Ngenyanga yokuziqhenya isondela esiphelweni, uLifehacker ukhuphe ividiyo ebonakalisa abantu abaxoxa ngokuza kunye nenkqubo yokuchonga njengengabhalwanga. Aba bantu baquka uNandi Kayyy, Dane Calabro, Divesh Brahmbhatt, no Kei Williams, bonke abasebenzisa izimelabizo zabo, kodwa bachaza ubuni babo besini ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ividiyo ichukumisa isini, isini, isazisi, kunye nomzabalazo wokuphuma njengongafaniyo.
Ngamafutshane, ukungazenzisi isini ligama elisetyenziselwa ukuchaza abanye abantu abanesimo sokubonisa isini esahlukileyo kulindelo oluqhelekileyo lobudoda nobufazi. Amagama afanayo afana nobungqingili besini, ubumanzi besini, ukungafaniyo, kunye nesini esahlukileyo sichaza ukubonwa kwesini esikho ngaphaya kwebhinari eyindoda / yabasetyhini.
Omnye umahluko obalulekileyo ngumahluko phakathi kwesini kunye nesini, iikhonsepthi ezimbini zihlala zisetyenziswa ngokungafaniyo. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngumsebenzi wezonyango owenziwe ngokuzalwa ngokusekwe kumzimba wangaphandle womntwana. Isini nangona kunjalo, yindlela oziva ngayo ngaphakathi, indlela oziva ngayo. Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nesini zahlukile ngokupheleleyo kwisini / kuqhelwaniso, emalunga nokuba ungubani (okanye awukho) ngokwesondo okanye kwezothando.
Ngaphandle kokuvunywa kwiinkcubeko nakumazwe onke, umxholo we Umahluko ngokwesini isaqondwa ngokubanzi kwaye iyagxothwa. Ngelixa ukwahluka kwesini bekukho kangangeenkulungwane, abantu abaninzi bayasokola ukunyuka nokuphonononga izazisi ngaphaya kwebhanari.
Kunzima ukuphuma kwinkqubo eye yaqiniswa njengelitye lembombo lobunikazi bethu ngaphambi kokuba sizalwe. Jonga nje ukunyuka kokuthandwa kwesini ukuveza amaqela, apho abazali kunye neentsapho zihlanganisene ndawonye ukusika ikhekhe okanye ukugcoba ipinata okanye tyumza ivatala emlonyeni weengwenya ukufumana ezo pink zihambelana neziphumo eziluhlaza.
Kodwa inkqubela phambili iyenzeka: ithi njenge-Oregon, Washington, New York kunye neCalifornia bapasile imithetho ukuqaphela ngokusemthethweni isini sesithathu, kunye nesini esahlukileyo abalinganiswa bavela kwinkcubeko edumileyo (enye yeefeksi zethu, USteven Universe , ufumana ukukhwaza kwividiyo).
Kwabanye abantu, isazisi sisigxina esihleliweyo, ngelixa abanye benamava esini njengamava olwelo noluguquguqukayo. Akukho mpendulo iphosakeleyo kwaye akukho ndlela iphosakeleyo yokuchonga: wonke umntu uhamba ngesantya sakhe. Ukuba ufuna ukufunda ngakumbi, jonga izixhobo ezinje IGLAAD , Oovimba be-Non-Binary Resource kwaye i Iprojekthi kaTrevor okanye fikelela kwiziko le-LGBTQ lendawo yakho.
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