Ndiphantse andayifumana ngesiqendu sokuqala seNetflix's Yonke into iyabila . Ekuqaleni kwayo, umboniso ugxile kwiqela lesithathu samabanga aphakamileyo esine-nerdy, nangona i-nostalgia ibonakala ingoyena mntu uphambili. Kukho izikhombisi galore, ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuba iikhredithi zokuvula zisebenzise i-iconic kunye ne-typography eyahlukileyo Ubomi bam ekuthiwa nguBomi. Yonke yayiziva idiniwe kwaye inyathelwe ngokugqithiseleyo. Kwakungathi Izinto ezingaqhelekanga, kodwa endaweni yedemigorgon, kukho nje i-nostalgia engaphezulu.
Ndonwabe kakhulu ngokuhlala ndibukele, nangona. Kungenxa yokuba ngelixa uninzi lomboniso lungalingani kunye nentwana yesiphithiphithi, ekugqibeleni ikhubeka kwinto entle.
Yonke into iyabila Amaziko abafundi beBoring High School eBoring, Oregon (ngokumangalisayo, idolophu yokwenyani) ngo-1997. Njengoko benditshilo, umboniso uqala ngokusazisa kubahlobo abathathu abasandul 'ukuqala, uLuka, uTyler noMcQuaid. Kodwa xa abathathu bejoyina i-AV Club yesikolo sabo, kugxilwe kungekudala kutshintsho kubuhlobo phakathi kukaLuka kunye nelungu leklabhu (kunye nentombi yenqununu), uKate Messner.
Kulapho ke umboniso uqala ukulunga, kodwa kungcono nangoko xa begqitha kobo budlelwane ukuze bajolise kubalinganiswa-ngakumbi uKate-ngokwahlukeneyo.
Ukucaca, ndigqibele ndibuthanda ngokwenene ubuhlobo obakhula phakathi kukaKate noLuka. (Isilumkiso, abonakalisi abancinci ngaphambili. Lo ayingomboniso onamajikojiko angonakala nyani, kodwa ndiza kube ndixoxa ngesiqwenga.) UKate sisidenge kodwa udlalwe ngu (Peyton Kennedy oneminyaka eli-14 ubudala). Ubuncinci bakhe busebenza ukuqaqambisa ukuzihlola komlinganiswa ngendlela entle.
Xa sidibana noKate, uyaqala ukuphonononga ubuni bakhe besini kunye nokuba uyathandeka ngokucacileyo kwamanye amantombazana. Uba iphephancwadi lakhe lokuqala loononografi, elithathwa nguyise ngokungxolayo kungenxa yokuba uyabamonela imizimba yabo ephuhlileyo. Uba neentloni esidlangalaleni ngokujonga ixesha elide kwintombazana epholileyo / eyoyikisayo yomdlalo weqonga uEmaline kwaye wabiza idyke. Phakathi kwaloo nto noxinzelelo lokuphakanyiswa ngendlela kawonke-wonke, kulula ukusiqonda isizathu sokuba asamkele isicelo sikaLuka sokuba abe yintombi yakhe.
Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kokungafuni kwakhe ukuphuma esidlangalaleni, kunye nokusilela koontanga bakhe abalinganayo okanye abantu abayimizekelo, emenza ukuba azive ngathi uyedwa, ndamangaliswa yindlela evuleke ngayo uKate noLuke malunga nobuni bakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akanako ukuzizisa ukuba athethe igama lesbian, kodwa kuthatha iziqendu ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba athembeke kuye nakuye.
Ngokubhekisele kuLuka, kuya kuba lula (kwaye kube yinto eqhelekileyo) kubabhali ukuba basinike eli bali ngamehlo akhe, endaweni yokuba babelane ngalo babini. U-Luke unyanzela uKate ukuba amgcine ecaleni njengeendevu zakhe kuba efuna ukuba naye. Endaweni yokumhlambalaza omnye wabo – yena ngokungamphulaphuli okanye ngokungamenzi ngokwaneleyo ukumdimaza-sifumana umfanekiso othembekileyo wabakwishumi elivisayo abancinci abangazaziyo ukuba bangahamba njani kwezi zinto, kodwa bakhathalele ngokusemthethweni.
Inyaniso yokuba lo mboniso ukhokelayo wenziwe ngamantombazana athandana nabanye abantu kwaye umntwana oxubeneyo akanako ukungahoywa kwaye usebenza kuphela ukwenza umboniso uphume ubonakale phakathi kweendawo zolutsha olumhlophe oluzayo. ukudibanisa kwisiqendu sokuqala.
(Apha kulapho singena kwezinye abonakalisi .)
Apho umboniso uphela uvuleke ngokubanzi, nangona uKate noEmaline bekwazi ukunxibelelana. Kukangaphi sihlala sibona ithenda, ethembekileyo, ebumbeneyo, entle nebali lothando elijikeleza abalinganiswa ababini abaphambili kumdlalo ophambili?
(Andifuni ukuyihoya inyani yokuba kuye kwakho ukubuyela umva kwinto yokuba u-Emaline edlalwe nguSydney Sweeny oneminyaka engama-20, endivumayo ukuba, uyongeza ick ukumbona emanga uKennedy oneminyaka eli-14 ubudala. Kodwa ngokwabalinganiswa babo abaneminyaka efanayo, ibali liyamangalisa.)
Kungenxa yoko le nto ndisithi eli libali wonke umntu inokusetyenziswa kwisikolo esiphakamileyo. Nokuba uthe tye, ngubani ongakhange asebenzise eminye imizekelo yamava esiqhelo e-LGBTQIA ekukhuleni? Abantwana abancinci abathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabathandana nabanye abantu, banokusebenzisa amanye amabali ukubuyisela ubomi babo kubo. Kwaye kuwo wonke umntwana ongazange axelelwe ukuba igama elithi spectrum linokubhekisa kwezesondo, lo mboniso ngewawusisipho. Kuwo wonke umntwana ongasiqondiyo isizathu sokuba babethandana nomhlobo othile, kwaye baziva bedidekile kwaye beneentloni (okanye betyakatywa njengoEmaline kwisiqendu sokuqala) kuba ezo mvakalelo zazingalingani kwi-gay / straight binary ababecinga ngayo yayiyeyona ndlela kuphela, lo mboniso uyavakala.
Yonke into iyabila ayisiniki kuphela ukukhokela kwabantu abathandanayo abathandanayo, kodwa ikwafikelela kubundlobongela obungenazintloni okanye isidingo sokuzithethelela. Akuxutyushwanga ncam. U-Emaline wamkela umtsalane kuKate ngoko nangoko, oziva eyinyani kwinkalipho yomlinganiswa wakhe. Omabini la mantombazana anee-arcs ezintle kulo lonke ixesha lonyaka-ii-arcs ezibetha kuzo zonke iindawo eziqhelekileyo ezizayo zeminyaka kwaye zikwenza uzive zonke ezo mvakalelo ziqhelekileyo. Kodwa umboniso, kunye nolwalamano lwabo, ludlula kwesiqhelo kwaye ekugqibeleni lube libali elihluke ngokupheleleyo, kwaye into esingayiboniyo imelwe phantse ngokwaneleyo.
Sifuna okuhle, ukuzonwabisa kwasekuqaleni, kwaye sifuna ukubonakaliswa okungaphezulu kwe-LGBTQIA. Yonke into iyabila bobabini.
(umfanekiso: Scott Patrick Green / Netflix)
