Wamkelekile kuthotho lwethu lwezengqondo lwabasetyhini, apho uGqirha uJanina Scarlet athetha nathi ngengqondo yabalinganiswa bethu ababathandayo. Jonga amanye amangeniso kwiPsychology yoKhuthazo lwabafazi uthotho: Isaqhwithi, Kanye , UCarol noMichonne , Buffy, Katniss, kunye ICanary emnyama .
Nceda uqaphele abonakalisi beGrimm bayalandela.
UJuliette Silverton (odlalwa nguBitsie Tulloch) ekuqaleni wayeliqabane lothando kuNick Burkhardt, umlingiswa ophambili kuthotho kunye noGrimm. Umsebenzi weGrimm kukulwa kunye nokutshabalalisa i-Wesen, abantu nabo (ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elithile) babumba abatshintshi, bebavumela ukuba babe namandla akhethekileyo.
Ubuntu bakho
Kumaxesha amabini okuqala omboniso, uJuliette wayengazi ukuba isoka lakhe liGrimm, kwaye wayengazi ngeWesen. Ugqirha wezilwanyana ozolileyo, odidiyelweyo, kwaye okrelekrele kakhulu, uJuliette uhlala ekulungele ukunceda uNick nabahlobo bakhe. Ubeka ubomi bakhe emgceni ngelinye ixesha xa omnye wabahlobo bakhe ezama ukuphuma emtshatweni onogonyamelo.
Imbali ebuhlungu
Kuyo yonke le minyaka, uJuliette ubeke ubomi bakhe emngciphekweni, okanye wabekwa emngciphekweni ngenxa yobudlelwane bakhe noGrimm amaxesha amaninzi. Kwixesha lokuqala kuphela - ukongeza ekuphakameni rhoqo, ukuxhwilwa, nokubotshwa - kuthunyelwa isiqaqa, ngenxa yempela embi ngu-Adalind Schade (Hexenbiest, okanye igqwirha kunye notshaba olubi lukaNick).
U-Adalind wasebenzisa isikhundla sikaJuliette njengogqirha wezilwanyana ukuze afike kuye. Wazisa ikati enetyhefu phantsi kweenzipho zakhe kwaye wayisebenzisa njengethuba lokuhambisa ityhefu kuJuliette, emthumela kwi-coma.
Umhlobo kaNick, uRosalee, ufumana indlela yokuvuselela uJuliette kwaye ambuyise ngaphandle kwe-coma - umenzi we-Nick, uSean Renard, ofuna ukuhambisa kuJuliette. Ngelishwa i-potion inefuthe elibonakalayo elibalulekileyo-lenza ukuba uJuliette noSean bashushu ngokwenene ngelixa besenza uJuliette alibale uNick.
Ukuze abuyisele iinkumbulo zakhe ngoNick kwaye ayeke ukuthanda kwakhe izinto kunye noSean, uJuliette uyavuma ukuqala isithethe sokuphilisa, esikhokelela ekubeni abe nemibono eyoyikisayo kunye noxinzelelo oluninzi.
Nje ukuba uJuliette abuyise iinkumbulo zakhe, uye othuke xa efunda malunga nehlabathi le-Wesen kunye nezinto ezenziwa nguNick njengeGrimm. Uqhubeka ngokubeka ubomi bakhe emngciphekweni wokunceda uNick kunye nabahlobo bakhe, ngakumbi xa uCracher-Mortel Wesen efika ePortland, esenza izixeko isixeko.
Nje ukuba uJuliette abuyise inkumbulo yakhe, ungene kwi-100% kuyo. Unceda iqela leGrimm nokuba linakho. Nangona kunjalo, umonde wakhe (kuyaqondakala) uyaphela xa uAdalind eziphatha ukuze abukeke njengoJuliette kwaye walala noNick. UJuliette ukhathazekile kwaye unomsindo kubo bobabini uNick noAdalind, nangona uNick wayengazi ukuba umfazi awayelele naye wayengenguye uJuliette. Ngenxa yobungakanani bengozi yena noNick (kunye nabanye abahlobo babo) ababekwe kuyo, uJuliette unqwenela ukuba uNick abe yinto eqhelekileyo. Umnqweno wakhe uphelela ekuzalisekeni emtshatweni kaMonroe kunye noRosalee xa uNick eqonda ukuba woyike amandla akhe eGrimm.
