Umbimbi ekuhambeni kwexesha ubiza ububi obungabonakaliyo abantwana bokwenyani abajongana nawo, kwaye buhamba nzima

Phakamisa isandla ukuba ubulila ujonge Umbimbi wexesha . Ngoku, cinga ngento eyakukhalisayo uninzi : Meg kwi-ofisi yenqununu, uMeg woyika nge-Happy Medium, uMeg uphulukana noCharles Wallace kwindoda enamehlo abomvu, uMeg ephinde wahlangana notata wakhe, okanye uMeg wenza intetho esuka entliziyweni malunga nendlela amthanda ngayo umntakwabo omncinci ngelixa i-IT ibetha Ukubetha emva kokubetha usebenzisa umzimba omncinci kaCharles Wallace?

Nazi ezininzi kakhulu Amaxesha okothula iinyembezi kule vidiyo i-Ava Duvernay-ekhokelwe, etshintshwe kwincwadi yokuqala eMadeleine L'Engle's Ixesha leQuintet uthotho. Yinto eyenziwe ngamandla, ifotwe kakuhle, imovie etyebileyo ngokwasemphefumlweni eyenzelwe abantwana, eneenkwenkwezi zabantwana, ejongene neengxaki abajamelana nazo abantwana bokwenyani-nokuba ukufuna ezinye iiyunivesithi akunakwenzeka (okwangoku) akunakwenzeka.

Mhlawumbi kunjalo ngoba ihamba kakhulu. Ifilimu ayinazintloni kwizifundo ezimnyama, kwaye njengelungu labaphulaphuli, enokuthi ngokuqinisekileyo igcine iinyembezi-kunye neentlungu ezibuhlungu zesifuba-zisiza.

Umzekelo: ngokungafaniyo neemovie ezininzi zabantwana, Umbimbi wexesha ijongene ngokucacileyo nokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana. Okumangalisa nangakumbi kukuba umboniso wefilimu uphawula ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana njengesenzo sobubi, ngokubonisa utata kaCalvin ngokumphatha gadalala ngenqanaba elingaphantsi kuka-A + xa uNksk. Whatsit echaza indlela i-IT ebuchaphazela ngayo ubumnyama kubumnyama bayo. UCalvin ukhombisa ukuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo evela kutata wakhe xa exelela uMeg ukuba uyazi ukuba kunjani ukuhlekwa rhoqo, kodwa yena uyabona ngeli xesha lokulandelelana. Ukungonwabi kukaCalvin, xa emjongile, kuyabonakala.

Kwaye Ibuhlungu .

Inguqulelo yolandelelwano kwinoveli ka-L'Engle endaweni yoko ityhila ukuba umama kaCalvin ubaphatha gadalala ngokwasemzimbeni abantwana bakhe ngokubabetha ngecephe lomthi. Ukutshintsha ibali lomdlalo bhanyabhanya, ukubonisa ukuba inkwenkwana ethandwayo njengoCalvin inokubandezeleka kumanxeba emphefumlo, lutshintsho olulungileyo, kwaye lubetha kwincoko ezibalulekileyo malunga nempilo yengqondo kunye noxinzelelo lwezifundo esingadibani nazo phantse rhoqo ngokwaneleyo.

Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni kulula kakhulu ukukuqonda kunokuphathwa gadalala ngokweemvakalelo, ekusoloko kubizwa ngokuba engabonakaliyo , kuba ayishiyi amanqaku omzimba. Izinti namatye anokuwaphula amathambo am, kodwa amazwi awasoze andenzakalise, kodwa ayakwazi, kwaye ayenzeka.

Ngokwenqaku elivela Psychology Namhlanje , epapashwe ngo-2016, kuphononongo lwabantu abadala abangama-2 000 kwiminyaka yabo engamashumi amathandathu, abathathi-nxaxheba bakhumbula iziganeko ezimbi okanye amaxesha okonakala ngokweemvakalelo ngokubonakalayo kunakwiziganeko ezilungileyo, kwanaxa ixesha elininzi lidlulile okokoko kwenzekile. Ngapha koko, iingqondo zabantwana abafumana ukuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo zikhula ngendlela eyahlukileyo kuneengqondo zabantwana abazalelwe kumakhaya axhasayo, nothando.

Abantwana abahlala kwimeko yoxinzelelo rhoqo-okt. iimeko apho zihlala zithotywa okanye zicinezelwa ukuba zibengcono-zihlala ziphela zizigulo ezinxulumene noxinzelelo, njenge Ubunzima boxinzelelo lwasemva koxinzelelo , ukudakumba, okanye ezinye iingxaki zempilo yengqondo.

