Ukuba ngumzali kunzima. Ngokukrakra, isenzo sokugcina umntu omncinci, onoluvo, onenkani uyaphila yonke imihla yenye yezona zinto zinzima esiya kuzenza thina bantu. Abantwana abalukhathalelanga ukhuseleko lwabo okanye impilo, kwaye kuxhomekeke kuthi ukubafundisa izinto ezinje ngokuba ungabambisi ngembotyi empumlweni, okanye ungadlali ngebhotile evulekileyo yamanzi, iyakufikelela, kwaye eyona nto inzima: ukutya kulungile kuwe kwaye kufuneka ukutye.
Zonke ezi ziincoko endizenzileyo kunye nomntwana wam kwezi veki zimbini zidlulileyo, kwaye kuzo zonke ezi meko akazange andimamele; kwafuneka aziqonde ngokwakhe ezo zinto. (Ungakhathazeki, siyikhuphe imbotyi.) Kodwa yindlela abasebenza ngayo abantwana-bafunda ngcono nge kunathi, kwaye yiloo nto yonke Iklabhu yabadli eAdventurous , incwadi yokupheka entsha evela Ngaphezulu Inkwenkwezi uMisha Collins.
UCollins ungumntu oxakekileyo, yintoni ukubaleka kweGish , Ukusebenza kwixesha lokugqibela kuthotho olude kakhulu olusebenza kwimbali yase-U.S. (Ii-CW's Ngaphezulu , ngokwemvelo), esebenza nothando lukaRandom Izenzo, kunye nokuchitha ixesha kunye nenkosikazi yakhe kunye nombhali-mbhali uVicki kunye nabantwana bakhe abathandekayo kunye nabapheki, iMaison kunye neNtshona, kodwa wakwazi ukufumana ixesha lokuphendula imibuzo malunga nencwadi yakhe entsha kwaye undinike nethemba elincinci ngokutya kwam okukhethiweyo.
UMary Sue: Ndandinomdla wokwenene kwincwadi yokupheka kuba, mna, ndingoyena mzali wabona baninzi Inenkani, encinci emhlabeni. Kunzima ngokwaneleyo ukufumana ice cream kunye ikeyiki phakathi umlomo wakhe, myeke imifuno. Ndiyayixabisa kakhulu imbono yokwenza ukutya kwaye ukupheka ulonwabo lwabantwana, kodwa senzani xa umntwana enentando yentsimbi kwaye enobulungisa Awuyi kuzama izinto?
UMisha Collins: Ewe, kuqala kwinto yonke: Ndiyayiva intlungu yakho. Besilapho! Xa izibulo lethu lalingumntwana omncinci, mna nenkosikazi yam sasihamba kwinqanaba elibi apho sasinokuziva sinethamsanqa ukuba sinokucofa ityhubhu yeyogathi eqhutyiweyo emlonyeni wakhe okanye sifumane isicakacaka segolide kwi-gullet yakhe ngaphambi kokuba sibuyele kuthi izantya supersonic.
Kodwa, inye into esiyifundileyo kwiingcali zokondla abantwana kukuba ukunyanzela abantwana ukuba batye kunciphisa umdla wabo wokutya. Ngamanye amagama, okukhona abazali betyhala, benyanzela, beqhatha, benyoba, okanye becajole, abantwana abaxhathisa ngakumbi bayatya ukutya okubonisiweyo. Iingcali zisifundise ukuba ngumsebenzi wabazali ukukhetha ukutya okuhanjiswayo ngexesha lesidlo, kwaye kubantwana ukuba bathathe isigqibo sokuba batye ntoni kwinto esetafileni. Bayekeni beze kuyo ngokwemiqathango yabo. Yiba nomonde kwaye ukhumbule ukuba incasa iyafundwa-njengokufunda kunye nezibalo. Kungathatha ukuvezwa okuli-10-15 kukutya okutsha ngaphambi kokuba umntwana akunambithe kwaye kungathatha ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba bakwamkele okanye bakonwabele ukukutya!