UJuliette unethuba lokuba nobomi obuqhelekileyo kwakhona - ukuqala kwakhona nesoka lakhe, kude nobomi beGrimm-Wesen. Nangona kunjalo, ngokubona indlela alusizi ngayo engenguye uGrimm, edibene noMonroe ebanjiwe kwaye waphantse wabulawa yi-Wesenrein (iqela lamaNazi elinjengamaNazi aphikisana nomtshato wama-Wesen), uyavuma ukunceda uNick ukuba abuyise amandla akhe. Oku kukuzincama okukhulu njengoko enika ithuba elinye kuhlobo lobomi boxolo awayehlala efuna. Ukwenza izinto zibe zibi nangakumbi, ukuze ancede uNick abuyise amandla akhe, uJuliette kufuneka ajike abe ngu-Adalind kwaye alale naye. Oku kumele ukuba kwakubuhlungu - ukujika kuye oyena mntu amthiye kakhulu, lowo waphantse wambulala, lowo walala nesoka lakhe, onoxanduva lwayo yonke into eyakhe yonakala ebomini bukaJuliette. Ukanti, uJuliette uyavuma ukuyenza, ngeendleko zakhe kwaye akathethi kakhulu kwabanye xa eqala ukuba nentloko eyoyikisayo emva kotshintsho.
Inguquko kaJuliette
Kwakungekho okwethutyana emva kotshintsho apho uJuliette aqala khona ukuqonda ukuba uye waba yiHexenbiest. Woyike kakhulu ukuba angathetha nantoni na kwaye azame ukuba lapho kubahlobo bakhe abazama ukuhlangula uMonroe ekubanjweni yi-Wesenrein, uJuliette uyedwa ukujongana notshintsho. Xa engasakwazi ukuyiphatha kwakhona, ekugqibeleni uJuliette utyhila ingxaki yakhe kuSean, ozama ukumfumanela uncedo komnye uHexenbiest, uHenetta. Nokuba uzama kangakanani na, uJuliette akakwazi ukuyiguqula imeko yakhe kwaye uxelelwa ukuba iya kuhlala isigxina. UJuliette ekuqaleni woyika kakhulu ukuxelela uNick kuba esoyika ukuba uza kumbulala ngenxa yokuba iGrimms kunye neHexenbristi ziintshaba ezifungelweyo. Xa ekugqibeleni ezityand 'igila kuNick, usabela ngokoyika kwaye umshiye esiya kufuna iimpendulo. Kumele ukuba kwakusoyikisa kakhulu ukuba uJuliette axelele uNick inyani, kwaye makaphume phandle amshiye ngelixesha amdinga ukuba athumele umyalezo ocacileyo kuJuliette- Uligorha.
Isiprofeto esizimeleyo
Ukusukela ngelo xesha ukuya phambili uNick, iqabane lakhe, uHank, kunye nabahlobo babo, baphatha uJuliette njengesigebenga kwaye bayayithanda into efuna ukulungiswa, benza into ebizwa isiprofeto esizalisekisa. Isiprofeto esizalisekisayo sithetha ukuseta ulindelo kunye nokunyanga umntu ngokolu lindelo, kukhokelela ekwenzeni olo lindelo luzaliseke. Xa iqela liphatha uJuliette njengomntu okhohlakeleyo kwaye ngokusilelayo ukwamkela inguquko yakhe ngokusisigxina, uJuliette, ekuqaleni wayeziva engenathemba kwaye ekhathazekile, uphela esiba sesona silwanyana silindelwe ukuba sibe. Ubangela imeko kwindawo yebar yendawo, ehamba noCarrie kumfana ozama ukumbetha, aze abanjwe. Unomsindo kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba azive elahliwe kwaye agwetywe.
Ngelo xesha, ngokokuqala ngqa ebomini bakhe uJuliette uziva enamandla kwaye uyayonwabela. Umsindo, odibene nempindezelo, unokuziva ulungile njengoko uvuselela imvakalelo elungileyo emzimbeni, endorphins kwaye dopamine . Nangona kunjalo, ukwenza ezi mvakalelo kunokuba yingozi. UKenneth, inkosana evela eVienna, enikwe uxanduva lokufumana intombi ka-Adalind, ubonakala eyazi lento, nanjengoko ephuma ejele uJuliette. Emva koko umxelela ukuba u-Adalind ukhulelwe umntwana kaNick, emkhuthaza ukuba aziphindezele.
Uthukuthele, uJuliette ubonakala kwindawo leyo, efumana uNick no-Adalind bethetha epasejini. UNick uyala ukuvumela uJuliette ukuba enzakalise uAdalind, ethi uJuliette athethe ukuba ukhethe u-Adalind ngaphezulu kwakhe. UKenneth usebenzisa ingqumbo kaJuliette ukuze amphathe ukuze amncede abulale umama kaNick kwaye athimbe intombi ka-Adalind. UJuliette, ezele yintiyo ngoNick, abahlobo bakhe (kwaye kunokwenzeka kakhulu, yena), bakhohlisa uSean kwaye kamva noKenneth njengendlela yokubuyela kuNick.
Ingqondo yakhe yobuntu ibonakala ibuya njengoko ezibonakalisa ezisola ngokuncedisa ekubulaweni kukamama kaNick. Ubuyela endlwini kaNick aze axolise kwaye acele uNick ukuba ambulale. Xa engavumi, uyamangalela kuye, kuphela ukuba abulawe nguTrubel, omnye uGrimm.
