Uphononongo: Isiphoso kwiiNkwenkwezi zethu siSihle, asifezekanga, kwaye sinexabiso elifanelekileyo

Ndibambe ixesha elide ngokumangalisayo. Ndingathanda ukuba loo nto yaziwe. Iinyembezi azizange zishiye amehlo am de kube ngumdlalo wesithathu kunye nowokugqibela wefilimu. Oku akubadanisi abo iinyembezi zize kwangoko kubo; kwabaninzi ukulila ibisisiqalo nje. Kwabanye zange beze konke konke. Kwabanye babeyinqaku elipheleleyo.

Kodwa ndingathanda nje ukuba yaziwe.

Uninzi lwezinto ezibhaliweyo malunga Umonakalo kwiinkwenkwezi zethu Okwangoku kunokuba (ukunciphisa) kushwankathelwe njengezikhuzo ezininzi zeNtlungu! Intlungu ezukileyo! Kodwa imovie ngokwayo, kulo lonke udumo lwayo, ibonakala ngathi izinikele ngakumbi kwibali eliyithethayo kunokuba uyakhala esihlalweni sakho. Kukho into ethandabuzekayo malunga nokulila ngenxa yemidlalo yeqonga, ewe-kodwa akukho nto izukileyo ngokunika ubungqina bokugqabhuka kokuzicekisa komntwana ngenxa yokungakwazi ukugula, okanye ekubukeleni amathe kunye nokugabha okuphuma emlonyeni wabo obolayo, ukusikhumbuza ukuba ukufa ayonto yesidima, okanye ubuhle, okanye uzuko.

Oko akutsho, nangona kunjalo Umonakalo kwiinkwenkwezi zethu akanamdla kubuhle; Ifilimu inikwe imibala kunye nomphathi ofanayo UJosh Boone isetyenziswe kwifilimu yakhe yokuqala Wahlala kuThando . Ngaba ubutyebi buyaphazamisa kwizinto eziyinyani zezifo ezikhokelela kwifilimu- uHazel Grace Lancaster ( UShailene Woodley ) kunye nomnye umntwana onomhlaza uAugustus Waters ( UAnsel Elgort ) -Uhlala yonke imihla? Kunokwenzeka. Kodwa le filimu ikwabonisa ukuthembeka ekubonakalisweni kwaba bantwana kunye nemeko yabo, kwaye oko kuza ngokuvakalayo nangokucacileyo nanjengoko ulusu lukaWoodley no-Elgort lukhazimla kancinane kakhulu.

Iyavakala into yokuba le vidiyo iyaphila kwaye iyafa (akukho sijeziso sicetywayo, ndiyathembisa) ekukhululekeni kukaWoodley noElgort abawela kubalinganiswa babo kwaye, njengoko ibali liqhubeka, bangena komnye nomnye. I-Elgort iyachuma kwinjongo yokugqibela, ibandakanyeka ekufumaneni. Abanye ngokungathandabuzekiyo baya kugxothwa ngamandla apheleleyo apho ikhubalo lakhe liza kuwe, kodwa oko bekusoloko kuyingozi ngomlinganiswa ka-Augustus Waters. Usemandleni akhe onke, xa eyivumela ukuba ize ngokwendalo: Emva kwakhe no-Woodley's Hazel, kwaye ngamaxesha (imeko yenqwelomoya iza engqondweni) apho uElgort wayenza yacaca ngqo itroughline phakathi kuka-Augustus Waters kunye I-TFiOS umbhali UJohn Green . Xa kuziwa kwiindlela zokuziphatha akunakulindeleka ukuba zibonakale ngokulula kuye nabani na ongakhange abukele iiyure zeVlogbrothers iividiyo okanye kungenjalo wanxibelelana noGreen, kodwa amandla eGreen akuyo yonke indawo kule filimu, ukusuka kwincoko yababini yatsalwa ngqo kwincwadi (uninzi Yeyona mizila ithandwayo yenoveli ihlala in-tact, kubandakanya uninzi lweeGus 'ezithandekayo zokuzonwabisa), kwimibuzo yefilosofi ekhathaza uGus. Kwii-hooders ze-nerdfighters abo le bhanyabhanya ingaphezulu kokufikisa nje kulutsha ukuya kwindawo zemidlalo yeqonga, ezo zizinto ezithetha lukhulu. Ndiyabulela kubabhali-skrini UScott Neustadter kwaye UMichael H. Weber ( Okumangalisayo ngoku ), kunye ne-Boone, ngokucacileyo ukuba uthando lwabo kwimithombo yolwazi lukhanya njani.

