Iminyaka, iforamu yeReddit r / TheRedPill yenye yezona mbombo zimbi kwi-intanethi. Yindlu yentshukumo yokuhambisa igcisa, yanika uMilo Yiannapolis ukuba abe ngumlandeli, kwaye liziko le-manosphere eyaziwayo- indawo eyakhelwe kufutshane nefilosofi yamalungelo abantu yokuba ubufazi bubuqhinga obakhelwe ukucinezela amadoda.
I-Reddit yenzelwe ngabom ukukhusela ukungaziwa. Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba abasebenzisi akufuneki basebenze nokuzikhusela-into umntu ekumele ukuba uyixelele uRobert Fisher waseNew Hampshire, osandula ukuphuma Irhamncwa lemihla ngemihla , Ngendlela yamagama abasebenzisi kunye nee-URL zesiko ezinamaqhina kwidilesi ye-imeyile ye-Fisher, njengomdali weforum ye-misogynistic forum.
UFisher, ngasendleleni, ukwenzeka ukuba abe lilungu leNdlu yabameli beNew Hampshire, hayi ukuba unxibelelwano luyamangalisa. Ukuba kuye kwafuneka ndikhankanye aba bantu babini abanelizwi ekuthiyweni kwabo ngabasetyhini, bendiya kuhamba ne-Red Pill dudes kunye ne-GOP.
Ukongeza kwiPilisi ebomvu, ii-aliases ezichaziweyo zikaFisher zikwabhale kwaye zapapasha Indawo yokuthatha igcisa , a blog ukuzama ukucacisa uThixo, kunye nesiza esinye esinesihloko IVortex ekhoyo. Kwakhona wayenaye okanye mhlawumbi usengumculi-umbhali wengoma kunye ne-kazooist kwiqela le-indieelectronic. Ngokusisiseko, uvakala ngokungathi luhlobo lomntwana wasekholejini osisidenge, ngqo ekhatywayo kwiqela elithile kunye neklasi yakhe yokuqala yefilosofi, onokuthi ulindele ukufumana iforum engafanelekanga yeReddit enegama elichazayo IMatrix . (Ngaphandle kokuba uFisher, ngexesha lokudalwa kwePilisi ebomvu, wayeselekhulile kubukho bobutsha bokuzithethelela. Uneminyaka engama-31 ngoku.)
UFisher uxele i-Pk_atheist alias yaqala i-subreddit ngo-Okthobha ka-2012, kanye phambi kokuba aphulukane nolonyulo-lokuqala alubaleka njenge-Democrat. Uphumelele isihlalo sakhe ngo-Novemba ka-2014, ngelo xesha i-subreddit yayikhule yangamalungu angama-83,000. Wayesele wehlile njengemodareyitha kwi kwangethuba I-2013, kodwa yaqhubeka isebenza kuluntu.
I-Daily Beast ibhala ukuba kwiiyure nje zokunxibelelana no-Rep. Fisher, nasemva kokuhambisa nge-imeyile isishwankathelo soqhakamshelwano olubonakalayo kwi-Red Pill kingpin, amagama akhe amabini aphambili e-Reddit aye acinywa, kwaye iibhlog ezine ezinxulunyaniswe naye zacinywa okanye zenziwa zabucala .
[ Uhlaziyo : Oogxa bakhe, kumacala omabini endlela, sele befuna ukuba arhoxe. Umlobi uphendule ngengxelo Ukuma ngelithi akasuki, wongeza, ndizakuqhubeka ukuma ndomelele kumalungelo abantu nakumalungelo abo bonke.]
Kodwa i-intanethi ayikuvumeli ukuba uzifihle ngokulula kwakho ngokulula. Ngokusebenzisa izithuba ezigciniweyo kunye nemisonto yokubeka izimvo, sinendlela ecace gca kwifestile yengqondo yale ndoda kunye nenkuthazo yakhe yokuqala lo mhlaba wokutya ukhulu wesini. Nazi izicaphulo ezimbalwa ngqo.
Isilumkiso somxholo kuba, kulungile, ngayo yonke into malunga nepilisi ebomvu. (Imisogyny kunye nodlwengulo lukhanyele.)
-Ukuba ufuna ingxelo emfutshane yakhe izimvo kwabasetyhini : Ndifumanisa ukuba ubuntu babasetyhini ngokubanzi abunantlonelo kwaye buyadika, basebenzela injongo encinci kubomi bam bemihla ngemihla. Ke ndihlala ndithelekisa kuphela iintlobo zomzimba.
