Ngaba abafazi bayahlekisa? Ngaba zihlekisa ezihlekisayo? Le mibuzo yomibini ndiyiva ixoxwa ngokufanelekileyo, ihlala ikwimidlalo ehlekisayo, ihlala ibhalwe ngamadoda ahlekisayo angamadoda. Luhlobo lwesihloko endigulayo ukuva ngalo, kuba kusisidenge ukwenza uqikelelo malunga nomntu ohlekisayo osekwe kuphela kwisini okanye kubuhlanga-ngakumbi kuba abahlekisi abamhlophe abangamadoda abahlekisi.
Ndicinga ukuba abafundi banokuba nezichaso ezinje:
Kuthiwani malunga [faka igama lendoda emhlophe ehlekisayo]?
Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo, ezinye abahlekisi abamhlophe abangamadoda bayahlekisa. Unokufumana imizekelo yabafana abamhlophe abahlekisayo, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba banjalo konke ehlekisayo. Ndiyathetha nje ngokubanzi azihlekisi. Ukuba uya kumdlalo ohlekisayo kwaye bonke abahlekisi bangama-dudes amhlophe (amathuba okuba alungile ngendlela) unokuqikelela ukuba izihloko ekuxoxwa ngazo ziya kuba zeziphi. Unokwenza nekhadi leBINGO.
Inyaniso…
Ndishiye iingubo ezimbalwa ukuze ugcwalise ezakho. Yonwaba kunye nayo kwizimvo.
Uthetha nje malunga neenkolelo. Ayizizo zonke ii-dudes ezimhlophe ezithetha malunga nezinto ezinjalo.
Njengoko benditshilo. Abanye Iikomiki ezimhlophe ezingamadoda mhlawumbi ziyahlekisa, kodwa ndikulungele ukubheja ukuba uza nekhadi leBINGO kumboniso ngokuhlwanje ungalizalisa ngokukhawuleza. Ngokukodwa ukuba uya kwindawo yokubonisa apho iqela lamahlaya liqhuba khona kwinqanaba elinye. Amaxesha ngamaxesha ukwi-showcase kuba ufuna ukubona enye ye-comic, kodwa ugcina ubona ii-comic ezilishumi kwaye ubukhulu becala ikakhulu ziidude ezimhlophe.
Awunayo ndifuna Iikomiki ezimhlophe zamadoda ukuze zihlekise. Ukubona i-dude emhlophe engafunekiyo kusondla nje ubungqina bakho.
Endikwaziyo kukuba ndibone uninzi lwabahlekisi besenza. Ukuba ndibukele umboniso ophela ngabafana abamhlophe, ngekhe ndiwuthande lo mboniso kakhulu. Mhlawumbi omnye umntu uya kucinga ukuba bayahlekisa, kodwa ayindim lowo.
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Kwaye… imeko . Oku kungasentla konke kuyintlekisa-ngaphandle kwesizathu sokuba ndigula ngokuva abantu bethetha malunga nokuba ngabafazi okanye ii-POCs ziyahlekisa. Ndingumntu ohlekisayo ongumntu oyindoda , kwaye le yinto endiyiva ngabantu kunye nezinye izinto ezihlekisayo zithetha kakhulu, kwaye ndingathanda ukuba bayeke. Sisiseko sobuyatha kwisihloko sencoko.
Ewe uninzi lwabasetyhini okanye ii-POCs azihlekisi, kuba abantu abaninzi abahlekisi . (Amhlophe amhlophe, ayabandakanya nathi.)
Ukuhlekisa kunzima. Yiyo loo nto abahlekisi behlawulwa ukuze bahlekise abantu. Asinguye wonke umntu onokuyenza. Abambalwa banokuyenza kakuhle. Ndibonile i-shit women and POC comics kufuneka bayinyamezele abaphulaphuli kunye nabanye abahlekisi. Ukuhlekisa kunzima kuwo wonke umntu, kodwa ngokuthelekisa kubonakala ngathi ndinokuhamba ngokulula kunabanye babahlobo bam abangamhlophe abamhlophe. Ayikuko ukuba nditsho ukuba ndiyinto ehlekisayo kunabo-konke konke. Oko kukuthi abaphulaphuli abenzi iingcinga ezifanayo ngam xa ndinyathela eqongeni abazenzayo ezinye zezohlekiso.
Sithanda ukubeka izinto ngokwamaqela ukuze kube lula ukugweba. Ukuba ubonile isiqhu semidlalo bhanyabhanya ongakhange uyithande, emva koko uya kuthintela ukubona ezinye iimuvi ezenziwayo. Kulungile, kodwa ukuzama ukwenza olo hlobo lokucinga ngokubanzi malunga nokuba awuyithandi na into ehlekisayo esekwe kubuhlanga babo okanye isini sisidenge, kuba abahlekisi abazizo iimuvi zentshukumo. Abaqhuli ngabantu.
Olona hlazo luhle (ngokoluvo lwam) lolwabantu. Ijonge indlela umntu ahlangabezana ngayo nehlabathi, kunye nendlela abanxibelelana ngayo namava abo kubaphulaphuli. Ukuva malunga namava omntu wesini esahlukileyo okanye imvelaphi kunokukhanyisa kwaye kuhlekise ngokwenene.
Olona hlazo lubi kakhulu (ngokoluvo lwam) alunamgangatho wobuntu kwaye lenza nje ukuba kube lula ukuqhula. Kulula ukudlala kwiingcinga. Kulula ukubetha ngenqindi phantsi. Nabani na onokukhwela eqongeni aze afunde ihlaya lobuhlanga abaxelelwe ngumalume wabo.
Baninzi abaqhuli abangalunganga, kodwa babi ngenxa yokuba izinto zabo zimbi okanye zimbi ekuzixeleni, hayi ngenxa yesini sabo okanye umbala wesikhumba.
Ke, yizani, wonke umntu. Kwanele ngoku.
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