Abathathu Amagqwirha Ayinyani Apha Ukunceda ukuba Ububonile ubuChule: Ilifa kwaye ufuna ukuba ligqwirha

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Ke, ubukele Ubugcisa: Ilifa kwaye wayithanda, okanye ukhe wakhangela #witchesofinstagram okanye mhlawumbi uve malunga nayo yonke Hexing inyanga yenyanga . Kwaye ngoku ukulungele ukubanga inyani yakho kwaye ube ligqwirha!Kodwa… umntu uba ligqwirha njani? Okanye ukuba uyathakatha, ngoku uza kwenza ntoni?

Ewe, ngenisa amagqwirha amathathu: abafazi abasemva kwepodcast, Obo Bugqwirha , konke malunga nokuphila njengegqwirha kwihlabathi lanamhlanje. Ngoku, bendiligqwirha okwethutyana, kodwa kuhlala kuninzi ekufuneka ndikufundile, kwaye le podcast yenye yemithombo yam endiyithandayo ngokupheleleyo yeengxoxo ezinengqiqo kuyo yonke into evela kumfa kunye nokukhetha umnqophiso koothixokazi kunye nakwizikhuselo zokukhusela.

Imikhosi uKanani Soleil, uCourtney Weber, noHilary Whitmore (bonke babesebenzisa amagqwirha kwaye kwityala likaCourtney umbhali weencwadi ezininzi ) zilapha ukuphendula ukutshiswaimibuzo onokuyenza malunga nokuba ngowona mntu uzithandayo emva kokubukela Ubugcisa: Ilifa .

UMariya Ngokuqinisekileyo: Okokuqala, Ubugcisa: Ilifa kubonakala ngathi kuthetha ukuba ekuphela kwendlela yokuba ligqwirha kukuba yinxalenye yesivumelwano? Ngaba yinyaniso leyo?

UKanani : Ngokuqinisekileyo akunjalo. Uninzi lwamagqwirha luqala kwaye ngamanye amaxesha luhlala lodwa. Uninzi lwamagqwirha aluzange lujoyine ii-covens kwaye basebenzise ubugcisa babo bodwa. Ukuziqhelanisa kwam nezinto zokomoya kuyinto yobuqu kum kwaye ndiyayithanda inkululeko yokuziqhelanisa ndedwa. Ukuziqhelanisa nokuzimela kufanelekile kubathakathi abafana nam abangakuthandi ukudlala kakuhle nabanye. Ngokuqinisekileyo ii-covens ayinguye wonke umntu.

Inkundla :Kukho izibonelelo zokusebenza kwiCovens, ngokuqinisekileyo. Yindlela yokuqinisekisa amava akho kunye nokufunda izakhono ezongezelelweyo. Kodwa ubugqwirha yinto kwaye uyafana nomculo, ungadlala wedwa okanye neqela lomculo. Ndicinga ukuba abona Bugqwirha bazivumela ukuba bafumane iiCovens kunye nokuzilolonga bebodwa kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zobomi babo. Ndibe seCovens. Ndibaleke uMnqophiso ixesha elide. Ngoku ndibhabha ndedwa, ngaphandle kwaba babini, endingenako ukubalahla, phofu.

IHilary: Kwabanye abantu, iiCovens yindlela elungileyo kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ayisiyiyo yodwa indlela eya ebugqwirheni. Kukho izibonelelo ezininzi phaya zeengcali ezizimeleyo eziva ukuba umnqophiso awulunganga kwaye ndiyabakhuthaza ukuba bangene kwaye bafumanise ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwezinto abazithandayo nabaziva ngathi zilungile kubo.

Yithi uyafuna ukujoyina iqela: wenza njani malunga noku kwaye ujonge ntoni?

UKanani:Abanye abantu bafuna ukuba yinxalenye yeqela kwaye ndicinga ukuba kubalulekile ukuba baqonde ukuba umnqophiso olungileyo uyabanceda ukuba bakhule kwaye bakhule. Alikho iqela eligqibeleleyo kwaye ke ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba awubeki uxinzelelo kulindelo lwakho kwabanye. Kufanele ukuba yindawo oya kuyo ukuze ufumane kwaye ufumane uluntu. Umnqophiso awuyondawo yokufuna ukuzaliseka, luhambo lwangaphakathi.

