Inkqubo yokuma nguJeremy Kaplowitz inomzuzwana kwi-Twitter ngale ntsasa. Ukwenza eSchtick okanye kwiNyango, uKaplowitz wenza iseti njengoJerry Seinfeld oneminyaka engama-38 esenza amahlaya ngobudlelwane bakhe nomntwana oneminyaka eli-17 ubudala. Le ntwana iphefumlelwe bubudlelwane bobomi bokwenyani bukaSeinfeld kunye noShoshanna Lonstein (ngoku nguShoshanna Gruss).
Ndime izolo ebusuku njengo-1990s uJerry Seinfeld esenza amaBits malunga nentombazana yakhe eneminyaka eli-17 ubudala. pic.twitter.com/hFKr7ie6JP
-UJeremy Kaplowitz (@jeremysmiles) Okthobha 29, 2019
USeinfeld kunye noLonstein badibana eCentral Park xa wayeneminyaka eyi-17 kunye nesidanga kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo. Babanga kumajelo eendaba ukuba babengabahlobo nje de wagqiba i-18 kwaye waphumelela, ngelo xesha baya esidlangalaleni ngobudlelwane babo bothando. Bathandana iminyaka emine, kwaye wasuka kwikholeji yakhe yangasese yaseNew York (apho wayehlala khona nabazali bakhe) waya e-UCLA ukuze abe kufutshane naseSeinfeld ngelixa wayedlala umboniso wakhe. Baqhekeka kwakamsinya emva kokuba ephumelele kwikholeji.
Ubudlelwane babo babangela isiphithiphithi, kodwa hayi ngeendlela ezaziza kuthi namhlanje. Imagazini yabantu yabenza ibali labo lokugubungela kubo Ngomhla kaMatshi 1994 , kodwa endaweni yokuba kugxile kwinto yokuba, xa baqala ukuthandana, uLonstein waye ngaphantsi Kwakumalunga nendlela isibini esingalindelekanga esenza ngayo ukuba uthando lwabo lusebenze.
Kukho iziqhulo ezimbalwa malunga nesithuba seminyaka engamashumi amabini ananye ubudala, (babhekisa kwii-quips zikaHoward Stern malunga neSeinfeld yokurhwebesha uLonstein ngaphakathi nge-candy bar ngentambo), kodwa ikakhulu, ijolise kwimizabalazo kaSeinfeld yokwenza ubudlelwane busebenze njengeyona nkwenkwezi inkulu , kwaye luyonwabisa kangakanani ulwalamano lwabo noLonstein. Kukwakho iikowuti eziqhelekileyo ezivela kusapho nakwizihlobo zabo (ngaphandle kwe UBobcat Goldthwait , ophelise ubuhlobo bakhe noSeinfeld ngaphezulu kwayo) malunga nokuba ukhule kangakanani uLonstein kwiminyaka yakhe, indlela yobudala iyinombolo nje-uyazi, xa uwonke unomphefumlo omdala.
I-Flash iya phambili ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, kwaye ngelixa ukugubungela ubudlelwane babo kulinywa rhoqo kwiminyaka embalwa (njenge Gawker ngo-2015 kunye Ubunzima bokufa ngo-2017), kubonakala ngathi akubangakho sikhalo sokwenene esidlangalaleni okanye ukonakala kwegama likaSeinfeld-ngokuqinisekileyo akukho monakalo kwikhondo lomsebenzi wakhe okanye isipaji. Ngendlela efanayo abantu babonakala belibala ngayo Ukuzilolonga kukaDrake kukaMillie Bobby Brown xa wayeneminyaka eyi-14 (kwaye nembali yakhe yokuzilungisa kwabafazi abancinci ukuba aqhubeke ukuza kuthi ga ngoku bakugqiba iminyaka eli-18), okanye wonke umntu uyafa ngonaphakade, UBill Murray , etyholwa ngokuxhatshazwa ngumfazi wakhe wangaphambili (unelungelo lokugcina abantwana kunye nesithintelo nxamnye naye), uSeinfeld ubonakala ngokurhoxisa ubungqina ngokulinganayo.
