U-Lena Dunham Ukhumbuza wonke umntu ukuba kutheni abaFazi beMibala bengamthembi

U-Lena Dunham Jenni Konner

U-Lena Dunham mhlawumbi lelinye lawona mazwi anefuthe kubufazi namhlanje. Ngokudabukisayo, ubufazi bakhe buye buye ekugqibeleni babuhlungu kwaye bumhlophe ngokumhlophe. Kule mpelaveki, uDunham noJenni Konner bakhuphe ingxelo Intatheli yaseHollywood Ukukhusela Amantombazana umbhali uMurray Miller ngokuchasene nesityholo sokubetha esenziwe ngumlingisi uAurora Perrineau.

Kukude kangakanani, kude lee kule tweet ukubuya ngo-Agasti walo nyaka:

Yintoni etshintshileyo? Umhlobo, indoda awayeyazi, watyholwa, ke u-Lena Dunham wasebenzisa iqonga lakhe ukumkhusela esidlangalaleni kwaye wabiza u-Aurora Perrineau, umfazi omnyama, elixoki.

Ke, ndinombuzo: Zingaphi izihlandlo uLena Dunham kufuneka asilele abafazi abanemibala ngaphambi kokuba aqale ukufunda? Okanye ngokungacacanga, mangaphi ama-Lena Dunham kufuneka athethe kwaye enze ubuhlanga ngaphambi kokuba abafazi abamhlophe bayeke ukumkhusela?

Kwiiveki nje ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, umntu endisebenza naye undikhokele kwipodcast Sooo Many White Dudes, ebanjwe nguPhoebe Robinson, kunye nesiqendu apho uDunham athetha noRobinson malunga neempazamo zakhe zobuhlanga:

Ndicinga ukuba xa ungumntu kawonke-wonke abafuni ukukuvumela ukuba ukhule […] Ndiyaguquka njengomntu, kodwa uninzi lwabantu abandigxekayo abahoyi ngokwaneleyo ukuze bazi loo nto kwaye uninzi lwabo abantu bayandigxeka abafundanga nyani umsebenzi wam.

Ndi… nje.

Sihlala sithetha ngoTaylor Swift kunye nexhoba lakhe labasetyhini elimhlophe, kodwa uDunham unalo mgangatho kwimikhosi. Kwinqaku lakhe noManyano waseGabrielle kwinyanga ephelileyo ngo Ileta kaLenny , ukwazile ukwenza umbuzo malunga nesidenge sakhe sobuhlanga shit impikiswano malunga nendlela abantu abapeyinta ngayo abafazi abamnyama kunye nabasetyhini abamhlophe ngokuchasene omnye nomnye kwiindawo zabasetyhini:

LD: Umbuzo wokugqibela ebendifuna ukukubuza wona umalunga neHollywood nobuhlanga. Xa ndathi isimumu sam ngokumangalisayo, ubungumhlobo. Ubuqonde ngqo kum, kwaye uthe, Nazi zonke izizathu zokuba le yingxaki. Into bekungafuneki uyenze kodwa uyenze ngothando nobubele, kwaye uyenze ngesandla esiqinileyo, esisilumko. Uthe esidlangalaleni, ndiye ndancokola noLena Dunham malunga nobuhlanga. Ndinqwenela ukuba ndikhe ndithethe nabanye abadlali bezinto ezimhlophe.

Sibe nencoko ethembekileyo malunga nendlela abafazi abamhlophe abalawula ngayo indawo eHollywood, kwaye ke zonke izihloko bezifana, iGabrielle Union iyamvala uLena Dunham, kwaye ndiyakhumbula ukuba undibhalele umyalezo wathi, ndinqwenela ukuba abantu bangayiqonda kunokwenzeka ukuba abafazi ababini babe nencoko malunga nokuntsonkotha kobuhlanga. Omnye unokufundisa omnye, kwaye kwakungafani nokulwa kweWWF. Yayiyingxoxo.