Elinye icebo elabutshintsha ngokupheleleyo ubudlelwane bosapho lwethu kunye nokutya yayikukumema abantwana bethu ukuba bapheke kwaye badlale ekhitshini. Buza imibuzo ekhokelayo, evulelekileyo efana nale, Ucinga ukuba ithanda ntoni? Masifumanise… ukubabonisa ukuba usekuhambeni kunye. Ke intsimbi yesisu sakho, kuba ngamanye amaxesha, into abafuna ukuyenza ayisiyiyo le siyibiza ukuba iyathandeka. Kodwa xa yenziwe ngezandla zabo, baya kuba neqhayiya kwaye bathambekele ngakumbi ekuzameni, ke beka umdlalo wakho wobuso kwaye ukhuthaze.
(LR) UVicki, Maison, Misha, kunye noWest Collins benza umceli mngeni wokutya kosapho.
I-TMS: Yayiyintoni incopho yokufumana abantwana bakho ukuba batye?
IiCollins: Sasilahlekile njengabazali — ukuzama nje ukondla unyana wethu nantoni na kwakungumngeni. Ixesha lokutya lalivakala ngathi lidabi. Kodwa xa unyana wethu omncinci ehlasela i-artichoke ekhaya esuka kwivenkile, ndathi, andazi nokuba ndiyipheka njani le nto! Kwaye wathi, ndiza kukubonisa. Ke samyeka.
Kwaye nangona yayingesosiko lwasekhaya i-artichoke yase Yerusalem, wayitya. Yayingu-a-ha! umzuzu obeka usapho lwethu kwindlela entsha kwaye xa siqala ngokwamkela abantwana bethu ekhitshini.
I-TMS: Abazali bangamelana njani neemvakalelo zokungaphumeleli kubantwana babo nakuluntu xa singenakho nje ukufumana umntwana atye?
IiCollins: Ngaba ukuziva usilele akuyonxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuba ngumzali? Ngokukrakra, ndiyaqonda ukuba ndiziva ngathi uyasilela kubantwana bakho. Ukondla abantwana bethu ujikelezo olungapheliyo lwezinto zemenyu zabantwana kusenze saziva njalo.
Khumbula ukuba ukuzama ukondla abantwana bakho ngokwenyani, ukutya okupheleleyo kuthetha ukubamba inkcubeko eyendeleyo ebeka ukutya okuqhubekekayo kubantwana. Imenyu yabantwana YONKE NAKUPHI kwinkcubeko yethu. Sisoloko sixelelwa ukuba abantwana abazukutya nantoni na engenaswekile, ethosiweyo, okanye beige. Ayisiyonyani leyo, kodwa inokuziva ngathi lidabi lokunyuka unikwe yonke imiyalezo yenkcubeko esiyifumanayo yokuba yile nto abantwana ekufanele ukuba bayayitya.
Ingcebiso yethu: Qhubeka nokubonisa abantwana ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokutya okupheleleyo, ungagcini izinto ezininzi ezilula zemenyu zabantwana kwisitokhwe ekhaya, kwaye ungazibethi. Yama kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo xa kufikwa ekutyeni nabantwana bakho, kunokuba ukhathazeke ngokutya okuphelileyo. Yenze i-adventure emnandi ukuba ukunye endaweni yedabi lokuthanda, kwaye ekugqibeleni, baya kuza.
(Inqaku lombhali: Oko safunda ikopi yokuqala yencwadi, siqalile ukuzama oku endlwini yam, kwaye… iqala ukusebenza kancinci. Izolo, intombi yam itye i-asparagus kwaye ndaphantse ndakhala).
I-TMS: Uninzi lwabazali abanalo ixesha okanye izibonelelo zemali zokupheka nabantwana okanye ukubabonelela ngokutya okusempilweni. Silwa njani naloo nto?
IiCollins: Ndinqwenela ukuba ibekho, impendulo elula yoku, kodwa izinto ezinje ngokuhluthwa kwezoqoqosho, ukutya entlango, kunye neenkcubeko malunga nomsebenzi kunye nokutya (phakathi kweminye imiba) kuyenza ingxaki enzima kakhulu, ke kuyakufuneka size kuyo ngezisombululo ezininzi zokuhlasela icandelo ngalinye lengxaki. Sinethemba Iklabhu yabadli eAdventurous kunceda ekumiseni ezinye zeenkcubeko eziphambili malunga nokutya. Uninzi lwabazali lusebenza imisebenzi eliqela kwaye abanalo ixesha lokuchitha iiyure bebhaka ii-muffins zekhaya ezenziwe nge-chia. Siyayifumana.