Ngoku, ndingathanda ukuthatha umzuzwana ndithethe malunga neengxaki ezijikeleza amanzi amdaka obumdaka bobudlelwane bukaMeyi / Disemba. Iarhente yomntwana ofikisayo (okanye omncinci amashumi amabini ananye) ihlala ishiywe ngaphandle kwincoko, endaweni yokucinezela inqaku lokuba akukho semthethweni, (okanye kwimeko yomntu oneminyaka eli-18 ukuya kwengama-20 ubudala, ngokungekho mthethweni ). ANDIYENZI impikiswano yokuba ngenxa yokuba usenokuba wayefuna ukuba kubudlelwane kwaye waziva ekhulile ngokwaneleyo ukuba angayiphatha, ukuba yayilungile-kuphela ukuba baninzi abasetyhini abancinci phaya (nam ndibandakanyiwe, xa ndandineminyaka emingaka onqwenela amadoda amakhulu, ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Ngaphezulu koko, amantombazana akwishumi elivisayo akwelo xesha linobungozi apho iihormone zawo zishushu, bazama ukufumana isiphatho kwisini sabo esisakhasayo, kwaye bafuna ukuziva ngathi banabadala.
Ngokusisiseko, ngelixa ingezizo izinto ezingenangqondo ezilinde ukukhiwa okanye ukuxhwilwa ngaphandle kokuthetha nto kulo mbandela, bakwindawo ephezulu yendoda enamandla amakhulu nobutyebi ukuba izisebenzise kwezi zizathu kanye. Yiloo nto ke nokuzilungisa. Benza ukuba intombazana (okanye inkwenkwe!) Izive ikhethekile, bayincome ngokuba ikhulile ngeminyaka yakhe, bamenze amhlukanise nabahlobo kunye nosapho, kwaye babethe imfuno yokukholisa umntu omdala kunye noloyiko lokuphulukana nabo okanye ukubacaphukisa. Yenza amandla apho irhamncwa linamandla onke, kwaye xa irhamncwa sele ingomnye wabahlekisi abadumileyo elizweni, loo mandla ayesele engalingani ngokungenakwenzeka ekuqaleni.
Kwaye ngelixa kukho imbali kweli lizwe leenkwenkwezi ezinamaqela angaphantsi kweminyaka kunye nobudlelwane namantombazana angaphantsi kweminyaka (jonga UJerry Lee Lewis , Elvis , nkqu UDavid Bowie -Kakhulu yonke imbali ye-rock kunye ne-roll), ubudala bemvume bubonakala ngathi bungumcimbi xa, njengo-R.Kelly, lonke ulwalamano okanye ukudibana ngokwesondo ngokucacileyo kungacacanga. Yintoni inqaku le-arhente yemithetho yemvume, emva koko? Nokuba umntu ofikisayo ufuna ubudlelwane / amava, kukho isizathu sokuba bangakwazi ukunika imvume ngokusemthethweni! Kwaye uSeinfeld, ukumlungisa nokulinda ade abeneminyaka eyi-18 ukwenza ubudlelwane esidlangalaleni ayisiyonto inye, uyazi, ukuthandana nomntu omkhulu.
Ke kuphi ukurhoxiswa? Ngaba kufuneka simlinde ukuba abe kwiminyaka yakhe yama-80s kunye nesigidi sabasetyhini abangaphezulu ukuba beze ngaphambili, njengaye uBill Cosby? Anditsho ukuba into ayenzileyo ikwinqanaba elifanayo nokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi kunye nokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo ngaphezulu kweshumi elinambini labasetyhini-ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kubakho kububanzi bobubi, emva kwayo yonke loo nto. Endaweni yokuba ndinomdla wokuba uluntu lukhetha ukugweba njani abona bantu banamandla kulwaphulo-mthetho lwabo.
Ngaba uya kuze ajongane neziphumo ezibi? Andikathethi nangexesha lasejele, (ukuba kungangqinwa ukuba walala naye ngaphambi kokuba abe neminyaka eli-18, umthetho wokuncitshiswa usasebenza nangoku), kodwa ngakumbi njengokugwetywa okanye ukugwetywa esidlangalaleni? Ndinyanisekile xa ndilahlekile malunga nokuba sisohlwayo esinjani esiza kuba, kodwa kusaziva kuphosakele ukuba la, amadoda ethu anamandla kakhulu, khange abe nawo.
(umfanekiso: Netflix)
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