Kubekho ingxoxo eninzi kunye nokugxekwa ngengoma ethi Amantombazana nguRita Ora, uCardi B. noCharli XCX. Umculi waseLesbian, uHayley Kiyoko kunye nomculi we-queer, uKehlani, wabiza ingoma yamazwi abonakala ngathi athetha ukuba abafazi kufuneka basele iwayini ukuze baphuze amantombazana.
Iposti ekwabelwana ngayo NGU H O Y O O O (@hayleykiyoko) ngoMeyi 11, 2018 nge-12: 42 pm PDT
Bobabini uRita Ora kunye noCardi B baphendule ngokuchaza ubufanasini babo. U-Ora uphume esithi le ngoma ibonakalisa amava akhe kwaye akazami ukudlala kwinto ethe tye okanye kwindoda kodwa ukumela inyaniso yam.
-Rita Ora (@RitaOra) Ngomhla we-14, 2018
Oku kulandelayo kukubuya nokubuya malunga Ngaba ukubuyela umva kakhulu ngaphezulu? Ngaba le yimbonakalo yokwenene yokwabelana ngesondo? Ngaba uRita noCardi bangamafanasini, njl?
Engqondweni yam, andizukugxotha abathandana nabanye abacinga ukuba le ngoma idlala ngamehlo abesilisa, ngakumbi xa ibhalwe ikakhulu ngamadoda. Le ngoma inababhali abalandelayo: Rita Ora, Klenord Raphael, Ali Tamposi, Jonny Coffer, Jordan Thorpe, Belcalis Almanzar (Cardi B), Brian Lee, Andrew Wotman noBenjamin Diehl. Kutheni befuna abantu abasithoba, ngekhe ndazi.
Kwangelo xesha, ndiyayiqonda into yokuba kwabanye abantu le yingoma yomculo ophucukileyo oselayo malunga nokusela KUNYE nokuncamisa amantombazana ngaphandle kokudinga enye ukwenza enye. Oko kwathiwa, into endiyikhunjuzwa ngayo yindlela ingoma endiyiphuza ngayo Intombazana nguKaty Perry.
Ndincamisile Intombazana yingoma enengxaki enkulu. I-biphobic kwaye isongelwe kuzo zonke izinto abantu abazichazayo malunga nokulala ngokwesini: konke malunga nokujonga kwendoda, akukho kutsala kwabasetyhini, kwaye kuyingozi kakhulu, umbono wokuba amantombazana alungileyo akenzi njalo. Nditsho noKaty Perry ngokwakhe uyayifumana le ngoma hayi umdala kakuhle.
Nangona kunjalo, xa ndandisebenza kwimiba yam, le ngoma yayinempembelelo kum. Ngenxa yokuba ndandingakhululekanga kumtsalane wam kubafazi ndisengumntwana. Ndiyiphikile nzima. Xa ndijonga ngasemva ngoku, kubonakala ngathi kuyacaca xa ndandineefolda ezininzi kwikhompyuter yam yabasetyhini endibathandayo kwaye ekuphela kwamadoda endandiye kuwo yayinguRobert Downey Jr. okanye ii-anime dudes (Lord Sesshoumaru).
Nangona ndandingakhethi abantu abathandana nabantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye, kodwa ndandiyazi ukuba ikufutshane nam kwaye yayisoyikisa. Bendingafuni ukuyibona ngokwam, kodwa bendifuna ukuyiveza le nto ikum ekhwaza amantombazana mahle kakhulu . Kulapho ndanga khona Intombazana yangena. Into uKaty Perry awayeyibonisa yayingumhobe wesini wabantu abathandanayo, kodwa kum, yayikukuba ndibhinqe malunga nendlela endifuna ukumanga ngayo intombazana kuba ndingayithanda, kodwa Bendingafuni noyise ayazi.
ndenze ukuya Ividiyo yeDisney yoMculo nengoma, ndithatha inkathalo enkulu yokuthelekisa onke amanenekazi endandiwafuna kunye kwaye ndijonga ngasemva yayiyindlela endinokuthi ndiveze ubukrwada bam ngaphandle kokuziva uxinzelelo lokuba ndibeke uxinzelelo kum.
