Ukubiza inkcubeko yenye yezinto eziyinyani yokuba esidlangalaleni kwi-Twitter okanye kuyo nayiphi na imidiya yoluntu. Nantoni na oyiposayo iyinxalenye yentetho kawonke-wonke, kwaye ngaphandle kokuba wenze umsebenzi olungileyo wokucoca ngokutsha imbali yakho ye-intanethi enengxaki, kuya kuhlala kukho into kwixa elidlulileyo enokumbiwa.
Akukho nto injengomntu ongenangxaki. Akukho namnye kuthi owazalwa evukile kwaye ukuba bekukho iimvavanyo zokucoceka kubufazi kunye nokudibana sonke singasilela ngandlela thile. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ngamanye amaxesha sithathe i-L esiyinikiweyo kwaye siyiphucule ngokwenyani ukuze sibe ngabantu ababhetele. Nangona kunjalo, kukho uvakalelo lokuba ngamanye amaxesha asiniki bantu, ngakumbi abantu abancinci, ithuba lokwenza iimpazamo kwaye bafunde ukuba ngcono ngenxa yalo. Sibamba iimpazamo ezidlulileyo ngokuchasene nabo kwaye singaze sivumele ukuba zitshintshe.
Buyela umva ngokwaneleyo kwaye unokufumana into enengxaki ngaye nabani na. Njengomntu oye wahlaselwa kwi-intanethi ebusheni bam-kufanelekile-ngokwenza amagqabantshintshi ngokungazi ngabasetyhini, ndingatsho ukuba ndakuba ndibubonile ubungqina botshintsho, ndizama ukuluthatha ngokuthembeka. Asingobantu ngokufanayo kwiminyaka elishumi eyadlulayo. Abantu bayakhula kwaye batshintshe kwaye batshintshe iingqondo zabo. Undibonile nditshintsha ingqondo yam ukusuka kolunye usuku ukuya kolunye. Inxalenye yesizathu sokuba ndilungile kuloo nto, nangona isenokundenza ndibonakale ndingumntwana, kungenxa yokuba ndicinga ukuba kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba kufanele khula ngolwazi olutsha kwaye akufuneki sikufihle oko kuba kuya kusenza sikhangeleke sisimumu. Yintoni esenza sijongeka sisisimumu kukuzama ukuba njalo, njengoko umama ebeka, ingalunganga kwaye yomelele.
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Yintoni enditsalele kuyo Ukuba awunanto Emnandi Ukuthetha kukuba i-heroine, ekuqaleni, ibali eligqibeleleyo lentombazana emhlophe izama ukuhlekisa kwi-intanethi, kodwa iphela ngokubeka nje unyawo olukhulu emlonyeni wayo. Umlinganiswa uBusika uHalperin, emva kokufika kwindawo yesibini kwindawo yenyosi yopelo, uthumela oku kwimidiya yakhe: Sifunde izinto ezininzi ezimangalisayo namhlanje. Kanjalo d inqanaba ngokucacileyo ligama, nokuba umntwana omnyama angaliphumelela i-Bee yoPelo.
Oku kulandelayo kukufunda amava obusika njengoko i-tweet yakhe yocalucalulo ihamba yintsholongwane kwaye uba ngumhlobo phakathi kwabahlobo bakhe kunye noluntu ngenxa yento ayithethileyo. Incwadi ayikuceli ukuba ube kwicala likaBusika, ngaphandle kwaxa kufikwa kwizisongelo zokufa, yabelana nje ngebali lakhe kunye namabali abanye abanjengaye. Abantu abavumele elona xesha labo lilibi ukuba babe ngamathuba e-intanethi.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo malunga Ukuba Awunayo Nantoni Na Emnandi Ukuthetha kukuba ikufundisa indlela yokucela uxolo. Ungalwamkela njani uxanduva kwaye ukhule kulo njengomntu. Ayiluthetheleli ulwimi olunentiyo abanye abantu abaluphosa kwi-Intanethi, kodwa iphonononga ukuba umsindo wabo ophakame kakhulu awuthetheleli isimilo sokuqala esibi. Ubusika bunyanzeliswa ukuba bujongane nento engaphakathi kuye emenze ukuba abeke lo myalezo kwindawo yokuqala, kwaye ndicinga ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uyihlolisise, kuba ezo ngqondo aziphumi kumoya obhityileyo.
