I-Pop Culture Detective ilula kwi-Top 5 yam i-intanethi ye-essayists. Ayizizo iividiyo zakhe kuphela ezenziwe kakuhle kwaye inolwazi, kodwa ulunge ngokwenyani ngokubiza isini kunye nokuziphatha gwenxa kwimithombo yeendaba. Nangona kunjalo, ngalo lonke ixesha unamabali ajongana nokungaziphathi kakuhle ayilothuba elilungileyo lokuyibiza emadodeni, kodwa ikwanokubonisa ngokwakho indlela esizenze ngayo izinto ngaphakathi. Uyazi okanye uyazi.
Ividiyo kunzima ukuyibukela ngamanye amaxesha, kuba ibonisa ukuba zixhaphake kangakanani ezi trophi zokuxhatshazwa kunye nokuxhwilwa kumajelo eendaba. Ukucinga nje ngayo ngelixa ndibukele ividiyo, ndikhumbule imizekelo emininzi apho indoda ibamba umfazi okanye inyanzelise kuye ngomsindo.
Xa ndandibukele Umke nogquthe okokuqala, ndiyakhumbula ndothuke kakhulu ngumlingiswa kaClark Gable, uRhett, udlwengula uScarlett O'Hara kwaye kubonakala ngathi umlo wabo wawungaphambili. Nokuba ku Isithuthi esinegama lesitrato Amandla ezesondo kaStanley onke asongelwe kwimeko yakhe yokuhlukumeza; ayincedi ukuba kulungelelwaniso lwemovie uMarlon Brando umanzi okanye ugqunywe ngeoyile phantse kuwo wonke umboniso.
Sifundisiwe ukuba singxengxeze kwiindlela ezithile zokuziphatha ngokuthimba, ngakumbi ukuba kukho umntu olibhinqa owomeleleyo odlalayo, kuba simbona eqinile kwaye eyomelele njengophawu lwamandla akhe. Ke ngoko isigqibo sakhe sokuthanda indoda ephethe gadalala siphathwa njengesishwankathelo sokuba angabi mbi ngoba ukuba wayengumntu ombi, ngekhe amkhathalele.
Nangona kunjalo, njengoko uMcIntosh esitsho, olo hlobo lokuziphatha lubeka lonke uxanduva lokuziphatha kakuhle kwabasetyhini kwaye akukho namnye kumadoda enza izinto ezimbi.
Amagqabantshintshi anoluvo ashiyekileyo kwi-YouTube. Ukwabelana apha kuba sisihlomelo esibalulekileyo kwisincoko sam sevidiyo kwi-Abduction njenge-Romance trope. pic.twitter.com/a4TXoa3O7D
-UJonathan McIntosh (@radicalbytes) Isilimela 21, 2018
Zizi trope ezinje ngezi, kunye nezinye ezininzi, ukuba ixesha elide zindigcinile ekufundeni ezothando okanye ukonwabela ukuthandana njengohlobo olungaphaya kweeklasikhi ezamkelwe ngokwenkcubeko. Yeyiphi engalunganga kuba bendifunda kakhulu ezothando ezimangalisayo (zangoku, ezembali, ezentelekelelo, i-YA, njl.
Isindululo, iKota Quotient, kwaye I-Wilde kakhulu ukuya ku-Wed ndibenamava amnandi kum kuba bendivumele ukuba ndenze ngokungathi uthando alunakuba yinto efundwayo yamaKatholika. Ibali lothando olukhulu yinto enamandla, yiyo loo nto ndimthanda kakhulu uJane Austen. Ababhali bale mihla bezothando ngoku bafumanisa iindlela zokwenza imvumelwano yesini.
Ndothuswa ngabantu abandinyathela nge-BUT CONSENT BAYA KWENZA UBOMI BUNGABONI.
Ukuba utyhafile ngendlela yokuvuma, ukuvuma ngomlomo kunokwenza isondo ngesini, nantsi ifana, enye yezigidigidi zemizekelo endinokucinga ngayo. pic.twitter.com/YJO1G5UvZD
-Alisha Rai (@AlishaRai) NgoJanuwari 15, 2018
Oko akuthethi ukuba uhlobo lwe-hyper-masculine, uhlobo lokuhlukumeza lumkile kwezothando kwaye ndiyakwazi ukubona ukuba lo mlinganiswa unjani, ngeendlela ezininzi, ukujika kwabanye abantu. Thina konke ndineenqanawa ezinengxaki esizonwabelayo. Kutshanje ndiye emtshatweni apho undwendwe kunye nam sabelana ngovuyo kwinto esiyithumele ngokufanayo Imidlalo yeethrone isibini. Sasiqonda, ngaphandle kwamagama, ukuba sele sichithe ixesha silungisa into eyingxaki ngayo, ke sinokonwabela ukuthetha ngezizathu yenza yithande.