Ndazibuza ukuba uziva njani ngalonto. Uziva njani malunga nolu tyekelo lwaseHollywood lokudibanisa abafazi ngokuchasene, ngakumbi abasetyhini abavela kwiinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo?

Ayisiyo malunga nokuxabana kwabasetyhini abavela kwiinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo ngokuchasene. Imalunga noDunham angaqondi okanye angafundi kwiimpazamo zakhe. Imalunga nokusebenza kwakhe ngokungathi isimumu sakhe siyathandeka okanye siyathandeka kwaye sifuna ukwenza ngokungathi abantu bafunda amagama akhe kwaye bawathathe ngexabiso lokuhlaselwa kukuhlaselwa kwakhe. Akunjalo. Uthi usisidenge ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye kuba, ngokwamkelwa kwakhe, ungoyena mntu uzithibileyo. Andiyithandi into yokuba ndifunde isifundo, kufanele ukuba siyibone njengenxalenye yomfazi wakhe omhlophe.

Yanele ngokwaneleyo loo nto yenkomo. U-Lena Dunham unikwe onke amathuba kwasekuqaleni. Nini Amantombazana Kuqala kwaphuma kwaye kwahlatywa ngokuba neqela elimhlophe lonke eBrooklyn, abantu baphuma ngomthi ukumkhusela, besithi asizenzanga kwa ezo zikhalazo malunga Isini kunye neSixeko okanye Abahlobo Kwaye uDunham wayebhala into awayeyazi kwaye eyinika ithuba.

Okokuqala, ukuba ubuthetha naye nawuphi na umntu omnyama okanye umntu onemibala kwii-90s, ngebabekuxelele malunga nobumhlophe obumfamekileyo bale miboniso mibini, kodwa ke ubuncinci kwii-90s nakwii-2000s zokuqala, bekukho ngaphezulu Ibhalansi xa kufikwa kumdlalo omnyama omnyama kunye nokuhlala okumhlophe. Nangona kunjalo, akukho mntu ukhathaleleyo oko sikucingayo, ke ngabo ikhefu.

Kwakhona, ukubhala into oyaziyo kulungile kwaye kulungile, kodwa ucinga ukuba kwa eso sikolo siphakamileyo wayeye kuso, umntakwethu omnyama, owayesebenza eklasini waya kufunda, ndiyazi ukuba ayimhlophe njengokuba ebanga, kwaye ukuba isangqa sangaphakathi sasinjalo loo mhlophe , zazinyanzela.

Okokugqibela, simnikile amathuba! Zingaphi afuna ukuba nazo? Uneminyaka engama-31, kwaye sineminyaka eli-16 ubudala njengoRowan Blanchard obonisa kwaye akhokele intshukumo ngendlela enqamlezileyo ngakumbi, ngelixa uDunham esokola ukungavali abatyholwa ngokudlwengula? Ndinike isithuna. UDunham akanasizathu sokungazi okanye ukungaboni kakuhle. Uvela kwimvelaphi yenkululeko, kwimfundo yenkululeko, kwaye uncedile ekwenzeni isahlulo esikhulu sesangqa sabasetyhini esihlala kuso.

U-Lena Dunham unokufikelela ngakumbi kwelona lizwi likrelekrele kumfazi omnyama, omdaka, kunye nobufazi kunabantu abamnyama, abomdaka kunye nabazimeleyo! UGabrielle Union, uRoxane Gay, uJanet Mock, njl.njl. Akukho sizathu sokuziphatha ngale ndlela, kwaye kuyacaphukisa ukuba xa le nto igqithileyo, uya kuba ulungile, kwaye abafazi abamnyama kunye nabanye abafazi abanemibala bayakwenziwa jonga njengabathiyileyo ngokungami ecaleni kwendlovukazi yobufazi obumhlophe.

