ICharisma Carpenter Cens Isincoko esimalunga nendlela yokuba liLunga lokuSinda kwiXhoba

Kwinyanga ephelileyo, uCharisma Carpenter wakhupha ingxelo echaza indlela yokuziphatha kukaJoss Whedon ekuthiwa wayephethe gadalala. Umdlali weqonga, owayedlala uCordelia Chase Buffy iVampire Slayer kwaye Ingelosi , wabhala uJoss unembali yokuba ukhohlakele ngokungakhathali. Udale iimeko zomsebenzi ezinobutshaba kunye netyhefu ukusukela ukuqala kwakhe umsebenzi. Ndiyazi kuba ndizibonele ngokwam. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo.

Umchweli uthathe isigqibo sokuthetha phandle exhasa umdlali weqonga uRay Fisher, obize isimilo sikaWhedon kwiseti ye I-Justice League gross, abusive, unprofessional, kwaye ayamkelekanga kwaphela.

Oko wathetha, uMchweli unakho ifumene inkxaso kuninzi lwamalungu akhe abhinqileyo, kunye neqaqobana lamadoda. Ngoku, unayo Ubhale isincoko kwiHollywood Reporter ngendlela onokuba lihlakani lakho lokuxhaphaza amaxhoba.

Umchweli ubhala ukuba uphefumlelwe ukuba abhale ikholamu yeendwendwe emva kokufumana ukukhutshwa kwenkxaso. Inyani yile yokuba ngelixa ukugcwala kwamagqabantshintshi kunye neefowuni bekusekwe kwiinjongo ezilungileyo, ezinye zisasilela. Kwaqonda kum ukuba uninzi lwabantu alunokwazi ukuba lihlakani okanye ukuxhasa olona xhoba lusizi. Ngelishwa ndiqhelene kakhulu nokufumana ukubethwa emzimbeni nasengqondweni.

Umchweli emva koko uchaza ngembali yakhe eyoyikisayo yokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokwasengqondweni nangokweemvakalelo, kunye nendlela afuna ukuyiguqula ibe ngamava akhe. Ndabelana ngamava am malunga nomphathi wam wangaphambili, uJoss Whedon, ukuze sikwazi ukubona eyona ngxaki isenzeka kwiminyaka engama-20 kamva. Ileta yam evulekileyo ayisiyiyo nje eyothusayo yokukhupha okanye yokulahla inkunkuma. Kukutsalela umnxeba. Kwaye umnxeba kwisenzo. Yabhalwa kumzamo omanyeneyo wokukhuthaza utshintsho. Uye wongeza, ke injongo yam kukunceda ekufundiseni nabani na ofunda oku malunga nokuba lihlakani lakhe kwaye axhase umntu osindileyo ekwenzakaleni kwizinto ezininzi.

Ngelixa uMchweli eqaphela ukuba akangomntu onelayisensi, uthatha kumava akhe kunyango kwaye oyise ukuxhatshazwa ukuba abelane ngezinto acinga ukuba zibalulekile ekufuneka zikhunjulwe kulwalamano. Uxoxa ngokuphulaphula ngovelwano kwabasindileyo, ukubhala Ukubuza amava omntu xa ingeyonxalenye yophando olusesikweni kungakhathali kwaye kubonisa ukuba wena, jaji, udinga ubungqina obungaphezulu bokuvavanya oko uxelelwa ukuba kuyinyani. Mamela nje. Yiba novelwano. Yiba ngumntu okhuselekileyo.

Ukwabiza ibali eliqhelekileyo lokuxelela abo basindileyo ukuba bagqithe kulo okanye baphakame ngaphezulu kokuxhatshazwa, eqonda ukuba, ubulungisa babaphethwe gadalala yinxalenye yenkqubo yokuphilisa. Ucebisa nabasindileyo abakholelwayo kwaye angadlali ummeli kamtyholi okanye ixhoba lokuhlambalaza amava omntu.

Isincoko sichaphazela neengcamango eziqhelekileyo malunga nokuxhatshazwa, njengokuxhatshazwa kwengqondo kungabi kubi njengokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni, okanye ukugxeka amaxhoba ngokuhlala kwiimeko ezihlukumezayo. Ukwabiza ukubaluleka kokuqonda ukungabinamsebenzi kwindlela abonakalisa ngayo, kunye nokubaluleka kweziphumo kwinkcubeko. Ukhuthaza iintatheli ukuba zilahle ibinzana lokuziphatha gwenxa ngokwesondo, ukubhala iiNtloko zihlala zichaza izenzo zodlwengulo, ukubetha okanye ukusebenzisa iziyobisi njengezibi 'zokuziphatha gwenxa ngokwesini. Zifanele ukuba zibhalwe ngendlela efanelekileyo. Biza loo nto, into leyo.

Umchweli ugqiba isincoko sakhe ngokukhuthaza ishishini ukuba liqhubeke nokuqesha abo basindileyo bathethayo. Akukho nto ihlukanisa yodwa kwaye iyoyikisa njengokubanakho ukondla usapho lwakho. Olu loyiko lubamba abantu bathimbe ukubandezeleka kwabo kwaye luxhasa inkqubo eyaphukileyo. Yeka ukubiza amaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala njengabo banengxaki. Umxhaphazi unengxaki-hayi lowo uxhatshazwayo.

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