Ngokuqinisekileyo ndingakhangela naziphi na iiflegi ezibomvu ozifumanayo, umnqophiso akufuneki ukucele ukuba wenze izinto ezikwenza uzive ungonwabanga. Ukuba ayisiyonto intle ke ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka uqhubeke. Kukho ithuba elihle lokuba kuya kufuneka ufumane ama-covens ambalwa ngaphambi kokuba ufumane elingana nomsebenzi wakho.

Inkundla: Kulula kunanini na ngaphambili ukufumana iSivumelwano okanye elinye iqela leMagickal. Ewe unikwe ubhubhane, ukuqokelela ngaphakathi-komntu akucebisi. Kodwa amaqela amaninzi kaMagickal ahlangana kwi-intanethi ngoku. Uphendlo olulula lwe-Facebook okanye lukaGoogle kwindawo yomntu luya kufumana ukhetho oluninzi. Kukho nezikolo ezigqwesileyo zobugqwirha phaya ezinje Indlu yobugqwirha okanye Ingcwele iMists Academy ezibonelela ngesikhokelo esihle ekuqaliseni ukuziqhelanisa.

Khangela amaqela ahlelwe kakuhle kwaye achaze indima yabo kunye nokulindelwe phambili-kubo bobabini kunye namalungu abo. Kufuneka bathobele ikhowudi engqingqwa yeenqobo zokuziphatha ngexesha labo bekunye kwaye ngelixa uninzi lunokufuna umrhumo omncinci wokuhlawula iindleko (ukuqhuba iCoven akubizi!), Akufuneki bacele imali engaphezulu kwemali.

IHilary: Ungaze uziva unyanzelekile ukuba wenze into ekwenza ungakhululeki kwaye ukuba awuziva ukhululekile kwiqela lokuqala odibana nalo, oko akuthethi ukuba akukho nanye ikho ngaphandle kwakho. Umnqophiso yindawo elungileyo yokufunda nokukhula kodwa ndiyathanda nokukhumbuza abantu ukuba kulungile ukuba nenkxaso yangaphandle ngokunjalo. Ubugqwirha buyamangalisa kwaye bunamandla kodwa akusoloko kuluhambo olulula, ke iinkqubo zangaphandle zenkxaso zihlala ziyinto elungileyo ukuba nayo.

Ngaba ichanekile into yokuba lonke igqwirha linento? Ngaba ndingaqondanga ndityeshela amandla am njengelungu lesizwe samanzi okanye isizwe somlilo? Ukuba akunjalo, yintoni eyayichanekile ngendima edlalwa zizinto kumlingo?

Inkundla: I-OMG andinako ngeelebheli. Ndandinomthengi weTarot kanye oweza kum emva kokuba ethathe imibuzo kuFacebook eyamxelela ukuba unguMthakathi woMoya kwaye wayefuna ukuba iTarot ichaze ukuba kuthetha ntoni oko. Zombini mna kunye neTarot sasifana, 'Huh?' Izinto ezisisiseko ziyinxalenye eyomeleleyo kaMagick kunye nendlela entle yokusebenza ngeentelekiso. Ndicinga ukuba yinkcitha xesha ukuqala ukunamathela kwiilebheli kubugqwirha bakho.

IHilary: Ndifumana iilebhile ezinje ngokuhlekisa. Uninzi lwamagqwirha lusebenzisa izinto ezininzi okanye lujolise ekusebenzeni kwabo. Abanye batsaleleka kwizityalo ngaphezulu kwezinye, abanye bathanda umlingo wamanzi, abanye bakhetha ukusebenza nenyanga kodwa akukho nje into efana nokufuna ukukhetha into enye oza kusebenza nayo. Ndisebenza kakhulu ngezityalo, amakhandlela, kunye namatye kodwa ndiyakuthanda ukudibanisa ezinye izinto okanye iipropathi kumlingo wam njengoko zibonakala zilungile.

