Kwi Abatsho bodyakalashe , umboniso ogcwele i-alpha yamadoda kunye ne-machismo, omnye wabalinganiswa abanomdla yenye into eyenye - umntu wasetyhini. U-Lydia Martin uqala i-arc yakhe kwisiqendu sokuqala njengentombazana ethandabuzekayo, intle, nentombazana eyaziwayo, kodwa kungekudala iqala ukuvuleka. Ekuqhubekeni kwamaxesha amathathu okuqala, iyacotha kodwa ngokutyibilikayo indlela ekrelekrele kwaye enamandla ngayo uLidiya. Ukusuka kwimbono yobufazi, uLidiya ubaluleke kakhulu kuba uqala ibali lakhe lokuzama ukubambelela kwintombazana eyimfama eyaziwayo esisidenge kodwa ngokuthe ngcembe, ngobuhlobo bakhe kunye nokukhula komlinganiswa, kwehla ukuzenzisa kwakhe ukuveza ubukrelekrele bakhe bokwenyani kunye namandla njengomfazi.
Elinye lawona maxesha abalulekileyo kumgca webali likaLydia ubonwa kwisiqendu sesihlanu sexesha lokuqala. Kulesi siqendu, sinesihloko esithi, The Tell, isiphelo sijikeleze iseti yeenkomfa zomzali notitshala ezibandakanya abazali babo bonke abalinganiswa abakwishumi elivisayo kulo mboniso. Inkomfa phakathi kwabazali bakaLydia abaqhawule umtshato iqala ngokucinga ukuba uLidiya unengxaki esikolweni kwaye uzama ukutyholana ngenxa yezo ngcinga. Banqunyulwe ngutitshala, othi, ezifundweni, uLidiya ungomnye wabafundi abagqwesileyo endakha ndaba nabo. Iiklasi zakhe ze-AP zityhala i-GPA yakhe ngaphezulu kwe-5.0. Ndingathanda ukuba ne-IQ yakhe kuvavanywa. Kwaye ekuhlaleni, ubonakalisa iimpawu zobunkokeli ezibalaseleyo. Ndiyathetha, uyinkokeli yokwenene.
Kwaye nabazali bakaLidiya bacinga ukuba uzinikele ngokupheleleyo kwi-trope yesimilo sentombazana ekwishumi elivisayo. Nangona kunjalo, ubuchule bukaLydia, kwezemfundo nakwezentlalo, zibonisa ukuba unako ukwenza okungakumbi. Lo mboniso uyinto entle ebonisa kwangaphambili into eza kuza kumlingiswa wakhe. Kuyo yonke inkqubo yomboniso, uLidiya unokubonwa, amaxesha ngamaxesha, ukuqonda iingxaki phambi kwakhe nabani na ongomnye. Olona khuphiswano lodwa luphawu lukaStiles, olukrelekrele kodwa alugxili ekuhlaleni okanye luluntu njengoLydia. Ukutyhilwa kwendalo yokwenyani kukaLydia kubaphulaphuli, equlathe ikakhulu amantombazana akwishumi elivisayo, kukuba akufuneki bachazwe ngobukrelekrele babo, ukuthandwa kwabo, okanye ubuhle babo. Banokusebenzisa kwaye bazamkele zontathu ezi ngcamango. Kule nkalo, uLidiya ngumzekelo omangalisayo weengcinga zobufazi.
Kuyo yonke inkqubo yomboniso, uLidiya uboniswa ekwabelana ngesondo kakhulu, kodwa akaze agwetywe ngokuziphatha kwakhe ngokwesondo. Kweminye imiboniso emininzi, ulutsha, kwaye ngakumbi abantu basetyhini, bagwetywa njengabaziphethe kakubi okanye abonakele ngandlela thile yokuba neentlobano zesini kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ngokungafaniyo neminye imiboniso, Abatsho bodyakalashe soze enze nasiphi na isimilo sokuziphatha kuLidiya okanye nabaphi na abanye abalinganiswa kwimicimbi yesondo. ULidiya ubonwa esabelana ngesondo nabalinganiswa abaninzi kwaye usabonwa njengomntu ofanelwe ngumnqweno kunye nothando. Oku kunokubonwa ngokuzinikela okungagungqiyo kukaStiles kuye. Uyayazi ngembali yakhe yezesondo, kodwa akakhathazwa yiyo. Usathandana naye, hayi ngaphandle kwembali yakhe, yinto nje engekhoyo. Akajongwa njengokonakalisiweyo okanye owiswe yiminqweno yakhe nangayiphi na indlela.
