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Imida

Ukuba wawukhe wandixelela ukuba ngenye imini ndiza kufumanisa ubuni bam ngokudlala umntu wokuqala, ngendandihleke ebusweni bakho.

Ndiyathetha, yinto nje engenangqondo. Okokuqala, mna ithiyiwe Imidlalo ye-FPS, kwaye ngaphandle koko, bendichanekile… andinguye?

Ndingene kwi Imida ilungelo lokuthengisa ilungelo lokungena kwi-whim. Enye yeemvumi endizithandayo yayiqeshelwe ukwenza ifayile ye- remix yevidiyo ukukhuthaza esona sihloko sitsha kuthotho, kwaye njengoko bekunjalo ngobuninzi bendalo yakhe, ndathandana kwangoko. Kodwa endaweni yokuba ibe yingxolo engapheliyo kuyo yonke imisebenzi yam, ndizifumene nditsaleleke kwividiyo uqobo, ngakumbi ilizwe elivelisayo.

Isitayile sobugcisa, isiphithiphithi, kunye noburharha bayo yonke loo nto — yayigqibelele kwaye iphelele ngaphezulu-kodwa yayikhona into malunga nayo eyandenza ndanomdla. Kunzima ukuyichaza, kodwa indenze ndaziva ngathi ndingumntwana kwakhona, ngakumbi njengoko ndikhumbula malunga nazo zonke ezo yure ndizichithe ndibhaptiziwe kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zehlabathi. Okudala ndaya ndisiba mdala, kokukhona ndandiziqhelanisa nezinto zam zokuzonwabisa ezibonakala ngathi zezomntwana, kodwa andikhange ndiyiqonde indlela endikhumbula ngayo ukubaleka. Indenze ndafuna ukuphinda ndiphonononge kwakhona.

Kwaye ngelixa ukuhlekisa kwayo yeyona nto inditsalileyo, ubunzima obungalindelekanga kunye nobunzulu behlabathi layo zezinto ezazindigcina ndidlala. Ndizele ugqabhuko-dubulo kunye noburharha obungenangqondo, kodwa ndihlalele isimilo esikhethekileyo kwaye ngokumangalisayo sintsonkothile ngokwakha umhlaba. Isimo sokuhlaziya semidlalo ukumelwa kunye nokubandakanyeka nako kwakungekho lula ukungahoyi-inguquko eyamkelekileyo ukusuka kwizihloko ezazisenziwa ngobutsha bam ezingazange zibonakale ngathi ziyakwazi ukuqonda ukuba umntu ongenguye umntu omhlophe wesini esahlukileyo angadlala ngabo.

Ke, njengawo nawuphi na umhlobo wentombazana enomdla omtsha, ndiqale ndadinwa ndisebenzisa lonke ulwazi endinokulufumana kuthotho. Imida iphefumlele amanqaku amaninzi axhokonxa iingcinga, udliwanondlebe kunye neengcinga, kubandakanya uninzi olukhangele indlela eyahlukileyo ngokungaqhelekanga yokumelwa kwabalinganiswa ( Udliwanondlebe lukaMary Sue kunye nababhali abaphambili be Ukulandelelana kwangaphambili ngumzekelo omkhulu woku). Kodwa kunye nemithombo engaphandle, iqela lokuyila lemidlalo lalinobudlelwane obuhlaziyayo obuvulekileyo kunye nabalandeli babo, olukhokelele kubutyebi bokwenyani bolwazi kubandakanya eneeblogi ezineenkcukacha ezibonisa ukukhula kwemidlalo , njengo kumlingiswa we-AMAs kwaye amajelo eendaba ezentlalo (Zombini ezi zinto ziqwalaselwe njengeziyi-canon kwimidlalo yendalo yonke). Ngaphezulu koku, BL2 kwaye GST Umbhali okhokelayo u-Anthony Burch naye ugcinile (ngelishwa ngoku akasasebenzi) ask.fm akhawunti Apho aphendule yonke imibuzo onokuyicinga, kulapho ndaqala khona ukwazi nge-Burch’s-canon yamaMaya yokuba yi-asexual.