Kubekho ukungxola okuninzi malunga ne-Internets ngokubhekisele kulungelelwaniso lwenxalenye ebalini ethi uHazel noAgasto baphuphuma ngokumanga kwi-Anne Frank House. Andikho apha ukuba ndibelilizwi elichazayo ukuba ingaba loo nto ilungile okanye hayi, kodwa ndiza kuthi oku: Umyalezo uza ucace kwaye womelele njengoko sibukele umzabalazo kaHazel esenza indlela kweso sakhiwo. Kwimpu enye enamandla kakhulu uyanqumama, azingele ngaphezulu, esokola ukuphefumla, phambi kwesicatshulwa esithile sikaFrank:

Ndinqwenela ukukhwela ibhayisekile, ndidanise, ndibetha umlozi, jonga kwihlabathi, ndiziva ndimncinci kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ndikhululekile.

Yiloo nto wadubula kum-hayi ukumanga kwakhe no-Gus-yeyona crux yala ndawo. Mhlawumbi nokuba yicrux yefilimu.

Enye yezona zinto zinamandla kakhulu kule bhanyabhanya ihlala iziko layo libali malunga nentombazana enokukhubazeka okubonakalayo. UHazel Grace Lancaster akanguye u-Anne Frank, kwaye ukuQothulwa Kwesizwe kunye nomhlaza azifani. Kwabaninzi kuya kuthathwa njengokuhamba ngokungakhathali, kwaye ndiyayifumana. Kodwa, njengezinto ezininzi kulo lonke eli bali — iisigarethi, ufakelo lobugcisa lwamathambo, iseti endala yokujija, umzobo wombhobho — luphawu, hayi into ngokwayo. Kukwafanelekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba le yeyona bhanyabhanya yokuqala evunyelweyo ukuba ifilimu kwi-Anne Frank House: Abantu abayiqhubayo abakhange bavumele ubuninzi bendlu ukuba busetyenziswe ngaphambili, kwaye benza umahluko kuba baziva le Ibali liyiphathe ngentlonipho. Nabo, abangabo abaphenduli ngokuthe ngqo kokulungileyo nokungafanelekanga, kodwa sisigqibo esithetha ukuba eli bali lithetha ntoni kwabanye abantu. Kwaye xa ingqondo yam ibhadula ibuyela kule bhanyabhanya kwiiveki ezizayo, ayizukuba yile kiss endiya kuyikhumbula; iyakuba yiloo foto, kunye namazwi kaFrank, kunye nendlela ezi zinto ziqhuba ngayo ekhaya ukuba isiphoso sisezinkwenkwezini zethu, ngokuchasene noko UJulius Caesar utsho.