-Kuba xa ndazixelela ukuba ndicinga ukuba banengqondo, ndandinombhalo osemazantsi emva kwentloko yam… krelekrele… kubafazi .
-Andibathiyi abafazi. Ndiyayiqonda nje ukuba zisebenzisa ntoni na kum. Incoko evuselelayo ayisiyiyo enye yazo.
- Qonda ukuba ngeentsuku zakudala, abafazi bebengakhuliswanga ngendlela abaphila ngayo namhlanje. Ngaphambi kobufazi, inkululeko yayincinci, kwaye ke kwakungeyomfuneko ukufundisa abantu ngeziphumo. Iziphumo zazingumdlalo wendoda ngokungqongqo.
-Abafazi abacinezelwa- bakhululekile ngokwenyani kuxanduva oluninzi amadoda- ukuya kuthi ga apho abafazi bengenako imfuno kulwazi olusebenzayo lwemihla ngemihla olunamadoda amaninzi aneminyaka eli-18 ubudala… Ukuba uthathe izakhono zencoko, ubukrelekrele obuncinci, ukunqongophala komdla kwaye wakubeka emzimbeni wendoda- ungaba kunye naloo mfana? Hayi! Ngaba wayeza kuphumelela? Hayi ngekhe! Ezo zinto azincedi nganto ngaphandle komzimba womfazi.
-Ngaphakathi isithuba ngengcebiso yokulukuhla, ucebisa ukuba kukho ilizwi elilungileyo lentombazana ngaphakathi kumfazi ngamnye emxelela ukuba kufuneka aqiniseke ukuba ulungile kwaye uphephe ukuba lihule. Ulandela iingcebiso ezininzi ngendlela yokuhlasela isithuba sentombazana elungileyo kwaye amkhohlise ekuyekeni islut.
-Ukuphendula umbuzo malunga nentshukumo yasimahla yeNipple: Abafazi abashushu bayinqwelo, kwaye baya kuqhubeka nokugcina amaxabiso aphezulu kangangoko. Nawuphi na umntu okhulula iingono zakhe uya kuba sezantsi, okanye baya kuba nephulo lokuthambisa ngokuchasene nabo ukubenza babonakale benomgangatho ophantsi, ngaphandle kokulingana okufanelekileyo ye inqwelo.
-Uye Uyazikhusela ukutsalwa ngokwesini kumantombazana akwishumi elivisayo. Amantombazana aneminyaka eli-15 ubudala anamaqhina. Ukufikisa akuhambanga ngo-18 ubusuku bonke. Okwesibini, ayiyontombazana eneminyaka eli-15 ubudala kwaye abafana bahlala besabelana ngesondo. Akukho semthethweni kwaphela.
Kwelinye lamagqabantshintshi amaninzi etyhola abantu basetyhini ngokufuthi etyhola amadoda ngodlwengulo, uthi unekhamera yevidiyo egumbini lakhe, mhlawumbi ukurekhoda ukuxhaphaza kwakhe ubungqina bokuba umsulwa.
Kubi ngokwaneleyo ukuba umntu angazibamba zonke ezi nkolelo, makungabikho mntu uziva enokuzithemba ngokwaneleyo ukuba angazibeka eluntwini (nokuba akaziwa njalo). Yongeza kuloo nto yokuba kukho, njengangoku, phantse ababhalisile abangama-200,000 kwi-subreddit.
Kodwa akukho nto yoyikisayo ngaphezu kokwazi ukuba le yinto ubuncinci ezinye (kwaye ezinye zininzi kakhulu) zamadoda enza imithetho yelizwe lethu icinge ngabasetyhini. Kwaye ukuba ucinga ukuba i-Reddit persona kaFisher yiyo yonke intetho, ayisiyiyo. Kucacile ukuba i-misogyny yakhe ichaphazela iqonga lakhe.
Ukujonga ngokukhawuleza kwi-Fisher eyoyikisayo, egcwele iifoto iphulo iwebhusayithi , ungayibona imisonto. Kwicandelo leNtsapho lesiza (gcwalisa ngomfanekiso wesitokhwe wento endicinga ukuba lusapho olungaziwayo lwabantu ongabaziyo, ke uyazi ukuba uyakhathala), uthi ufuna ukomeleza usapho. Kodwa konke oko kubonakala ngathi kuthetha kuye yinto malunga nenkqubo yezomthetho yenkundla yosapho. Ubhala athi, Lide ixesha elide ngenxa yokuzisa ukongamela kunye noxanduva lokuphendula kwiinkundla zeentsapho zethu. Wonke umzali ufanelwe ubulungisa kwiinkundla zethu nokuba ungowaluphi na uhlanga, isini, ubuhlanga, okanye indlela oqhelene ngayo.