Nantsi idill: dlala ngokutya kwakho.
Nangona kunjalo, zininzi iindlela ezingabizi kakhulu zokubandakanya ukutya okutsha, ukutya okupheleleyo kwisidlo sosapho-uninzi lweendlela zokupheka kwincwadi yethu yokupheka zithatha ngaphantsi kwemizuzu engama-30 ukuzilungiselela, uninzi lwesiqingatha, kwaye akukho nanye yezithako zethu ezithandekayo. Ewe, ukufikelela kokutya kunye nokunganqabiseki yimicimbi yokwenyani ejongene neentsapho ezininzi e-US 100% yenzuzo yethu evela kwincwadi iya kwisisa, kugxininiswa kwimibutho exhasa izisa ukufikelela ekutyeni okusempilweni kubantwana abakwiindawo ezingalondolozwanga, yiyo enye indlela sizama ukunceda ukutyala imbewu ukusombulula le ngxaki.
Kodwa zininzi ezinye izinto ekufuneka sizenzile ukulungisa izinto zethu ezinkulu, ezisisiseko zoluntu ezisizise kweli nqanaba ukuqala ngalo.
I-TMS: Ngaba unayo iresiphi yokuqala oyithandayo okanye umsebenzi wokufumana abantwana banomdla wokupheka kunye nokonwaba ekhitshini?
IiCollins: Ndizithanda kakhulu izinto ezonakalisa kancinci ngeendlela ezimnandi. Ukutyhoboza amantongomane avulekileyo ngesimile, okanye ukuqhekeza amaqanda abilisiweyo ebunzi-unyana wam ebengayi kutya iqanda elibilisiweyo ndide ndimfundise. Izinto ezenza abantu bayo yonke iminyaka bazive ngathi bayadlala kunye zezona ndlela zokuvula iingcango kwimidla emitsha kwaye ibandakanya ixesha ekhitshini. Ukupheka akufuneki kube ngathi kungumsebenzi, kwaye akufuneki kube njalo. Kwakhona, ndingathatha umzuzu wokudumisa imimangaliso yodaka kunye nepestle? Abantwana bam bayakuthanda ukugaya iziqholo zetiyi eyenziwe ekhaya kunye nentle kakhulu into enokuphazanyiswa.
I-TMS: Utshilo kwindibano yamva nje ukuba awuyongxaki yokutya isidlo sakusasa, enye yeeresiphi ezisencwadini. Zize njani ezo zinto, kwaye zeziphi iiresiphi ONGABA ungumthandi wazo?
IiCollins: Iipopsicles zesidlo sakusasa ziyingozi. Andibancomi nakubani na ndaza ndalwela ukuba basuswe, kodwa babhukuqwa ngumfazi kunye nosapho kunye nomshicileli. Ke, ndiyaxolisa ngento esiyenzileyo kuluntu lwethu ekubaziseni emhlabeni. Ndiyayithanda i-frittatas-isidlo sakusasa yijam yam, kwaye ndiyawathanda amaqanda. Ngapha koko, i-frittata elungileyo ihlala indibuyisela kum xa umama wayedla ngokubenza nayo nantoni na esasinayo, ngoko ke bandikhumbuza izinto ezintle, kwaye ndiyabathanda ukuzenza nabantwana bam.
I-TMS: Yithi ujongene nosapho: abantakwenu ababini-omnye unemikhwa emibi yokutya, kwaye umntu othanda nje iisaladi-kunye nomhlobo wabo ongathandekiyo ovela ngaphandle kwedolophu kwaye uthanda kuphela iPB & Js. Ungabaphekela ntoni, kwaye ucinga ukuba bacinga njani Ngaba ukupheka nabantwana?