UKanani: Izinto eziyinxalenye yazo zonke izinto ukuze uzilinganisele komnye kuphela kubonakala ngathi kunempembelelo. Sonke sinamacala amaninzi kunye nezigaba ezahlukeneyo zobomi esihamba kuzo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ndicinga ukuba iyonke okanye ngokwamanqanaba ahlukeneyo, siziva sinxibelelene ngakumbi nenye into ngaphezulu kwenye. Ndihlala ndithanda kwaye nditsalelwa emanzini. Yindawo engcwele kum leyo. Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba andikuthandi ukubeka izinto ngomlilo okanye ukuziva ukungcola phakathi kweenzwane zam. Izinto eziyinxalenye zizonke kwaye ngelixa nganye inokuba namandla ngokwahlukeneyo, xa uzisebenzisa kunye zininzi kakhulu. Ndonwabe ngakumbi ukuba nguLwandle hag, pyro othanda ukungcola kwaye eve umoya opholileyo ngeenwele zakhe.

Lo mboniso bhanyabhanya wenza umsebenzi omkhulu wokucacisa ukuba umlingo kunye nobugqwirha ziindawo ezibandakanyayo. Ke, ichanekile into yokuba umntu akadingi isibeleko okanye nokuchonga njengowasetyhini ukuba abe ligqwirha?

UKanani: Ngokubanzi ubugqwirha yinto ebandakanya wonke umntu. Oko kuyathethwa ngokuqinisekileyo unokufumana amaqela angaphezulu kobufazi kwaye kusekho iindawo ezithile ezilusizi ukubakhuphela ngaphandle abahlobo bethu abangabalulekanga. Inxalenye yobudoda neyabasetyhini yobugqwirha yayingumbono wakudala kakhulu ovela kwinto eyayixhaphakile ngelo xesha. Ingaphezulu kakhulu kwendawo engwevu ngoku, njengoko kufanele ukuba njalo. Ngenxa yokuba sonke sinamandla obufazi kunye nobudoda kuthi.

Inkundla: Isibeleko asiyondlela yobugqwirha. Ndiyaphinda: Isibeleko asiyondlela yobugqwirha. Kwi-Greek yamandulo, abantu abanesini esahlukileyo okanye isini esikhona ngaphandle kwebhinari eyindoda / yabasetyhini bahlonitshwa njengeengcali ezinkulu zikaMagick. Ndiyazi uninzi, uninzi lwamagqwirha atshintshayo, angadibanisanga, i-cis-eyindoda, okanye ngenye indlela kwaye benza iMagick engakholelekiyo. Abafazi be-Cis banembali yokutyholwa ngobugqwirha, kodwa ayingabo bodwa abajongana nezityholo. Ligama elingalunganga lokuba ubuGqwirha bobakho cis-abafazi. Nditshatile kwi-cis-man Witch kwaye uyi-badass.

IHilary: Ubugqwirha benzelwe wonke umntu kwaye nabani na okuxelela ngenye indlela uchanekile. Kukho zonke iintlobo zamagqwirha phaya.

Ngaba amagqwirha amatsha (okanye abo banamava) kufuneka bahambe nekhithi yokwenza izinto ezaliswe ngamayeza, ioyile kunye namatye? Oko kubonakala kunzima.

UKanani: Ndiyathetha ukuba unako. Yonwaba xa uchaza loo nto kwiTSA. Abanye amagqwirha banezinto abasoloko befuna ukuba nazo, kodwa ngokubanzi, ndicinga ukuba abantu bahlala bathanda izinto ezinje ngezinto zobucwebe okanye ezinye izinto abazisebenzisa mihla le ukuzigcina. Njengokuba ndingathanda isipaji esiphethe yonke into, akukenzeki. Amagqwirha ayasebenza njengabo bonke abantu. Sihlala sinuka ngcono kwaye sonwabile ngezinto ezothusayo.

Inkundla- Ukuthetha ngeTSA, ndiyakuthanda ukukhangela ibhegi yam xa ndiphethe iTarot okanye ikatala yam encinci. Amadoda eTSA akhangeleka esoyika. Abasetyhini be-TSA bandicela ukuba ndifunde. Andizange ndicinge ngombono wecala lokuzenzela, kodwa ngoku ndiyazi ukuba yintoni ebilahlekile kubugqwirha bam. Ndlela-ntle.

IHilary: Ndidla ngokuzisa izinto ezithile kuyo yonke into endiyenzayo xa ndihamba. Ngokuqinisekileyo akuyomfuneko ukuzisa zonke izixhobo ezikwikhithi yakho yamagqwirha, nangona kunjalo, kwaye uhlale uqinisekisa ukuba izinto ozizisayo, ngakumbi imifuno okanye amathambo, zilungile ukuhamba nazo kwingingqi oya kuyo. Kwakhona, ndiyazicaphukisa ngokungaze ndicinge ikiti yokwenza njengendawo yokugcina izixhobo zam zemilingo.

