UNicole Kidman Uvulelwa malunga nokuTshata kwakhe

UNicole Kidman, umdlali we-EGOT ophantse (ufuna nje uTony), wathetha ngokungagungqi malunga nobunzima bakhe bokuba nabantwana kubantwana bendalo kunye nomyeni wakhe wangaphambili uTom Cruise ngenxa yokuphuphuma kwesisu.

Abasetyhini basaziva isixa esikhulu sehlazo kunye noxinzelelo malunga nokuzama ukukhulelwa, yiyo loo nto abanye abantu basetyhini, njengoGabrielle Union, bethethe ngokuphandle ngokuphuphuma kwabo kwesisu. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele indlela eziqhelekileyo zokuphuphuma kwesisu kwaye unike abasetyhini ithuba lokulila abo balahlekileyo ngaphandle kokubahlaza. Umlingisi uClaire Holt, osuka Abokuqala , uphinde wathetha kunyaka ophelileyo malunga nokuphuma kwesisu.

Kwabafazi abasokolayo ukuthwala ukukhulelwa ukuya kuthi ga ixesha, i-IVF okanye iVitro Fertilization ibiza kakhulu kwaye ayiqinisekiswanga. Umntwana omncinci kaKidman wazalwa nge-surrogate ngenxa yeengxaki zakhe ezininzi ngexesha lokukhulelwa ngaphambili.

Kubonakala ngathi lelinye ixesha elidlulileyo lobomi ukuba uTom Cruise wayengekho kwitrust yeScientology kwaye watshata noKidman. Esi sibini besikunye iminyaka elishumi elinanye phambi koqhawulo-mtshato ngo-2001. Bobabini, bamkela abantwana ababini, u-Isabella Jane noConnor Anthony, abangasathethiyo nomama wabo ngenxa yesimo sakhe neScientology njengomntu ocinezelayo, okanye i-SP. UKidman uphinde watshata kwaye uneentombi ezimbini zebhayiloji kunye noKeith Urban.

Kudliwanondlebe lwe UTatler , UKidman wavula, okokuqala ukusukela oko UMarie Claire Udliwanondlebe ngo-2007, malunga nelahleko. Kukho umnqweno omkhulu, obuhlungu. Ndiyazi ukubawela. Kwaye ilahleko! Ukuphulukana nokuphuphuma kwesisu akuthethwa ngako ngokwaneleyo. Yintlungu enkulu leyo kubafazi.

Njengoko besesitshilo ngaphambili, ukuphuma kwesisu kuxhaphake kakhulu kubafazi bayo yonke iminyaka. Njengoko UTommy Umbutho ojolise ekunikezeleni ngononophelo kunye nenkxaso kwabasetyhini abaye bajongana nokuphuma kwesisu, bachaze:

• Uninzi lwe-1 kwi-4 yokukhulelwa iphela kukukhulelwa kwesisu.
• Phakathi kwabasetyhini abaziyo ukuba bakhulelwe, kuqikelelwa ukuba umntu omnye kwabathandathu abakhulelweyo aphela kukukhulelwa.
• Umfazi omnye kwabane uhlangabezana nokuphuphuma kwesisu ebomini babo.
• Uninzi lwezinto ezilahlekileyo ezenzekileyo kwi-trimester yokuqala-malunga nesithathu kuzo zonke iziphambeko ezine ezenzeka ngeli xesha. (Yiyo loo nto iZiko loPhando lokuSasazeka kwaBantu abaNtsundu laseTommy linikezelwe ekuhloleni oonobangela bokukhulelwa kwangoko).
• Uninzi lokuphuphuma kwesisu kwinyanga yokuqala yokuqala kubangelwa kukuchaphazeleka kwe-chromosomal emntwaneni.
• Umngcipheko wokukhulelwa kwesisu phantsi kweeveki ezili-12 ekukhulelweni okwaziwayo kuku-1 kwaba-5.
• Kwabasetyhini abane-BMI ngaphezulu kwama-30, umngcipheko ngowoku-1 ko-4.
• 1 kuwo onke ama-80-90 okukhulelwa yi-ectopic, ejikeleze ukukhulelwa okungama-12,000 ngonyaka.
• Phantse i-1 kwabasetyhini abali-100 e-UK banamava aphuphuma (amathathu okanye nangaphezulu emgceni) kwaye ngaphezulu kwama-60% aba bafazi baya kukhulelwa ngempumelelo.
• Kwabasetyhini abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-30, 1 kwabali-10 abakhulelweyo bayakuphela kukuhamba kwesisu.
• Kwabasetyhini abaneminyaka engama-35-39 ubudala, oku kunyuka kuye kuthi ga kwi-2 koku-10 kokukhulelwa.
• Kwabasetyhini abangaphezu kwama-45, ngaphezulu kwesiqingatha sabo bonke abakhulelweyo baya kuphela ekuphumeni komzimba.
• Ngo-2016, i-avareji yobudala yoomama inyuke yaya kwi-30.4 yeminyaka, xa kuthelekiswa neminyaka engama-30.3 ngo-2015.