Yinto endicinga ukuba sonke singayixabisa njengoko sihamba kwiindawo ezinobungozi kwi-Intanethi esizithandayo. Kungenxa yokuba kangangoko sinako ukurhabaxa malunga ne-Twitter, iTumblr, njl.njl., Banikeze okuninzi kuluntu olucalucalulweyo kwaye basinike, kwezinye iimeko, imfundo engcono kunangaphambili.
Ukuba Awunayo Nantoni Na Emnandi Ukuthetha Isezitolo ngoku.
Ndifumene ithuba lokuthetha noLeila Sales kwaye ndimbuze imibuzo malunga nenoveli yakhe, kubandakanya nelikhuthaze ibali nokuba kutheni egqibe ekubeni esi sihloko sidinga ibali le-YA.
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NJL: Enye yezona zinto zinomdla malunga nalo msebenzi kukuba ophambili ophambili, uBusika, ungumntu ophambili ophazamisayo. Ngelixa uziva uvelwano ngaye, ikwakhona le ngqondo yokuba akaqondi nje ukuba ngumntu onovelwano. Uze njani naloo mlinganiswa kwaye wanamathela ekuqinisekiseni ukumenza abe novelwano ngaphandle kokucima imicimbi yakhe?
Intengiso: Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ungaziva uvelwano nakubani na ukuba ubazi ngokwaneleyo. Ukuba wazi into enye kuphela ngomntu-umz. Nguye owadubula loo ngonyama okanye Nguye owanyathela unyawo lwam kwaye akaxolisanga-ke kulula ukuba ungabathandi.
Kodwa okukhona usazi umntu-ulwalamano lwabo nosapho kunye nabahlobo, uloyiko kunye namabhongo, ukukhuliswa okubakhokelele kweli nqanaba-kunzima ukubabhala phantsi. Ke ngobusika, ewe, uyaphazamisa, kwaye ewe, singafuna ukuba ahluke ngeendlela ezininzi. Kodwa sisondele kakhulu kuye, kwaye simazi ngokusondeleyo, kangangokuba nathi kufuneka sive uvelwano ngaye nokuba asimthandi.
Inxalenye yomceli mngeni kukuba le ncwadi ikhokelela kubuncinci beempawu ezithandekayo zasebusika. Balapho kwisahluko sokuqala, uhlobo lokucela umngeni kubafundi ukuba bamgatye. Kungenxa yokuba kubomi bokwenyani, zihamba ngoluhlobo ezi zinto. Eyokuqala-kwaye ihlala ikukuphela kwayo-into esiyiva ngomntu ongamaziyo yile nto bayenzileyo engalunganga, kwaye izimvo zethu sizisekela ikakhulu kuloo nto.
Kukho enye indlela yokubalisa ibali lasebusika apho uqala khona ukubonisa ukuba kho kwakhe nokuba sesichengeni, emva koko wazise abafundi ukuba bazi iimpazamo zakhe xa sele uzifumene kwicala lakhe. E. ILockhart ikwenza ngokuqaqambe ngolu hlobo KWATHI SINGABUXOKI. Ndifuna nje ukuba umfundi afumane ibali laseBusika kakhulu njenge-intanethi ye-intanethi yangempela njengoko kunokwenzeka.
NJL: Njengomfundi omnyama, kwakusoloko kunzima kum ukuba ndiqonde ngokupheleleyo ukuvelana noBusika kuba uluvo lwakhe lwalucaphukisa kwaye ndicinga ukuba yile nto. Ucacisa ubusika kwaye usicela ukuba sibukele uhambo lwakhe, kodwa awuzange usicele ukuba simthande. Njengombhali, ngaba wawunovalo konke konke malunga nabantu bokuza nokholo olubi malunga nencwadi kwaye ungayiniki ithuba elifanelekileyo lokuxelela ibali layo?
