Ukuba ngumzali ngoku kunzima kakhulu. Ngabantwana bonke ekhaya bevela esikolweni, abazali abaninzi, njengam, basebenza ekhaya ngelixa kulindeleke ukuba banike abantwana bethu imfundo esemgangathweni. Ukugcina abantwana abangakwaziyo ukuya naphi na ngexesha elinye esizama ukwenza imisebenzi yethu phantsi kweemeko zoxinzelelo olukhulu kukubulala. Kwaye ke, uninzi lwabazali, ndibandakanyile, ndinikezele kwinto yokuba abantwana bethu bazakuba nexesha elininzi lesikrini ngoku.
Kwaye kulungile.
Ixesha lesikrini, okt ukuvumela umntwana wakho abukele iTV okanye iYouTube okanye imovie, ligama elingcolileyo phakathi kwabazali abaninzi-ngakumbi kwizityebi, izangqa zeyuppie apho kuhlala kukho ukhuphiswano olufihlakeleyo phakathi kwabazali malunga nokuba ngubani onokufumana okona kutya kuninzi Ii-Einsteins ngelixa zijolise ekuntywiliselweni kulwimi lwesithathu. Abanye baba bazali ikwangabo bantu banokuthi ngokuhlekisayo bathi andinayo iTV okanye ndibukele iPBS kuphela ngaphambi kokuba babe nabantwana. Banganditya abo bazali.
Kwanangaphambi kokuba yonke le nto yenzeke, ukugcina umntwana wakho kude nezikrini kwakunxitywe njengebheji yozuko, kwaye ndiyabahlonipha kwaye ndibothulelle umnqwazi abazali abakwaziyo ukwenza oko. Kodwa mna, kunye nabazali abaninzi, ngaphandle kwezikrini, indlu yam ayizukusebenza. Xa unamandla amakhulu, umntwana oyilayo, ngamanye amaxesha ebavumela ukuba babukele abantwana beYouTube kuphela kwendlela esinokufumana ngayo imizuzu emihlanu ukuba sichame, singasathethi ke ngokusebenza imini yonke ekhaya.
Ewe ewe, ndivumela umntwana wam ukuba abukele IBarbie Dream House Adventures kwaye Ngummangaliso kwaye ICoraline ixesha lamakhulu amahlanu. (Lowo wokugqibela ndiya kuhlala ndimjoyina. Andidinwa yile movie). Yinto esimelwe kukuyenza, kwaye andivumeli ukuba netyala longeze kulo lonke olunye uxinezeleko esele ndiluvile.
Into ekufuneka siyenzile kukuphelisa ubandlululo ngokuchasene nexesha lesikrini ngokubanzi kunye nembono exhaphakileyo yokuba yeyona nto imbi onokuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba ayenze. Ayiyo. Kukho abaxhasi kumacala omabini, ukusuka kwabanye besithi abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emihlanu akufuneki ibe ngaphezulu kweyure yexesha lesikrini (HA) ukuya abo bacinga ukuba kulungile ngokupheleleyo . Ngokunyanisekileyo asazi, kwaye ngoku, sijongana neemeko ezingaqhelekanga. Abantwana bethu baphila kwintlekele yamazwe aphesheya, ngokufanayo nathi. Sonke sinazo izoyikiso ezinkulu ekufuneka sijongane nazo kunexesha lescreen.
Into malunga nayo yonke le nto, njengeengcebiso ezininzi zobuzali ezineenjongo ezintle kodwa zihlala zingenamsebenzi, kukuba ixhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kubazali, ebantwaneni, nakwiimeko ezizezinye. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubukele umabonakude imini yonke endaweni yokuphuma okanye ukufunda, ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elibonakala ligqithile, ewe, ngenelela. Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuba nomabonakude ukuze umntwana wakho abaleke kwigumbi lokuhlala endaweni yokuba iofisi yakho yasekhaya, kulungile.
Ayikuko nje ukuba umabonwakude angaba yinto eyonwabisayo kunye nokuphazamisa abantwana xa bengenanto bayenzayo. Inokubafundisa kwaye ibakhuthaze. Abantwana abafundanga nje kubazali nakootitshala; bafunda kwizikrini zabo, kwaye yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele Intoni abantwana bakho babukele, kodwa ukuyeka uxinzelelo ukuba bajonge konke.
Asinakho ukuthatha abantwana siye epakini okanye kumyezo wezilwanyana. Azinakuba nemidlalo yokudlala. Ukuba unethamsanqa, banokuchitha ixesha kunye nezinye izalamane, kodwa kunqabile. Kwaye thina bazali basebenzayo asinakubabonelela ngokuzonwabisa okanye ukuhoya kwethu yonke imini yonke, kwaye nengqwalaselo yabo emsebenzini wesikolo, ukuba banayo, ayinakuhlala imini yonke. Sonke siyazama ukumelana, kwaye ukuba oko kuthetha ixesha elininzi kumabonwakude, kulungile. Ikhaya lam lonke liyindawo yentlekele, kwaye ndiyayisikelela imihla inzala yam ebeka ngayo iblukhwe. Siyamelana.
Kuya kufuneka ndizixelele yonke imihla ukuba andisileli njengomzali ngokuvumela umntwana wam abukele into ukuze kumanqaku athile emini ndikwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wam, kwaye ke, ndiyakuxelela lonto, nam. Ukuba unomntwana ofumana ixesha elingaphezulu kwesikrini ngoku, zixolele. Ukuba awunamntwana kwaye unoluvo okanye unethamsanqa elaneleyo lokuba nomntwana okhetha ukwenza ii-organic quinoa mosaics kuRyan's Toy Review, ndiyanibongela, ndonwabile ngenxa yenu, kodwa ncedani nithule kwaye musani ukugweba abo bethu abenzayo esinokukwenza.
(umfanekiso: Iipelisi)
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