Ngamanqaku ajikelezayo anezihloko ezinje ngeMboniso bhanyabhanya engeyoGay, Iimpawu ezimangalisayo 2 Ngokuqinisekileyo yiGay, I-10 Ngokupheleleyo yeGay, iiMovie ezingezo-Gay zeMovie, kwaye ngokusisiseko naliphi na inqaku elibhalwe malunga ne-2002 yokuphakamisa amandla e-BFF yamantombazana, Yigobe njengeBekkham , kubonakala ngathi, kwenye indawo, kukho into ephakamise amehlo kule ilace-ngqo iifilimu. Kodwa yintoni eyenza abantu bababone ngolu hlobo? Ewe, ukuzonwabisa kuthanda IRizzoli kunye neIlles (2010-2016), Yigobe njengeBekkham (2002), UThelma noLouise (1991), nkqu Isibini esingaqhelekanga (1968, 1970-1975), athe asasazwa aza abekwa emfihlakalweni njengobuhlobo obufihlakeleyo bobufanasini, zonke zinento efanayo: zonke zisembindini wobuhlobo.
Ngoku, sonke masibe nakho ukuvuma ukuba akukho nto iyisitabane, okanye ethe tye, malunga nenkcazo yobuhlobo, kodwa ngokuchwetheza imigaqo yesini enentloko (kunye nokusilela kobudlelwane obusisigxina kumajelo eendaba), isini saba yinto exakayo kobu buhlobo. Umbutho othuthuzelwayo (ngakumbi ukubanjiswa) zezi bhokisi zebhokisi zimnyama nezimhlophe zinefuthe kwindlela abantu ababujonga ngayo ubuhlobo, esinokuthi sibubone kwindlela abatolika ngayo ukuzonwabisa.
Ukurhola izikali zobufazi kunye nobudoda
IRizzoli kunye neIles (umfanekiso: TNT)
Abalinganiswa phakathi kobuhlobo obujongwa njengenye into bathambekele ekubeni bacele umngeni kwimilinganiselo yesini ngokwendlela yokulingana phakathi kweenkcazo zesiko lobufazi kunye nobudoda. Abalinganiswa ababhinqileyo, umzekelo, bahlala bebandakanya amandla endoda ngaphakathi kweengubo zabo zokunxiba, indlela yabo yokuziphatha, nakwimeko ye-TV ka-2010. IRizzoli kunye neIlles Umzekelo, imisebenzi yabo.
Zombini ezivakalisayo zikaJane Rizzoli (u-Angie Harmon) kunye no-Dr Maura Isles (Sasha Alexander) o-Sauce Alexander zii-badass ezinemisebenzi yamadoda kwicandelo lezomthetho, u-Rizzoli ungumcuphi wamapolisa kwaye i-Isles ingumhloli wezonyango. Aba bafazi ngabantu abanzima abangoyikiyo amandla abo. Umbhalo woluhlu udibene neziqhulo ezithi zihlekise nge-chauvinism yamadoda ejolise kwabasetyhini kwicandelo lezomthetho, elihlala lifumana ingxelo ehlekisayo evela eRizzoli.
Izikhokelo 'ezingapheliyo, ezokungqubana nokudlala, ezixutywe nokunyaniseka okungagungqiyo komnye nomnye, abaphulaphuli abasekhohlo (ngakumbi ababukeli be-LGBTQ + ababhinqileyo) bathakathiwe ngabachasi batsala uhlobo lwe chemistry. Nangona bengazange bayifumane, ishiye abalandeli benqwenela into engaphaya kobuhlobo beplato.
Kukho ke Yigobe njengeBekkham , ethi yenza nomlinganiswa ophambili uJess '(Parminder Nagra) abe yindoda, iimpawu zokuba yincopho xa usapho lwakowabo lwaseIndiya (ugxininiso kwimveli) lungavumi uthando lwayo lwebhola ekhatywayo, benqwenela ukuba babeyinto entle uthixokazi wasekhaya , ngokuthetha. Yintoni enkulu malunga Yigobe njengeBekkham Ithoni kukuba akukho nanye indlela enomdla wokuhlekisa ngexabiso losapho lakwaJess, kodwa kunoko, isebenzisa imvelaphi kaJess njenge-satirical drive. Ngokusebenzisa uhlobo oludlulelwe lixesha lokuba abafazi base-Asiya base-Asiya bangathandi ukuthatha uxanduva loomama, kunye nokukhula bengazi besebenzisa isimilo sabo sokuziphatha koomama, umnqweno kaJess wenkululeko yabasetyhini banamhlanje (nokuba ithatha nje uhlobo lokudlala ibhola) icace njemini.
