Kutheni ndingathandani naye wonke umntu kuFacebook

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Izolo ebusuku bendinabahlobo abangama-369 kuFacebook, kwaye namhlanje andina zero . Ndacinga ngokuyeka i-Facebook kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, kodwa ndaqonda ukuba i-Facebook ngokwayo yayingengxaki. Ingxaki yabahlobo bam. Izolo ndiye ndabona ukuba andifanelanga nokuba ndiyeke u-Facebook. Ndivele ndayeka abahlobo bam, ke phezolo ndaye ndahamba ndaza ndangabatyibiliki nganye nganye. Yile nto ndiyicingayo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku.

Into yokuqala endiyifundileyo kukuba awunakuba nabahlobo abanguziro kuFacebook. Bendicinga ukuba emva kokuba ndicime wonke umntu, ukutya kwam kuya kuba zizithuba ezivela kumaphepha endiwathandileyo, kodwa endaweni yoko bekungenanto kwaphela. I-Facebook yayingakhelwanga umsebenzisi yedwa. Ngapha koko, yi Ezentlalo inethiwekhi.

Ndandiqinisekile ukuba ndizicimile zonke izihlobo zam phezolo, kodwa ngale ntsasa ndifumanise ukuba enye ikwazile ukuxhoma. Nokuba oko yayikukujonga kwam, okanye uhlobo oluthile lokunyanzelwa nguFacebook ukuba ndihlale ndingumhlobo womntu akucaci, kodwa xa ndingena kule ntsasa uFacebook wathi ndisengabahlobo nomhlekisi Chip Chantry. Ndabona ukuba ukutya kwam bekusebenza ngendlela ebendiyilindele ngayo. Ngomhlobo omnye, ekuphela kwezithuba endizibonileyo kukutya kwam zazivela kwi-Chip kunye namaphepha endiwathandileyo.

Njengolingelo, i-Chip engafakwanga kwakhona, kwaye nabahlobo abangama-zero ukutya kwam bekungabinanto kwakhona. I-Facebook ibonakala isebenza kuphela ukuba ubuncinci umhlobo wakho. Ukugcina kunye nohlobo lokulinga, andifuni ukuba ngabahlobo beFacebook nabo nabaphi na abantu, ndaye ndenza i-akhawunti yedummy kwaye ndayenza ubuhlobo ukuze okungenani ndifunde uhlaziyo olusuka kumaphepha.

Ngenye imini kule nto, ndiye ndatsho ukuba i-Facebook ilunge kakhulu ngaphandle kwabahlobo. Into endandingayithandiyo ngeFacebook yayikukuhlaziywa rhoqo kwezinto ezingandichaphazeliyo. Abahlobo bakaFacebook bakunyanzela ngezicelo zomdlalo, iifoto zezilwanyana zasekhaya, izicelo zesisa, okanye izinto eziliwaka ezizezinye. Itya ixesha kwaye isuse ukugxila kwam kwizinto endinomdla kuzo.

Kwimizamo yokuqala yokugcina ubomi bam bobuchwephesha kunye nobomi bam buhlukile, ndadala iphepha lomlandeli eyam. Nonke nikhululekile ukuba nixoxe ngeziphumo zokohlwaya, kodwa ndiyathembisa ukuba bekukho izizathu ezizizo. Elo phepha lisasebenza, kwaye abantu ebomini bam banokunxibelelana nam nge-Facebook kwelo phepha, ke andinqunyulwanga. Andiziboni nje izinto ezingandiniki mdla. Uhlaziyo kuphela endilubonileyo namhlanje lube malunga nabalandeli abatsha okanye izimvo kwiphepha lam.

Ngokusisiseko, ngokunxibelelana kuphela ngemisebenzi yamaphepha e-Facebook, ndiyiguqulile ukusuka kunxibelelwano lweendlela ezimbini ukuya kwindlela enye yokunxibelelana, kwaye ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ndiyathanda ukuba ngcono kakhulu. ( Kuvakala ngathi uGlen mhlawumbi angakonwabela umsebenzi wokuBhalisa, kodwa akukho kwalapha naphaya. - Uluhlu Iyafana nendlela ezinye iisayithi ezinje ngeTwitter okanye iGoogle + ezisebenza ngayo. I-Twitter ivumela abantu bakulandele ngaphandle kwesidingo sokubalandela. Khange ndisebenzise uGoogle + njengoFacebook okanye uTwitter, kodwa ayibonakali ngathi kukho ukuphindaphinda ngenkani ekucwangciseni unxibelelwano kwiiSangqa.

Ndiye ndaqonda ukuba ndiyayithanda i-Facebook kakhulu kunokuba bendicinga ukuba ndiyenzile. Iqonga ngokwalo yindlela efanelekileyo yokunxibelelana nabantu abaninzi, kwaye ingxaki kukuba ayinguye wonke umntu osebenzisa la mandla ngokufanelekileyo. Xa ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndingathandani naye wonke umntu ndicinga ukuba ndinokuyenza iveki kuphela okanye, kwaye emva koko ndibuyele emva ndibuye ndiphinde ndinxibelelane nabanye babo, kodwa andazi. Ndiloluhlobo lokumba umhlaba wam wedwa we-Facebook okwangoku.

Ndizakudlula iveki ndingenabo abahlobo bakaFacebook emva koko ndinike ingxelo ngendlela endiziva ngayo ngayo ngoLwesine olandelayo, kodwa nalapho andiqinisekanga ukuba ndiza kuthumela izicelo zabahlobo.

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