Andikuthandi ukuthi amadoda yinkunkuma, kodwa xa engqina ukuba iyinyani, yintoni enye endinokuyenza? Xa bebuzwa malunga nesithuba sokuhlawula isini kwicandelo labo, iqela lebhola ekhatywayo lesizwe laseMelika lagqiba kwelokuba lingavumi ukuphawula. Ke ngoku, kwakhona, ubeka ityala kuthi uninzi ngokukhwaza malunga namadoda?
Okwangoku kukho isimangalo esifakwe liqela lebhola ekhatywayo labasetyhini laseMelika kucalucalulo ngokwesini ngenxa yokuba iqela labasetyhini lihlawulwe kancinane kakhulu kunelamadoda, kodwa kungqinekile ukuba bayalingana ngetalente nangokuzinikela kwabo ukuba ngamalungu amaqela esizwe. Into edanisayo kukuba kubonakala ngathi abafazi bakule nto bodwa.
Xa bekucelwa ukuba banike izimvo malunga nomsantsa wokuhlawula, iqela lamadoda lineempendulo ezinomdla:
I-SPOILER ALERT: Impendulo yebhola ekhatywayo yamadoda yinkunkuma ngokupheleleyo https://t.co/DPpAKN18oK pic.twitter.com/F8U2TIoroK
-Kelsey Umqeqeshi (@ ktrain_11) NgoJuni 24, 2019
Ngaba ufuna ukwazi ukuba leliphi elona candelo libi malunga noku? Sihlala sixelelwa, njengabafazi, ukuba kufuneka senze umsebenzi ukuze sihlawulwe isixa esilinganayo, kodwa ke siyawenza umsebenzi, kwaye singcono kuwo, kwaye amadoda awasayi kusixhasa ukoyisa umsantsa ocacileyo wokuhlawula. Ngapha koko, onke la madoda athula.
Ngoba? Kuba bayayazi impumelelo yeqela labasetyhini kwaye nendlela, xa kuthelekiswa, bahlawulwa iipeni, ngelixa amadoda esenza isivumelwano esihle ngakumbi. Umahluko phantse $ 10,000 zeerandi . Kulungile, amadoda enza okungaphezulu kunabafazi ngokwenza umsebenzi ofanayo kwaye alingane ngokulinganayo kwaye akukho mntu ubonakala efuna ukubonisa ukuba kutheni kuyingxaki? Kulungile, Iqela lebhola ekhatywayo laMadoda. Kupholile ngokwenene.
U-Alex Morgan, ongomnye wabadlali abafaka isimangalo, uthe malunga nesizathu sokuba abone isidingo sokuyimela intlawulo njengomdlali kunye nomntu obhinqileyo: Sikholelwa ekubeni ukulwela ukulingana ngokwesini kwezemidlalo kuyinxalenye yoko uxanduva. Njengabadlali, besifanele ukuhlawulwa ngokulinganayo ngomsebenzi wethu, ngaphandle kwesini sethu.
Ukunyaniseka, Kuyadanisa kakhulu ukuba lonke iqela lamadoda liyaliwe ukwenza uluvo ngalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, inokuba kungenxa yokuba ityala lisajongwa, kodwa oko akufuneki kubathintele ekuthetheni ngokuxhasa iqela labasetyhini. Njengokuba ndingathanda ukuba abantu basetyhini bakwazi ukufumana umvuzo olinganayo bonke ngokwethu, ayisiyiyo indlela eyenzeka ngayo utshintsho. Abo banamandla (isengamadoda ikakhulu) kufuneka bamamele kwaye basincede silungiselele olo tshintsho, kwaye xa amadoda ehleli ethe cwaka engavumi ukunceda, ibonisa imibala yawo yokwenyani kwaye, kubonakala ngathi, ayikhathali ngokutshintsha umhlaba ngcono.
Bhatala iqela labasetyhini iimfanelo zabo.
(nge Iintloko , umfanekiso: Sean M. Haffey / Getty Izithombe)
Ngaba ufuna amanye amabali anje? Yiba ngumbhalisi kwaye uxhase indawo!
-UMary Sue unomgaqo-nkqubo ongqongqo ongavumiyo, kodwa ungaphelelanga apho, ukuthukwa kwabantu nabani na , Intiyo nentetho egonyamelayo. —
