Apha eMary Sue, ndibhala malunga nezinto ezininzi, ezinye zibubudenge, ezinye zinzulu. Kodwa kukho isihloko esinye apho ndibonakala ndifumana eyona mpu melelo inkulu kubafundi, amaxesha amaninzi ukuboniswa kwamadoda, abakholelwa ukuba ukukhankanywa kwam kwesi sihloko kuyafana nokukhanyela ubushushu behlabathi kwaye ndisithi ndiyamxhasa uDonald Trump: Astrology.
Ngoku, ndibhale ngobugqwirha, ubuhedeni , kunye tarot , kodwa akukho sihloko sifumana impikiswano efanayo kunye nokugculelwa kunokuba ndixoxa ngeenkwenkwezi . Kukho nje into malunga nokuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi amanye amadoda abonakala eyithiyile ngenene. Ingena phantsi kolusu lwayo kwaye icwangcise i-phansers ye-mansplaining to maximum. Ewe kunjalo, akunjalo konke amadoda, kodwa uninzi lwawo, kwaye ewe kukho abafazi abakhwela kwihashe labo eliphezulu malunga nalo. Kodwa indenza ndizibuze ukuba ingaba yintoni malunga nokuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi okwenza ukuba amanye amadoda abe nomsindo kwaye azive enesidingo sokundixelela ukuba ndiyathengisa inzululwazi eyingozi?
amadoda athiyile abafazi ngokuthanda ukuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi .. udlala umdlalo wezipredishithi apho uzenza umphathi weqela lebhola
- yintoni (@urpalbeth) Nge-16 kaJulayi ngo-2020
Ndicinga ukuba kukho igama elinye apho eliphendula umbuzo, kwaye elo gama liyi-pseudoscience. La madoda abonakala ekhusela ngokukodwa xa abafazi besenza isayensi ngokungalunganga. Ngaphandle kweengcambu zokuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi kunye nokunxibelelana kwayo nendalo yesibhakabhaka, abantu (funda: i-pedantic mansplainers) babonakala ngathi bacinga ukuba nabani na othanda ukuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi akaqondi kwaphela inzululwazi. Batsiba kwisigqibo sokuba umntu obhinqileyo akasosilumko ngokwaneleyo ukuba azi umahluko phakathi kweLibra kunye nenkqubo yenyanga, becinga ukuba abalandeli beenkwenkwezi bakholelwa ukuba ukuhamba kweenkwenkwezi kunye neeplanethi kulawula zonke iinkalo zobomi bethu, kwanaxa oko kungenjalo. Bacinga ukuba oku kusilela ukubona inyani malunga nokuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi kwaye bayaqonda ukuba ayisiyo isayensi kuthetha ukuba abantu bayayithanda konke inzululwazi engeyonyani. Ndinyanisile ukuba abantu bebendixelela ukuba ukuthetha nge-mercury retrograde kufana nam ndikhanyela ubushushu behlabathi okanye ndixhasa anti-vaxxers kwaye… hayi.
Kum, kwaye ndingabeka ingozi kuninzi lwabalandeli beenkwenkwezi, asisebenzisi ngeenkwenkwezi ukwazi ikamva okanye ukucwangcisa ubomi bethu, kodwa siyisebenzisela ukuziqonda thina nabanye ngcono nokusinceda sikhule kwaye sifunde ukuba ngabantu abangcono . Kukho iimvavanyo ezingenakubalwa zohlobo lobuntu kunye nokuhlelwa ngokwamacandelo, kwaye zonke, ngandlel 'ithile, zinobundlongondlongo, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ukuziqonda akuloncedo. Ukusuka UMeyers-Briggs ukuya Iilwimi Zothando Ukwazi utyekelo lwethu, kwaye okubaluleke nangakumbi kukuba nolwimi esiza kuvavanya ngalo size sixoxe ngalo, iluncedo-kwaye yinxalenye enkulu yokukhula komntu.
Ukuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi kumalunga nokujonga ezinkwenkwezini ukuze uzijonge. Izigidi zabantu, zibandakanyiwe, zifumana ukuqonda kunye nentuthuzelo ngokwenza oko. Umzekelo, xa ndandiqala ukungena kubuchwephesha kwaye ndafunda ukuba kukho enye indlela ngaphandle kwempawu zakho zelanga, ndafumanisa ukuba uphawu lwam lwenyanga yayiyiLibra. Inyanga ilawula iimvakalelo kunye neLibra imalunga nokulingana kunye nobuhlobo kwaye mna ndiyenze into yacofa endaweni. Ndingumntu othanda abantu abathiyileyo ungquzulwano kunye nengxwabangxwaba yeemvakalelo (iMars yam, iplanethi yobundlongondlongo kunye nengxabano ikwiLibra iphindwe kabini kum) kwaye ndibona ukuba kwitshathi yam yenza ingqiqo kum kwaye indinike izixhobo kunye nolwimi ukuba sebenza naloo nto yobuntu bam.