Imida yeBorderlands 2

Ndandihlala ndingumlandeli Imida 2 'S, Maya, i-siren edlalwayo ethi ngeendlela ezininzi yayikukujika ngokungqalileyo komdlalo wokuqala olinganayo, uLilith. Ngelixa uLilith wayenomlilo kwaye enomsindo, kwakukho ubuqili obuqilileyo kuMaya, inqanaba lokuzola kunye nolawulo olwalusilela ngamanye amaxesha ukutyhila intombazana encinci izama ukufumana indawo yayo kwindalo iphela. Wayethandeka kwaye ebandakanyeka, ngaphandle kwezithintelo eziza nokuba ngumntu ophambili ongathethiyo (umba owalungiswa ngombulelo ngempumelelo enkulu Ukulandelelana kwangaphambili ).

Ngaphandle kwamathuba akhe amancinci okuphawulwa, isimilo sikaMaya saphinda sanyamalala ngexesha lomdlalo wesibini uninzi lwee-DLC apho uBurch waqala ukushiya iingcebiso ze-canon malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe (kunye nokubakho kwe-aromanticism). Umzekelo, kwi UMad Moxxi kunye nokubulawa kwabantu ngoSuku loMtshato , xa ubuzwa ukuba unike amagama okhuthazo lothando kwirobhothi ngokuzithemba (hee, ndikuxelele ukuba ngumdlalo onqabileyo), uMaya uyaphendula, andazi kwanto ngothando, ke nceda wenze ngathi ndithethe into ekhuthazayo Amandla othando. Ngokufanayo, kwi Mnumzana Hammerlock vs uNyana weCrawmerax , xa wayefunda ileta evela kumbulali wakhe owayembulala ekhala 'ngokubhidekisa' (ngokubonakala kwisazinzulu esididekileyo uPatricia Tannis), endaweni yokubuza indlela engaqhelekanga yokufa kwakhe (kwakubandakanya ibhiya kunye nengca eyenziwe nge-anthrax ), Ukuthetha kukaMaya kuphela, Huh. Ndinomtsalane?

Njengokuba kunjalo ngobuninzi bexesha lokumelwa kwe-franchise (ewe, kwaneJaney Springs ecekeceke kakhulu endiya kuyikhusela ngokufayo ekufeni), ndifumanise ukuba ezi meko azinanto yakwenza noko kubizwa ngokuba yi-ajenda yokutyhala 'okanye' umqondiso ', kwaye endaweni yoko bawajonga njengokongeza kubunzima bokubonakaliswa kukaMaya. Kuyamangalisa, kodwa kuyamangalisa, ukuba kwihlabathi elingaphezulu neliphezulu kunye nabalinganiswa abahlala kulo ngabantu ngokumangalisayo. Ngelixa phambi koku ndandonwabile isimilo sikaMaya, ezi yayiziziganeko zokuqala apho ndaye ndanxulumana naye (nangona zazingezizo iindlela endizibambe ngazo).

Kwanaphambi kokuba ndizithathele ingqalelo njengayo nantoni na engeyiyo ngqo ndayixabisa Imida ’Ukumelwa ngokwembono ebalisayo. Ayibonisanga kuphela ubunzima obunomdla kubalinganiswa bayo, kodwa ikwadlala nakwisakhiwo sehlabathi sendalo yonke yemidlalo, ekugqibeleni inikezela ngomthombo wobumnyama, kodwa ohlekisayo. Bekuhlala kukho into ebumnyameni ngeyona nto iphikisayo ukuba yindawo engcolileyo engazaliswanga kukufa, ukuphelelwa lithemba, kunye nentshabalalo eqhubela phambili ngokungaphaya kunelizwe lethu. Kwangokunjalo, inyani yokuba umdlalo ujonga ukufunga okuninzi (okanye ukusebenzisa amagama anje nge freakin ’njl.njl.) Ikwanceda ukukhanyisa ubuyatha nokuhanahanisa komdlalo obona umdlali exhela ngokungekho sikweni amawaka.

Ewe izinto ziye zihlekise kancinci xa uqaphela ukuba amaqela abekelwe bucala adlala umdlalo banokuziva bekhuselekile kwiplanethi engenabundlobongela, etya inja njengePandora; Apho isimilo esihle kakhulu asikho kwaye kulawula ubundlongondlongo, kunokuba kunjalo kubomi babo bokwenyani. Ekuphela kwento ebonisa ukubaluleka kweyantlukwano kunye nokumelwa kuzo zonke iindlela zosasazo. Ngapha koko, oku kubaluleka yinto endinokuyingqina; Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngaphandle kwayo ngekhe ndibhale le ngoku. Endaweni yokuba ndiqhubeke ebomini bam ndiziva ndophukile, ndilahlekile kwaye ndindodwa…

Ngoku, ndiyazi ukuba ucinga ntoni:

Angathini umntu kunokwenzeka ungabazi ubulili babo de babe (ziiakhawunti zonke) umntu omdala okhulile?