andi Ndifuna ukungamthandi uLena Dunham. Ayindiniki nje nto ngokoqobo, kodwa inokuba lilizwi elibalulekileyo lobufazi. Ndifuna ukumhlonipha, kwaye ngeendlela ezininzi, mna unayo uhloniphile eminye yemisebenzi ayenzileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukungakwazi kwakhe ukufunda, ukungakwazi kwakhe ukucinga phambi kokuba athethe, kunye nemfuno yakhe yokuziveza ngokweengxaki, kuba, yonke loo nto ibotshelelwe ngokunzulu kwilungelo lakhe elimhlophe andicingi ukuba angaphambuka kulo. . Ukuza kwakhe kwimvelaphi etyebileyo kuyintsikelelo nesiqalekiso, kuba ngelixa kuye kwamenza wakwazi ukuba ngumntu wakhe wokuyila, kuye kwamenza wangakwazi ukuthatha umzuzwana kwaye eneneni cinga .

Isihogo, kwi Nge-10 kaFebruwari ka-2017 Intatheli yaseHollywood, Ngaphambili kuxoxwe ngezimvo zikaDunham, malunga nokuba akukho mntu unokucinga ukuba ungumkhethe xa besazi ukuba [waye] funa kangakanani u-Drake, wayengenguye yedwa:

IKONNER bendisazi [ukungabikho kweeyantlukwano] ingangumba, kodwa khange ndicinge ukuba ukugxekwa kungabakwinqanaba ebekulo ...

DUNHAM… Okanye ukuba incoko malunga nobuhlanga iya kujika ibe yingxoxo malunga nobuhlanga.

I-KONNER Kodwa ngelo xesha, sasigxile kakhulu kumzabalazo wabasetyhini kunye nenyani yokuba sasiza kufumana abafazi abane kwiTV.

IDUNHAM Sasinabafazi abane bokwenyani ababengadumanga. Ndikhumbula uJemima esiya, ndandisandula ukuba nosana, kwaye ndinama-boobs amabini ahlukeneyo, kwaye ndinempundu enkulu ngoku kuba ndi-f- ekuncanciseni ibele kwaye ndiyintombazana eshushu.

IIBLOYS Besisazi ukuba senza into evusa inkanuko, kodwa bendisamangalisiwe [sisigxeko]. Kwakukho izinto ezahluka-hlukeneyo, izityholo zobuhlobo bomtshato [bonke abadlali abane abakhokelayo banabazali abadumileyo kwezobugcisa nakwimithombo yeendaba, kubandakanya noDunham, ongumama wakhe umfoti ohloniphekileyo], ezingazange zivakale. … Ndicinga ukuba ezinye zazo zazinento yokwenza nento yokuba uLena wayemele isizukulwana esitsha, kwaye oko kungangonwabi ebantwini, ngakumbi kuba wayengumfazi kwaye wayengumntu owayekhululekile ukuba angabi ngumlingisi onqabileyo kaloliwe.

Ewe, kuba wayenabafazi abane abaneentlobo ezahlukeneyo zomzimba kumabonakude, kwaye lonto ayizange yenziwe ngaphambili ...

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( UMoesha Ukuhanjiswa kweTV kumabonwakude)

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Andizuku (gxotha) ngokupheleleyo ukugxothe ukubaluleka kwe- Amantombazana kwabanye abantu. Ukusuka kwinto endiyivileyo, yenza izinto ezininzi ngokuchanekileyo, kodwa ukusukela ngoku abantu bagqiba kwelokuba ukuxhasa inkqubo kamabonakude emhlophe kaDunham ngenxa yobufazi kubalulekile, kwamnika amandla okwenza ezi mpazamo zibubudenge. kwakhona.

Abafazi boMbala kubenzima ngakumbi ukukholelwa kumajelo eendaba xa kuziwa kudlwengulo. U-Lupita Nyong'o wayelixhoba kuphela lika-Weinstein awaphikayo. Ke ngo-Dunham ekwabelana ngombono wakhe nehlabathi ekhusela umhlobo wakhe, uye wadlala kwinkqubo evala abafazi ngombala.