U-Kidman uchaze ukuba kwakamsinya nje emva kokuba etshatile no-Cruise, bazama ukuba nomntwana, kodwa waphulukana nesisu eneminyaka engama-23 ngenxa yokukhulelwa kwe-ectopic (imeko apho umbungu uqala ukukhula ngaphandle kwesibeleko).

Isigqibo sokwamkela sasinzima, ngakumbi kuba uKidman ngokwakhe unodade owamkelweyo, kodwa Uyavuma , Khange ndicinge ukuba izokwenzeka kwangoko kangaka, kodwa yenzekile. Ibiyinxalenye yosapho lwethu, kwaye bendisazi ukuba inokudlala ndawo kwenye eyam.

Esi sibini saphinda sazama ukukhulelwa kwakhona, kodwa uKidman waphulukana nomntwana ngexesha uCruise wafaka uqhawulo mtshato ngo-2001. Kwabo bancinci kakhulu ukuba bangakhumbula (njengam), uqhawulo-mtshato lwaphawulwa njengolungekho mthethweni kwaphela kuKidman. Ngelixa wayengenguye uSosayensi, kwakungekho nto ibonisa ukuba yayingumcimbi de uCruise amnike iphepha. Ndiqinisekile ukuba, ngaphezulu koxinzelelo lokulahlekelwa ngomnye umntwana, kwakubuhlungu kakhulu kuKidman.

Kukho isixa esikhulu seentlungu kunye nomthamo omkhulu wovuyo kwelinye icala layo, utshilo uKidman malunga nokuba ngumama emva kokuphuma kwesisu. I-flipside yokuhamba kakhulu kunye neentlungu zokufika apho uziva 'Ahhhh!' Xa unomntwana.

Ngelixa kungaphaya kobuhlungu bentliziyo ukuba uKidman wayigqitha le nto kwaye akasenabo ubudlelwane nabantwana bakhe abamkelayo, ibali lakhe liyisikhumbuzo sokuba nokuba nemali ayenzi ukuba inkqubo yokuphilisa ibe lula. Ngombulelo, kubonakala ngathi ulwalamano olusempilweni kwaye ukhulisa abantwana bakhe ababini abancinci ukuba babe ngabafazi abomeleleyo abancinci. Okwangoku, ayenzi ukuba kube lula ukuthetha ngale nto, kwaye ndiyavuya ukuba abasetyhini ngoku balwa ibala kwaye babelana ngamabali abo, kuba iyanceda abanye abantu basetyhini bahamba ngokufanayo.

Nabani na onamava okanye ochaphazelekayo malunga nokuphuma kwesisu kwaye angasebenzisa izixhobo ezithile, kukho Umgca wokuthetha ngokhetho ngalunye njengo ezininzi ilunge kakhulu amanqaku malunga isihloko.

(nge Ngeveki yaseMelika , umfanekiso: 20th Century Fox)