Kukho into malunga nendima yenguqu yomzimba abagxeki bemiboniso bhanyabhanya kunye nababukeli abayithandayo. Mhlawumbi kukubona ubungqina bezinto zokuzinikezela kweqonga kwindima, amandla omenzi wokudibanisa kwindima ukuya kwinqanaba abangaziwa ngalo, okanye ukuvuma kwabantu abahle spellbindingly ukuba bajongeke kancinci. Nanini na xa umlingisi esenza utshintsho olukhulu kwindima yakhe, bahlala bedibana nemvula yokuncoma. Kodwa xa sithatha nje umzuzwana ukuba siqwalasele le patheni, yintoni kanye kanye le indumiso ifuna ukuba ithiwani malunga neenkwenkwezi ezingezizo ezomdlalo bhanyabhanya? Ngaba umntu onobunzima obuphakathi, okanye ngubani otyebe ngokugqithiseleyo, uziva xa esiva umdlali obizwa ngokuba unesibindi ngokujongeka njengabo?
Impendulo ithi: ayilunganga. Akukuhle ukubonisa ukuba umntu odumileyo unesibindi sokuzithoba ngokubeka ubunzima okanye ukuba neenwele ezinqabileyo okanye enye into. (Kukho enye incoko malunga nendlela ulwimi lwesibindi olusetyenziswa ngayo xa i-cisgender, yomelele, kunye nabalinganiswa besini esahlukileyo bethatha iindima hayi ezo zinto, kodwa siza kugxila ikakhulu kutshintsho olungathandekiyo apha.)
UCharlize Theron uthethe ngale nto kutshanje, ngendima yakhe njengoMarlo Tully. UTronon ubeke malunga neepawundi ezingama-50 kule ndima, njengoko uMarlo engumama wakutsha nje. Kwi-Q & A ekwabelwana ngayo ngu USA Namhlanje , Tully Umlawuli uDiablo Cody uthethe ngendlela ifilimu eyayililinge lokubonisa kwelinye icala lomama ongalawulekiyo… ongumama ophazamisekileyo kwaye ephantsi kwamanzi kangangokuba ngengozi wabetha isihlalo semoto eludongeni okanye wawisa ifowuni yakhe baby ngelixa etshintsha ilweyile. UCharlize Theron wabelane ukuba uvelana kakhulu nomzabalazo wokuba ngumama, kunye nembono yokuba ungaziva ungumzali ombi okanye ungaphantsi komfazi xa ujongene nale mingeni.
Kubonakala kungonwabanga, ke, abavavanyi bahlala ixesha eliqhelekileyo lokukhulelwa emva kokukhulelwa njengesenzo sobugorha. Inxalenye encomekayo nenomtsalane yokuzinikela kukaTheron kwindima, kodwa isibindi asililo igama elilungileyo apha. Ekufumaneni ubunzima bakhe, u-Theron uthe, Ndiyazi oomama abaninzi abaziva ngathi [crap] kuba kuthatha ixesha elide kwaye wonke umntu ulindele ukuba babuye. Mna ndizuza ubunzima kumdlalo bhanyabhanya - kunzima xa umntu othile enje, ‘Wowu, unesibindi nyani lo!’ Oomama benza oku lonke ixesha kwaye asibabizi ngesibindi. Sifana, 'Kutheni usaqhubeka nokuthwala ubunzima bomntwana?'
Tully ayiloxesha lokuqala ukuba u-Theron azuze olu hlobo lwendumiso ephosakeleyo, into eyenzekileyo edume kakhulu ngendima yakhe yokuphumelela i-Academy Award njengo-Aileen Wuornos ePatty Jenkin Isigebenga. Ukubonisa umbulali obulalayo, uTheron wazuza iiponti ezingama-30 kwaye wayenxibe amazinyo okufakelwa. Ukukhangela okukhawulezileyo kuphononongo lwangoku kubandakanya imigca efana bayenza kanjani isihogo indlela entle ngayo le ntombazana intle kangaka ?
Ngelixa kukho indumiso eqinisekileyo yokwenziwa kunye neziphumo zesebe ezikwaziyo ukwenza uguquko olukholisayo kunye nomdlali weqonga ohlala kwindima ebacelomngeni yokuba ngumntu ohlukileyo (owathi, konke kuyabamba ), ulwimi lobukroti lokuya ngaphakathi-phantsi ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka uthathe umhlala phantsi.
(nge Molo Giggles , umfanekiso: Iimpawu zoJoliso)