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Ke, malunga nokwenza abanye abantu? Ngaba kulungile?

UKanani: Lo uhlala ungumbuzo okhohlisayo kwaye kum impendulo ibandakanya injongo. Ukuba uzama ukunqanda umntu ukuba angazenzakalisi okanye abanye ngoko ndiza kuthi ewe. Ukuba ufuna umntu oza kubethwa yibhasi ukuze ufumane umsebenzi kwaye angawenzi emva koko ndithi hayi. Ukuba umazi umntu ogulayo kwaye ubathumela amandla okuphilisa kwaye ubakhanyisele ikhandlela ngokuqinisekileyo.

Ayingawo onke amagqwirha enza i-Wicca kwaye ke umthetho ophindwe kathathu ayisiyonto isebenza ngokwenene. Kum, kumalunga nokuba nesazela kunye nokwenza into oziva ulungile ngayo kwaye uzithembile kuyo. Ukuba unokwenza isipelingi kwaye ulale ebusuku ngelixa ungeyiyo intlalontle, kuya kufuneka ulungile.

Inkundla: Ingqondo kaKanani ihlala ihlasela-ngebhasi kwaye iyandoyikisa.

Amagqwirha amaninzi anezithintelo zobuqu ngokuchasene nokwenza uMagick kwabanye abantu, kodwa abanye abanazo. Ndifumanise ukuba ukupela kuyimpumelelo ngakumbi ukuba uyiphosa komnye umntu ngemvume yakhe, kuba iinjongo zabo zomeleza iziphumo. Kodwa andinqikazi ukuphosa omnye umntu, ngakumbi ukuba bandibangela umba kwaye ndifuna ukuba bandishiye ndedwa. Okwangoku, kunokuba ngumzamo wokuchitha xa uphosa umntu ngokusekwe kwintoni wena bacinga ukuba bayazidinga, xa kuthelekiswa nento abayifunayo okanye abayifunayo ngokwenene.

IHilary: Amagqwirha amaninzi aneembono ezingafaniyo ngesi sihloko mna, ngokobuqu, andinangxaki ngokwenza umsebenzi wokupela kwabanye abantu kwiimeko ezininzi. Ngapha koko, ezinye iziphonso zinceda ukubamba imida ebalulekileyo. Ukuba umntu akazukundishiya ndedwa, uthetha ngokungeyonyani malunga nam, njl njl.Ukuthakatha kunokuba yindlela yokukhusela i-myslef. Ikwayindlela entle yokunceda abanye ngemizabalazo yabo. Ndifumanisa, njengoko i-Courtney ikhankanyiwe, isiphumo sinamandla ngakumbi ukuba bathathe inxaxheba ngokuzithandela.

Inkundla : Kwisivumelwano esinye bendibandakanyeka kwiminyaka eyadlulayo, sathakatha umfazi owayenentetho enobundlobongela kwaye wenza umdlalo weqonga naphina apho aya khona. Sasicinga ukuba wonwabile, angayeka ukudala iingxaki ezininzi. Ekuqaleni, ukupela kwasebenza. Ngaphandle kokwazi ukuba senze ntoni, waphawula ukuba umhlaba ngequbuliso ulungile kuye kwaye waziva onwabile ngendlela engaqhelekanga okokuqala. Kodwa enyanisweni, wayengafuni ukonwaba. Emva kwethutyana, uphume waya kuqala umdlalo weqonga nabanye, wamshiya (nabo bonke abantu abamngqongileyo) elusizi ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Njengoko kuvela, abanye abantu abafuni ukonwaba ngokwenene. Ukuba bendikhafula ngoku, bendizothula uthuli elithi 'Bitch Be Gone' ndimthumele kwenye indawo.

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Zeziphi ezinye izibonelelo ezilungileyo zamagqwirha amatsha ekufumaneni ubugcisa? (Ndingacebisa ngokobuqu uGabriela Herstik's Ukubetha izinto ukuba unomdla kwicala lezinto zokuqala, kwaye intle kakhulu into nge UScott Cunningham -Imisebenzi yakhe iklasi eWicca ngesizathu.)