Kwaye oku kuyasebenza kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu nabo. Kwakhona, yiba nolwimi ukuze uqhubekeke noluvo lokuba wena nomnye umntu ninxibelelana ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo okanye ubeke phambili izinto ezahlukeneyo kuluncedo ukuba kuya kufuneka uhlale kunye okanye usebenze nalo mntu uthekileyo. Ndingumzali woyena mntwana waseGemini eMhlabeni (ukuba ufuna ukuqonda iGemini, yazi ukuba uDonald Trump ukwamnye kwaye bandithumelele uvelwano), kwaye ugcine engqondweni ukuba uzakuhamba macala onke ngaxeshanye , Ukuhamba njengomoya kuthetha ukuba mna, uCapricorn ozinzileyo, ozolileyo, ndiyazi ukuba kufuneka ndibhetyebhetye kolo lwalamano.
Ngoku, ndiyazi ukuba kukho abantu abafunda oku beqengqeleka amehlo, kwaye kulungile. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ukholelwe koku kwaye ukhululekile ukuba udlule ebomini bakho ungazi okanye ukhathalele ngophawu lwakho olukhulayo okanye ukubuya kweVenus okanye nantoni na. Kulungile. Kodwa okungalunganga kukuhlasela abantu abakwenzayo, kuba sizama nje ukuzazi ngcono, kwaye sisebenzisa izixhobo ezisinceda ukuba siphile ngcono nabanye.
Ukukholelwa kwiinkwenkwezi akuthethi ukuba andikholelwa kwisayensi. Akuthethi ukuba ndithengisa nantoni na eyingozi. Yinto enika amandla kum. Ukuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi kumalunga nokubeka ucwangco kwindalo ephithizelayo, ukujonga umhlaba, abantu, kunye nembali ngendlela ethile evakalayo. Abantu bavunyelwe ukwenza loo nto. Nokuba kungenxa yokholo lwabo okanye isayensi yabo, sonke sinelungelo kwiindlela zethu ezahlukeneyo zokuhlalutya umhlaba, kwaye ukuba ayikhathazi mntu (endiza kuphinda ndiphinde, akunjalo) kulungile.
Kodwa eyona nto ndiyicingayo ibugs ngakumbi kumadoda kukuba ukuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi, kwaye eyona nto iyi-woo woo izinto, zisetyenziswa ikakhulu kwaye ziyonwatyelwa ngabafazi. Ubugqi kunye nobugqi kunye nemetaphysical zibonwa njengowesifazana (ngenxa yezizathu ezisemthethweni nezingavumelekanga) kwaye ke, abafanelwe yintlonipho. Ukuba abantu basetyhini bakuloo nto, nokuba sisiqholo sethanga okanye ukuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi okanye i-Uggs okanye i-anime okanye nantoni na, bububhanxa obuyingozi kwaye buyingozi kulo lonke uluntu ngokubi.
Ukugculelwa ngeenkwenkwezi akunakuphazanyiswa kukugculelwa kwabasetyhini kunye nabasetyhini ngokubanzi, kwaye yingxaki leyo. Isimo sokuba le yingozi yenzululwazi inkohliso inxibelelene ngokunzulu nembono yooyise yokuba abasetyhini abayiqondi inzululwazi (le yi-BS) kwaye ukuba iinenekazi zethu ezibuthathaka azinakuthenjwa ukuba zixelele itshathi yemvelo kwitafile yamaxesha (kabini BS).
Kwaye ke kubo bonke abantu bexesha elidlulileyo, kunye nabangenakuphepheka abaya kuvela kwezi zimvo, ndithi: vumela abantu bonwabele izinto. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, yeka ukucinga ukuba nawuphina umntu obhinqileyo othanda ukufundwa kweenkwenkwezi, okanye onokholo kuyo nayiphi na into ngokubanzi, unolwazi oluphosakeleyo kwaye akakholelwa kwisayensi. Ukuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi yinto ehambelana nokuphila kweli hlabathi kwaye ayiphikisani nayo nayiphi na inzululwazi okanye ezinye iimbono zehlabathi. Kwaye ukuba ucinga ukuba ungaphezulu kwayo kwaye awukholelwa ukuba kulungile, sukuhlasela abanye.
Kwakhona, usuku lokuzalwa olumnandi, ukuba uyakucaphukela ukuxelelwa ukuba unjani kwaye ucinga ukuba umbono wakho ubalulekile, mhlawumbi unguLeo.
(umfanekiso: Prague Astronomical Clock, Wikimedia Commons)
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