Ilungelo aliyiyo iNkqubo yeNqaku, iBuzzfeed

Izolo ebusuku, ukondla kwam i-Twitter bekungu-abuzz (pun kujongwe ngokupheleleyo) ngemibuzo yakutshanje evela kwi-Buzzfeed eye yanceda abasebenzisi ukuba babone ukuba banelungelo elingakanani na. Ndiyithathile kwavela ukuba mna, ibhinqa elimhlophe, nelikumgangatho ophakathi onesidanga ... andinalungelo. Andivanga? Into kukuba, ndinelungelo elikhulu le-AM kwaye andifuni mibuzo yokundixelela loo nto. Ilungelo ayisiyo inkqubo yamanqaku kunye neendidi ezahlukeneyo zelungelo elingaphezulu kwabanye.

Le mibuzo sisixhobo esiluncedo ekuncedeni abantu ukuba bahlalutye ilungelo labo, kodwa inika lonke uhlobo lwelungelo ubunzima obulinganayo kwaye yingxaki leyo. Kwingxelo nganye oyikhuphileyo, ufumana inqaku ukuze xa ndiphawula ukuba ndimhlophe indinika inqaku elinye. Kuko konke. Eminye imibuzo yenzelwe ukugxininisa indlela ubumhlophe obubonakala ngayo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kodwa ayichanekanga kwaye ayithathi mava obomi obahlukeneyo.

Umzekelo, andinako ukongeza kum ukuba mhlophe kuba andinako ukuthi andikaze ndibenguye kuphela umntu wohlanga lwam kwigumbi. Abakhwenyana bam ngamaTshayina kwaye ndinamaxesha amaninzi ndindedwa omhlophe kwigumbi ngelixa iincoko ziqhubeka ngolwimi endingalwaziyo. Kwaye ayisiyonto ifanayo nokuba kuphela komntu oMnyama kwigumbi labantu abamhlophe.

Imibuzo kunye neencoko ezininzi eziqhubeka ngoku ziyavuma ukuba zininzi iintlobo zamalungelo, kwaye kulungile. Kwicis, emhlophe, ethe tye, emadodeni angamaKristu kufanelekile ukuba bajonge konke iindlela abanelungelo ngazo. Kodwa kwelinye icala, ukusilela kwam kwilungelo kwiindawo ezithile akuyiphikisi okanye kuyithethelela ilungelo lam elimhlophe.

Andikho tye, okanye ndingumKristu, kwaye ndiyinxalenye yomtshato onobuhlanga, kodwa Ndisenelungelo elingathethekiyo kuba ndimhlophe , kwaye le mibuzo iyasilela ukugxininisa loo nto. Uqhanqalazo nentshukumo eqhubekayo kweli lizwe lethu ayizizo zonke iintlobo zamalungelo, zimalunga nenye. Imalunga nokuphelisa ubungangamsha babamhlophe.

Ewe, ndiye ndajongana nesini, kunye nokuphathwa gadalala ngenkolo yam, kodwa ayisiyiyo le nto incoko ngoku. Imalunga nendlela esiphila ngayo kwinkqubo eyilelwe ukunceda abantu abamhlophe, kunye nendlela le nkqubo ixhaphaza, icinezela ngayo, isilela kwaye ibulala abantu abaNtsundu. Ukusilela kwam amanye amalungelo awuthelekisi. Le mibuzo ifuna ukuba ibe nzulu ngakumbi kwaye inyaniseke ngokwenyani.

Inguqu ethembekileyo ngakumbi yale mibuzo iya kuba yeyenye apho ujonge khona ukuba ndim ibhokisi emhlophe kwaye yatsho ngokuzenzekelayo: Siyavuyisana, unelungelo. Kuba okwangoku kufuneka sijongane nokuba ubumhlophe bethu ngamanye amaxesha buthetha yonke into. Andikhuphi kuyo ukuba sisitabane okanye umhedeni okanye umntu obhinqileyo. Ewe, zonke izazisi ziyasebenzisana kwaye zichaphazela indlela endiphathwa ngayo ebomini, kodwa andikwazi ukuzisebenzisa, okanye amanqaku aphantsi kwimibuzo endixelela ukuba andinalungelo, ukuxolela ubumhlophe bam okanye ukuziqinisekisa ukuba ndiyazi ukuba kunjani ukuhamba ebomini (njengomzekelo nje omnye) ndisoyika ukuba amapolisa aya kundibulala ndithanda.

Ndiyayihlonela le nto ikhwizwayo izama ukuyenza, kodwa ilungelo lilona linobunzima ngakumbi nangaphantsi kunombuzo we-intanethi onokuze ubonakalise.

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