Impendulo inzima…

Ngaphezulu kwayo nayiphi na into, bendicinga ukuba ukungabikho kwam ekutsaleni ngokwesini Iimpawu zesifo esinganyangekiyo endakha ndasifumana okoko ndafikisa oko kwandikhokelela ekubeni ndizibone njengenanto eyonakeleyo. Ndikholelwa ngokwenyani ukuba ndophuke kakhulu yimeko yam yezonyango kangangokuba bendizinciphisa nje enye yezona ‘nkalo zisisiseko zamava oluntu’ (okanye ke ndakhokelwa ukuba ndikholelwe). Ngaphezulu koku, ndenze impazamo ngokuvumela umbono wabanye abantu ngam ulawule indlela endijonga ngayo, ekugqibeleni ukutolika gwenxa ngokwesondo .

Kwakhona ndandinomfanekiso oqinileyo (kodwa ekugqibeleni ungachanekanga) yintoni umntu o-asexual, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ayindifanelanga, eyathi xa idityaniswa nenyaniso yokuba ndazi ngentliziyo yam yonke ukuba andinguye umntu wesini esahlukileyo wandikhokelela ekubeni ndikholelwe ukuba isini esahlukileyo ngokungagqibekanga. Kodwa yonke loo nto yatshintsha xa bendifunda Anthony Burch ask.fm kwaye ndikhubeke kuthotho lweencoko ngokubhekisele ekuziphatheni ngokwesini kukaMaya. Ngeli xesha iBurch Uvakalise inkxalabo yokuba umlinganiswa wayengenzelwanga ngamehlo ecinga ngobungqangi bakhe , athe yayizicacele into yokuba impahla yakhe ibinolusu olutyhilekileyo kwaye ethambise ubunzima. Ngeli xesha oku kwakubonakala njengendawo efanelekileyo kum, nangona kunjalo, emva kokuba kuthunyelwe inani le-asexuals laqhagamshelana neBurch laza labonisa ukuba indlela umntu azibonakalisa ngayo (ngempahla yabo okanye ngokwenza izinto zokuthambisa njlnjl.) Ayinanto yakwenza nesini sabo (okanye ukusilela kwayo).

Njengomphenduli ongaziwayo , Ndicinga ukuba uMaya usenokuqhubeka nokuzonwabisa ngendlela anxibe ngayo! Ukwabelana ngesondo akubalulekanga kwindlela oziveza ngayo, kwaye abantu abasoloko benxiba abanye (mna, umzekelo, ndingumlingani obonisa umzimba wam).

Imida yeBorderlands 3

Ndineentloni kancinci ukuyivuma ngoku, kodwa yayizindaba kum. Ingcinga yokunxiba ngokwesondo 'ngokwesondo' yabonakala njengengcinga ye-oxymoronic kum. Ngaphambili bendikade ndibacinga njengabachasene ngokupheleleyo nomba wesini kangangokuba baya kwenza konke okusemandleni abo ukunqanda ukuba neentlobano zesini. Kwaye njengomntu obenokhetho lwesarartri (kwaye isenjalo) ngokufuthi ekubhekiswa kuyo njenge 'dominatrix-chic' bendihlala ndicinga ukuba andilungelanga ukungunda. Kwakungekade ndide ndizifunde ezi mpendulo apho ndaye ndabona ukuba indlela yam yokucinga yayikekelele kangakanani, kwaye ndicinga ngasemva kwinto engaqhelekanga yokuqhelana nokuqatshelwa kwiincoko ze-DLC zamaMaya, andikwazi ukuzibamba ndizibuze ukuba ngaba sikho esinye isizathu sokuba ehlobene nayo kakhulu.

