Apha eMary Sue, unokucinga ukuba siyazi konke malunga nokuba kuthanda ntoni ukukhathazwa mihla le ngabantu abathi miiiiight banemicimbi yobuqu nabasetyhini ukuba bazihlelele ngokwabo. Ngokunjalo noLindy West, umgxeki wobufazi kunye nombhali wangaphambili wabasebenzi eIzebhele, onebali lakhe lakutshanje le-NPR Ubomi baseMelika ngumoya ophefumlelweyo womoya omtsha kuye nawuphina umntu owakha wamkelwa-okanye wathunyelwa-umyalezo onomsindo okanye ohluphayo kwi-Intanethi.
Sifakile sonke isiqendu esingezantsi, kodwa ukuba awukwazi ukumamela ngoku, nantsi ingongoma: Buyela ehlotyeni lowama-2013, xa iNtshona wayefumana izoyikiso rhoqo ngesikhundla sakhe kwindlela abahlekisi abangamadoda ekufuneka beze ngayo kumahlaya okudlwengula (isigwebo: abafanelekanga, ngaphandle kokuba bangenza ngononophelo), enye ye-troll yoyilo setha iakhawunti engeyonyani yeTwitter kutata wakhe osandula ukusweleka ukuba adibane naye .
Isebenzile, kodwa kukho enye into eyenzekileyo-emva kweNtshona esidlangalaleni wabiza troll , waxolisa. Ozithobileyo, nkqu. Andazi ukuba kwakutheni na xa ndandiqala ukukunyathela, wabhala nge-imeyile kuye. Ndicinga ukuba umsindo wam kuwe uvela kulonwabo lwakho nesiqu sakho. Isebenzise ukubonakalisa ukungonwabi kwam kunye nam. Wade wenza umnikelo egameni likatata wakhe kwiziko lomhlaza eSeattle apho wayephathwa khona ngaphambi kokuba adlule.
Ngomzamo wokuqonda imeko yetroli, iNtshona yafikelela kulo mfo-ogama lakhe azikhethele ngabom ukuba angalixeli-kwaye ambuze malunga nokuba yintoni eyamenza wabetha indawo ephantsi, kwaye yintoni eyamenza watshintsha. Inxalenye yawo, wavuma kuye, kungenxa yokuba wayengumfazi othetha phandle owayekhululekile kwaye ezamkela ngaphezu kwakhe ngelo xesha:
Abasetyhini bacacisa ngakumbi ekubhaleni kwabo, abekho-akukho luvo lokuba neentloni xa bethetha. Batsho ngokuvakalayo. Kwaye ndicinga nam, iyasongela ekuqaleni […] ndisebenza nabafazi imini yonke, kwaye andinangxaki namntu. Ngendikubalisele ngeloxesha, ukuba umntu ebethe kum, ungumntu onegama elibi, uyabacaphukela abafazi, ngendisithi, Nuh-uh! Ndiyamthanda umama wam, ndiyabathanda oodadewethu, ndibathande abantu endandithandana nabo endandinabo ebomini bam. Kodwa awunakho ukubanga ukuba ulungile kubafazi kwaye emva koko uye kwi-Intanethi ubathuke, ubafune ukubenzakalisa ngokwasemphefumlweni.
Ngokucacileyo le ndoda ithetha ngokusuka kumava ayo obuqu kwaye ayizizo zonke iitroli ngaxeshanye, kodwa kuyathakazelisa ukuqaphela indlela athetha ngayo nangokunyaniseka ngoku malunga nokungaqiniseki kunye neemvakalelo ezamkhokelela ekubeni ahlasele abantu angabaziyo kwi-Intanethi kwasekuqaleni. Sithetha rhoqo malunga nokuba iitrolls azibonakali ngathi ziqonda ukuba kukho abantu abaphilayo ngenene kwelinye icala lezisongelo zabo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye, amaxesha amaninzi abo kuthi abajamelene nezisongelo ngamanye amaxesha banokulibala ukuba naba ngabantu ngokunjalo. Oko akuthethi kuthi ngekhe caphuka kubo xa bethetha izinto ezintle kuthi, ewe, kodwa kufanelekile ukuba sikhumbule ngokufanayo.
Nasi isiqendu esipheleleyo, esikwabonisa amanye amabali malunga nokuba i-Intanethi ingoyikisa njani kuzo zonke iintlobo zabantu (enye inezinto ezibonisa umfazi Ubomi baseMelika njengomxholo wayo). Isiqwenga sikaLindy siqala imizuzu emine kwaye sibaleke malunga nemizuzu engamashumi amabini.
(nge Ubomi baseMelika , umfanekiso nge UKevin T. Hoole )
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