Sikwanazo nezakudala UThelma noLouise , kunye nokuzimela kukaThelma (uGeena Davis) nokuzithemba nokungazithembi okunikwa kuye kulo lonke uhambo lwakhe lokuzifumanisa ngoncedo lwespunkier, umhlobo osenyongweni oyindoda, uLouise (uSusan Sarandon). Ngelixa kuhambo lwabo lwasendle, u-Thelma wagqibela ngokulahla umfazi wakhe oxineneyo, njengoko wayezikhulula kumyeni wakhe ombi, olawulayo. Ukuphela kwefilimu, bobabini uThelma noLouise, abaphantse bazenza njenge-lezzie Bonnie kunye noClyde duo, amandla amandulo ngokwesiko.
UThelma noLouise (umfanekiso: iMetro-Goldwyn-Mayer)
Yintoni enomdla kukuba akukho namnye wabalinganiswa ababhinqileyo, okanye amabali ngokwawo, axelelwe ngombono wesilisa, ongothusiyo xa ucinga ukuba amaqela abo okubhala aqukethe uninzi lwabasetyhini. La mandla angamabhinqa angaxolanga ngokungaqhelekanga ahlala enxulunyaniswa nabasetyhini abadiniweyo kodwa abathandanayo ababhinqileyo, ngokungathi i-androgyny kunye nobufazi abunakubakho ngaphandle kwengxoxo kunye nokubuzwa kukhetho lomntu wesini.
Ubutywala obunobutyhefu kunye nendoda ethuleyo yaseMelika, eyedwa
Ngokubhekisele kubalinganiswa abangamadoda, abanjengoOscar (uJack Klugman) noFeliks (Tony Randall) ovela kwiklasi yeTV Isibini esingaqhelekanga , sibona into eyahlukileyo. Ubuhlobo obuhlala buxhokonxwa kukukhanya, ukuphikisana nokuphikisana kunye nokuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo kokuxhomekeka komnye nomnye kwakha ubudlelwane obabuthathwa njengobufazi ngokugqithileyo kwii-70s. Ngaphandle kwento yokuba kwacaciswa ukuba la madoda aqhawule umtshato ayethe tye, emehlweni esihlwele, kwakukho into ekrokrisayo malunga namadoda amabini aphakathi anobuntu obahlukileyo azama ukugcina imali yesondlo kwindlu enye yaseManhattan.
Nguwo phantse Okuhlekisayo kukuba uThelma noLouise badinga iinwele ezirhabaxa kunye nemipu ukuze babonakale njengamafanasini, kodwa uOscar noFeliks banokubakho nje phantsi kophahla olunye ukuze bathathwe njengabantu abathandanayo abathandanayo abathandana nabathandana nabantu abahlala ezidolophini — ngaphandle nje kokuba ibalaselisa inkcazo emxinwa neyenzakalisayo yoluntu yokuba ukuba yindoda.
Imigangatho yentlalontle yaseMelika isibonisa ukuba ubuhlobo phakathi kwamadoda amabini kuthelekiswa nabafazi ababini bohluke kakhulu kubomi babantu abadala. Ngo-2018 i-NPR ipodcast, enesihloko esithi Indoda eyiLonely yaseMelika, ixoxa ngokungenakuphepheka okulusizi okuchaphazela abesilisa baseMelika: ubomi obomileyo, obunqabileyo.