Asingabo kuphela abazali ababeka uxinzelelo olungafanelekanga ebantwaneni babo, ngakumbi xa kufikwa esikolweni. Kwi Umbimbi wexesha , Siyabona ukuba xa iMeg ikho kanjalo Ukujongela phantsi ukuqhuba kwakhe ezifundweni, hayi ngabazali bakhe, kodwa yinqununu yesikolo sakhe. Ezi ncoko, zihlala zenziwe njengothando olunzima (ngakumbi kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya), zinokuba neziphumo ezifanayo ezimbi njengabazali abahlukumeza abantwana ngokweemvakalelo.

Abafundi bafundiswa ukubathemba ootitshala ukuba babanike indawo ekhuselekileyo yokufunda kuyo. Ngelishwa, akuqhelekanga ukuba ootitshala baphule loo ntembeko. Thatha, umzekelo, imeko katitshala ukuhlambalaza esidlangalaleni umfundi , emhlazisa phambi koontanga bakhe. Ukukhangela kuGoogle kancinci kuvelisa iimeko ezininzi njengaleyo. Akusiyo isiganeko esisodwa.

I-tweet yentsholongwane evela kumsebenzisi @ohcutebyler ibonisa ukuba phantse abasebenzisi abangama-300,000 banokunxulumana nokunikela ngempilo yabo yengqondo kwibakala, okanye benziwe bazive belusizi okanye besiyatha ngenxa yomntu onegunya kwezemfundo:

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Ku-Meg Murry, isikolo siba ngumhadi wenyoka emva kokunyamalala kukayise, kwaye kuyacaca ukuba akukho namnye kwabasemagunyeni esikolweni onomdla wokumnceda ajongane naloo nto. Endaweni yokuba, inqununu yakhe ivele imthobe isidima ngenxa yokuba buhlungu kukatata wakhe olahlekileyo kunye netyala yena ngendlela aphethwe ngayo ngoontanga bakhe.

Ngokungafaniyo noCalvin, onoxinzelelo lwezifundo luvela ekhaya, uMeg akanamava anjalo nabazali bakhe, abamkhuthaza ukuba afune ukwazi ngendlela evulekileyo, enothando. Nangemva kokuba uyise kaMeg enyamalele, akukho mathandabuzo okuba uyaluthanda usapho lwakhe (nangona isigqibo sakhe sokushiya uCharles Wallace ngasemva xa i-IT inaye sesinye esinokushiya umlomo wakho ungcamle uthuthu-kodwa sesinye isincoko ngelinye ixesha).

Njengokuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo, uxinzelelo olunzima lwezifundo ebantwaneni lukhokelela kukuphazamiseka koxinzelelo, ukugula okunxulumene noxinzelelo, uxinzelelo kunye neendlela zokuziphatha ezingalunganga. Ifilimu ebhaliweyo Uhlanga oluya ndawo ubhala ngobomi babafundi baseMelika abathe batyhalelwa kwinqanaba lokuqhekeka ngabazali, abafundisi-ntsapho, kunye noontanga babo ukuze bafumane amanqaku aphezulu kwaye baqhube kakuhle esikolweni, kodwa batyhalelwa kwimfundo ephakamileyo okanye kubasebenzi kungabikho khuthazo okanye ukuqhuba nika.

Ukubona ngendlela yangoku Ityala lemali mboleko yomfundi e-US ingaphezulu kwe- $ 1.48 yezigidi zezigidi, isasazeke ngaphezulu kwe-44 yezigidi zababoleki, kulula ukubona ukuba ukuphumelela esikolweni kunokuziva kungenaziqhamo kwakuba nje kungene imali.

Nokuba kunjalo, impumelelo kwezemfundo akufuneki ibe yinto ebangela ukuphazamiseka koxinzelelo ebantwaneni. Abazali akufuneki babathobe isidima abantwana babo okanye babatyhalele nzima kangangokuba baziva bengakhuselekanga ukuzisa amanqanaba asekhaya angaphantsi kwe-100 egqibeleleyo. Ukubona le nyani iboniswe kwiscreen esikhulu kwi Umbimbi wexesha yayothusa, hayi kuphela ngenxa yendlela ekubethe ngayo ekhaya, kodwa ngenxa yendlela encinci siyabona lo mbandela uphononongwa kwimidiya edumileyo.

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