Ngelixa abanye, abantu abakrelekrele benze isigqibo sokungathethi ngeDunham kwaye bamnike konqakrazo, kuye kwafuneka ndiyisuse esifubeni sam kuba le nto sisidenge ngaye yingozi ngakumbi. Ukucaciswa kwakhe, okwakungekho kuxolisa nakanye, yayinomsindo omkhulu:

Olu asilo xolo; Olu lawulo lomonakalo lokuba nekhadi lakhe lobufazi likhutshiwe esandleni sakhe yi-intanethi iyonke, kwaye kufanelekile njalo. Ngomhla wosuku, andifanelanga, kufuneka, okanye ndilindele ukuba ndingathanda uLena Dunham, kodwa ilizwi lakhe libalulekile kwaye indawo yakhe kubufazi ibalulekile. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba wena, njengowasetyhini, awunakuthenjwa ekubeni ungazivezi esidlangalaleni ngokuchasene nomntu owathi wadlwengulwa xa wayekwishumi elivisayo, kutheni ulapha nje?

Ukongeza, uZinzi Clemmons, owayengumbhali ngoku ka-Lenny Letter kunye nombhali we Oko Siphulukana nako , uthathe iTwitter ngesitatimende esinamandla malunga naye akasabhaleli iwebhusayithi yabasetyhini eyasekwa nguDunham noKonner. Uye waxoxa nabahlobo baka-Lena Dunham kunye nendlela abahlala ngayo bethatha inxaxheba 'kwi-hipster yobuhlanga':

Sasinabantu abaninzi esibaziyo kwaye sisenjalo nangoku. Uninzi lwaba bahlobo babenjengoLena-osisityebi, onabazali abanempembelelo kwezobugcisa. Babenamandla amaninzi kwaye babonakala ngathi bayaphuma kwangaxeshanye bayisebenzise kwaye bayaphika.

Emva ekholejini, ndandibaphepha aba bantu njengesibetho ngenxa yobuhlanga babo obaziwayo. Ndingabiza ubuhlobo babo behipster ubuhlanga, obuqhele ukusebenzisa ukubhuqa njengesigqubuthelo, kwaye ekugqibeleni, kujongeka njengokukhanya kwegesi-- Yintlekisa nje. Kutheni usabela ngendlela ebaxiweyo? Impendulo eqhelekileyo kuninzi lwezi ngxelo. Kwisangqa sikaLena, kwakukho intombazana eyayisaziwa ukuba isebenzisa igama elingu-N kwincoko ukuze ivuseleleke, kwaye ukuba yayikhe yabizwa kuyo, yayisithi yinto nje ehlekisayo.

Aba bahlobo ngabantu uClemmons aqinisekisa ukuba bavele kwii-cameo Amantombazana kwaye ube yinxalenye yesangqa sobuqu sikaDunham. Akumangalisi ke ukuba wayengenabahlobo abamnyama okanye abamdaka ukutsala kumdlalo wakhe.

Ukuba abafazi abanemibala abanakulindela nantoni na kuLena Dunham, emva koko akanakulindela nantoni na kuthi. Ngokuchasene noko yena kunye nabaninzi ababhinqileyo abamhlophe bacinga, abafazi abanemibala kudala balwa le milo. Sikuqhelile ukungabinayo inkxaso yabo; Umahluko kukuba ngoku bafuna ukuba sikholelwe ukuba, ngokungabathembi, siyabakhetha okanye asibaniki thuba lokukhula. Abantu bayazenza iimpazamo, kodwa abantu abafuna ngokwenene ukutshintsha bayakhula kuyo kwaye bakhule. U-Lena Dunham uyala ukukhula.

(nge Intatheli yaseHollywood (Umfanekiso: Kathy Hutchins / Shutterstock.com)