Ukukhula kunzima; Kuyakhathaza kwaye kuyabhidisa njengesihogo. Ukukhula komfazi kuko konke oko kuye kwafikelela kwishumi elinanye, kodwa ngombulelo kukho iindawo esinokuhamba ngazo ngelo xesha ezenza ukuba kube lula ukuqonda ubumdaka bokufikisa. Kum nakwizigidi zabanye kwii-90s kunye nee-00s, loo ndawo yayingumabonwakude, apho ndandinokubukela khona ulutsha olunobuqili, olunobuqili lokulwela umzabalazo ofanayo (okanye ukulwa nezilo-mfanekiso).
Ukuqinisekiswa ngokusesikweni kwale veki ukuba i-Disney Channel sitcom Intombazana ihlangana neHlabathi iye yarhoxiswa yaba sisibetho kwisizukulwana sabakwishumi elivisayo (kwaye, masijongane nayo, abantu abadala) ababethathe uRiley Matthews kunye nabahlobo bakhe ezintliziyweni zabo. Emva kwamaxesha amathathu emoyeni, i Inkwenkwe ihlangana neHlabathi Ukulandelelana kumise abalinganiswa abathandekayo kwiindlela zabo, banqabile ngonaphakade kwishumi elinesihlanu.
Kulabo baqwalasele ngenyameko, iindaba zazingothusi. I-Disney Channel ayizange ibe likhaya elifanelekileyo lomboniso, kwaye yayi-neutered ukusukela kusuku lokuqala. Nangona Inkwenkwe ihlangana neHlabathi isasazwe kwi-ABC Family, kwaye inokwenza imixholo enzima, Intombazana ihlangana neHlabathi wanyanzelwa ukuba ajikeleze imiba enje ngemfundo yesondo, ukufikisa kunye nezinye iingxaki ezinxulumene nokukhula.
Oko kunokuba kulungile xa abalinganiswa be-13 behamba nge-14 njengoko babenjalo xa kwaqala uthotho, kodwa xa beneminyaka eli-16 kwaye bekwisikolo esiphakamileyo, ukuba nabalinganiswa ababini kodwa bengakwazi ukumanga kwiscreen kuyisiphazamiso esikhulu. Oku kukhokelele kwiphulo lokuba umboniso ushukunyiselwe kwiFreeform apho unokuzolula khona amaphiko, kodwa endaweni yoko kufuneka sithi ndlela-ntle kuMatthews ngokulungileyo.
Ngaphandle kwemida, phi Intombazana ihlangana neHlabathi ihlala ikhula kakhulu ekuboniseni kwayo ubuhlobo babafazi. URiley noMaya banokuba baqale njengabalinganiswa ngokusekwe kuCory kunye noShawn kuthotho lwantlandlolo, kodwa ubudlelwane babo bakhula ngokukhawuleza baba yinto eyahlukileyo, ekhethekileyo, neyasetyhini ngokukodwa. Ibonisa ukusondelelana kwabo buhlobo ngendlela enqabile ukubonwa kwiscreen, kwaye ukuba umgca wokuhamba uphakamise umboniso nakumaxesha anzima.
Ikwajongane nemixholo efana ne-autism, ukuxhaphaza nge-cyber kunye nolawulo lomsindo ngendlela enovelwano nengalindelekanga. Emva kwesizini yokuqala edanisayo, ekugqibeleni yaveza abalinganiswa bayo abangamadoda kungekuphela nje njengezinto zothando kodwa abantu abanzima nabo bekhankanya ezinye zezazisi. URiley wayenempazamo njengaye nawuphi na umhlobo wakhe ngelixa wayemele 'wonke umntu' ngamawaka ababukeli ababengazazi nokuba bangobani.
Inkqubo ye- Inkwenkwe ihlangana neHlabathi ii-cameo zezona zinokuba zithathele ingqalelo ngaphandle kwe fanbase yangoko, kodwa impumelelo yabo yabethwa okanye yaphoswa. Ngelixa abanye bathanda i-Rider Strong's Shawn baba ngamanani aphindaphindiweyo kumdlalo kunye nakubomi bukaRiley noMaya, ukongezwa kwamabali ka-Angela, uEric okanye uJack ngamanye amaxesha benza okubi kunokulungileyo. Ekugqibeleni, umboniso wawungaphezulu kakhulu kunokubonakala kweendwendwe zawo, uqinisa Intombazana ihlangana neHlabathi Ukuzimela ngaphandle komboniso obewuphefumlele.
Intombazana ihlangana neHlabathi Ilifa elomeleleyo lelabalingisi bayo, ngakumbi uRowan Blanchard noSabrina Carpenter, abathathe iqonga bakha amakhondo abanzi kulo. Ngelixa uSabrina ngoku eyinkwenkwezi ye-pop ezayo kunye ne-fanbase yakhe enkulu, uRowan uye waba lelinye lawona mazwi amnandi kubufazi. Isilumko esingaphaya kweminyaka yakhe, umele umdla wokuzimisela kunye nokuzimisela ukufunda esemncinci enokuthi idale ukubulawa kwamazwi amatsha amatsha okuhamba naye.
Umboniso wawungagqibekanga. Yakhubeka yawa phantsi; ayizange ibenkulu njengokubumba kwayo kwaye ayikaze ibonakale ngathi inokwenza amabali amabali amnandi kunye nalawo ahlekisayo. Yayikhathazwa sisiqhelo seDisney Channel sokucwangcisa ubuhlanya kwaye, nangona isisombululo kumxholo wothando lwaso ongonxantathu ongapheliyo kumaxesha onyaka amabini anesithathu yayisisitatimende esincomekayo sobufazi, ukufika apho kwakungekho.
Imiboniso ayisoloko ifumana ixesha elide lokuzifumanisa Intombazana ihlangana neHlabathi wenze, kwaye loo nto iphantsi kwi-fanbase, eyenziwe ikakhulu ngamantombazana amancinci, ayithandayo.
Imeko kamabonakude ayizaliswanga ngothotho lwamanyathelo alungiselelwe ngokupheleleyo kubo, kwaye kulihlazo ukuba oku kurhoxiswa kufike kwiinyanga nje phambi kokuphela kothotho oluqhutywa ngabasetyhini Amaxoki amahle amancinci . Ukuzibona kunye namava ethu amelwe kwiscreen ngamava axhomisayo nokuba ungakanani na ubudala bakho, kodwa uthotho lobufazi oluneenkwenkwezi kumantombazana angaphambi kolutsha lubaluleke kakhulu.
Andizenzi ngathi ndiyazi ukuba kunjani ukukhula kuluntu lwanamhlanje kodwa, kwabo bakhoyo, umboniso ubonise indawo ekhuselekileyo, eyamkelayo nekhuthazayo apho banokuxoxa khona ngezinto ababengekakulungeli ukuziqonda yeyakho. Ngale ndaba, balahlekile, kwaye yenzelwe bona Intombazana ihlangana neHlabathi kufuneka ibhiyozelwe kwaye ililelwe.
UCaroline ngumbhali ozimeleyo kunye ne-podcaster ehlala eLondon, e-UK. Mlandele @iqosweb .
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