Ngelixa ndibukele ifilimu endiyithandayo kuhambo olubuyayo kwikhefu lam lakutshanje, kwathi qatha ingcinga kum: Kwifilimu, amadoda awavunyelwa hayi ufuna isondo. Naxa abalinganiswa babo bengafuni ukuba neentlobano zesini nangawuphi na umzuzu, iifilimu zikubonisa njengento abayenzayo kufanele Ndifuna. Nokuba iimeko zithini na.
Ifilimu endiyithandayo endandiyibukele yayingama-2000 Phantse Udumile , Ibali likaCameron Crowe lihlala lifudumeza kwaye liyakhuthaza malunga nokuthandana nerock n 'roll kwiminyaka yoo-1970. Ndiyibonile imiboniso bhanyabhanya izihlandlo ezizigidi, ndinomlawuli osikiweyo kwiDVD, kwaye andisoze ndisilele ukukrazula ngexesha langoku Umdanisi omncinci ucula-indawo ende .
Kwifilimu, intatheli yelitye elineminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu egama linguWilliam (edlalwa nguPatrick Fugit) uphela ekhubekeka kwigig yobomi bonke: ukulandela iqela elibizwa ngokuba yi-Stillwater kukhenketho kunye nokwenza isiqwenga kubo ngeRolling Stone. Endleleni, utyhilekile kubomi obunzima bendlela abaneminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu abanokucinga ngayo.
Kananjalo indlela-encinci-encinci ukuba ibekho iBhendi yoNcedo (hayi iqela!) UPenny Lane (odlalwa nguKate Hudson), uhlobo oluhle, intombazana engaqondakaliyo ukuba naliphi na igazi elibomvu elineminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu liza kuwa. Kucacile ukuba uWilliam uhlakulela iimvakalelo ezinamandla ngoPenny. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kwamava kaPenny abonakala ngathi ohlukeneyo ngokwesondo, intliziyo yakhe ibotshelelwe ngokupheleleyo kwisigingci sika-Stillwater, uRussell (odlalwa nguBilly Crudup), onentombi yexesha elide ekhaya.
Lo mboniso wenzeka malunga nesiqingatha kumdlalo bhanyabhanya:
Kuyo, njengokuba uWilliam ezama ukuxelela uPenny indlela avakalelwa ngayo ngaye, abathathu beBand-Aids (edlalwa nguAnna Paquin, uFairuza Balk, no-Olivia Rosewood) bangena kwigumbi lokuhlambela abathetha kulo, babhengeza ukuba Ndizomenza buthathaka kwaye kufuneka u-Opie afe! Emva koko, bamrhuqela ebhedini, bamhluba, bajikeleza ngokungathi bayamenzela idini.
Njengoko oku kusenzeka, uhlala esokola ukubaleka kwaye / okanye agcine iimpahla zakhe. Ekuphela kwamagama awathethileyo kule nto iyonke yile: Hayi Yima. Sithetha. Ndiyacela. Abafana, yizani, kufuneka ndibhale. Xa ezama ukugcina ihempe yakhe isondele emva kokuba amantombazana eyikhululile kuye, umlinganiswa kaBalk uyitsalela kude kuye, emohlwaya ngokufuna ukugquma.
Emva koko, uWilliam ujonga uPenny, kwaye kakhulu, udidekile kakhulu malunga nento ekufuneka eyenzile. Yintoni egqithisile, uye intombazana eneemvakalelo. Ukuba uza kutyhilwa nangubani na, ufuna ukuba ibe nguye. Kodwa endaweni yokumjonga, indlela ebekade esenza ngayo uninzi lwemovie; endaweni yokubona ebusweni ukuba akafuni ukwenza le nto kunye nala mantombazana mathathu awaziyo, umjonga ngokungathandabuzekiyo, amnike umtshangatshangiso, ahambe, ayeke ukuba yenzeke.
Kodwa hayi ngaphambi kokujonga amafu ubuso bakhe - ujongo oluthi uyazi ukuba ulahlekelwa bubumsulwa bakhe ngendlela engaphantsi komhle. Mhlawumbi ngendlela efanayo nakwindlela aphulukene ngayo neyakhe.
Andizange ndibenangxaki ngale ndawo ngaphambili, kodwa ukuyibukela ngeli xesha, ngesizathu esithile, kwandibetha ukuba akafuni nyani ukuba lapho. Kwaye yonke enye into malunga nendlela edutyulwa ngayo, ukusuka kumnyhadala wamantombazana onesikhafu, ukuya kwisantya esincinci, ukusayina kwimisebenzi kaPenny Lane, upakisha imeko ngovakalelo lukaCameron Crowe ithi le yinto uWilliam afuna ukuyenza, kufanele funa, ukuba nje ebesazi ngcono .
Mhlawumbi uCrowe ngokwakhe wafundiswa oku ziifilimu awakhula ezibukela. Kwaye umjikelo weenyaniso ezamkelweyo uyaqhubeka.
Ngasekupheleni kwefilimu, xa uPenny ethathe iiQuaaludes ezimbini kwigumbi lehotele, kwaye uWilliam uzama ukumgcina ephaphile de kufike abezonyango, uyavuma uthando lwakhe ngeslut-slut-shaming her (Ndiyakuthanda, kwaye ndiza kuhamba ngesibindi ndiye… ezininzi amadoda… ahambile ngaphambili) kwaye amange ngelixa engazi nto.
Kwaye kutheni engenako? Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kutshanje ufundile ukuba imvume yokwenziwa kwento ayinamsebenzi. Into ebalulekileyo yiminqweno kunye neminqweno yabo bafuna ukwanga, okanye ukhulule.