Njengalo naliphi na ibali eliqhutywa yimvakalelo, uninzi lwalukhwela kwimidlalo kule movie. Kwaye, ubukhulu becala, babebakhulu. Nat Wolff , Ngubani oza kuba yinkwenkwezi kulungelelwaniso olulandelayo oluhlaza IiDolophu zePhepha , wanika intsebenzo eyenze kanye into ekufuneka yenziwe yindima exhasayo: Wongeze umbala, kunye nomxholo, kunye noburharha, kwaoko wagcwalisa uIsake njengomntu wakhe opheleleyo ngelixa eshiya indawo yokuba ibali libe malunga nabantwana ukufa. U-Isaac uyagula, kwaye oko kubalulekile kwaye akulunganga, kodwa oku kusekho ibali elikhulu ngokufa. Kungenxa yoko le nto kwakubalulekile, ukuba abazali bakaHazel baphoswe ngokumangalisayo, kwaye babenjalo-ngandlela thile uWoodley ubonakala ngathi ULaura Dern kwaye U-Sam Trammell 'S iinxalenye, ukufezekiswa kwe-wits yabo edibeneyo, i-pathos, kunye neempawu zomzimba ezinjengeemilo zobuso zikaTrammell kunye nobude obude bukaDern. Ukudlala kwabo kuqinisekisa ukuba ubudlelwane bukaHazel nabazali bakhe bukhazimla njengoko kubalulekile kule vidiyo njengobudlelwane bukaHazel noGus. Kwaye nangona u-Elgort's Gus eqinile, umncinci nguWoodley-hayi ngenxa yeempazamo ekusebenzeni kwakhe kangangokuba uWoodley akanamthungo njengoHazel. Ukusebenza kwakhe kulawula njengamandla angqinelanayo kwaye angatshintshiyo kule movie. Ukuqwalasela le filimu ayinakuphumelela ngaphandle kweHazel onokuziva ngokwenene, yinto engafanele ithathelwe phantsi. Siyaqhubeka kolu hambo kunye noWoodley-sisezandleni zakhe, kwaye uyangqina apha ukuba zeziphi na izandla ezinamandla.

Phakathi Umonakalo kwiinkwenkwezi zethu kwaye Imidlalo yeNdlala: UkuBamba uMlilo , Lo ibingunyaka olungileyo wokutshintshwa kweefilimu ezihlala zinyanisekile kwimithetho yeencwadi ezithandekayo abaziguqulelayo. Njengomntu othanda ikratshi kwi-YA kunye nokwenza i-movie, yinto endiyithandayo. Rhoqo inkqubo yaseHollywood ingazithatha iincwadi esizithandayo kwaye ibenze bazive ngathi lishishini, njengexabiso labo kuphela kukukwazi kwabo ukufumana ilungelo lokuthengisa kwaye bakholise abantu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, Umonakalo kwiinkwenkwezi zethu uya kukholisa izihlwele ngoku Bamba umlilo Ngaba, nangona kunjalo zizigidi ezimbalwa zeedola. Kodwa ndaphuma Umonakalo kwiinkwenkwezi zethu Isongelwe hayi kwikamva lezemali lomdlalo bhanyabhanya, kodwa kwiimvakalelo: Ukuba namabali ethu awathandayo ajikeleze kwifomathi eyahlukileyo ukonwaba kwethu kunokuziva ngathi ilungelo— ngakumbi xa kucacile abantu abenza ukuba bathande abalinganiswa kunye nebali labo kanye njengokuba usenza.

Umonakalo kwiinkwenkwezi zethu inemibuzo emininzi kuyo nakubaphulaphuli bayo njengoko abachasi bayo abancinci benombhali wencwadi yabo abayithandayo: Ithetha ntoni (okanye inokuba yintoni) ubomi kwihlabathi elivumela ukubandezeleka okungaka? Ngaba abantu esibathandayo banokuqhubela phambili xa simkile? Lithini ifuthe lobomi ukuba ayibubo ubomi obubhalwa ngabo kwiincwadi zembali? Ubuphila njani ubomi obuxabisekileyo kule nkqubo inzima kangaka? Ngaphandle kokubakho kwe-nihilism kule mibuzo, Ityala ayiyomboniso bhanyabhanya onomdla wokuhlala ngokungapheliyo kwintlekele yawo. Ngapha koko, ukusuka kwindawo yayo ephindaphindiweyo-kulungile-ukuya kwindawo yayo yokugqibela, Umonakalo kwiinkwenkwezi zethu usenokude — ngandlel ’ithile — akushiye unethemba.

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