Intengiso: Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo! Njengobusika, ndifuna wonke umntu akuthande ukubhala kwam. Yenye yezinto malunga nobusika endinxibelelana nayo kakhulu: Ndifuna ukuqinisekiswa kwangaphandle. Kwaye ndiyazi ukuba kulula ukudibanisa umlinganiswa ongathandekiyo onebali elingenakwenzeka. Ke bendinexhala-ndisayithanda-ngabantu abangayithandiyo incwadi yam kuba bengayithandi indlela yokuziphatha kukaBusika, okanye kuba bengavumi nokucinga ngokuthanda ibali kwesi sihloko.
Ekugqibeleni, nangona kunjalo, inqaku kwezi meko ALIKHO malunga nokuba uyamthanda na umntu. Njengokuba ndixhalabile, akunamsebenzi nokuba ufuna ukuchitha ixesha noWusika, nokuba ubusezihlangwini zakhe, nokuba ucinga ukuba impendulo yoluntu kuye iqinisekisiwe okanye igqithile ngokupheleleyo. Inqaku kukwenza ububone ubuntu bakhe. Ukuqonda ukuba, xa ulandela umntu ongamaziyo kwi-Intanethi, kukho umntu kwelinye icala, uneemvakalelo eziyinyani kwaye zibalulekile njengezakho, oya kuthi asukuzane namagama akho emva kokuba ulibele konke malunga nawo.
Ke ukuba abafundi ababuthandi ubusika, kulungile. Kodwa ukuba bayayifunda yonke le ncwadi kwaye basacinga njalo, ndingavuya ndihlasele nasiphi na isidenge esenza intetho yobudenge efana neyaBusika, ewe, loo nto ingandenza ndizive ngathi khange ndiwenze umsebenzi wam.
NJL: Xa uBusika ethatha isigqibo sokuya ku-Revibe kwaye azame ukuhlawulela oko akwenzileyo, siboniswa bonke abanye abalinganiswa. Uze njani nezinto zabo ezingasemva kunye nembono yeRevibe?
Intengiso: Elinye lawona macandelo acelomngeni ekubhaleni le ncwadi ibikukucinga ukuba uMhlaba ebusika uzokwazi njani ukuzikhulula. Amaphepha okuqala alikhulu, obomi bakhe aqhuma-oko kwakulula ukufumanisa kuba sinemizekelo emininzi yokwenyani yendlela ebonakala ngayo. Kodwa phantse asinayo imizekelo eyaziwayo yendlela umntu anokuqhubela phambili ngayo emva kokudlula kolo hlobo lwengxaki. WENZA ntoni, ngaphandle kokunyamalala ngonaphakade? Kwaye emva koko, kusafuneka uhlale ngokwakho-uyenza njani loo nto?
Ndaphinda ndayibhala kwakhona isiqingatha sesibini sencwadi ukusukela ekuqaleni amatyeli amathathu, ndizama ukufumana indlela yasebusika eya phambili. Ndizamile uguqulelo apho atshintshe igama lakhe waya kwi-incognito, ndazama inguqulelo apho wayesombulula uhlobo oluthile lomntu ongaziwayo, ndazama inguqulelo apho wayenayo yonke enye into yothando kunye nomlinganiswa ongasekhoyo…
Ngenxa yokuphelelwa lithemba, ndaqala ukucinga nje ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo endikhe ndafuna ukudlala ngazo. Ndihlala ndiyithanda inkampu yasehlotyeni, ke bendifana, Mhlawumbi yena… uya kwinkampu yehlobo? Kodwa oko kwakubonakala kungahleliwe kwaye kunganxibelelananga kwisiqingatha sokuqala sencwadi.
Ndathetha ngalento nabo bonke abantu, ngalo lonke ixesha, kwaye ekugqibeleni omnye wabahlobo bam wathi ngendlela engeyiyo, Mhlawumbi kufana nekampu yehlobo ye-intanethi. Ndaye ndafika ke eRevibe, iziko lokubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo ukubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo, inxenye yokubuyiselwa kweziyobisi endaweni enye, ukubuyela umva kweyoga, kunye nenxalenye yento engekhoyo okwangoku. Ndiphande amaziko okudumisa abantu abadumileyo eMalibu ukufumana imeko-bume elungileyo, ekhokelele ekufumaneni kwam iintengiso ezininzi zikaGoogle ezingabalulekanga okwethutyana.