UKanani: Ndiyithandile Ukuzoba iNyanga NguMargot Adler kuba ubonakalisa iyantlukwano ekhoyo kwezobugcisa endicinga ukuba inceda abantu kwasekuqaleni ukuba baqonde ukuba akukho ndlela ilungileyo yokwenza ubugqwirha ekufuneka beyikhangele.

Inkundla: Nantoni na nge UIvo Dominguez, Omnci. iya kunika icebiso elicacileyo, nelisebenzayo ngokusebenza kukaMagick. Ndikwacebisa ngamandla Ngaphandle kwesangqa esithandekayo ngu-Misha Magdelene, kuye nabani na onomdla kubugqwirha, kodwa ngakumbi abo bafuna umbono weQueer kwindlela kaMagickal.

IHilary: Ndiyathanda IJuju elungileyo: iiMojos, iiRites kunye neZenzo zoMoya oMlingo nguNajah Lightfoot kwaye intle kakhulu nantoni na nguChristopher Penczak …. Ewe ewe kunye no-Courtney Weber ngumbhali opholileyo nangona ebendibhatale ngokutsho oko.

Kwaye nje ukuba kucace, akukho thixo kuthiwa nguManon? Kodwa ngaba kukho ezinye izithixo ezinxulumene namagqwirha ngokukodwa?

IHilary: Oyedwa uManon endimaziyo nguManon Lescaut opera nguPuccini. Ndiyazi, ndiyazi ukuba ndiyimvumi yeopera, umculo weklasikhi ukuya kwinqanaba kwaye ndiyazingca ngawo! Njengothixo, nangona kunjalo, uManon ngokuqinisekileyo ziindaba ezingezizo. Kukwabalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ayingawo onke amagqwirha asebenza nezithixo. Ukuba bayaphela basebenza nezithixo banokujolisa kokunye okanye basebenze nabaninzi. Ndihlala ndifikelela kwizithixo ezinxulumene nento ethile endizama ukuyibonakalisa.

Inkundla: Ewe, hayi. UManon akangoThixo wokwenene. Kodwa ke, mhlawumbi ufumana imbeko kunye nokuzinikela kumagqwirha kwihlabathi liphela Ubugcisa, kwaye inokubakho ngoku! Ungaze uwajongele phantsi amandla enkolelo yomntu. OThixo bakho ngenxa ye-eons yokuzinikela.

U-Hekate, uthixokazi ovela kwiinkcubeko zakudala zeMeditera, uthathwa njengoThixokazi Wamagqwirha Nobugqwirha. Wade wabizwa ngu amagqwirha angena IMacbeth. Abanye boothixo baseIreland ababizwa ngokuba ngooThixo bobugqwirha kwiintsomi zabo, kodwa bachazwa njengabanamandla obugqwirha, njengooMorrigan Sisters ababoniswa njengabanamandla ngaphezulu kwezinto.

Ngokwenyani, nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwezithixo ezivela kwiPagan okanye kwi-Neo-Pagan Traditions ziya kuvuya ukubonisa ukunceda abathakathi. Ekugqibeleni kuxhomekeke ekubeni igqwirha likhangele ntoni kwaye yintoni eyaziwa ngobuThixo. Ukuba uphilisa uMagick, izithixo ezinxulumene nonyango okanye ukuphilisa kuya kuba kuhle ukubhenela kwezo spell. Ukuba ukwenza umsebenzi ngeenjongo zopolitiko, izithixo ezinxulumene nobunkokeli ziluncedo.

UKanani: Ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo ndiye ndazifumana nditsaleleke kuothixokazi abo ndaziva ngathi bathetha nam ngelo xesha. UBridgid wayenguthixokazi wam wokuqala endandisebenza naye. Kwakunceda kum, ekuqaleni, ukuziva ngathi ndingagxila kumandla am kuthixokazi othile. Kule mihla ukuziqhelanisa kwam kugxile ngakumbi kumandla nakwimagick kwindalo iphela. Ndizifumene ndiqala ukutsalwa kuthixokazi uPersephone kwaye ndimenzele isibingelelo. Ndiyakwazi ukunxibelelana kakhulu nomntu obhinqileyo onokuziphatha okungalunganga kumama wakhe osoloko esengxakini yokungamameli kwaye enze nantoni na avakalelwa ngayo.

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