Uthando lufile. Ngeendaba zikaChanning noJenna Dewan Tatum zokwahlukana, uthando lwaphinda lwasweleka. Njengokuba kuxa uChris Pratt no-Anna Faris bohlukana naxa uBrangelina waya ekhwaza ngobo busuku bumnandi. Inani labantu abangakhathaliyo kwaye abantu abagqithisileyo bahlulwe kakhulu, kodwa inyani kukuba sifundisiwe ukutyala imali emitshatweni nakwimitshato yoosaziwayo. Iqale ngaphi lonto? Ewe, njengezinto ezininzi, kufuneka siye ebukhosini.
Iidrama zosapho lwasebukhosini zizaliswe kukunyuka nokuwa kwemitshato emasikizi. U-Eleanor wase-Aquitaine wakwazi ukuqhawula umtshato no-Louis VII ukuba atshate no-Henry II wase-Ngilane emva koko aqhube oonyana bakhe bathathe isihlalo sobukhosi sase-England. UPompeia, umfazi wesibini kaJulius Caesar, waqhawula umtshato emva kokuba indoda inyathele kwelinye lamaqela ayo ukuzama ukulukuhla iPompeia. Nangona kungekho nto yenzekileyo, umfazi kaKesare kufuneka abe ngaphezulu kokurhanelwa kwaye washiywa.
Nangona kunjalo, ibali lethu lomtshato wasebukhosini / uqhawulo mtshato nguHenry VIII kunye nabafazi bakhe abathandathu. UKatherine waseAragon, u-Anne Boleyn, uJane Seymour, u-Anne waseCleves, uKatherine Howard noKatherine Parr. Lo mdlalo weqonga bekungumboniso wemidlalo yeqonga, iinkqubo zikamabonwakude, iimuvi, njl.njl. Ngaphambi koqhawulo-mtshato wakhe wokuqala, uHenry Tudor wayethandana kakhulu owayedla ngokwenza amaqela abhiyozela ukubhiyozela umfazi wakhe, wabhala imibongo kubaphathi bakhe, kwaye wayefundwe kakuhle kwaye zonke iimpawu zokulunga zikaKumkani zimele ukuba. Ke yena, njengoko ibali laliphothiwe, wamshiya umfazi wakhe ongcwele ukuba atshate u-Anne Boleyn.
Kodwa kutheni le nto la mabali ebalulekile ebantwini? Ewe, ngaphaya kwesoyikiso semfazwe nazo zonke iintlobo zemicimbi yezopolitiko, kubantu abaninzi abaqhelekileyo, ubukumkani babuyinjongo yabo. Yayiyintsomi yabo yokwenyani. Ke xa uKatherine waseAragon wayesuswa ngenxa yomfazi omncinci, nokuba zithini na iinkcukacha, abantu abaqhelekileyo bame ngakwicala lakhe, kuba ngamehlo abo, wayeyindlovukazi yabo.
Kwakhona, umdlalo weqonga. Ndiyathetha ukuba mangaphi amabali obukhosi obonwabileyo emtshatweni esiwaxelelayo kwaye siwamkele? Nokuba uAlbert / Victoria uyintlekele entle kuba uza kufa.
Ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-30s, kwiintsuku zokuqala zaseHollywood, imitshato yodumo yaqalekiswa ukuba itshise ngokukhawuleza kwaye iphele ngokukhawuleza. Abadlali / abadumileyo abanjengoZsa Zsa Gabor, Jennifer O'Neill, Mickey Rooney, Larry King, Elizabeth Taylor, kunye noLana Turner Chaza ezimbalwa ndinemitshato engaphezulu kwesixhenxe. Nanini na xa isibini sitshata ngokukhawuleza kwaye siqhawula umtshato kwangethuba lithuba lokuhlekisa.
Kukho ukucinga ukuba ngemali yabo kunye nokubukeka kwabo, ukuba abantu abathandanayo kufuneka bonwabe, banomdla ngakumbi kunathi sonke. Ayikhathaleli ukuba kanye njengathi sonke, uthando luyatsha, iimvakalelo ziyatshintsha, kwaye mhlawumbi izinto bezingezizo kangako, ukuqala. Ngaba ayincedi ukuba esele ikho kwaye isebenza esweni loluntu kuthetha ukumelana nomnqweno wokubeka iimpahla zakho ezimdaka ngaphandle phaya, ngakumbi xa inxalenye yebhrendi yakho iba ngumtshato wakho.
UAnna Faris sathetha ngale nto kuDax Shepard kwi-Armchair Expert podcast: Mna noChris sathetha [ngempendulo yoluntu]. Sifumene, [njengabantu abenza amagqabantshintshi] kwi-feed ye-Twitter, 'Uthando lufile' kunye 'neenjongo zobudlelwane.' […] Ndicinga ukuba nathi sasinetyala - ngokucacileyo sasilima into ethile, kwaye yayinomvuzo okwexeshana. Kwakungathi, 'Abantu babonakala becinga ukuba siyifumene yonke le nto ilungile.'
Yinto leyo esiyenzayo sonke. Akukho zithuba zibini zisempilweni. Kukangaphi uzibamba ezinye zezinto ezinobuzaza kubudlelwane bakho ngenxa yokuba uyakonwabela ukubonakaliswa njengovuyo eluthandweni? Kuba umtshato unzima, sijonga kobu budlelwane buhle kwaye siyathemba ukuba bazakulunga. Isihogo, ndaxhoma iJenna / Channing! Ndigxile iBrangelina. Kodwa bendingabajonganga njengabantu, bendijonge kubo njengamabali.
Ngaba ngekhe ibali elimangalisayo ukuba bona yenze? Ngokudabukisayo, xa bengakwenzi, ibali lilungile ngamanye amaxesha.
Zingaphi iidrama esinazo malunga nemitshato eyonwabisayo? Nokuba abantu abonwabileyo abatshatileyo abanjengoHenry VII noElizabeth waseYork baya kongezwa ngakumbi ukuze kuyenze iphawuleke ngakumbi kuba njengoko sifuna # iinjongo sisele sikholelwa #loveisdead kwaye ukuyibona isenzeka kwiminqweno yethu yokufezekisa ii-avatars kuqinisa umbono.
Ke ngaphandle kokungafuni, okanye ukuyikhanyela kuthi, sonke siyasongelwa kwidrama yobudlelwane yabantu abadumileyo. Ingakumbi uqhawulo-mtshato. Ndiyathetha ukuba ungacinga ukuba yinkcitha xesha kodwa… ucofe.
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