Oku kutsaleleka kwiinkundla zosapho kujonge ukuqalela ku-2012, xa ugxa wakhe kunye nomnye owayelilwela amalungelo amadoda uJoshua Youssef eqala esidlangalaleni ukugxeka ubuzwilakhe bezomthetho ngenkani kwidabi lokugcina kunye nowayesakuba ngumfazi. Igama lomsebenzisi elibomvu uphawu lweSuku lwemihla ngemihla kwiYoussef iposwe Irali ende malunga nenkohliso, inkohliso, ukunyoluka, ukungabinamthetho, kunye nelungelo lobufazi, kwinkundla yosapho ukuya / ukunikezela, kunye noFisher kumagqabaza amkhusela.
Uyakhumbula ukuba amagqabantshintshi ngamabhinqa akumgangatho ophantsi aveza iingono zawo? Enye yeReps yaseNew Hampshire, Al Baldasaro, Uyinyelisile imbonakalo yomzimba lowomthetho wasetyhini owayesilwa nomthetho osayilwayo, obhalwe liqela lamadoda onke, ngewayengavumelekanga ukuncancisa esidlangalaleni.
Kwiintsuku nje ezine emva konyulo luka-2014 olwamfaka kwiNdlu yabaMeli eNew Hampshire, enababhalisi abali-100 kuphela, uPk_atheist wabhala uxwebhu lwezinto, echaza inqaku leqonga leeveki ezimbini.
Inkcubeko yethu iye yaba yinkcubeko yabasetyhini, ubhale . Umongameli akanakunyulwa namhlanje ngaphandle kokunikezela kwingxelo yobufazi kwaye ahlawule irhafu. Kukangaphi u-Obama enikezela ngetyala ngobudoda bakhe emfazini wakhe? Zingaphi izihlandlo impikiswano ixhomeke kwisikhewu semivuzo yabasetyhini - eyintsomi efumana inkonzo yomlomo kuba ukuba awuyongqwabalala!
Ukanti ugcinile, Kulula kakhulu ukusola ubufazi kwiingxaki zethu. Unamalungelo alinganayo, utshilo, nangona ethathela ingqalelo ukucacisa, amalungelo alinganayo ndiyinto endiyixhasayo. Kumadoda nabafazi. Ngokuchasene nokungalingani, ndicinga njalo.
Umyalezo wakhe omkhulu kukuba ubufazi abukhokelanga kumalungelo alinganayo, kodwa kulawulo lwabasetyhini. Abafazi, njengoko ebeka, balawula incoko. Ndilapha ukuza kuthi, ngcono okanye okubi, isakhelo esijikeleze intetho yoluntu sisakhelo sobufazi, kwaye silahlekelwe sisazisi ngenxa yaso.
Yiyo loo nto amadoda, evakalisa, kufuneka abuyise le ndima yolawulo oluphambili kubafazi. I-Pilisi ebomvu sisicwangciso-qhinga sesini samadoda, esenzelwe ukulwa nobufazi, ekucacayo ukuba, ayikho enye into ngaphandle kwesicwangciso sesini ngokwaso.
Oku, ngokubulala kweSilo seDaily Daily, kubonakala kukujonga umhlaba kukaRobert Fisher. Le yindoda enike isithuba kumakhulu amawaka abanye bejonge ukutyhola kwaye boyise abantu basetyhini, ngelixa ngaxeshanye bonyulwa kwi-ofisi yoluntu, apho anakho ukuba nefuthe kumgaqo-nkqubo wokwenyani.
Nantsi umkhabi, kwaye ugcine oku engqondweni kwixesha elizayo xa ucinga ukuba ivoti yakho ayinamsebenzi: Kwisithili esincinci saseFisher eNew Hampshire, waphumelela unyulo kwakhona ngo I-700 Iivoti. Uphumelele unyulo lokuqala kwi-2014 276 Iivoti. Ukugxotha i-intanethi ye-misogyny exhaphakileyo ngumceli mngeni omkhulu kakhulu kuye nawuphi na kuthi, kodwa ukuba uvumelekile ukuvota, ungenza eyakho indima ukugcina ubuntwana, izilo ezingenangqondo ezinje ngale ngaphandle kweofisi.
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