Indawo yoTyelelo iNgqina ukuba ukuMamela ukugxekwa yindlela yokuPhucula ukumelwa, ungakuphephi

Olunye loloyiko olukhulu lombhali, ngaphandle kokuba luyimbumba enkulu, kukuba izinto abazenzayo ziya kugqibela ngokwenza okubi ngaphezu kokulungileyo emhlabeni. Olu loyiko lomelele xa kuziwa ekubhaleni malunga nakuluntu olucalucalulweyo. Kulula ukuza ekubhaleni umlinganiswa okanye umgca webali ojolise kwimicimbi yamaqela ahlelelekileyo eneenjongo ezilungileyo kwaye uphele ngomonakalo opheleleyo. Isiphumo esinokubakho sinokushiya abadali bezibuza ukuba kufanelekile ukuba babhale ngezi zihloko ukuba banokuphela bekwenzakalisa abantu.

Kubalulekile ukuthetha ngokumelwa kakubi ukuze uphendule loo mbuzo, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba nomzekelo woko kugxila kuyo. Ubumnandi obukhulu Indawo yoTyelelo, I-podcast edlala indima ebanjwe nguMcElroy Brothers (uJustin, uTravis, noGriffin, nabo basemva kokubetha Mzalwana wam, Mzalwana wam kunye nam I-podcast) kunye noyise, bagqiba iphulo labo lokuqala kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo. Lo mboniso ukhule waya kwinqanaba apho amalungu afakiweyo enza iiseshoni ezibukhoma kwilizwe liphela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, benxibe njengabalinganiswa babo, kwaye benombhalo ocacileyo wendlela esendleleni.

Ukuqala komboniso, yayiyindlela nje yokugcwalisa ixesha ngelixa bekwiisabatha ekurekhodeni MBMBAM . UJustin, omnye wabadlali, ichaze i-podcast njenge imoto ebhabha ngesiquphe xa ethetha ngendlela abaqonde ngayo bonke ukuba goofy yabo Izisele kunye neeDragons Iphulo eligcwele iziqhulo malunga neebhoners-zokubulala lalicotha ukuba libali elinyanzelekileyo ngokusemthethweni. Ngequbuliso, eli phulo yayingelilo nje ibali labo. Kwakuba luhambo ababelana ngalo ngefusbase eyahlukileyo.

UGriffin uthathe isigqibo sokwazisa isibini esithandanayo kwi-arc yesithathu yephulo: uSloane, isela le-elf yesiqingatha kunye nomqhubi wenqwelo-mafutha owayethathwe lelinye lamaphulo amakhulu e-Grand Relics, no-Hurley, ipolisa elalingumlingane wayekulungele ukumgcina nangayiphi na indlela. Ekuqukunjelweni kwe-arc, uHurley wayeyityhefu ebulalayo etsiba phakathi kwetyholo elinameva ukuze ahlangule uSloane, kwaye isela lancama ukuzisindisa, ngokudibanisa kunye nokuguqula bobabini babe ngumthi we-cherry blossom.

Yayingumboniso oshukumayo, kodwa wawudlala kwimbali yomnye okanye bobabini abantu kwizibini ezizimeleyo bahlala bebulawa kwimithombo yeendaba. Abasindileyo abanokubakho bahlala beshiye ukuba bazisole ngothando lwabo olulahlekileyo baba luphawu lwabo. Zikhona njengomntu okhuselekileyo okhuselekileyo ngokwaneleyo ukuba aqheleke, ongaze aziveze ngokupheleleyo. Oko, okanye bashiywe ukuba batshayelwe iinyawo zabo ngumntu wesini esahlukileyo.

UGriffin wayengenanjongo yoku. Kwi-Twitter, xa wayecaciselwa le nto, yena kwangoko uphethe ukungabikho kwengqondo Ukucacisa indlela awaye wakhubeka ngayo kwi-trope ngelixa wayezama ukuseta ezinye iindawo zebali elihamba phambili. Injongo okanye hayi, nangona kunjalo, uGriffin wayongeze kule mbali inde yokubulawa kwabantu besini esinye kwimithombo yeendaba.

Amandla okumelwa gwenxa kukuba afikelela kubomi bokwenyani kwaye akhe phezu kwenkcubeko eyoyikisayo yoxinzelelo. Ayichazi kakuhle, iyadimaza, kwaye yenza abantu bazingcwabe okanye bangazihoyi ngenxa yokoyika okuza kwenzeka kubo ukuba bayahambelana nendlela aboniswe ngayo. Ukumelwa kakubi kusenokunceda ekwakheni le mibono ibe yinto enzima kwabo bahlelelekileyo. Ukuzama nje ukubakhona kungabuna xa uluntu lukubona ngeendlela ezithile. Ke, ukubonakaliswa kukaGriffin kwesibini esithandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabunye, njengaye okanye hayi, kubangele ingozi.