IiCollins: Wowu, olo sapho luvakala ngendlela engaqhelekanga kwaye lunokuphindaphindeka! Usapho olunje, bendiya kucinga malunga nokuba zeziphi izinto abanomdla kuzo ngokufanayo. Emva koko, bendibavumela bonke bangene ekhitshini kwaye bafumanise into abanokukulungela ukuzama kunye. Singahle siphele ngesaladi ye-kale-and-bacon eyakhiwe ngokutsha enxibe ipeanut-butter-and-jelly, ke kuyakubakho into entsha kuye wonke umntu, elungelelaniswe nento eqhele ukubenza bonke bazive bekhululekile ngokwandisa iihorons zabo. (Andiqinisekanga ukuba kutheni, kodwa ndingacebisa ukuba bonke banciphise ityuwa njengoko besebenza ukuze babenazo nezinye izinto, nazo.)
Andiqinisekanga ukuba baya kupheka njani ukupheka nabantwana, kodwa ukuba nje bavumela abantwana bakhokele, andicingi ukuba iya kuba ngamava apocalyptic.
Spice kunye noncumo oluvela eNtshona, Misha, kwaye Maison Collins
Ke, bafundi, ngaba ukulungele ukuba nesibindi? Ewe, jonga iresiphi engezantsi ukhangele ukuba yintoni Iklabhu yabadli eAdventurous ikugcinele, kwaye uthathe ikopi, ukhumbule ukuba yonke ingeniso iya ekuncedeni abo badinga ukutya batye ngcono kwaye basempilweni.
Le ntlawulelo inemibala eqaqambileyo yayiyisaladi yokuqala eNtshona yathandana nayo, kwaye ihlala iyintandokazi yakhe. Nencasa ye tart kunye ne crunch eyonelisayo, yajika iNtshona yaba ngumthandi wekhaphetshu oswelekileyo kangangokuba ngoku uzimisele ukuyila ilekese yomqhaphu enencasa yeklabishi. (Sukuba nexhala: asikahambiPha . . . Okwangoku.) Vumela abantwana bakho benze yonke into yokubamba ukuze bafumane ithuba lokusebenza nale mibalabala.
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1 indebe egalelwe i-beet eluhlaza
1 indebe egalelwe iminqathe
1 indebe ityunyiwe
iklabishi ebomvu 1 indebe egalelwe iapile (uGranny Smith)
2 iipunipoyi zeoli yeoli
1 icephe yebhalsam eviniga
Ityuwa yolwandle ukunambitha
IiRisins (ukhetho)
Imbewu yeSesame (ukhetho)Umsebenzi womntwana! I-Grate, i-grate, kunye ne-grate ngaphezulu! Sebenzisa imingxunya emikhulu yesiqhelo yokugaya iminqathe, ii-beet, kunye neapile. Sebenzisa umngxunya omkhulu we-slicer kwi-grater ukuze uthabathe iklabishi ebomvu.
Kwisitya esahlukileyo, hlanganisa ioyile yomnquma kunye neviniga yebhalsam. Yongeza ityuwa.
Ncedisa into nganye ngokwahlukileyo kunye nesitya esincinci sokunxiba ecaleni ukuze abantwana bakhethe kwaye bakhethe owuphi umtya kumnyama wokunambitha.
Ingcebiso yaseNtshona: Njani ngokufefa ngento etyumkileyo ngaphezulu? Kuthiwani ngembewu kajongilanga egalelwe ityuwa? Amandongomane atyunyuziweyo? Iichips zombona ezityumkileyo?
Uyagqiba.
Kuchazwe kwi-ADVENTUROUS EATERS CLUB nguMisha noVicki Collins, baphinde babhalwa ngemvume evela kuHarperOne kunye nokushicilelwa kweHarperCollins Publishers. Ilungelo lokushicilela 2019.
Izandi super zendalo kwaye emnandi!
(imifanekiso: Michéle M. Waite / HaperOne)
Ngaba ufuna amanye amabali anje? Yiba ngumbhalisi kwaye uxhase indawo!
-UMary Sue unemigaqo-nkqubo engqongqo yokuphawula engavumiyo, kodwa ayikhawulelwanga, ukuthukwa nabani na , Intiyo nentetho egonyamelayo. —
