Abagqatswa kuthotho olutsha lweVidiyo yokwenyani yeNkulumbuso banokubuyela umva ukuze badibane nomdlalo wabo wokwenyani. Lo wabaleka ineqela leengoma ezintandathu ezifuna uthando kwaye isingathwe yimvumi/umbhali weengoma uBetty Who. Abangeneleli, nangona kunjalo, baya kufumana ithuba lokuphonononga unxibelelwano olulahlekileyo njengoko abantu abavela kwixesha elidlulileyo bajoyina ngePortal, ngokungafaniyo nezinye iinyani zothando ezibonisa ukuba zeza ngaphambi kwayo. Lo mboniso ubonisiwe Nigel Sydnor's uphendlo olungaqhelekanga lothando. Owayesakuba ngumdlali webhola yomnyazi wasekholejini wavuma ukuba wayengumntu wepati kwaye wongeza ukuba kwakunzima kuye ukuba avuleleke, athembeke, kwaye abe sesichengeni ngexesha elifutshane. Nangona kunjalo, wakwazi ukuhamba Desiree Dezi, ukuqhuma okwenyani kwixa lakhe elidlulileyo. Makhe sifumanise ngakumbi malunga nabo bobabini kunye nemeko yabo yangoku, akunjalo?
Lowo Ufumene Uhambo lukaNigel noDezi
Nigel, owayeneminyaka engama-28 ubudala, wayenza yacaca into yokuba wayefuna ukuphanda ngandlela zonke kuba wayeziva ekulungele ukuqhubeka nobudlelwane ngoko nangoko emva kokuba evele kwizikrini zethu. Wathi kulo mdlalo, ndidibene nabantu ababalaseleyo kwixesha lam elidlulileyo, kwaye ndiyavuya ukufumana eli thuba lokujonga lowo wabalekayo… Umntu oqale wandibona njengomntu ozicingela yedwa ngoku uza ukundibona njengophuhlayo kwaye ndipha. Wabonisa oku ngemihla yakhe kunye USara Bella kunye noAlicia Nelms , kodwa indawo yakhe yokugcina yanyamalala emva kokuba uDezi engene emfanekisweni.
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UNigel noDaisy baye baba ngabahlobo abasenyongweni kangangokuba bazana ngaphakathi nangaphandle kuzo zonke iinkalo emva kokudibana okokuqala kwitheko lasekhaya ngoMatshi 2019. Kwakungekho labels, kodwa woyisakala ukuchaza ukuba wayebona abanye abantu. Bade baqala ukuthandana (kunyaka kamva) kwaye ekugqibeleni bavula i-salon kunye ngaphambi kokuba izinto zahlukane ngenxa yokunyaniseka. Nangona kunjalo, xa uDezi wafunda ukuba wayezimisele ukuzibophelela, wavela kwi-portal ukuze amnike elinye ithuba ngenxa yothando lwakhe olungagungqiyo kuye, olungazange luphinde lujike.
U-Nigel uthe, andithandani noDezi, kodwa uyandiqonda, ngelixa uDezi waveza iingcinga zakhe phambi kokuba achaze ukuba akukho nto ayilindeleyo ngenxa yenkqubo ababengena kuyo. Ubaluleke kakhulu kuye ukuba angakhange abonakalise uloyiko lwakhe malunga nendlela uguquko lwabo olunokutshintsha ngayo ukuba baqale ubudlelwane obunzulu ngomhla wabo. Akazange akhanyele ukuba uyamenzakalisa, kwaye njengoko ixesha lihamba, babencokola rhoqo malunga nexesha labo elidlulileyo kunye nekamva labo, yiyo loo nto ekugqibeleni wamkhetha ngaphezu kuka-Alicia.
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Lathi lakufika ixesha lokuba babuyele kwinyani. UNigel wajongana noDezi ngqo kwaye abeke onke amakhadi akhe etafileni; wazamkela ngobubele iimeko. Bendizama ukucinga ukuba ndingalubuyisela njani uthando ondibonise lona, umnqweno, kwaye bendizama ukufumana amagama agqibeleleyo othetha nawe, waqhubeka. Ucela unxibelelwano lwam kunye nokuthembela, kodwa ndifuna ukucela umonde wakho. Ndifuna ube nendoda ekufaneleyo… Ndifuna wazi, ndiyakuthanda. Ndiyakuthanda namhlanje. Ndiyakuthanda kwixesha elizayo. Ndikuthanda ngokungaguquguqukiyo… Yonke into endiyidingayo, yonke into ebendiyifuna nguwe. Uyinto yonke endiyidingayo kwaye kudala ndiyifuna. Baphuzana ke bangena esangweni kunye. Okulusizi kukuba, ngaphandle kokudinwa nokudinwa ngokweemvakalelo, uNigel ubonakala engatshatanga ngoku ngokusekwe kwiiakhawunti zakhe zemidiya yoluntu. Umhlali waseLos Angeles akadibanisi nje noDezi ngokuthe ngqo kwi-Intanethi, kodwa iprofayile yakhe kaFacebook ikwenza kucace ukuba ukubudlelwane. Uyithethile loo nto, ubonakala evuya ngokupheleleyo ngesikhundla sakhe okwangoku, ngakumbi kuba ukonwabela ubomi obumnandi engqongwe ngabahlobo abasondeleyo. Oku kungenxa yokuba esebenza kwicandelo lotyalo-mali lwezindlu, udlala nge-e-commerce, kwaye ungumnikazi we-Elevations Barbers Lounge.