Ababhali bezothando bayazi, bazi ngaphezu koninzi , malunga nemiba yemvume:
Enye yezinto endizifundisayo ezincwadini zam yindlela amadoda afanele abaphathe ngayo abantu basetyhini, kuba uninzi lwabantu alunamkhondo, utshilo uLindsay McKenna IVeki yoMpapashi yeVeki . Emva phaya ngeminyaka yoo-1980 kwakumalunga nendoda eyongamileyo kwaye owesifazana wayengoyena mntu ubalaseleyo, eyibiza ngokuba luthando. Olu ayilo thando, ndiyaxolisa. Imbi lonto.
Ngoku ka PW , Umshicileli we-LGBTQ u-Riptide, umzekelo, utshintshe imigaqo-nkqubo yabo emininzi ukwenza umxholo wabo uvume-phambili. Umhleli womhleli uSarah Lyons uthe: Besingafuni igama njengendlu yokupapasha eya kupapasha iindaba ezimangalisayo, ezimnyama, ezoyikisayo, ezinengxaki. Izikhokelo zethu zabahleli zichazwe ngokuthe ngqo malunga nemvume.
Okwangoku, isekhona indawo yokuphonononga imincili kunye nemincili ngaphakathi kwezothando, uninzi lwababhali abathandanayo abathi uhlobo olo luvumelekile ngenxa yokuphakathi. Inqaku likhankanya incwadi ebizwa Ukuyicela apho ibhinqa eliselula liphonononga iminqweno yakhe yokudlwengulwa ngokudlala indima, ngegama elikhuselekileyo kwaye incwadi ngokucacileyo ithatha iintlungu ezinkulu ukuyenza icace into yokuba kukho umgca phakathi kwentsomi nokoyika isoyikiso sokwenyani.
Yinto le umlinganiswa ophambili anqwenela ukuyiphila, kwaye ujonge indoda enokuthi izalisekise loo fantasy, utshilo uCindy Hwang Ukuyicela Inxalenye yomdlalo webali odlala indima. Kodwa inqaku elipheleleyo lencwadi yimvume.
Inyani yile yokuba iinoveli zothando, ezibhalwe ikakhulu kwaye ifundwa ngabafazi , kuko konke okuhle nokubi ngaphakathi kwabo, abafazi bangaphambili kwiziko. Sichitha uninzi lwebali ezintlokweni zabo, sifunde iminqweno yabo kwaye sivelana nabo. Ke naxa sijongana nobudlelwane obuneengxaki, ubuncinci siyazi ngobume babo bengqondo (nokuba asiyiqondi).
Kwakhona, ngamanye amaxesha siyindlela nje, indlela Kunzima kakhulu kwinto enanditshwa ngabafazi. Ndingaba namathambo am ndikhethe ngawo Ukugxekwa , kodwa inento yokwenza nendlela abayisebenzisa ngayo imbali kunye nenyani yokuba banokhokelo olukhulu lwabasetyhini njengoClaire, ukuhlela uhlobo lokuhambisa ngesandla onke amaxesha abo omyalezo. Kubalulekile ukuba ungahlazi abafazi ngokuthanda ukuthandana. Singazigxeka iitrope kunye nezinto ezimbi ngaphandle kokwenza izigqibo zokuziphatha.
Iinoveli zothando ziqinisekisa ukonwaba emva koko, kwaye kwihlabathi apho kukho izinto ezininzi ezoyikisayo, kulungile ukuthatha incwadi kwaye wazi into entle eza kwenzeka ekugqibeleni.
Ngelixa ukuthwalwa njengokuthandana kwiifilimu kusenzeka, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba kwezinye iintlobo ezikhokelwa ngabasetyhini, ayisiyiyo le ngxoxo kuphela, kodwa ezo trophi ziyafa. Ke mhlawumbi lixesha lokubeka ukuthanda kwakho ecaleni kwaye uthathe inoveli yothando. Ukuphela kokonwaba kuqinisekisiwe.
(nge-YouTube, umfanekiso: MGM)
