Kutheni le nto abafazi behlala bethe cwaka kwilizwi-lokuncokola kwimidlalo ekwi-intanethi, okanye basebenzise amagama angathathi cala ngokwesini Kungenxa yokuba uninzi lwabasetyhini abadlala umdlalo baye baqaphela ukuba ukuxhatshazwa kwi-intanethi abayifumanayo kudlulela ngaphaya kwentetho yenkunkuma eqhelekileyo, njengokuthukwa okunxulumene nezakhono zomdlali. Uhlobo lokuxhatshazwa kwi-Intanethi oluncamathela kakhulu kwabadlala umdlalo weqonga kukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini, njengamagqabantshintshi ngesini, iziqhulo zokudlwengula kunye nezisongelo, kunye nokuhlukunyezwa ngokwesondo, ngokutsho kohlolisiso lwamva nje.
Abaphandi kwiYunivesithi yaseOhio State baphonononge abasetyhini abangama-293 abadlala imidlalo ekwi-intanethi. Ngelixa aba bafazi bengakuthandi ukuva intetho yenkunkuma, bafumanise kulula ukushukumisa ezo zimvo. U-Jesse Fox, umbhali ophambili wesifundo, ucacisile IPhoto.org :
Uninzi lwabadlali ababhinqileyo bayakuqonda ukuthetha ngenkunkuma kunye nokuthukwa kobuchule babo bokudlala, nokuba abayithandi. Kodwa yintoni ebaphazamisayo ijolise nje ekubeni ngumfazi. Abazilibali ngokulula ezo zimvo kwaye baqhubeke nokucinga ngazo xa begqibile ukudlala…
Abakulibali malunga nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo. Ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantu ababhinqileyo kwi-Intanethi kuhlala kunye nabo kwaye kunefuthe lokwenyani lehlabathi. Bayarhoxa kumdlalo kwaye baqhubeke nokucinga ngento eyenzekileyo.
Xa kuvavanywa ukuba zeziphi na iinkampani ekufuneka zenzile ukuyeka ukungcungcuthekiswa, uninzi lwabasetyhini aluzange lucinge ukuba iinkampani zemidlalo kufuneka zikhathazeke ngentetho yenkunkuma, kodwa bakholelwa ukuba luxanduva lweenkampani ukujongana ne-Sexual Harassment. Ngokwolu phando, abasetyhini ababonayo ukuba inkampani yomdlalo ayikhathali malunga nomdlalo we-Sexual Harassment babesengozini yokurhoxa ekudlaleni. Ngamazwi kaFox, iinkampani zokuGembula ziyabagxotha abafazi xa bengathathi sithuba ngokuchasene nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesini kwi-Intanethi.
UFox wafumanisa ukuba abadlali abangakhange babhenele ekuyekeni ngamanye amaxesha basebenzise amanye amaqhinga, njengokukhetha amagama wabasebenzisi abangathathi cala ngokwesini. UFox wachaza,
Endaweni yokuzibiza 'Nkosazana Kitty Princess' bakhetha 'Umsebenzisi 42' kwigama labo lescreen esikwi-Intanethi. Kwenza kube lula kubo kwaye akufuneki bajongane nokuhlukunyezwa ngokwesini.
[Kodwa] yenza ukuba abafazi bangabonakali kwindawo yokudlala. Iinkampani zemidlalo yokugembula zicinga ukuba ababaninzi abadlali ababhinqileyo okanye ukuba abafazi abanamdla kwimidlalo ye-Intanethi xa befihla nje isazisi sabo.
Abasetyhini akufuneki benze njalo.
Olu phononongo lujolise ekuziphatheni gadalala ngokwesini ngokukodwa, kodwa andikwazi ukucinga ukuba abantu abathandana besini esinye, ubuhlanga, ukugqithisa, okanye ukubanakho kubangela ukuba nawuphina umdlali azive ekhuselekile kumdlalo. Abantu bangawuchaza umahluko phakathi kwentetho yenkunkuma ngokuchaseneyo nohlaselo lomntu, njengeslor esijongela phantsi iqela lakho. Ndihlala ndisiva abadlala umdlalo besithi abantu abahlelelekileyo bafuna nje ukuqina kwaye baqhelane nenkunkuma - kodwa asithethi ngentetho yakho yenkunkuma, apha.
Asinguye wonke umntu ofumana iintlobo ezifanayo zokuhlukunyezwa kwi-Intanethi; Kubalulekile ukuba iinkampani zemidlalo ziyamkele le ngxaki, kwaye zenze iindawo apho abantu banokudlala khona imidlalo ngaphandle kokufihla ngokupheleleyo yonke into eyinxalenye yesazisi sabo.
(nge IPhoto.org , umfanekiso nge UMI Digital )
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