Uninzi lweencwadi zam luzisa abafundi kwiindawo ezizodwa, ezivaliweyo, kwaye ke ngenxa yommangaliso. AMANYE AMantombazana ayizinto ezilungileyo ayemiselwe kwisikolo samantombazana onke; UKUGQIBELA KWANGAPHAMBILI kwamiselwa kwihlabathi lokulinganisa kwakhona; LE NGOMA IYA KUSindisa UBOMI BAKHO yayimiselwe kubomi basebusuku. Ke UKUBA UNGABI NANTSI INTO EMAYITHI, kwaba sengqiqweni ukufumana indawo elolo hlobo ukuze idrama idlalwe.
NJL: Ukulindelwa kokugqibelela kuza kule ncwadi kunye nonina kaBusika, oziguqukele ekubeni ngumkhulu wabazali ozabalazela ukugqwesa nabantwana bakhe kunye noEmerson oziva ebambekile ngokungalungeli ngokwaneleyo kwikholeji yakhe entsha. Uziva njani ukuba umnqweno wokugqibelela nawo uyadlala kumlinganiswa wasebusika kunye nomnqweno wakhe wokuzama ukulungisa izinto?
Intengiso: Ubusika ngokwakhe ukholelwa ekubeni ukugqibelela kuphela kwendlela eyamkelekileyo yokuba; uyifumene kumama wakhe nakwimvelaphi yakhe njengentshatsheli yoPelo lweNyosi yeSizwe. Kukho apho athi, ndafunda loo nyani xa ndandiseyintombazana encinci, ndikhuphisana nokupela iinyosi. Ndifunde ukuba andinakukwazi ukubiza unobumba omnye ngokungalunganga. Ndifunde ukuba ubomi buyinto yonke okanye abuyonto: ayinamsebenzi ukuba uyenze kaninzi kangakanani into elungileyo; Yonke into ebalulekileyo lixesha elinye owenza into engalunganga. Kwaye yintshatsheli ekuphela kwayo ehlala ihleli ilungile.
Ngamanye amaxesha kuvakala ngathi luhlobo lwenkcubeko esihlala kuyo, apho zonke iimpazamo zibonwa njengezenzo zangabom zenkohlakalo, apho impendulo yethu yokuguqa kwamadolo komnye umntu oye waziqhekeza kukubagxotha eluntwini kunokuba sizame ukufumana indlela enemveliso. ukubanceda benze ngcono kwixesha elizayo. Ungandivi kakubi; kukho isimilo kweli hlabathi esifanelwe kukohlwaywa ngokuqatha, nokukhawuleza. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye kufuneka sivume ukuba ukugqibelela akunakwenzeka, kwaye ukuba sibambe nabani kuloo mgangatho, baya kuhlala besiphoxa.
NJL: Uyakhankanya incwadi Ke Ube neentloni ekuhleni kunye noMonica Lewinsky njengempembelelo kwincwadi yakho. Yintoni ekutsalele kula mabali kwaye yenze ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba incwadi ye-YA malunga nalo mbandela iyimfuneko?
Intengiso: Enkosi ngokusebenzisa igama eliyimfuneko, kuba yindlela endivakalelwa ngayo ngale ncwadi. Akho amanyundululu afana nasebusika yonke imihla. Ukuhlala eMelika ngo-2018 kuthetha ukuba yonke imihla ingqumbo yokuziphatha kwi-Intanethi yinxalenye yobomi bethu. Kwaye asinayo imodeli eninzi yendlela yokusingatha ngayo. Kunzima ukuba neencoko ezinemveliso ngalo mbandela. UJon Ronson uyenza NGOKU UYE WENZELWA NGOKUPHAKATHI, kwaye uMonica Lewinsky uyenza kwintetho yakhe yeTED kunye nezincoko zakhe.
