Njengawo wonke umntu, ndandivile ngebrashi ka-Lena Dunham kunye no-Odell Beckham Jr. kwi-Met Gala yalo nyaka kwaye ndawarhola amehlo xa uxelelwe U-Amy Schumer waziva engahoywanga kuba khange athethe naye. Ndandihleli ecaleni kuka-Odell Beckham Jr., kwaye kwakumangalisa kakhulu kuba yayingathi undijongile kwaye wazimisela ukuba andingomntu obhinqileyo ngokwemigangatho yakhe, watsho ngexesha le-akhawunti yakhe ebhalwe ngokupheleleyo. Wayefana, 'Yilaa marshmallow. Lowo ngumntwana. Inja leyo. ’Kwakungafanelekanga - wayebonakala nje ukuba udidekile.
Emva kokufumana isiphoso kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo, uDunham wacacisa ingxelo yakhe ngokwe ukuya Ukuzonwabisa ngeveki . Ibali lam ngaye lalicacile (kum) malunga nokungaqiniseki kwam njengowasetyhini onamandla kwitafile yee-supermodels kunye nabadlali, wabhala Twitter . Ayisiyongcinga malunga nokuba ungubani okanye ulindelo lokuqwalaselwa ngokwesondo. Yindlela yam yokuhlekisa, eye yandigcina ndiphila iminyaka engama-30. Uyavuya umatshini womsindo ogqumayo nangona, kunjalo @amyschumer?
Ewe, ukupeyinta kwakhe okucinga ukupeyinta u-Odell njengembaleki ethile engamhoyanga ayisiyonto inkulu. Kanye njengokulandela kwakhe, apho wayecwangcise ukuhlukumeza ngokwesondo uMichael B. Jordan kuba ngokuqinisekileyo akacaluli ngokobuhlanga. Ndizakuzama ndidanise ku @ michaelb4jordan ukuba ndinethuba, naxa ndingumakhulu otshatileyo. Ndingumfazi onegazi elibomvu str8! Wongeze watsho.
Yeyiphi indlela ebhetele yokulahla ubuhlanga kunokwabelana ngesondo ngomzimba womntu omnyama kwaye wenze ngokungathi unemvume yokuzisebenzisela ukuzonwabisa kwakho. Akufani nabanini bamakhoboka abenze into enjalo kumakhulu ambalwa eminyaka eyadlulayo, okanye njengamadoda amnyama axhatshazwa njengezinto ezinobundlobongela ngokwesondo kwiifilimu ezinje Mandingo okanye nantoni na.
Eyona nto indikhathaza kakhulu ngolu hlobo lwento kukuba bobabini uLena Dunham kunye no-Amy Schumer bazipendile njengabafazi, bade banconywa ngayo, kodwa babaleka ngeentetho zobuhlanga kunye nokwabelana ngesondo ngemizimba emnyama kuba yile nto iJonga ubuNtsundu obuMhlophe . Abo basebenza phantsi 'koMfazi oMhlophe' basebenza phantsi kwengcinga yokuba bathethela ukulingana kodwa ke, xa kufikwa kwimiba ephathelene nabantu bebala, abazi nto, bathule okanye bazama ukuthulisa amazwi abo bangababiza ngenxa yobuhlanga babo. Kwaye naxa bevuma iziphoso zabo, yonke into ilungile kuba baxolisile kwaye banokuqhubeka nokwenza amagqabaza afanayo.
Kufana naxa abantu behleka iSchumer's Ubisi lweLemon Lemonade Ividiyo yomculo, iparody ebonakalisa abantu basetyhini abanemibala twerking, okanye iziqhulo zakhe malunga nokuzala kwamadoda amnyama kunye nabafazi baseLatina ukuba bayaphambana kuba kuyahlekisa. Sonke kufuneka sikhanyise, akunjalo? Ukuba bekunjalo, ngekhe ayicime le tweet, ye i I-Atlanta Black Star , ukuba amadoda amnyama atyholwayo ayenobundlobongela obukhulu ngokwesondo.
Kodwa inyani kukuba, usazakuba nabalandeli kwaye akazukufumana nkqu impama esihlahleni kuba baninzi abazakumkhusela phantsi kwesifungo sokuba ulibhinqa. Into emnandi: ubufazi kunye nobuhlanga azihambelani . Bona uElizabeth Cady Stanton, inkokeli yombutho waseMelika, owakhubekiswayo kukuba amadoda amnyama athobekileyo avunyelwe ukuvota ngaphezulu kwabafazi abamhlophe, kwaye wacela ukuba abamnyama abamnyama bahambe ngasemva kwemikhosi yabo.
Okwangoku, ndinqwenela ukuba bawuqonde umahluko phakathi kokuqhula ngabantu abantsundu ngokonqena okanye ukuba ndlongondlongo ngokwesini kunye nomntu ohlekisayo ohlekisayo othi abantu abamhlophe bayayithanda iMayonnaise, kuba eyokuqala ineziphumo zobomi bokwenyani. Bangaphi abantu bebala abaye benzakaliswa, babulawa okanye bahlaselwa ngokwesondo ngenxa yokucinga okucingelwayo? Kwaye bangaphi abantu abamhlophe abonzakeleyo ngenxa yokuba omnye umntu ethe inkukhu yabo ayinambitheki?
Kwiminyaka emininzi, abafazi abanemibala baye bajongana nezinye izithintelo ezongezelelweyo, ezahlukileyo kwaye asidingi kuthi abanye abantu abamhlophe bathethe ngaphezulu kwethu. Ke xa uSchumer noDunham behleka izinto ezihlaselayo abazithethileyo, banike uxolo olungenanto, okanye bazame ukuzicima ngeetweets ezisusiweyo, batshayela nje (ngabom okanye hayi) ubuhlanga phantsi kombhoxo bude buphinde bube nentloko yakhe embi . Kodwa emva koko, injalo kanye indlela ubufazi obumhlophe obusebenza ngayo kwaye enkosi ngakumbi nangakumbi kwabafazi bathanda utaylor Swift kwaye UAmy Poehler , abasebenzisa abafazi abanemibala njengeepropu kodwa bathule cwaka kwimiba yethu, ayizukuhamba naliphi na ixesha kungekudala.
(nge I-Atlanta Black Star , umfanekiso nge Iscreencap )
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