Uluvo lokuba amadoda aseMelika abanjiswe ngothotho lwemithetho engachazwanga yile nto idala obu bungqingili bobudoda ngoku sibazi kakuhle, nokuba ingumxholo wesibhengezo esiphikisayo sikaGillette esothusa amadoda kwi-intanethi kulo Januwari uphelileyo. Ukunxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo namanye amadoda kuhlala kuthathwa njengobuthathaka (ubuthathaka buhlala bunxulunyaniswa nobufazi kwingqondo yobudoda obunetyhefu), okuthetha ukuba queerness. i-NPR ukhankanya ukuba unjingalwazi wezengqondo kwiYunivesithi yaseNew York uNiobe Way uthi indlela eya kolu lonwabo ibangelwa yimiyalezo yenkcubeko efunyanwa ngamakhwenkwe kwiminyaka yabo yokuqala yobomi.
Ukuya ku-2018 Psychology Namhlanje inqaku elinesihloko esithi Ngaba Amadoda afuna i-'BFF 'okanye uMhlobo oLungileyo Ngonaphakade? ngumcebisi onelayisensi kunye nonjingalwazi uSuzanne Degges-White, Ph.D. ikwaphazamisa ukuqiqa emva kobunzima bendoda obuhlobo bamadoda. I-Degges-White ikhredithi kubuchule babasetyhini bokwenza ubudlelwane obusondeleyo nabanye abantu basetyhini kwinkqubo enokwenzeka yemfuza yokuphila phakathi kwamaqela angazalananga, ebaluleke kakhulu xa abasetyhini bekulindelwe ukuba bashiye amakhaya abo baye kwezihlobo zabayeni babo, ababeliqela abasemzini.
Kodwa ekubeni amadoda engabuphuhlisanga obu buchule, imiqobo kubandakanya ukhuphiswano, iingcinga zesiko lendoda, kunye noloyiko lokubonwa njengobuthathaka, ubufazi, kunye / okanye isitabane ngendlela yokuba nobuhlobo obusondeleyo. Nangona izinto ziyaphucuka, uluntu luyaqhubeka ukuyiphinda le mithetho kunye neenkolelo zesintu zamadoda amaxesha ngamaxesha, njengoko kungumjikelo onzima owophulayo.
I-Gal pals 4ever: iziphumo zokwahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulwa ngengqondo
Abafazi, kwelinye icala, baneengxaki zabo zokunxibelelana (beshiya ecaleni intaba yezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ngokwesini zibathintele abasetyhini kwimbali). Umbutho sele uqhelile ukuba abantu basetyhini bathandane kakhulu ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo nabanye abantu basetyhini, ngelixa begcina isini sabo siyimfihlakalo.
Abasetyhini abangama-lesbians, i-bi, i-pan, i-queer, okanye nayiphi na into engachanekanga isenokuthi ibhalwe ngokuthe tye, ngakumbi ukuba ithathwa njengesiqhelo sabasetyhini. Ukujonga umlando wamanqwanqwa uKristen Stewart kunye nembali ehlekisayo yendlela amajelo eendaba amphethe ngayo, ukungachani kwakhe kwezesondo kukhokelele iintatheli ukuba zize nezinto ezintle umdla amabinzana okuchaza ukubonakala kwakhe okucacileyo kwabasetyhini. Imeyile yemihla ngemihla upapashe inqaku elihlekisayo ngo-2015 elinesihloko esithi Kristen Stewart ufumana ukuchukumiseka-ngokufihlakeleyo kunye no-gal-pal pal wakhe u-Alicia Cargile njengoko bebhiyozela iminyaka engama-25 yokuzalwa kweenkwenkwezi eCoachella.
… Yiyo yonke into ekufuneka siyithethile malunga naloo mess, kodwa thina Ngaba cacisa ukuba uStewart akazange ngokusemthethweni Phuma de kube lixesha lakhe elingalibalekiyo ngo-2017 NgoMgqibelo ebusuku monologue, apho ibhengeze ukuba ulifanasini.
(umfanekiso: NBC)
UStewart kuye kwafuneka ukuba aphumeze indlela yakhe yokuqinisekisa uluntu ukuba ebengathanga tye, ngelixa amalungu adlalwayo e-One Direction amalungu eHarry Styles kunye noLouis Tomlinson bengevanga ukuphela kobudlelwane bobuhlobo bukaLarry, njengoko amajelo eendaba kunye nabalandeli beqhubeka. Ukuvavanya ubuhlobo babo, abalandeli abanxaniweyo nokubhala amabali e-fanfiction anikezelwe kwi-duo enothando. Yonke le nto ide yanamanxeba kwisiqendu seHBO's samva nje Imincili .