Kodwa ke ngapha koko, uninzi lweencoko zethu ezijikeleze abantu abathi okanye benze izinto ezingalunganga kukuba sonke singene kwi-Intanethi kwaye abanye abantu bathi NGALO MNTU SISIMANGALISO emva koko abanye abantu bayabakhusela (njenge, Wayengathethi njalo! Okanye Uyingane nje! Okanye Uhlala engumfana omkhulu kum!), Kwaye ke iqela lokuqala libuya NAKHO UNGASONA ISIMANGALISO.
Siyakwazi ukuba nento enomdla ngakumbi, enembeko ngakumbi kunye nemveliso ngakumbi. Andicingi ukuba incwadi ye-YA malunga nomba iya kulungisa yonke into, kodwa ndiyibhalile kuba ndiyakholelwa ukuba inganceda.
NJL: Kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo / kwi-twitter-yanamhlanje kunzima ukuxelela phakathi kwabantu abayinyani ngokunyanisekileyo into abayithethayo nabo bayenzela udumo lwe-intanethi, into ebusika kunye nomlinganiswa uLisa abathetha ngayo. Kwenze kwanzima kuthi nokuba senze ngathi sineencoko ezinentsingiselo. Ucinga ukuba ziziphi iziphene zokuzama ukuba neencoko zobulungisa kwezentlalo kwi-intanethi, ngakumbi xa kuziwa kubantu abancinci? Ucinga ukuba ziziphi izibonelelo?
Intengiso: I-intanethi sisixhobo esenziwe ngabantu, ke ayisiyonto intle okanye imbi. Bubuntu nje obukwimo yokulamla. Imithombo yeendaba kwezentlalo iveza ezona mpawu zethu zibi kunye nezinye zeempawu zethu ezintle, kodwa ayenzi nto ingekho ngaphakathi kuthi.
Kwaye njengesixhobo, i-intanethi ibaluleke kakhulu. Unokunxibelelana nabantu abakhokelela kubomi obahluke kakhulu kuwe, kwaye loo nto yenza umahluko omkhulu. Mhlawumbi awazi nabaphi na abantu abadlulayo, mhlawumbi awuzange ube nencoko ethembekileyo nomntu otyebe kakhulu malunga nendlela abaphathwa ngayo, mhlawumbi awazi nomvoti omnye weTrump kwaye ucinga ukuba zonke izigidi ezingama-60 zazo zingama-assholes. Kodwa i-intanethi ikuvumela ukuba wenze unxibelelwano lobuqu kunye nabani na, ukuva ngokuthe ngqo kubo ukuba ngamava abo aphilayo. Ke aba bantu abasabonakali ngathi bakude kwaye abaqondakali kuwe.
Imiceli mngeni yokuba neencoko zobulungisa kwezentlalo kwi-Intanethi, okokuqala, kukuswela nje indawo kunye nexesha. Kwafuneka ndibhale iinoveli epheleleyo ukuziva ngathi bendiqala nokungena kuyo. Akukho ndlela yakwenza ngoonobumba abangama-280. Kwaye nokuba ubhala iposti ende ngaPhakathi ngayo, ungene phi kwiinkcukacha, ngubani ixesha lokuyifunda? Kukho umxholo ongapheliyo apho, ngoko sinqabile ukuzibophelela kuyo nayiphi na into kuba oko kuya kuthetha ukuphoswa kokunye. Silungile ekufundeni iintloko kodwa yoyikeka ekuzibandakanyeni nemiba echaphazela uninzi lwemicimbi. Akukho mpendulo ilula kwindlela yokuphendula xa umntu esenza ukwaphula umthetho, nangona kusenzeka yonke imihla. Yile nto ithethwa yile ncwadi.
-UMary Sue unemigaqo-nkqubo engqongqo yokuphawula engavumiyo, kodwa ayikhawulelwanga, ukuthukwa nabani na , Intiyo nentetho ebhuqayo. Ukuba uthenga into ngekhonkco lethu, uMary Sue unokufumana ikhomishini yokusebenzisana.-
