni singenako ukuzichonga naye? Ngamanye amaxesha siyabuthanda ubugcisa hayi kuba bunzulu, kodwa ngenxa yokuba buyinto entle kwaye bumnandi. Ngubani oza kuthi abanye banakho kwaye bangabinakho ukuphinda bahlangane nabo, ngakumbi abo bahlala betshintshiselwa kukuma kweendaba? Njengoko le manic pixie yamantombazana ephupha i-fiasco ingqinisile, olu hlobo lwamapolisa luhlala luphela ngokwenzakalisa abo bebefanele ukunceda.
Ngethemba, igama elithi manic pixie ephupheni intombazana inokuphinda ibuye kuthi kuthi abo balingana ne-zany, ibhili enomdla, kuthetha ukuba nabani na ongenguye umntu we-cis, onobomi bangaphakathi osisityebi kangangokuba banakho ukuguqula ubomi babo bonke ukuhlangabezana okungcono-kunye nemida esempilweni endaweni, kunjalo!
(umfanekiso obonisiweyo: Fox)
UJadah Steward ngumbhali, umzobi, kwaye ujikeleze umntu onobuzaza ohlala kwindawo ethile kufutshane noNxweme oluseMpuma eMntla Melika.
Ngaba ufuna amanye amabali anje? Yiba ngumbhalisi kwaye uxhase indawo!
-UMary Sue unemigaqo-nkqubo engqongqo yokuphawula engavumiyo, kodwa ayikhawulelwanga, ukuthukwa nabani na , Intiyo nentetho egonyamelayo. —