Kwincwadi kaJoanie Erickson noJeanine Cogan ka-1999 I-Lesbians, iLevis, kunye neLipstick: Intsingiselo yobuhle kubomi bethu , baxoxa ngeseti engakhankanywanga yezikhokelo ezinxulumene nokwahlulwa ngokwentlalo kwabafazi. Babhale malunga nelebheli yabasetyhini abathandana nabasetyhini, okanye ngokuthe ngqo ukuba ngoobani abathandanayo abathandana nabantu abathandanayo abonwa njengabantu abathandanayo nabangatshatanga, kwaye abangothusiyo, abafumanekayo emadodeni.
U-Erickson no-Cogan baphinda bacaphula isini esithandanayo esithethe ngokuba kutheni abantu bethuthuzelwa zizimvo zelebhile kunye nokwahlulwa, kwaye oko kunxulumene nendlela esiqhubana ngayo namava ethu kwaye sifumanise iipateni. Ngaba ke nabani na kuthi unetyala ngokungacwangcisi ukumisela loo ntombazana ilukhuni, enxibe ibhulukhwe uJane Rizzoli yeyona nto iphambili? Okanye ngaba yimvelo nje yomntu ukucinga ngaloo ndlela ngokusekelwe kwinto esiyaziyo malunga noluntu? Ngombulelo, uluntu luhlala lutshintsha.
Ngaphandle koloyiko kwaye ngokungathandabuzekiyo
Siyabona ukuba inkcubeko yaseMelika endala ibonisa ukuba abantu basetyhini kufuneka banxibe ii-strap-ons zangempela ukuze ziqwalaselwe kunokwenzeka Ewe, ngelixa amadoda athi gqi ayakufumana ukuba sele beqinisekile wonke umntu.
Ngombulelo, umgangatho wokumelwa kwe-LGBTQ + ekugqibeleni uyabona ezinye ukukhula, ngemisebenzi eqhubekayo efana Usuku olunye ngexesha (ukusukela ngo-2017), Yintoni ekugcina uphila (2018), kunye Buza (ukusukela ngo-2018). Kungekudala kungasekho sidingo sokwakha ubudlelwane bezesini kwezolonwabo okanye ukuhlolisisa ubudlelwane bokwenyani konke konke, nangona izinto ezimbi kuluntu ngokuqinisekileyo ziya kuqhubeka zisenza njalo.
Ngomhla ngexesha (umfanekiso: Netflix)
Kumnandi njengokucinga Yigobe njengeBekkham UJess noJuliette (uKeira Knightley) njengesithandana esithandekayo, esithandana nabantu abathandana nabasetyhini, asizukutshintsha into eyabanjelwa igumbi lombhali ngo-2002. Olunye ulonwabo lwakutsha nje, olunjengefilimu eyoyikisayo kaColin Minihan Yintoni ekugcina uphila , kunye nomdlalo omtsha, onxilisayo weNetflix Unodoli waseRussia (okoko i-2019), umngeni ngokuqaqambileyo kuluntu olwahlulahlulayo ngokwesini sele uqhelile kuzo zombini ulwalamano lwaseburhulumenteni kunye nolungqalileyo.
Ukuphela kwento esinokuphela ngayo yile: Zisa utshintsho.
UBianca Piazza yifilimu geek kunye nombhali othe phithi ziifilimu ezimanyumnyezi, ukuphelisa okrelekrele, umxholo weLGBTQ +, kwaye ngenene nayiphi na i-indie flick eyenza ingxolo kuTwitter. I-Creepy-cute yimbonakalo yakhe yobuhle kwaye xa engadinisi umntu ngolwazi lwefilimu, kunokwenzeka ukuba uyamdina umntu ngolwazi ngemizi-mveliso yakhe. Uzama ukungazenzi kakhulu. Mnike oku kulandelayo kwi-Twitter apho kungekho mntu umameleyo kwizimvo zenkcubeko yakhe: @biancamiss_
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