Kwakungunyaka ka-2012. Ndandingunyaka ndisiya ekholejini kwaye ndandisandula ukufumana igama elithi asexual thanks to none other than Tumblr. Bendisazi ukuba kukho into eyahlukileyo ngam ukusukela xa ndandimalunga neshumi elinambini, kodwa ndandingenalo kwaphela ulwimi lokuchaza indlela endiziva ngayo.
Nanini na xa ndizama ukucacisa ukuba ndandingenamdla ebantwini kanjalo , Ndihlala ndixelelwa ukuba yayisigaba nje okanye into kufuneka ingalunganga [ngam]. Ukufunda malunga nokuzonwabisa kwakungavuleki nje kuphela kodwa kwakuqinisekisa ngendlela emangalisayo. Ngelishwa, kwabonakala ngathi ndandihlala ndibabona kuphela abantu abavakalelwa njengam kwiTumblr, kuba ukumelwa kwe-asexual ngokuqinisekileyo kwakungekho kwimidiya ephambili.
Emva koko ndabona ukujonga kwangaphambili kwesiqendu se Indlu, MD . Ndandiqhubeka nomboniso okoko ndifikile ekholejini, kodwa yayikukusetyenziswa kwegama lokwenene le-asexual kwi-trailer eyandonwabisa kakhulu. Andiyonxalenye yeeforamu zokuBonakala kwe-Asexual and Network Network (AVEN) okwangoku, kodwa ndaye ndemba ndaza ndafumana Umsonto wokuqala malunga nesiqendu, Isiqingatha seXesha eli-8 seNgcono. Ngokufana nabantu kwiforum, bendinemincili enkulu ekhokelela kwisiqendu, emva koko ... ukuphoxeka okukhulu.
Ukunika isishwankathelo esikhawulezileyo sokwenzeka: Ugqirha House ufumanisa umntu asebenza naye, uWilson, unesigulana esingumfazi esichaza njenge-asexual kwaye sitshatile nendoda engatshatanga. Ukubheja izindlu uWilson $ 100 ukuba angafumana isizathu sezonyango sokuba kutheni indoda ingafuni ukulala ngesondo.Kungenxa yokuba ngokweNdlu, [isini] sisiseko esisisiseko seentlobo zethu, isini siphilile. Abantu abaninzi abalala ngesondo. Abantu kuphela abangayifuniyo bayagula, bafile, okanye bayaxoka.
Ukufunyaniswa kwesifo kungumbandela wobomi obabulala i-sex drive yendoda, kwaye kuyabonakala ukuba, umfazi wayo wayezenza ngathi u-asexual ukumkholisa.
Ewe.
Ndikhumbula ndibukele, ndiziva ndinemincili yokuba ekugqibeleni ndiza kubona umntu oziva ngathi kum kumabonwakude. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko esi siqendu sasiqhubeka, lo mngxuma woyikekayo wasekwa esiswini sam. Yaziva imbi kakhulu ukuba iNdlu izimisele ukungazichazi izazisi zabo, ngokungathi wayenelungelo lokungenelela kubomi babo. Indlela yakhe yokulala ngesondo nayo yandinika ikhefu.
Ngelishwa, siphila kwihlabathi elinokwabelana ngesondo ngendlela engathethekiyo, ke ngoko ubungqangi abuhlali bungathi bufanelekile, kwaye ukubonakaliswa okungalunganga oku kwenza okuncinci ukwenza ukubandakanywa. Ndacaphukela nokuba umfazi uxoke malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe, kuba oko kwandenza ndabuza ukuba ndingaze ndifumane iqabane elinyanisekileyo okanye elingafuna ukuba kunye nam ndisazi ukuba ndonwabile. Isiqingatha esingcono ngokuqinisekileyo yayikukuncipha okukhulu kum nakwabanye abantu abaninzi ababenethemba lokuzibona bemelwe kwiscreen.
Esi siqendu sinezithembiso ezininzi. UWilson uqinisekise ubungqina besigulana kwaye uxelele iNdlu ukuba ibashiye bodwa. Ababonisi babonakalise kudliwanondlebe ukuba bafuna ukunika iqonga lobungqingili. Ngelishwa, izinto eziyingozi zigqithile kunezinto ezintle. Nalu ulwahlulo lokuba kutheni le nto ukuboniswa kuyingozi kangaka:
- Ubundlobongela bubonwa njengengxaki yonyango kunyango
- Ayamkelwa njengesiqhelo esisebenzayo
- Ukuba awabelana ngesondo, kukho into engalunganga kuwe
- Ikhuthaza abantu ukuba bangaqiniseki malunga nokuhlala bodwa kwaye babuze imibuzo yobuqu / yokungena ngaphakathi
- Bacinga bonke abantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye (abo banamava wesini) bayaxoka kumaqabane abo ukuze babakholise
Nasi isizathu sokuba yonke le nto ibaluleke kakhulu. Ngo-2012, kwiminyaka nje emibini emva kokuba iflegi yekratshi ye-ace yabakho, kwaye iminyaka elishumi elinanye emva koluntu lokuqala oluku-intanethi, yayingu-rep wokuqala kwimithombo yeendaba. Esi siqendu sasithetha kakhulu eluntwini, kwaye sawa ngokuthe tyaba. Kwaye xa kunzima ngokwaneleyo ukufumana ukumelwa, okuncinci okukhoyo apho kubalulekile kakhulu.
Ngombulelo, ibonisa njenge Imfundo yezesondo kwaye UBojack Horseman Benza umsebenzi ongcono ngakumbi wokumela ubungqongqo kule mihla. Nangona kunjalo, asinakuyikhanyela impembelelo yesi siqendu seNdlu esinaso kuluntu luphela lwabantu.
(umfanekiso: FOX)
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