UCarice van Houten, uMthakathi oBomvu uMelisandre kwii-HBO's Imidlalo yeethrone , ngaba umbandela weembonakalo zabantu abambalwa ezingeyomfuneko ezasenza sazibuza ukuba kutheni? Ekwenziweni kweprojekthi yakhe entsha, Ithuku , wabuzwa malunga nomboniso we-HBO kwaye wabelana ngeengcinga zakhe kwezi ndawo zeze.
Xa intshukumo ye-Me Too yaqala, kulapho yaqala ukuntywila kum, uVan Houten wachaza Ngaphakathi . Kwaye yatshintsha indlela endijonga ngayo kwinkqubela phambili yam, hayi nje Imidlalo yeethrone .
Uqhubeke wathi: Ngokuphinda ndibuyele umva, ndacinga, ‘Kutheni laa mzobo kufuneka unganxibanga? Kutheni le nto yayiqhelekile? ’Ndizibuze imibuzo kwaye bekungekho kangako ukuba bendisola nabani na, kodwa yile ndlela savela ngayo, kwaye nendlela lo mbutho undichaphazele ngayo.
Bekusoloko kukho incoko malunga nobunqunu kwi Imidlalo yeethrone kwaye yintoni, ngokuchanekileyo, indawo yayo kuthotho. Ndicinga ukuba iyakuhlala ikhona indawo yobunqunu obumnandi kunye ne-voyeurism ekwiskrini, kodwa kufuneka kwabelwane ngayo. Ukuba ujonga emva Igazi lokwenyani , enye yezinto malunga naloo mboniso kukuba yayihlala inamathuba alinganayo enkonzo yabalandeli. Phantse wonke umntu waba ze ngaxa lithile, kwaye akuzange kuzame ukufihla ubume bayo yonke into.
Ngelixa ndiza kuvuma ukuba thina, njengoluntu, sinee hangups ezingaqhelekanga malunga nokwabelana ngesondo kunye nokubonisa iimpundu, kukho into eyahlukileyo phakathi kwamathuba obuze alinganayo kunye nokubona ikakhulu abantu basetyhini bahlala bekwimeko yokuba sesichengeni ngokwesini phakathi kwamadoda anxibe ngokupheleleyo-ngakumbi xa kukho akukho sizathu sinxulumene nesiqwenga sobuze obuthethiweyo.
Isihogo, indawo enye, apho uMelisandre ehamba ze ngaphandle komqala wakhe, ngumngxunya wobuqhetseba, njenge HuffPo yalatha , kuba umgexo wakhe womqala yinto emgcina esemncinci. Kodwa, uyazi, ngubani okhathalele izinto ezinobumnandi kuthotho lwefantasy xa ufuna i-clavicle ebonakalayo?
Ngodliwanondlebe, uVan Houten uyenza icace into yokuba akacingi ukuba ubugcisa bufanele bususe ubuze okanye imifanekiso yeentlobano zesini, kodwa ngoku uyanyanzelisa ukuba nabuphi na ubunqunu kufuneka bube nomsebenzi obalisayo-hayi nje ukwenza abaphulaphuli abathile bonwabe kuba lindela inqanaba lobunqunu kumdlalo.
Ndicinga ukuba olo luvavanyo olufanelekileyo, kodwa ndinqwenela ukuba abo babuza udliwanondlebe babuze le mibuzo yabadlali abangamadoda ekuye kwafuneka basebenze kunye nabafazi. Siyazi kudliwanondlebe lwangaphambili lukaEmilia Clarke ukuba uJason Momoa wayengummeli wakhe kwiseti yokuqinisekisa ukuba ukhululekile njengoko wayenako, kodwa kuya kuba mnandi ukuba nenye indoda Imidlalo yeethrone I-alumni ibuze ukuba bacinga njani ukuba iindleko zabo zabasetyhini zivakala njani.
Abadlali sele bebekwe kwindawo yokuba bazive bexhalabile malunga nokukhalaza ngobunqunu, ke amadoda abo kufuneka asebenze ukuze bazi ngakumbi ukuba ngubani oqhele ukuhamba ze, kwaye ngubani ongekhoyo.
(nge HuffPo , umfanekiso: HBO / HELEN SLOAN)
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