Ngokukhawuleza ndibetha iwebhu, ndibeka kwakhona izakhono zam ezingamantombazana-ezithandekayo kwakhona ukuze ndifumane yonke into endinokuyenza ngesihloko. Ndothuswa yindlela ethe ngqo ngayo yonke le nto; Ukuzibandakanya ngokwesini kuthetha ukuba umntu akakhange azive etsala ngokwesondo. Ngaphezulu koku, ndaziswa kwi-aromanticism eyayiyinto entsha eyayindifanela njengeglavu-ngelixa ndandisakwazi ukukhawulela ukungabikho komtsalane wesini kwiingxaki zam zempilo, kwakungekho nto ichazayo ukusilela kwam komtsalane wothando -Yile nto ndandinguye. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo yayilelinye lamava akhanyisayo ebomini bam, kwaye xa ndifunda ibali emva kwebali elinokubhalwa ndim, ndaziva ndiphakanyiswa ubunzima emagxeni am. Ndiphosakele-andizange ndophuke-ndandinomdla nje. Ibutshintshe ngokunyanisekileyo ubomi bam.

Kwaye bendine-FPS ye-freakin yokubulela ngayo…

Ngokubanzi, ndicinga ukuba ukufumanisa ubungqingili bam yimbeko efanelekileyo kumdlalo owukhuthazileyo; Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, zozibini zihlelwe ngokwenqanaba lokungabinangqondo elibonisa ubunzulu bokwenyani kunye nokubaluleka kokubini okuqukayo. Kubantu abaninzi Imida , sisiqwenga sokonwatyiswa nje kuphela, kodwa kwabanye (njengam) kuninzi kakhulu kunoko. Ngokufana nesixeko esidadayo esingaziwayo esisebenza njengendawo ekhuselekileyo yeVault Hunters ePandora, Imida ngokwayo ingcwele — indawo phakathi kwesiphithiphithi kunye nokudideka apho amaqela ahlukeneyo anokufuna indawo yokusabela kwizinto eziyinyani zobomi babo bemihla ngemihla.

Kwaye njengabadlali abaninzi, ndinombulelo ongazenzisiyo ngale nto, kodwa ngelishwa ngoku sishiyeke sinengxaki…

Eyona ntshatsheli yomdlalo yantlukwano kunye nokumelwa, u-Anthony Burch, uyishiyile iGearbox ukuba ilandele ezinye iinzame, ishiya inani elikhulu labadlala abahlelelekileyo bexhalabile ngekamva le-franchise. Ukuthi ngqo, ezinye i-asexuals zisoyika ukuba umbhali omtsha uza kuzenza mhlophe ezokuziphatha kukaMaya . Ngoku, ngaphandle kokuba ndiqeshwe njengombhali (ngokungathandabuzekiyo, iGearbox, ndingakulungela ukwenza izinto ezingenangqondo ezinokubangela ukuba amaPandorans ahlazeke kwaye abasebenzi baseHyperion bandiphakamisele kum-esihogweni, nditsho noJack Handsome ngokwakhe angothuka kukungaziphathi kakuhle Into ekuphela kwayo esinokuyenza kukuba nethemba lokuba BL3 Iqela liyazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukumelwa eluntwini, kunye nobunzulu obunokuthi bongeze kubalinganiswa ababenzileyo.

Ke, ukuba ukubandakanyeka kwimicimbi yokudlala kuwe (okanye uthanda imidlalo ebhalwe kakuhle kunye neyonwabisayo) ndicebisa ngentliziyo yam yonke ukuba ujonge Imida series ukuba awukabikho. Ngaphezulu, ukuba ungathanda ukubona ukwahluka okungaphezulu kwi Imida 3 , kutheni unganxibelelani neGearbox nge Facebook zabo okanye Twitter kwaye ubaxelele ukuba zeziphi iintlobo zabameli ongathanda ukuzibona. Ngethamsanqa elincinci, kunye nenkxaso yesiseko fan fan, BL3 inokungafani kakhulu (kwaye ngumbutho onomdla kakhulu) i-adventure okwangoku!

UNico yi-asexual enuka kamnandi evela e-Australia. Emva kokuchitha i-20s yakhe yokuqala njengombhali wefashoni kunye nendlela yokuphila, uye wamthiya umntu ocwebezelayo kwaye wanikwa ubunyani bakhe bokwenyani. Ubhloga malunga nokufunyanwa kunye nokwamkelwa kwesazisi sakhe se-aro / ace (A) Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye neSixeko . Unokumfumana kwi-Twitter @kweenkanye . Wayezimisele ukubulala ngokusebenza BL3 , ke kuye nakowuphi na umsebenzi weGearbox, uyazi ukuba ungamfumana phi. Ubuqili bukwanjalo ngokucacileyo indawo yakhe eyomeleleyo…

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