Ukuba sisingeniso kuhlala kuboniswa kwimithombo yeendaba njengesiqhelo, kumnandi, kunye nomqondiso wobukrelekrele obunzulu, kodwa yintoni ebonisiweyo (haha) kakuhle kwingqokelela kaDebbie Tung yemigca yamahlaya kukuba ukwazisa kwakhona malunga nokwenza amaxhala emihla ngemihla aqhubeka ngaphakathi kwentloko yakho.
Inxalenye yeevignettes ezihlekisayo kunye nenxalenye yokuza kwebali lobudala, Intombazana ethuleyo kusithatha kubomi bemihla ngemihla kaDebbie njengomfundi kwikholeji kwilizwe lakhe labantu abadala. Ukungeniswa kukaDebbie kuthatha iifom ngeendlela ngeendlela ngenxa yovalo olujikeleze ukudibana nabantu abatsha, ukungakwazi ukuzithethela, kunye nokuzithemba okuzibethekisayo okuhlala kubhukuda ngaphakathi kwentloko yakhe. Nangona kunjalo, isitayile esichazayo kodwa esilula somzekeliso asisoze senza ukuba ibali libe mfiliba ngokugqithiseleyo. Nyaniseka kabuhlungu. Njengomntwana omncinci owayengenise kakhulu enye yezinto endizikhumbulayo zokufaka ngaphakathi kakhulu ngabantu abadala bendixelela ukuba kukho into engalunganga ngento yokuba ndifuna ukufunda nje iincwadi kwaye ndindodwa ngamanye amaxesha. Ukuxelelwa ukuba uthule kakhulu kwaye kufuneka uphume kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela ngokungathi wonke umntu uhlala kwinqanaba elifanayo.
Kodwa ayisiyiyo yonke into emnyama, kulo lonke ibali, umyeni kaTung uJason ubonelela ngolungelelwano olumnandi kwimikhwa yakhe kunye nobumnandi bobudlelwane babo bubonisa ukuba eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuqonda. Ukuqonda ukuba abanye abantu banentambo ngokwahlukileyo kwaye abaziva ukuba kufuneka banxibelelane ngokungapheliyo okanye baphume ngalo lonke ixesha. Kukho abo bafuna ukuzisonga ngencwadi entle kunye nekomityi yeti kwaye kulungile. Intombazana ethuleyo ngeendlela ezininzi indlela kaTung yokuzixelela ngayo, kunye nehlabathi, ukuba kulungile ukuba ungabi libhabhathane ekuhlaleni. Ndonwabile ukuba isisombululo sokugqibela asikokutshintsha ukuba ungubani ukuze ulunge ngakumbi kuluntu. Kukho ukulungelelaniswa okwenziweyo kwaye kubalulekile ukuxhoma ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa ingxelo ayizange izame ukuhlazisa okanye ukwenza abantu abangenayo ukuba bazive ngathi banako ukwaneliseka ngokwabo kuyafana nokuzihlukanisa. Olunye nje uhlobo lwenkululeko.
Intombazana ethuleyo zombini umnxeba obalaseleyo kwiingalo zamanye ama-introverts ukufumana ilizwi labo ngendlela ebonakalisa iimfuno zabo kunye nesixhobo esihle kwabo banomdla wokuqonda ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni ezingqondweni zezalamane zabo ezithambileyo. Ingumsebenzi osuka entliziyweni kwaye ohlekisayo odibanisa ezona ntlobo zibalaseleyo zezixhobo zokubalisa amabali ukubalisa ibali malunga nokufumana ilizwi lakho ngendlela yakho.
Intombazana ethuleyo kwilizwe elinengxolo; Ibali le-Introvert Ngu-Debbie Tung uya kukhutshwa ngo-Novemba 7, 2017.
Iikhathuni zikaDebbie kunye nobunye ubugcisa bunokufumaneka kwi-Intanethi kwi-whoismybubble.tumblr.com.
(umfanekiso: Andrews McMeel Publishing)
-UMary Sue unomgaqo-nkqubo ongqongqo ongavumiyo, kodwa ungaphelelanga apho, ukuthukwa kwabantu nabani na , Intiyo nentetho egonyamelayo. —
