Uyayazi into endiyithandayo? Xa abantu (bahlala bengamadoda) benyanzelisa ukuba bangamabhinqa, kuphela ukuba izenzo zabo zingqinelane ngokuchaseneyo. Imifanekiso eqingqiweyo yamantombazana engoyikiyo kwindawo yaseWall Street kwisiXeko saseNew York iphakathi kwembambano kwakhona. Ngeli xesha, uyachopha.
Kwakukho iimvakalelo ezixubileyo malunga nomfanekiso oqingqiweyo. Uninzi lwabantu lwalunamathandabuzo kubufazi njengesixhobo sokuthengisa, njengoko sasithunyelwe kumzobi ongumfazi (uKristen Visbal) yinkampani yolawulo lotyalo-mali ebizwa ngokuba yiState Street Global Advisors kwaye kwakufanelekile ukuba ifanekisele umnxeba wabafazi abaninzi kwiibhodi ezihlanganisiweyo, kodwa ngokwenene kubonakala ngathi sisizathu sokuba igama labo eliqinileyo lotyalo-mali luchwethezwe ngaphezulu nangaphezulu. Okwangoku, ndibhale malunga nombono wokuba ukuba nomfanekiso oqingqiweyo oyintombazana konke bekulahlekile, kwaye ukuba amantombazana amancinci kunye nabasetyhini abakhulileyo ngokufanayo bafuna imifanekiso eqingqiweyo kunye nemifanekiso yabasetyhini abaphumeleleyo ekufuneka bejonge kubo, kunokuba amantombazana abonakalise ubufazi obuza kubakho. ikamva elingagungqiyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo kukho ukugxekwa okuqinisekileyo ngalo mfanekiso. Nangona kunjalo, into ehlekisayo ngobugcisa kukuba nje ukuba umzobi abudale aze abubeke emhlabeni, nokuba zithini na iinjongo zabo okanye ingxelo yemishini, ubugcisa buqhubeka nobabo njengoko abantu benxibelelana nabo kwaye beyifaka ngenjongo . Intombazana engenaloyiko iye yathetha lukhulu kuninzi lwabasetyhini kunye namantombazana, ayayema kwaye azimise naye ngokunempumelelo. Kanye njengenkunzi yenkomo eyayihamba phambili kuye kubonakala ukuba yayenziwe ngeyona njongo iphambili (ukufuzisela ilizwe elomeleleyo noqoqosho) kodwa ngoku ingoyena mqondiso wobundlobongela, amandla ayingozi obungxowankulu, Intombazana engoyikiyo inokuba iqale ubomi njengesixhobo sokuthengisa, kodwa uzibonakalisile ukuba uxabisekile kwaye uluncedo njengophawu lobufazi njengoko, yithi, amadoda akhulileyo amfunqule.
Ngamanye amagama, impendulo kuye isibonisa ngqo ukuba simfuna kangakanani, kunye nemifanekiso engakumbi njengaye.
Cue umculi oyindoda ekhangele imizuzu eyi-15 yokufaneleka: Umkroli waseNew York u-Alex Gardega uthathe isigqibo sokuhamba ngololiwe ngokuchasene neNtombazana engoyikiyo ngokubeka umfanekiso wakhe, inja eyenziwe nge-shoddily eyenziwe ngabom ephakamisa umlenze wayo ukuba ichame kwintombazana encinci ayibiza ngokuba yiPeeing Pug, ecaleni kwakhe.
NgokweNew York Post (apho ungabona khona umfanekiso womfanekiso oqingqiweyo), isikhalazo esikhulu sikaGardega kukuba Intombazana engoyikiyo yabekwa ngokuchasene nomfanekiso oqingqiweyo wenkunzi njengesiqhelo sokuthengisa esidibeneyo. (Umntu unokuphikisana ngokulula ukuba ulwa nentambo yokupapashwa kunye nenye into yokwazisa, kodwa noba yintoni Utsho uGardega, bububhanxa benkampani. Ayinanto yakwenza nobufazi, kwaye kukungahloniphi umculi owenza inkunzi yenkomo. Loo nkunzi yenkomo yayinengqibelelo.
Into enomdla kukuba, umzobi wenkunzi u-Arturo Di Modica akakhange akhuphe ingxelo exhasa, okanye ngokuchasene negalelo lobugcisa likaGardega. Yeyiphi ehlekisayo, ethathela ingqalelo ukuba wayethetha ngokufika kweNtombazana engenaloyiko. Kuyabonakala ukuba, umfanekiso oqingqiweyo wentombazana encinci kufanelekile ukuthukwa, kodwa wenze umfanekiso wenja ndichama kwintombazana encinci ? Lowo ngumdlalo olunge ngokupheleleyo.
Makhe nditsho kwakhona: Eli gcisa lenze umfanekiso oqingqiweyo wenja onjongo ikukujongeka njengokuchama kwintombazana encinci. Kunje nje ngala dudebro humping umfanekiso oqingqiweyo, ngaphandle kokufakwa ngokusisigxina njengobugcisa.
Ngaphezu koko, uGardega uthi ngabom wenza umfanekiso wakhe oqingqiweyo umbi kakhulu: Ndigqibe kwelokuba ndiyakhe le nja kwaye ndiyenze ibe yinto ethandekayo ukuthotywa komfanekiso oqingqiweyo, kanye le nto intombazana isezantsi kwinkomo.
Ucinga ukuba iNtombazana engoyikiyo yinto eyoyikisayo kumfanekiso oqingqiweyo wenkunzi yenkomo, kuba kukungabi nantlonelo ukubeka omnye umfanekiso oqingqiweyo onika ingxelo ngale nto ibonakaliswe yinkomo, ukanti apha akalihloneli elinye igcisa ngendlela efanayo, ngalo lonke elixesha esithi, akananto nxamnye nayo umkroli nantoni na. Njengokuba uGardega ebanga ukuba ungowesifazana:
- Uvakala ukuba uyinxalenye yobufazi ngokudala umfanekiso oqingqiweyo wenja ndichama kwintombazana encinci .
- Uhlasela umsebenzi wegcisa labasetyhini kwaye eneneni, ngokwasemzimbeni efaka umsebenzi wakhe ngokubeka owakhe umsebenzi kwindawo yakhe.
Anditsho ukuba kufuneka avumelane okanye athande iNtombazana engenaloyiko. Uninzi lwabantu, abesilisa nabasetyhini, abanalo. Anditsho nokuba ebengenakwenza owakhe umsebenzi ekuphenduleni.
Kwakungafuneki ukuba ibe yinja ethatha ukuvuza kwintombazana, kwaye bekungafuneki ukuba ibe kwindawo enye encinci yendlela yaseNew York City (ngokungathandekiyo, abantu kufuneka bayeke ukubeka imifanekiso eqingqiweyo apha -kukho igumbi elininzi kakhulu! ).
Ndiyayinyanisa unako kuba, kodwa emva koko akanakho nokubanga ukuba ubufazi-pro (ngobunono kakhulu hayi esithi ungumfazi, kodwa yena pro-ubufazi ), kwaye akanakubanga ukuba wenzile lo msebenzi ngenxa yokuhlonipha amagcisa. Ukuba ezona njongo zakhe ziyinyani, usenokuba uthatha inxaxheba kwi-Corporate America, kodwa uyabetha umntu ongumfazi.
IGardega kufuneka iphucule injongo yayo, kunye nobugcisa bayo, endaweni yokutsiba kwi-bandwagon.
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