Ininzi yabantu, xa bethetha ngayo Phantse Udumile, Thetha ngayo njengebali lokuza, eliqinisekileyo liyilo. Nangona kunjalo, ngekhe bathi iqulethe nantoni na ukude njengokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo. Kodwa iyenzeka. Kabini. Kwaye oko akubandakanyi amantombazana athengisa ubhiya ngexesha lomdlalo we-poker!
Lo mzuzu kule vidiyo ndiyithandayo yandenza ndacinga ngenkcubeko yokudlwengula, kwaye nokuba kuncinci kangakanani kuthi ngathi luluntu kubonakala ngathi ukuqonda ukuqonda, nangona ingumbono olula. Ukuba umntu akafuni ukuba kwenziwe into ethile kuye, kwaye uyenze njalo, awunayo imvume yakhe.
Abantu banomkhwa ombi wokwenza izinto zibe nzima ngokwenene ngokuzama ukufunda izinto kwindlela abaziphethe ngayo. Ke ngoku, nokuba umntu uthi Hayi ngokuvakalayo, umntu ozingisayo (okanye, uyazi, ibhegi yedokodo eyoyikisayo) uyakucinga ukuba abayinyani kuthetha hayi, endaweni yokuthatha uHayi ngexabiso lobuso.
Asifundiswanga ukukhangela imikhondo engenamlomo nokuba kuziwa kwisini, ke izinto ezinje ngolwimi lomzimba (ukusuka ekukhutsheni okusebenzayo, kwimbonakalo yobuso engenantlonelo), hamba ngqo phezu kweentloko zabantu. Okanye, kwakhona, abantu bazii-douchebags kwaye abakhathali xa bebona ezo zinto, bezithethelela ngokwabo ukuba ukungahoyi ezo zinto ayikokudlwengula, kunyanzelekile … Kuba umntu khange yitsho hayi.
Abazange bathi ewe, nokuba!
Yongeza Patriarchy ngaphezulu kwalonto, kwaye izinto ziya zintsonkotha. Ukuba abantu basetyhini bayanyanzelwa ukuba babe ngabo babanjwa ngokwesondo ngalo lonke ixesha, oko kuthetha ukuba amadoda kufuneka abe ngabadlali… ngalo lonke ixesha. Kulindeleke ukuba babe zizinja. Ukwabelana ngesondo. Lonke ixesha . Naxa bengafuni ukuba.
Kwaye ukuba indoda okanye inkwenkwe ininzi, njengoko kunjalo kuWilliam kwesi siqeshana singentla, okanye ngenxa yesinye isizathu uziva enyanzelekile ukuba angalwi okanye avume into angayifuniyo, njengokuba kunjalo kulo mboniso Kwifilimu kaRainn Wilson / Ellen Page Super , ibonwa ngabaphulaphuli abaya kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya njengethamsanqa, nangona isimilo sikaWilson sigabha kwangoko emva kohlaselo.
Andikwazi ukuqala ukukuxelela ukuba ndandinesicaphucaphu xa ndandinini Super Kuqala kwaphuma kwaye andibonanga ngxoxo ngale ndawo njengokudlwengulwa kwi-intanethi, kodwa into endiyibonileyo yayininzi inkcazo yamadoda malunga nendlela onethamsanqa ngayo umlinganiswa kaWilson ukuba abelane ngesondo no-Ellen Page kwisinxibo esikhulu. Kwabonwa njengokuzaliseka kwamaphupha.
Le ndlela yokucinga ingena kwisimo sethu sengqondo kubomi bokwenyani. Xa usiva ngotitshala obhinqileyo onolwalamano nomfundi oyindoda, ongaphantsi kobudala, akunakuphepheka ukuba uya kuva amadoda ethetha ngendlela lo mntwana ayephila ngayo iphupha, okanye indlela awayenethamsanqa ngayo. Ngokuthandabuzekayo njengabafazi ukuxela udlwengulo ngenxa yokoyika indlela abaza kuphathwa ngayo yinkqubo yezomthetho, amadoda ayathandabuza, kuba afundiswa ukuba akafuni ukwabelana ngesondo, okanye ukuvumela umfazi ukuba enze into kuwe ongayifuniyo zenziwe zangaphantsi kwendoda.
Ke, ayimangalisi into yokuba amadoda anengxaki yokusongela iintloko zawo kwimvumelwano xa kufikwa kumabhinqa, xa engakwazi nokusongela iintloko zawo yeyakho imvume. Egameni lokugcina imeko yoosolusapho, apho amadoda anamandla ngakumbi ekuhlaleni, banikezele ngelungelo labo lokuthi hayi, ukuba sesichengeni kwabo, bazipeyinta kwikona apho baye baba ngabantu abaqhutywa zizesondo endaweni yokuxakaniseka, ngamanye amaxesha bebuthathaka abantu.
Abantu bazo zonke izini bafanelwe isini kunye nothando ngokwemiqathango yabo, baphathwe ngentlonipho, kwaye bala ngokuzithoba ukuba abanamdla. Ifilimu kufuneka ibengcono malunga nokumodareyitha oko, endaweni yokuqhubeka usithengisela inyani eyamkelweyo yokuba amadoda ayiyonto ngaphandle kweenja ezilambele isondo, kwaye ukuba azinjalo, ngandlela thile azisebenzi.
Oku, nako, bubufazi: ukujonga iindlela ezenzakalisa isini yonke imihla ngu.
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