Ngokunxulumene noku, kukho umzuzu omnye obaluleke kakhulu kwisiqendu se-11 sexesha elinye lokuSesikweni, apho uStiles athabatha uLydia waya kuLungelelwaniso lwaseBusika. Ngelixa bengaphandle komdaniso, baya kwisithandwa sika-Lydia sangaphambili, uJackson. Uthi kuStiles, kukuhamba kwakho, mphathi, okuthetha ukuba uLidiya ngumntu ogqithiswayo ukusuka kwenye inkwenkwe ukuya kwenye. Impendulo yakhe emva kokuba emkile ngumzekelo ophefumlayo wobufazi obusebenza. Uthi,
Andikhathali. Andifuni ukuncoma. Andiyi kuba lixhoba lomnqweno woluntu wokuguqula amantombazana kwiimvakalelo, ukungakhuseleki, ii-neurotic ezonyusa iilokhwe zazo kwintetho yokuqala yokuthopha.
Jonga nje loo mgca okomzuzwana. Kwinqanaba layo, loo mgca wencoko yencazelo ichaza uLidiya njengowesifazane okrelekrele owazi kakuhle ingxaki yoluntu efuna ukuyibeka kumantombazana. Inyaniso yokuba lo mgca uhanjiswa ngumfazi omhle, onxibe kakuhle uyenza ukuba ibe namandla ngakumbi. Yinto yokuba unokuba ngumfazi oqinileyo kwaye ube ngowesifazana. Lo mboniso uxelela amantombazana amancinci ukuba akufuneki ulingane nokubumba okuthile. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ukhethe phakathi kokufuna ukuhlonitshwa nokufuna ukuba mhle.
Mhlawumbi olona phuhliso lubalulekileyo kwisimilo sikaLydia kukutyhilwa kwamandla akhe angaphezu kwendalo. Ekupheleni kwexesha lesibini, kwafunyaniswa ukuba uLidiya ngu-banshee, umfazi wasentsomini waseIreland olilayo xa umntu esondele ekufeni. Kulo mboniso, ababhali bongeza kwiintsomi, bevumela isikhalo ukuba sincede uLidiya ukuba eve ukusebeza kwabafileyo. Uyayiva indalo iphela ukuba iyathetha kwaye uyisebenzisa ukunceda ukusindisa abantu. Into ebalulekileyo malunga noku kukuba ithatha into ngokwesiko ebonwa njengobuthathaka kwabasetyhini, utyekelo lokukhala xa ujongene nengozi, kwaye uyijike ibe yinto enamandla enokusetyenziselwa ukugcina nokukhusela abanye. U-Lydia usebenzisa isikhalo sakhe ukunceda abahlobo bakhe baphephe ingozi nokufa. Ngokwenza oku, 'umfazi olilayo' ucezelelo lujikwa entloko. Endaweni yokukhwaza ubuthathaka, ingumthombo wamandla namandla. Inika uLidiya amandla ekungekho mntu unawo.
ULidiya Martin ukhule kwaye watshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha Abatsho bodyakalashe Amaxesha amathathu okuqala. Uhambile kwi-snob ekucingelwa ukuba ayinangqondo waya komnye wabalinganiswa abahloniphekileyo nabanamandla kulo mboniso. Kuya kuba ngumdla ukubona ukuba yeyiphi enye into aza kuyifeza kwisizini yesine kule yeSilimela.
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