Ndandineminyaka elishumi elinesithandathu kwaye amava am kuphela kukuziphatha ngokwesini xa ndandikwishumi elivisayo ngaphandle kwe-CLAMP manga yayinguMaureen Qesha . Bendingazi ukuba ndizive njani kwaye bendisazi nokuba lithetha ntoni eli gama. Ndazi nje ukuba ndinolu luvo kum lokuba ndiziva ndinemincili kwaye ndineentloni ngalo kuba bendisazi ukuba andikulungelanga ukuzibophelela kuyo. Nangona kunjalo, ayizange indinqande ekudlaleni ingoma ubusuku emva kobusuku kwigumbi lam lokulala ndicinga ngamantombazana ancamisayo kunye nendlela abaza kujongeka ngayo.
Ngoku, kukho uJanelle Monáe, uHayley Kiyoko, uMary Lambert, kunye nabanye amagcisa ababhinqileyo abangavulekiyo ukuba bangathandana rhoqo. Enye yezinto ezenza ukuba ubundlobongela buqhubeke nzima kum yayiloluhlu lwamagcisa ababhinqileyo abazibiza ngokuba ngabantu abathandanayo, kodwa kamva bakuphinda oko (uNicki Minaj noJessie J beza engqondweni). Kukho okungcono, ukugqibelela ngakumbi, ii-anthems zesini kunye ne-pansexual.
Okwangoku, ndinokuyikhanyela into yokuba njengoko ndimamele le ngoma kwakhona, inxenye yam endiyindoda ekhulileyo yesini eya kuthi i-100% ifumane isiciko sealbham engcolileyo ye-albhamu emzimbeni wam ifana nale ngoma i-fucking, kum owayesoyikeka kakhulu kwaye enovalo malunga nothando olunzulu noEmma Watson kufana nokuba ndincamisile intombazana kwaye ndiyithandile incasa ye-cherry chapstick yakhe…
Amantombazana yingoma esisidenge, kodwa mhlawumbi kuRita Ora kunye nabanye abantu abasibhozo ababhalayo, kukho intsingiselo enkulu ngasemva kwayo. Andiqondi ukuba wayezimisele ukukhubekisa, kodwa ngenxa yenkqubela phambili esele siyenzile, kusekho inkqubela phambili efunekayo ngokubhekisele kubasetyhini. Sisafuna ukumelwa ngakumbi ngokwesini samadoda, isini sabasetyhini kwiincwadi ze-YA ezifana AbaKhanyi Ukuyiqhuba kakuhle kwaye ubonise ngathi I-100 kwaye Intombazana elahlekileyo kwaye Utolo babonise ukuba banokukhokelela kuthotho. Nangona kunjalo, sisalinde imovie ukuze ifike.
Okwangoku inyani yokuba uHayley Kiyoko noJanelle Monáe bangazenza iingoma zothando ngabafazi iyonwabisa kwaye iseyinto entsha… ngelishwa. Kukho indawo yaMantombazana kwaye ndicinga ukuba kufanele, kwaye siya kuyidinga, iingoma ezimnandi malunga nokuntywila ngokwesini kunye novuyo. Ngaba le ngoma? Andinakutsho ukuba iyakuba yiyo na, okanye hayi, yomnye umntu.
Kukho amanye amantombazana anokukwazi ukufikelela kwiminqweno yabo yesondo ngokunxila, kuba njengoko bekukho inkqubela phambili, kuba abanye abantu kukho uloyiko kulingo lwesondo kwaye uzivulele ngokwakho kuloo mava. Oko kufuneka kulunge. Andizukugxotha abafazi abathandana nabasetyhini okanye abathandanayo abavakalelwa kukuba le ngoma ayifuni, ndingatsho nje ukuba, ayizizo zonke izinto ezisincedileyo kuhambo lwethu lokuzithanda njengoko abantu be-LGBTQI + bevukile. Yintoni enokuba ilungile ukuba sinyanisekile ngayo.
Ukuthetha kum le ngoma ivakalelwa, ngeyona ndlela inzima yekota 2000 kunye nasemva kwexesha.
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