Yeyiphi indlela ebalaseleyo yokuphendula koku? Abadlali kunye ne-DM babengamadoda amane amhlophe e-hetero. UJustin wayesele egqibe ekubeni uzakudlala umlinganiswa wakhe, uTaako i-elf wizard, njengendoda eyindoda . [. . . ] Andazi ukuba kwakutheni, yile ndlela yayihlala ibonakala kum. Ngaba bekuya kuba ngcono ukuwuphepha lo mbandela kwaye ushiyele abanye ukuba bawuphathe ngocoselelo kwixa elizayo?

Siqala ukungena kwimibuzo yokuba ngubani oza kuthetha kwiinkalo zokuyila apha. Ngubani onelizwi, kwaye ngubani oza kwabelana ngamabali abo? Kucacile ukuba kukho ingxaki eqhubekayo yezithintelo kwizangqa zoyilo ezigcina amaqela abekelwe bucala ukuba akwazi ukuxelela awabo amabali. Ngaba abavelisi abangamadoda abamhlophe mabagcine ukubalisa la mabali ide isonjululwe le ngxaki?

Ukuba abakwaMcElroys bathathe isigqibo sokuyeka ukujonga abantu be-LGBTQIA ngakumbi ngenxa yendlela uHurley noSloane abadlale ngayo, ngekhe bafumane ukuboniswa kwesibini esithandana nabasetyhini esasinda esiphelweni sebali kwaye sabakho kulo lonke Iphulo, ngoKillian i-orc kunye noCarey. Eyokugqibela yavela kuphela kumgca webali kwi-arc ngqo emva kwalowo wayenoHurley noSloane. UTaako ngewayengazange afumane isoka ngohlobo lweGrim Reaper, ubudlelwane obuye basinda kude kube sekupheleni komdlalo. (Oko kuvakala ngathi sisikweko, kodwa… hayi, uTaako ubhale iGrim Reaper yokoqobo.) Ngekhe sibenomboniso omkhulu womfazi otshintshayo ngohlobo lweLup, udadewabo kaTaako, kwaye iphulo ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe liphele ngo wonke umntu oza kunye ukubhiyozela umtshato kaKillian noCarey ngolona suku lonwabisayo ebomini babo.

Xa abantu abanokuthetha kwaye bafumane abaphulaphuli abaninzi beyeka ukubeka ukumelwa kumabali abo ngenxa yokoyika iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga, basakhubeka benze into bengaqondanga. Kukho abanye abantu phaya abanolo hlobo lwelizwi abangafuni nakuphi na ukubonakaliswa kwamaqela ahlelelekileyo konke konke, okanye ubuncinci bafuna ukulawula ngokuqinileyo indlela abanokubonakaliswa ngayo. Ukuthatha oku kungonzakalisi intanda-bulumko elawula ngokupheleleyo. Kuyanceda ukuqhubela phambili kungekuphela nje lo mbono ucinezelayo wengcinga ecekethekileyo kunye nengcaciso engeyiyo, kodwa nomnye umyalezo kwamanye amaqela ahlelelekileyo: ukuba awakho kwaukubakho.

Umonakalo onokubangelwa kukumelwa kakubi akufuneki uhoywe. Nangona kunjalo, ukukhetha ukumelwa ngenjongo yokuphepha ukumelwa kakubi ngumbono ombi. Abantu abanamalungelo kufuneka bobabini bacacise indlela yamazwi abekelwe bucala ukwenza amabali abo kunye nokunceda ukubonisa la maqela. Isimo sengqondo sokufuna ukugqibelela asincedi mntu, kuba inyani kukuba abantu bahlala bezenza iimpazamo.

Iimpazamo, kunye nokumelwa kakubi kunye nabo, akufuneki zihlale zisilele. Ziyakwazi ukuguqulwa zibe yintshukumo eya phambili. UGriffin kunye nabanye abakwaMcElroys bamamela amaqela awayejongelwe phantsi ababonisa kwaye baqhubeka nokubamamela ngengcebiso malunga nendlela yokuqhubela phambili. Leyo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo. Ingxoxo kunye nokuqonda ukusilela kuvumela ababhali abenza ezi zigwebo zingafanelekanga ukuba bafunde kuphela kwiimpazamo zabo kodwa benze umahluko abafuna ukuwenza.

Ngokuphathelele uHurley noSloane… babuyisiwe ekupheleni kwephulo ngendlela engaziva ngathi nguGriffin ngokuzama ukulungisa impazamo yakhe. Kukho iziphumo zento eyenzekileyo kubo. Bajike baba zii-dryad ngenxa yamava abo okusondela ekufeni. Obu bubomi butsha kubo, nangona… kwaye bonke bazuke ngakumbi ngenxa yeziva zabo.

(umfanekiso: Ubumnandi obukhulu )

Ndingathanda ukubulela I-TAZ Ikhutshelwe yokubeka isicatshulwa esipheleleyo seqela leziganeko ezikhethekileyo zasemva kwesigcawu se-podcast kwi-Intanethi ngeenjongo zokufumana.

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