Ngenxa yobungakanani bokwenzakala ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwengqondo uJuliette wabandezeleka ngaphandle kwenkxaso encinci, ayothusi into yokuba ukuguqukela ekubeni yiHexenbiest kube nefuthe elinje kuye. Ukuba ngumntu onentloko kwaye uzolile umntu ubomi bakhe bonke, icala lasendle lokuba yi-Wesen esandula ukuguqulwa, kunye ne-Hexenbiest kuloo nto, yayininzi ekufuneka iphethwe. Ukongeza, ukunqongophala kwenkxaso eyayifunyanwa nguJuliette emva kotshintsho, wonke umntu ephendula ngendlela eyoyikisayo endaweni yokuba nemfesane wammisela ukuba abe sesona silwanyana sisoyika wonke umntu.
Yintoni enokwenziwa ngokwahlukileyo?
Njengalo naliphi na ixhoba elisengozini, nokuba ligqala lemfazwe, osindileyo otshisayo, okanye umntu ophulukene nelungu lomzimba kwintlekele yendalo, uJuliette wayefuna imfesane kunye nenkxaso xa ejika. Abantu abaninzi abasindileyo banamava omsindo njengesixhobo sokuzikhusela. Kukho iindlela eziluncedo nezingancediyo zokuxhasa umntu ofana noJuliette otshintsha kakhulu
Yintoni engancediyo:
- Xa abantu benciphisa amava
- Xa abantu bethembisa ukuba izinto ziya kulungiswa
- Xa abantu bephatha ixhoba njengesiqhushumbisi sexesha okanye bahamba kwiigobolondo zamaqanda ezingqonge bona
- Xa abantu besebenzisa ibinzana ubuncinci, njengobuncinane usindile. Eli binzana, ngelixa kusenokwenzeka ukuba liyakhuthaza, ihlala ithumela umyalezo wokuba into eviwe lixhoba ayilunganga.
- Kukwanjalo nokujonga kwicala eliqaqambileyo, akukho cala liqaqambileyo kukonzakala.
- Ukuthetha ukuba umntu makaziva njani, njengoko kuwe kuya kufuneka ukuba ube nombulelo ngokuba nosapho lwakho.
- Ukuthi omnye umntu okanye abanye abantu babi kakhulu kunalowo uthumela umyalezo wokuba loo mntu uziva ngathi akulunganga.
- Kuxhomekeka kwintlungu, ngakumbi ukwenzakala emfazweni kunye nokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo, ixhoba lisenokungafuni kuchukunyiswa, ngakumbi oku kubandakanya ukwangana okungacelwanga. Kuyanceda ukubuza kuqala ngaphambi kokucinga ukuba kulungile ukuwola umntu
- Ukuphepha umntu
Yintoni eza kunceda abo basindayo
- Xa abantu bemamele, phulaphula ngenene, ngenkxalabo yokwenene
- Xa abantu bevuma ukuba abazi ukuba mabathini kodwa banqwenela ukunceda
- Xa abantu bezinikela ukunceda ngezinto ezinokuba nzima okwangoku, ezinje ngokutya, imisebenzi yasekhaya, njl.
- Xa abantu bebuza ukuba kulungile ukufowunela okanye ukuthumela umyalezo ukujonga umntu
- Ukubakho nje. Okuncinci kuninzi ngakumbi. Asinakukulungisa ukwenzakala kodwa sinokubakhona ngelixa umntu esaphola
- Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu - umonde kunye nemfesane. Abantu abathe batshintsha kakhulu, njengoJuliette, bazakuthatha ixesha ukuphola. Banokubonakala bebhetele ngolunye usuku kodwa bazive bexakeke ngokulandelayo. Wonke umntu uphilisa ngokwahlukileyo kwaye abanye abantu bathatha ixesha elide ukuphilisa. Akukho xesha limiselweyo lokunyanga.
Kunzima ukusho ukuba izinto ngeze zenzekile ukuba uNick nabahlobo bakhe babephatha uJuliette ngobubele, imfesane, kunye nokuqonda awayekufuna kakhulu. Ngekhe sazi ngaphandle kokuba ngandlel 'ithile ubuyile ebomini ngexesha lesi-5. Ndiyathemba ukuba singamkhumbula ngenxa yomlinganiswa / umntu omangalisayo awayekuye.
UGqirha Janina Scarlet yiNzululwazi yezeMpilo yoNyango, isazinzulu, kunye nexesha elipheleleyo. Usebenzisa i-Superhero Therapy ukunceda abaguli abanexhala, uxinzelelo, i-PTSD, kunye nentlungu engapheliyo yokuba zezona nguqulelo zibalaseleyo kubo kwaye babe ngamaqhawe abo. Unokufikeleleka nge Twitter @iqosweb , KuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/Shadow.Scarletl , okanye ngewebhusayithi yakhe www.superhero-therapy.com .
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